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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Nausea, headache, and backpain. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there guyz this might sound like a dumb question but my fiance (or however you spell the male version lol) is gettin worried.But for the past few weeks i have been feeling constantly sick especially on a morning i haven't been physically sick but gagging because of it and ... (97 words)

Should I rekindle this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age - I broke up with this person who was married and I still care about this person. It has been 2 years now and want to know if I should pursue to rekindle a relationship with this person or leave them alone. This person said they still care and love me. I do too and I don't ... (78 words)

How can I ease my mum's concerns when my family moves away from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5121 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am leaving for a summer job for 4 months and my family might be moving over the summer months. My father has a job waiting but we need to see if we can sell our house. The thing is, they are moving far away which means when I am done my summer job I have to return for my last ... (220 words)

Making out makes me have blue balls

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I'm a 16 and a virgin, I have a girlfriend and everytime we makeout my balls hurt like a bitch. I have herd something about something called blue balls but they don't turn blue. Can anyone help me how to I stop them from hurting after I makeout with her, any advice ... (61 words)

The ball is in whose court?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well i know exes are meant to be forgotten in the past. I thought I was over mine. We haven't spoken for some 4 months due to my insistence that I don't want to talk to him anymore or him to call me. But the other night I was just alone and too bored at home and I decided to ... (272 words)

boyfriend won't marry me coz of religion and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been qiv my bf for 5 years and we hav a son together. And his family don't know yet. My son is 2 1/2 years old . And I really love my bf. But wen the question goes on to marriage. He says he can't marry me coz of family and religion. We are both from different back ... (263 words)

I need help with losing weight!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and am kinda overweight. I really want to lose weight and gain some muscle what is the best way to go about doing this without starving myself?... (32 words)

How do I tell her I'd like some pleasure sometimes too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over a month now and we're at second base. Neither of us are that experienced sexually, and so we're just taking things slowly. I'll be blunt with my language and say that I've fingered her a fair number of times now... (130 words)

Need answers on first time sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - did you have sex with your first girlfriend/boyfriend? Were you their first girlfriend/boyfriend too? How old were the both of you?... (21 words)

What does it mean when a man (your ex) stares at you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was at a party last week, and some friends and I decided to go to the bar. When I was there I went with a friend to get a drink and I sat in a chair waiting for on my friend to get his drink, when I saw my old flame, he started staring at me, and walked over and leaned up ... (113 words)

Worry? Or wait it out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so.. me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time about a month and a half ago, and the condom broke kinda near the bottom... and we were freaking out until i got my period that month... but then we did it again at the begining of this month (like may 2) and we used ... (104 words)

3 outcomes! Should I take the chance and tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! First off, I'm 15, turning 16 next week, so this is coming from a high schooler. There's this boy I like who I've been working with on the school plays for the past few months, and right now we are putting on the middle school play. Thing is, I've developed a lik... (255 words)

Does the fact I am not madly attacted to guys mean I am bi curious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 17 years old and I'm a senior in high school. Lately, I've been depressed lately because I can't seem to get it out of my head that I'm bi-curious. I've always wondered the actual logic behind being attracted to only one sex. I wonder how it works and why. I've had a ... (254 words)

Did I make the right decision about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i broke up a month ago he is on my phone plan so we sill talk now and then, recently he asked me to help him pay his phone bill. i asked him why he did not say (the bill is 150) so i asked him again he said that he wants to go to the mall and buy some new clothes and ... (164 words)

She had sex with another guy when we were broken up. We're back together now!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody. I was with this girl for about one year and eight months. I took her verginity in about five months of our relationship. A couple of months after she cheated on me. I'm not sure if we were together becouse we always use to brake up for nouthing and then ma... (170 words)

No sex in my relationship, has my partner turned gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Feeling slightly daft writing this question/situation, but I've been reading comments on various questions and there seem to be some really reasonable helpful people out there... so here goes. I'm in a relationship of about 9 years and we have a one year old son. ... (443 words)

We're both so shy we can't be flirty with one another! Tips needed to make the evening go well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. i really need some advice. Im off out with afew mates this weekend one of which is the guy ive loved for ages. My mates say he likes me to but hes to shy, things have happened in the past that may suggest this such as playfighting which lead to cuddling one night when we ... (325 words)

I always have to ask for gifts, why does he never surprise me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, it feels good to a part of this forum. Just a quick one! My boyfriend and i have dating for 3yrs now. He's really sweet, but he rarely gives me gifts or anything unless i ask. And i dont feel comfortable asking, as soon as i ask about something he immediately provides. ... (89 words)

