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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Shd I tell my friend what happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I did something stupid. I went on a party bus with a bunch of friends a couple nights ago and ended up sleeping with my friend's unofficial ex boyfriend. (Granted, I don't know if she'd mind considering she's happily in love with someone else now.) They dated three years ago. ... (171 words)

Do I stay with my bf of five years or start a new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i've been with my boyfriend going on 5 years :) Im happy with were we are at but I have a bestfriend and weve been best friends for about 2 years and he has feelings for me, i know he is a great guy and he does really make me feel loved and happy and he wants me to ... (88 words)

Why isn't this working?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted my situation on here a few months ago. I had broken up with my boyfriend of a little over a month. I accused him of still liking his ex. Unfortunately he was very upset that I thought that and he said he needed space. Well, I gave him space personally. Professionally, ... (673 words)

Desperate for a second chance

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in need of some desperate advice. Recently my girlfriend and I broke up. We have been together roughly a year. The break up occurred due to a 4 day full blown argument. The argument started for the following subjects; abstinence, friends, and ultimately insecurities. ... (729 words)

My best friend is seeing my ex, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Last week, my friend came out to me and told me that he's been seeing my last ex girlfriend for the last month which I saw coming. I've told him exactly how I feel, that I can't say I'm happy for them, because I thought it was an unwritten rule to not stir your friends (best fr... (215 words)

I have trouble reading the signals -- does she like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl, and im fairly sure she likes me too. she says things like "if you stopped talking to me, my life would end" and how when we have missed opportunities to meet up she regrets that we didnt. My question is does she like me, and if so how do i go about as... (99 words)

Too many guys and I can't be with them all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I've never been in a situation like this and now I feel like an idiot! Oh God.. Where do I begin with this..First of all, I've never had a boyfriend before this. So, I've met a wonderful guy and I've dated him for a week, but suddenly, I heard that one of my friend was re... (161 words)

Boys like my friend more than me, what can I do, don't want to hate her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when i met a boy it all goes well until they met my friend and then they fancy her. i dnt knw wat im doin rite. i knw this shouldnt be happin because she my friend and friends should always cum before boys but im startin to hate her 4 it. what should i do ? ... (58 words)

I need help for my first kiss!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so me and my bf have been going out for 2 months now and we havnt kissed. I have never kissed a boy and he has never kissed s girl and we both want to break our VL with each other. he texted me bout a week ago saying if we wanted to kiss the next day. I said yea sure but I ... (151 words)

Why do some guys play girls?? Is it insecurity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - just curious...why do some guys play girls/... you know they meet a nice girl they charm her makes her think hes actually sweet..when hes not.. why do they do that?? is it cos they are selfish and thinks they are too good for just one girl or they are just too inse... (91 words)

Do I tell the guy I love but am not dating about sleeping with another guy when I was really drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I began dating "H" 5 years ago. We broke up (a few times) but have always stayed in touch. Recently, our feelings for each other resurfaced. We talk as often as we can (he is in the military so he's sometimes out of reach) and I even visited him. I think I am in love with him, ... (249 words)

I have no idea how to get over him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All. I split up with my long-distance boyfriend at the start of February, so almost 4 months ago. We've maintained contact as we'd really like to stay friends and have spoken every day since. More about that later. It was my 21st birthday on Friday and he was su... (380 words)

Any way that I would get pregnant doing this with a guy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was with a guy and he was lying on me and putting his hand between my leg and coming closer to my vigina would i get pregnant.... (28 words)

Need ideas on how to impress a girl two years younger than I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - How do you impress a girl that's 2 years younger than you? ... (14 words)

Long distance relationship woes, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age - I am in a long distance relationship. We talk every morning, a couple times a day and every night before we lay our heads down. Last night he was out with friends until 3:30 in the morning.He never called me. I called as he just got home. This is the second time this has ... (170 words)

Have a boyfriend, but dream of other boys, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,i have a boyfriend that i love very much.when i am with him,it's amazing,when i am not,i badly miss him.the problem comes at night,when i have dreams with other boys of my surrounding all the time.and the other day when i see them i feel a small attraction that goes away ... (64 words)

