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writes:I have never had a boy friend and i really like this guy. we were really good friends, then his ex came back to him but they are now split up. i don't have the confidence to ask him out. what can i do to build my confidence??? Help !
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Guys are simple creatures. Just walk up to him confidently , smile your sweetest and asked him if he is interested to go for a drink. If your guy is a shy type,you will have to initiate the first move.
If he is not interested, just walkaway or say maybe next time.
Most guys would accept and seldom reject an invitation from a pretty lady.
Act confident like you are acting in a movie.You need to put on an act of confidence and nobody has to know what you feel inside of you.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Don't ask him. Whether they admit or not,guys like the thrill of a chase and if you are too proactive they feel sort of let down. Like,if they don't have to "work " a bit to get something, they appreciate it less.
Of course there are plenty of exceptions . If he is a very shy guy, he will need a gentle nudge in your direction. If you had turned him once, then it would be up to you to let him know that you changed your mind. And so on and so forth. But normally, your best choice would be to give him green light through yr non verbal behaviour and let him be the pursuer.
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Just ask him if he wants to hang out, but make it like a group thing. The two of you and a handful of your friends can go out for pizza or to the movies. Something where the two of you can be together and see if you get along well and where the comfort of friends can help your nerves to talking to the guy. Good luck!
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