Why did my ex ask all the questions and then act like he wasn't interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feel like I want to give up on men. I split up with my boyfriend in December. He was giving me mixed messages which made me feel confused. He had said at the beginning of November that he was greatly looking forward to us moving in together. I think he was having some ... (494 words)

Attracted to a 40 year old man..do you think he feels the same?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay there is this guy who is in his 40's that I really like. He is not married and never has been. I am attracted to him but I don't know if he likes me back. He came to my church one time and he kept staring at me and it looked like he was staring at my chest. He jokes around ... (164 words)

He told me that he does not want me with anyone else!?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so my ex and i broke up like a month ago we still talk now and then (well he initiates it)he comes over and talk (no sex)and i told him that i think that we should move on that i cannot keep doing that, he told me that he does not want me with anyone that we are working things ... (133 words)

Why all the flirting but then says he has no reason to come into the job??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very confused and feeling like a fool. Long story short, we work together in different cities. He teases me all the time, contact me every day and call me sweet names. I really like him and i kind of think he likes me too. Problem is i am not sure and as we work toget... (250 words)

He says..she says..who am I supposed to believe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I met this gal in a club I used to play some blues with my ol' time buddy. She plays piano as well, and that's kinda the reason we started going out. Things were going greatly, but few weeks in University, she started saying stuff about my friend, the guy who plays Sa... (131 words)

He says he needs someone to talk to, so he's calling his exs??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - New question. My partner has been calling his ex's and the previously mentioned facebook people I have been concerned about. Several calls a day and many texts. I discovered this when he ignored a call from one of them in front of me and I saw the caller ID and he lied about ... (119 words)

Is he playing me? Or afraid of getting involved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I need advice on this situation. A guy I work with asked me out, we hung out a few times - got coffee/shopped etc talked a lot, it led to hand holding after about four dates. We now meet for food and drinks, at least twice a week,this has happened for at least three weeks. ... (224 words)

Fantasizing about sex but afraid of it too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I have 15 years old and i love thinking, fantasize and talk about sex... I know that i am young but im really curious and anxious to try sex but i have afraid of the pain and i am ashamed with my body and i dont have confidence in myself! What do i do to lose this fears an... (69 words)

So confused! Is it just "chemistry"... do I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I'm a teenage girl who has a very strong outlook on people and analyzing them before deeply engaging in a relationship with them, whether it be a friendship or a relationship. I'm straight and I've always liked guys. The problem is I recently met a girl, who is a l... (297 words)

I'm too young to be losing my sex drive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so i have always had an amazing sex life with my husband. However 4 years ago we lost a baby and since then although we did try again sex hasn't been the same. We still like to experiment and have playful times but i would say especially in the last 12months we are both ... (127 words)

Does he want just a bit of fun or me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* i have been married for four years to a wonderfull man but these past four months i have been having an affair with a man i see at work everyday. when it started we both agreed it was just a bit of fun, but just recently i cant get him out of my mind. he is on h... (165 words)

I don't want to get my hopes up. Should I accept my ex's invite?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I posted a question about a month ago looking for help. My girlfriend had broken up with me because she wanted to be single but still wants to be with me eventually. So I've taken a hands off approach. She still texts me and calls me but we only see eachother once a week, ... (143 words)

I'm constantly paranoid I'm pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, I've had a boyfriend for 2years and we've been having sex for a year and a half, the thing is, I'm constantly paranoid I'm pregnant, I've been on the pill for a couple of months and we always use condoms, but for some reason it's always in the back of my head. A friend ... (125 words)

Boyfriends weight gain is affecting our sex life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been in a relationship for 3 years and in that time by boyfrind has continued to gain weight. Not takes no real care in his appearance. And then wonders why i dnt find him sexually attractive and even blames me for it. Iv remained a size 8 since we meet, i always take grea... (159 words)

My boyfriend has serious ego problem, please help me out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I don't know what to do anymore. I hate myself, my life and everything. I just do not feel like living anymore, especially when it comes to "Relationship". I get into fights with my boyfriend everyday. He always starts it though. And he always acts as if he doesn't ... (345 words)

His ex's texts are making it hard for me to trust him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and have been at university since September last year. I started going out with a boy I met here in October, the whole thing has been so intense from the start and now he practically lives with me. I have serious trust issues with him though, he told me he liked ... (230 words)