Slept with my teacher, regret it but is this very bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

23 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - About a fortnight ago now I ended up sleeping with my English teacher, i really regret it and I know he does too, I'm 18 and he is about 25, I couldn't help my self he is gorgeous!! Is it still as bad if our age is so close? It's not like he is 40 ! ... (56 words)

How do I communicate with my work mates when we have absolutely nothing in common?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really struggling at work. I work with 15 women, all of whom are in relationships/marriages and all but one of them has children as well. My relationship ended late last year making me the only single woman in the office. I've never really felt like I belong there, ... (281 words)

How do I improve myself and be more attractive, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I know this is going to make me sound like a complete tw@t but I'm really shallow, the thingg is I'm not even really very attractive myself, does anybody know how to stop this?? Any help would be apreciated x... (40 words)

Did my teacher fall in love with me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - See I'm not one of those typical people to ask these questions, and i'm extremely nevous, so that is why I am asking: 'Is it possible that my teacher may be in love with me?' btw- I am 16 and he is 30ish My teacher once stopped a whole lesson and looked at me and told... (282 words)

Found a condom in my car, boyfriend cheated, do I need to know who?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf cheated on me in my car! I was at work and later found the condom wrapper. We split for a couple of days and I really want to know who it was. Is it better to know or not know?... (42 words)

Husband erupting over the silliest things, what can I do to help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 9 years. I can't even ask him a question about the simplest things without him making me feel like I shouldn't have asked. I asked him to slow down in a neighborhood because he was doing 50 miles an hour. He blew up at me. I hate what ... (75 words)

What should an orgasm feel like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, this question is for females. This is a very intimate question and i don't want any nasty comments etc so if you find it disgusting then just don't answer. I would just like to know what orgasm should feel like to a woman? I have been masturbating and sexually active f... (383 words)

Any good advice on how to handle an alcoholic, my nerves are frayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age - hi i'll keep this as short as i can,three years ago my father inlaw died.my wife of sixteen years took it really bad and started drinking.my father inlaw left her a substantial amount of money .when this came to her she got progressivley worse.things got so bad that i had to ... (286 words)

Should I send my ex these two pictures or let it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..noone cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what i would do differently and ... (475 words)

How can I encourage my wife to have more sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age - i have been married for over 30 yrs. and our sex life was from everything having sex at public places to swinger life style but now she does not want sex. we have sex once a week I want more and tell her all the time. i do the things she asks for, we both work. but now i am ... (159 words)

Why do people leave people they supposedly care about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that when people are supposedly happy and life is going good. They don't realize things, or realize they are pushing away people closest to them. But when the storm comes they go back to the people that really matter to them and the people they thought they wer... (80 words)

Can't make up my mind between two guys, what is the answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17.I'm split in between two guys. Guy 1 [ My ex boyfriend ] whom i know from a year n half and we been together.We broke up in dec and since then he's behind me!!I sort of like him..he says he's realized his mistake and wants me back.I sort of want him in my life.Bu... (188 words)

How do I know if she is interested in me, or if I have the wrong idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, starting off with the basics, I'm eighteen years old, female, I'm out of high school, I know I like girls, I've liked girls before, I've been in relationships with girls before. This spring I started a job at a little restaurant in a hotel in my town. My sister is the... (320 words)

Sex photos to please my husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Note: I am 26 not 15 Hey there, My husband is away for a week as part of a course at work. I would like to send him some sexy photos, but I do not want to just pose naked, I want to tease him and make him want to come home to me, without having to take off all my clothe... (93 words)

Is he insecure about me leaving him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay ive been having some weird feelings about the guy ive been with for about a year now. i know for a fact we are exclusive and make plans for the future (holidays, having kids one day). one day we were chatting and he was talking about how i was a good lover in bed. th... (302 words)

He takes me forgranted but wants to marry him! I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my 5 yrs bf doesnt giv me any time, he is alws bz with his jo or band. we meet only once a week n that leads to sex in his apt. now a days he calls me only once a day. but he is also pushing me to get married. but he alws takes me for granted , nvr giv me priority ovr anything. ... (132 words)

Is it normal to bleed after fingering?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well this is a little awkward but i let a guy finger me a couple days ago i started bleeding! it was gross...is this normal? what happened? and will it happen again????... (32 words)

Feel nothing during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im aged 21, i have had sex on several occasions but it actualy turns me off it feels uncomfortable at e tip,i love women and i crave 4 sex but wen i pernetrate...nothin! I relief myself by masterbatin,i hav bn masterbatin since i was 12,could this be e cause?i knoe u probably ... (103 words)

Should I stay with my husband even though he cheated on me with 18 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband cheated on me with an 18 year old from the district in which he teaches at. We have a family and a beautiful area where we live. Should I stay with him even though he did this to me? He has been married before and he would probably still be sleeping with her if they ... (112 words)

He said I was the one for him but now he has slowed things down and says we should date others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 6 weeks now (he's 30 I'm 28). We had an instant spark and the chemistry between has been very strong mentally and physically.On our first date I ended up staying the night at his house, no sex just cuddling and kissing. Each of our dates since then ... (529 words)

Irrational fears concerning sex pregnancy and condoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I want to have sex for the first time but I am afraid I'm going to get pregnant. I will use a condom but I'm so afraid it is going to break because I have heard all those stories. If I get pregnant my parents will kill me and they obviously won't get me birth control. I ... (73 words)

Do I want contact with him for closure or to get back with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We broke up 5 months ago (I didn't realise at the time we were breaking up). We had both mentioned at the time that we felt things hadn't been working out, but I thought we would work on things like we normally did. I asked him ... (416 words)

Latin men and french kissing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I am a white woman 42, dating a very handsome Mexican man in his thirties. we have been dating for about a month. I was wondering why it is that he doesn't french kiss? I was wondering if it is a latin thing for men not to kiss like that until they know the woman ... (89 words)

I can't control my feelings for my cousin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys, i want some suggestions from you all, i don't know why? but i can't control my feelings for my cousin, I've tried allot to make her realize that how much i care for her but she never considered me, shes of 27 n em just of 20, another thing that she is already in love ... (157 words)

Help! I need my friends to understand me better, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey dear friends..... i just need your help out here... m a 17year old female m a really lively person always laughing joking n serious as well i dont like hurting people... the thing is like till now i was reli fine with all this i mean there are my friends who doesnt take ... (277 words)

My girlfriend lied and cheated, can I do the same?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I am new to this asking the world sort of stuff, so before i pose my question i will give you the backstory. I have been dating my girlfriend now for 16 months. 10 months in to this relationship i left for vietnam to spend time with my dad and his vietnamese wife ... (429 words)

Why doesn't it feel good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why doesnt it feel good when he rubs my clitoritis? its like he'll be fingering me and try it and people say it feels like amazing and with me it just sorta tickels like it make my legs twitch and I cant take it because it sorta hurts. I dont get why it doesnt feel good when ... (67 words)

My husband sister had an affair-how do I get over it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age - i think i need to start at the beginning, i was thirteen when my sister was born, she was like my baby. i loved her like she was mine. when she had marital problems i took care of her i made an apt. in our second home for her and her 2 children. my husband and i treated them ... (280 words)

Do boys prefer girls that have a tan?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hello aunties and uncles. got a question that I really want answered. do boys prefer girls with a tan? I don't tan at all and I was wondering if boys do like girls who don't tan. I've tried fake tan and the colour was nice and it was a nice even colour but it really didn't suit ... (81 words)

Help I think my boyfriend is losing interest

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Two questions merged] what would you make of a relationship like this? i think my bf is no longer interested. 1. i see him once a week only 2. he never calls me 3. there could be days with out hearing from him 4. haven't had sex in a few weeks but we usually only have ... (171 words)

What does it mean when your boyfriend never seems to want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when your boyfriend never seems to want sex? I only see him once a week - usually determined by him. Its been 3 full weeks since we've had sex. I actually saw him 3 times in a row which is very rare and not once did he try, or really kiss me or hug me or ... (198 words)