First date--I have the ability to make people feel awkward! HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I asked this girl out to a movie with a group of friends about two weeks ago. I'm not normally so balsy (asking someone out who you don't know at all is pretty weird at my school) but I'm really attracted to this girl so I just went for it. She had to work all weekend... (186 words)

Is she just manipulating me playing with my emotions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Please anyone I need help. When the girl who says I think I love u tell her friends that she doesn't knw what I am 2 her, a 6oyfriend or friend. What does this mean. We hung out all the time. We have a healthy sex life. Now she tells me she doesn't knw if she wants or needs a ... (87 words)

Why he's acting hot and cold with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 35 and my coworker has been trying to get my attention for a couple of months. Lately things have progressed and we spent the afternoon together. He told me how happy he was spending time with me and how he wanted to get me flowers or a card but didn't know if that ... (115 words)

Married but in love with someone else who I can't ever be with!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, need sum help plz. I'm married andvhav been for 6 years. I've been cheating on my husband with this guy from work over 5 years. And I really love this guy. I got pregant, my son is 2 1-2 years old. And it's the guys baby. My husband still doesn't know. I know I'm doing ... (327 words)

Boyfriend can't stay erect long and I can't reach orgasm because I'm worrying about this happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. This programme is really helping more people. Anyway let me get straight to my question. I have a boyfriend who is 7 years older than me but everytime we have sex I dont reach my orgasm, and this guy does not erect quickly or let me say he can erect for some s... (98 words)

Don't know why I fainted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I passed out today at work, just for a few seconds but I still fell over. I haven't passed out since I was a kid, that kind of thing doesn't really happen to me. I'm thinking it could have been due to lack of food? I'd only eaten once which was breakfast at 8, I fainted ... (132 words)

Why do I always think I am in love with every guy I see??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why is it that when I think someone is attractive or has a good personality I always think I am in love with them. If I saw a guy and thought he was good looking I would then think about him for ages and then suddenly think I am in love even if I have never spoke to them be... (79 words)

Madly in love with my music teacher but he's moving away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen years old and I am in love with my music teacher. I know many of you will think of me as an infatuated teenager but I'm seriously not. It's definately not a crush; I've had crushes before and they are nothing compared to the intense feeling that I feel now. It s... (585 words)

Comment I made has turned into a family argument and I'm expected to apologize!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, Back in march I wrote a post in here " back and forth online argument and I don't think I should apologise" Basically it was an argument between me and my cousin after I wrote on my facebook about children being messier than dogs- a joke meant for my mate. ... (250 words)

Husband doesn't want to work or do anything to help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone i just have some problems in my marriage i've been with my husband 4yrs we have a 11month girl what happened we moved from PR 3yrs ago i was livin with his aunt when zhe found out i was pregnant she threw us out we had to live in a shelter until now.(we got an ... (228 words)

I feel like a fool... does he have any feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i feel so silly writing this but i so need advice. i work with a guy and ive worked with him since november. even from day 1 ive really liked him. he was in a bad way because his wife cheated on him and he was having a mini meltdown. whilst he was working with me ive helped h... (302 words)

What do I do about my ex, since he and I are talking again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice about my ex boyfriend. We broke up around 5 months or so ago. We just recently started being in contact. For about a week texting everyday. He has had a girlfriend since we broke up. And i just recently got a new boyfriend. He's still with he... (488 words)

Management tell me I'm good at my job but I'm worried I am quiet and might seem weak or uninterested.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't really a problem but I just wanted some thougts. In my current job management always tell me in my reviews that they don't mean to ignore me as they don't really involve themselves with me because I just get on and do my work. They are always complimentary an... (154 words)

I'd like to have reassurances that we're going to try for a baby at some point, and what to do if he doesn't really want children!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little confused and need some help. I have been with my current partner for 4 years now. We have separated 4 times within the 4 years together so things haven't always run smoothly. Recently I have approached the 'baby' subject. I have mentioned having a child quite a ... (309 words)

We like each other, but he says he doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a male best friend and we have been friends for 3 years. A few months ago, we have told each other that we have mutual feelings about one another, but after that he didn't act like he felt that way. He tells me things that he has never told anyone and says that he trusts ... (505 words)

How can I make a good impression on his grandparents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have met my boyfriends parents and apparently they like me. i have been going out with him for six months and now he wants me to meet his grandparents, i need to make a good impression on them too. how can i do this? ... (45 words)