Am I pushing my girlfriend away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Lately i have felt too tired for sex with my girlfriend. I see her either fridays or saturdays mainly due to me being busy during the week or too tired. Its been really busy lately with work and im exhausted. I also heard from an old girlfriend i dated 7-8 years ago and ... (184 words)

I don't understand my body and having alot of trouble having sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so upset and i feel like i'm weird or something. I'm 26, and my boyfriend is 25. We are both virgins, and want to lose our virginity together. The thing is, he goes mad at me for certain things. I feel embarrased to say this , but i dont know where his penis is supposed to ... (324 words)

Is it normal for my boyriend to want to hang out with other women without me??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years. He doesn't believe in marriage, so, we're not married but we own a house together and have always been very close; the only thing a married couple has that we lack is a ring. After all this time together, I still ... (340 words)

Our break up has ruined their friendship, how I can I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend dumped me, and didn't make an effort to contact me afterwards despite saying he wanted to remain friends. i ran into some of his friends at a bar we frequent about a week after the break-up, and they asked me what happened, because my ex told them nothing. i told ... (284 words)

Did God mean for us to be together despite his current relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am curious if those of faith believe that God can make a mistake in bringing two people together? I have been getting to know a man for the past 10 weeks and we are becoming very close. We are both incredibly devout Christians and are sensing that God has intended for our ... (136 words)

I don't want this to be the end of our friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have wrote up here before about my friend that acts really strangely towards me. I cannot find the link at the moment however i will just fill you in. He would never speak to me properly, one minute he would talk normally to me, the next he would just go straight... (574 words)

What is this guys game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone Im a very confused person at the moment, Im mates with this guy, well i liked him more as a mate and hae slept with him a few times, anyway he now has a gf and often puts on his facebook pg how they are going shopping for a few things oh and how they plan ... (191 words)

How do I keep my mom from finding out I'm having a house party while she's gone?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) well my mum is going away this weekend and i have sort of organised a house party :D but i think i will get cought my neighbors are really strict and horrible and might end up telling my mum :S So i was wondering if you have any suggestions on how to make this work... (132 words)

College student in need of a lot of help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am glad that I have found this website again. Two years ago, I had stumbled upon it and asked a question, but I lost the address. I am in serious need of some help. I am 20 years old, just finished my second year of college, and I have never been on a real date and ... (310 words)

He won't talk to me because his new g/f tells him not to

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if you have lost some one you loved and they have now got a girlfriend and they dont wont nothing to do with you because there girlfriend has told him he carnt have nothing to do with you how do you win him back and tell him how much he really meens to you ? ... (55 words)

Can some Turkish people please tell me how serious it is to meet Turkish parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a Turkish man born in Konya for 6 months, including a 3-month long-distance period. Recently, his family came to visit him and he hasn't mentioned me in front of his family at all. He directly told me that at this stage, he did not want to introduce me ... (281 words)

Am I being too paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend made out with a girl last summer and he is going to stay round her house this summer with a few friends. i am also going on a camp with him where i am going to meet her after he has slept over at her house. thing is im kind of worried about both? how do i stop ... (100 words)

He went in debt and left me for a girl he met online

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age - I had a boyfriend for 7 yrs. We live separately. He lives about 5 mins away from me. We have a good relationship. He helps me and I help him. He is retired and am still working full-time. I later discovered that he gambles. At first I thought that it is just an entertaining ... (214 words)

Does anyone know why this is happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice before this kills me. In november i got mild thush whilst i was on holiday, i couldnt find any thrush treatment and i was in turkey so i didnt really want to guess what i thought was thrush treatment. When i got home most of the symptoms had gon... (615 words)

What is my ex boyfriend trying to accomplish through his actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - To make a long and terrible story short, my ex broke up with me 7 months ago via text message and it was horrible. I was absolutely heartbroken but as a result, I have been avoiding him like the plague. I just recently returned to my hometown where he lives after being away at ... (308 words)

Why does it hurt when we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Lately, our sex life has been very different. For some reason, it hurts me when we have sex. We have plenty of forplay (fondling, grinding, oral) but it hurts when he goes in. It didn't hurt before. It'll eventually feel ok but my vagina will hurt for a while after so w... (88 words)