Please tell me how I can improve my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid, HOW DO I IMPROVE MY RELATIONSHIP? Because it's getting worse. And i really love my boyfriend a lot. Next Tuesday will be our 11th month anniversary but he is pissed at me. So am I. How do i work it out? What should i do to make him feel sorry? I really don't want to ... (123 words)

He says I remind him of her -- what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am very much in love with my boyfriend of almost two years. My boyfriend left his girlfriend of two years for me. We met at a rehab facility and she was in jail. We instantly moved in together. There have been numerous times that he has told me that I remind him of ... (94 words)

New to sex and needing advise

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyhey My question is about sex really. Me and my bf are both each others firsts when it comes to sex and we dont fully know what we're doing yet. So i was just wondering how to make him cum (sorry if that seems vulgar)when we are actually having sex because the last few tim... (143 words)

He always makes me cry but I love him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 16 year old girl and i love my boyfriend very much. We have been going out for almost 11 months and i can say that he hurt me several times intensionally. But sometimes it's my fault. So i really do not know what to do because we ALWAYS get into fight, l... (216 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't want marriage

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i was married for 4 years to a jerk and we got divorced an year back. My friend was there for me the whole time and we got really close that time. he works with me in the same office and said he loves me. i fell for him totally and he is younger to me by 3 years (i am 29 and he ... (321 words)

When my mother comes to visit she likes to clean

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if this a site for help with mums, but I'm hoping someone will feel my pain on this one. My mum came to visit me today, and whenever she does, she will find something to 'show me how to do it' or something to that effect. Vague yes, so example! : I'd h... (383 words)

He doesn't make plans to spend time with me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year now, and the last month he has slowly stopped making time to see me on the weekends, he usually makes time to see me on friday and saturday nights. but this has changed as now he has got plans to see friends and go to parties ... (182 words)

Is this ball-like thing normal to have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. When me and my boyfriend have sex and I feel I'm about to orgasm I get this ball like figure on the side on the clit I'm worried that this might be wrong? I'm really worried and afraid to go to the doctors. After I do have an orgasm it seems to go away. Next ... (73 words)

My friend says if I don't tell her he will!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a Boy and i have been with my girlfriend for a year now, we also now have a baby on the way too. we are moving in together soon and starting up a proper life together. i love her, i always have since i laid eyes on her, but i have had gay sex with a few guys during our ... (182 words)

Is this a case of birds of a feather flocking together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem, ive been close to this man for a year or two now, we met online but recently started meeting up. i have feelings for him, kinda starting to fall for him. he lives local so we spend quite abit of time together and im sure he likes me too. the thing is i dont ... (151 words)

I believe sex before marriage is dangerous

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what and how do i convience my boy friend that sex before marriage is dangerous... (15 words)

How do I stop people bullying me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

6 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I understand that no-one is perfect, but I have experienced so much bullying in my life that I am starting to lose trust in people. Wherever I go, I am being targeted by bullies for no reason. I don't know if it has anything to do with my Asperger's Syndrome but I honestly feel ... (97 words)

What does it mean if the fertility test comes back negative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I Have an older sister, she is two years older than me, she is 20 and i am 18. im in a long term serious relationship and im 12 weeks pregnant, and now as soon as my sister found out i was pregnant she is also trying for a baby too, which im happy for her and i hope she falls ... (118 words)

He can only cum once is that normal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend can only ejaculate once in a day, or so. Last weekend we had sex on the friday at about 5.00. I stayed the night and we had sex again in the morning at about 11. The thing is he couldn't come. We had sex for about 40 minutes, then he gave up and pulled out. I ... (114 words)

Its very important to be a virgin and I'm not one anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and I have been in a realtionship with my boyfriend for a year and half now and we had sex and when we did it i was a virgin... I lost my virginity with him.. we were really in love but now things are not the same that we have very big issues in understanding ... (180 words)

B/f cheated and he is still watching the girl on her Twitter videos

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Three months ago my boyfriend confessed to cheating on me with a classmate for over a month. Since then, we have been trying very hard to work things out between us. In an attempt to be completely open with me he has encouraged me to check his internet history because he says ... (243 words)

How do I know if we have sex that he won't leave me the next day?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I met with this guy 6 years before, in a plane while i was 17. He is a pilot and I was just finishing my high school and about to start my university life and was heading to my allocated campus. I was with my dad and since we arrived to the airport late almost a... (1024 words)

Does love ever really die/end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship right now and I'm going through the "ex phase" where I stalk her/them, compare myself to her/them, and question whether he'd be better off with her/them? Currently, I'm in the does he think of her/them, does he fantasize about their intimacy, does he wish ... (189 words)

Should I hound my husband or just see if he will follow through on what he promised?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband's intimacy issues and sexual hang-ups stem from his addiction to adult pornography websites. He has not been able to transcend his addictions to having a normal sex life with me. This is actually been going on for the past 12 years (almost 6 yrs as husband and ... (229 words)

Meeting the grandparents and making a good impression

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

6 May 2010 (F)

Why do I get hit on by elderly men?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why do i get hit on by ederly men more than anyone else? And why are they so forward? i actually had a 70ish year old man say "hey little miss sexy, if i drop a quarter will you bend down and pick it up?" and i was wearing a halter top the other day and 90% of the old g... (134 words)

I want to keep our friendship going but I"m unsure hot to?

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6 May 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Here's my dilemma, there is this guy I met at work and he was always pretty friendly to me, I wouldn't safe flirty but definately kind. Now I don't work there anymore but we have classes together at college. He has his crew and I have mine but I still really wan... (214 words)

I need to make a fantastic impression on this ex

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story, short: Tomorrow night I'm going to Buffalo Wild Wings to hang out with a bunch of friends. These friends include a guy I've had my eye on for a while. And pretty much everyone hanging out tomorrow night knows about my "crush" on this guy... except for him. At least, ... (589 words)

A love story for the ages... please help me decide how it will end

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6 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a rough story and I get a little emotional telling it. I've been dating my girlfriend on and off for 4 and a half years and we've been through a lot together. I met her after hurricane Katrina when I relocated to Houston for school and we officially met in a study ... (1254 words)

The idea of her having sex with someone else ...

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6 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend dumbed me last year,our relation was for 4 years.[actually i went to meet my parents, out of station for 15 days.but due to some problem i had to stay there fore whole one month.moreover i could'nt call her up for 3 days.when i came back i tried to call her up,but ... (246 words)

Is he into me or my body?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi people !!!! Ok one quick question. How can u tell if a 16 yr old guy is into u or ur body ?? how can u tell if ur a "mess around" or something serious?? how can u tell if he likes u or not?? plz help on these questions and thanks so much !!!!!!!!... (58 words)

He never shows it

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, My boyfriend and i started dating 3 days ago. He tells me that he likes me a lot, but NEVER EVER shows it. We're in jr. high, so when we're at school he acts like we're just friends. He doesn't walk with me or hold my hand, or anything, he's always with the guys, and i wi... (75 words)

I want to have some fun, but I'm really not trying to lead them on

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know that i will probably get some not so nice feedback for this, but i need help. Right now i am "playing the field" i am "seeing" two guys right now. i have let both of them know that i am not into having anything serious. however, both of them seem to be falling for me. ... (230 words)

Not sexually active but haven't had my period

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i need help or some information about this.i haven't had my period this month and i know i'm not pregnant because i'm a non-sexual active virgin any ways this has never happened to me usually it comes early but it hasn't came at all the last time i was on it was march ... (75 words)

Somethng has changed between us -- something is lacking

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really want to work on my sexual relationship with my partner of 2 years. I love him deeply but I feel a lot is lacking in the sexual side of our relationship. After the initial 'honeymoon' phase, he began rejecting my advances and then I became hurt by this as I felt I w... (803 words)

Boyfriend wants to go, I want to stay!

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together three years. We left home two years ago to travel and work abroad. I ended up getting a permenant job in the country we are now in and I love it. Unfortunately my boyfriend has never settled and hates it and wants to return home. So m... (190 words)

Difficult long distant relationship that needs some saving.?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years already, In the beginning of the relationship we would always spend time together because he lived around me, after a year things started going down hill , not because of the relationship, but because of how our "Life" situations ... (324 words)

Boyfriend is going to end things with me

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I recently noticed a change in my boyfriend's attitude. He stopped putting hearts at the end of every goodnight, he stopped saying cute things, and he stopped holding my hand in school and outside of school. He came to my house today and everything seemed to be going fine ... (201 words)

Hands sweat to the extreme!