My boyfriend's practically dating this girl

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm naturally a brunette but I keep dying my hair and eyebrows red for my boyfriend of over two years. He's pretty much obsessed with red heads and it never bothered me until now. The last five months, he's been hanging out with a natural red-head and they've been getting REA... (258 words)

Does this shy girl like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - These are some of the signs that she gives me (although she hasn't been giving me them as much lately): 1. Sometimes she looks at me when she thinks I'm not looking at her. Once in a while she giggles while doing this. 2. When we do look at each other, she mimics the expre... (846 words)

Karma the love story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's original question, Okay, My story is one of those "created a fake account and fell in love" ones :[ Alright so letsee, Long story short, 3 years ago I made an account on myspace to get back at this one girl, but It was going to be a joke so I used another girl's pict... (631 words)

How do I express my feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ive fallen for this boy, and ive fancied him for about 6 months, i havent told anybody about this and definatly isnt prepared to tell him, what do i do? please help me, sometimes i get really upset about it and i dunno what to do!... (46 words)

How can I extend the sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it when me and my partner are having sex everything happens so quickly, i try and make myself last but i climax in about 10 minutes.? Are there any ways to Push off my climax so i can last a little longer?... (44 words)

Fiance is posting ads for bi sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I snooped into my fiance's (of 8 months) emails and discovered that he's answering and posting sex ads as a bisexual man (he posted as such). He's never discussed this with me. I don't have a problem with it as I realize that sexuality comes in all forms. However, I am not ... (164 words)

A complicated question about residual feelings for exes and current girlfriends...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out that my boyfriend was looking at his ex's profile online. I snooped, I know I shouldn't, but he was acting shady. Then I confronted him about it. At first he completely denied looking at her profile, and then got angry. Later he admitted to it, and said that ... (358 words)

My ex keeps contacting me but behaves very distant.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up now for 2 1/2 months. 3 1/2 weeks after establishing NC she contacts me telling me she's been thinking about me constantly and has been missing me incredibly. Well I kept my guard up by not acting desperate and giving in. I didn't even know her ... (325 words)

Is it normal to be sad about losing your virginity; could I be pregnant?

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23 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Moderator's note: two questions combined So I just started taking birth control. I've been on it for about a month now. Me and my boyfriend are usually really good about having safe sex(condom) but a couple weeks ago he didn't use one. He said that he that he pulled out befo... (111 words)

All I want is to feel special and loved

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23 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years he is 22 and I am 21. He has never been an extremely affectionate person but lately he hasn't been affectionate at all or anything. He recently started working 2 jobs so all he does is work and sleep and I am left to sit ... (228 words)

Is it healthy to start a relationship with this guy after his GF dumped him?

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23 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I know, he's a friend of mine and recently was dumped by his GF. He says he loves her, but she treated him as crap after he had trouble in his finances over some bad decisions he took. The thing is the guy is broke and he realizes he has nothing to offer as to $$ ... (191 words)

What should my Parner's child call me?

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23 May 2010 (F)

age - I need a name for my other half's two-year old child (boy) to call me. My own name isn't an option (the child's Mother would find it annoying to keep hearing my name). My other half and his ex had split up 6 months before I started seeing him, but we are trying to be dip... (163 words)

She broke up with me and says she wants to be friends

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23 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - omg u guys. The girl I wuz in a relationship with broke up with me last month because she said that she didnt know if she wanted a serious relationship right now. That's fine 6ut now she tell me she still tells me she wants to be just friends for now. We txt almost. Everyday ... (116 words)

I'm going out of my mind being away from my new girlfriend! What's wrong with me?

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23 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Cupids. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 weeks and we were seeing each other for about 2 weeks before that. Everything's going well...Only thing is, I'm going out my mind that I'm not with her right now! I mean, what the heck? It actually hurts, and after ... (118 words)

Are men attracted to overweight women?

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23 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey aunties and uncles. I'm going to be direct with this question because I've always wanted to know. is being overweight a real turn off for boys and do they get attracted to overweight girls? I myself am not overweight or anything but I am curious and would like to know ... (69 words)