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a condition where i sweat more than the average person. its really gross and sometimes it makes me so upset i cry and i start worrying about who im touching and if i should. My hands get especially wet not to the point were they drip but to the point where it makes me ... (97 words)

Crazy mirror obsession?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well now I feel alot better bout my last question:) thanks you guys!!:D well now I need to learn how to be not self concious period.:) I've heardfrom everyone I care to much bout my appearence when I'm nervous or I know someones staring at me..:\ i've been called ugly a whole ... (98 words)

Pregnant despite an IUD, he's saying don't keep the child

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently 7wks and 2days pregnant but I also have an IUD!! I am 23 and I have two kids already. I got pregnant at 15 and 16yrs old. My sons are now 5 and 7. My boyfriend of 2yrs is 30yrs old and has four children with his previous wife. So we ARE the Brady Bunch. We love ... (309 words)

They tell me to my face that I'm ugly

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid. I have never thought of myself as pretty, but lately everyone has been calling me ugly. I get called ugly at least once everyday. Especially guys. Today, one of my friends made a flirting comment towards me and him and I was a little surprised but he just looked at ... (234 words)

I Said "I Love You", He Answered "You to"

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2 months. He always staring at me, doing nice things for me, and wanting to spend time with me. He totally accepts me for who I am. I have mentioned to him a few times how comfortable I feel around him, and he says he has never felt ... (152 words)

Any suggestions to help the first timers here?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 19 an me and my boyfriend of a year and a half have decided to take our relationship to tha next level(sex) but when we tryed we had problems because im a little tight (down there) any suggestions to make things easier... (44 words)

We used to have sex 6 times a day and now its 4 times a week. I need more!

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im so obbsessed with sex lately. im in a very good relationship over a year now, and my boyfriend cant keep up, all i have wanted to do lately is have sex and i dont understand why? at the beginging we used to have sex up to 6 times a day, now its a min of 4 times a week!!! ... (114 words)

It strikes me as odd that he's not contacting me.

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I've got a big crush on this guy. Over the past couple of weeks, we've hung out together a couple of times - he's invited me over for a movie, we've gone to a concert together, and just hung out, and whenever I saw him, we always ended up being very affectionate. N... (236 words)

How can I forget and accept him as only a friend?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've realized I've fallen for a guy friend from a class. But he had a gf for over 3 years. I know he sees me as a friend, but with the way he's been so friendly and loving and compassionate to me, becoming my friend, I've realized I've fallen in love. Last night after class I ... (133 words)

She wants to leave the relationship but hasn't done a thing to make things better

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6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What am I to do with my girlfriend? I'm sorry but I hardly ask for advice. But me and my girlfriend have been fighting constantly for a while now. She says she wants to leave but the funny thing is that she hasn't lifted a finger to save our relationship. She always put her ... (113 words)

Boyfriend is a gang member and the girls are passed around..is he cheating on me?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi =) Im madly in love with my boyfriend, he's just about everything i've ever wanted in a guy, he's my life. And he tells me the same, it seems like he does.He treats me better than anyone ever has, he calls me his "KWEEN" and treats me like 1... But my problem is that he is a ... (483 words)

Thoughts on "I love you..I think"??

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6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - When a girl says, "I love u. I think. Lol" what does that really mean?... (15 words)

5 months and never been on a date?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my bf have been dating for about 5 months on and off... but it seems like im the only one trying to be romantic and wanting to see him. he has NEVER taken me on a date... i REALLY want to go on a date with him. how do i hint that to him .?... (63 words)

I'm trying to walk away from my troubled life but am afraid friends will pull me back into it

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a question and it's not love related but it's important. I've been currently faced with dealing with my emotinally abusive drug addicted friends and usually I can take it but now I just feel so alone and alianted with them. I'm scared for my safety sometime... (117 words)

He says he likes someone else but doesn't act with her like he does to me?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my best guy friend for about 3 years...and I just started to like him about year and a half ago. He knows I'm completely head over heels for him...(my friend told him via text...acting like she was me) We have alot (alot!!) of things in common... He tells me he lo... (130 words)

Did I make the right decision by letting him go?

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6 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My [ex] boyfriend and I met online in 2008 and lived on opposite sides of the world, but we somehow made it work. I figured out a way to go to his country for FREE for a semester. Things between us didn't work out once we were together in the flesh, however. I'll start wit... (421 words)

Is it okay for me to "pop the question" on the night of our friends' wedding?

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6 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over two years now. We've known each other for about 3.75 years. One of my best friends is getting married to one of my gf's best friends in August and yes, we're both in the wedding party. I know my girlfriend is the one for ... (148 words)