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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will he come back to me and our baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with a guy for one year we were engaged and I am curently pregnant with his baby. He left me for a girl 14 years younger than him we were having a few problems but nothing that couldn't be fixed. I love this man with all of my heart and want to be a family again. I hope ... (153 words)

Something always gets in the way of our meetings, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Thanks for reading. Okay, so me and this girl have established that we like eachother, but when trying to meet up with her something gets in the way, and then she says how she wished we had met up. I think it has something to do with her last relationship... ... (60 words)

So unsure about how our date went? Your opinion please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if the first date went well. He acted kindof awkward and quiet...and when my father yelled at me for spilling coffee in his car, there was an awkward silence. We didn't hold hands, but we took pictures at the Apple store and both went to Hot Topic. We came in alo... (190 words)

Do I pick the guy who I have the history with, or the guy who makes my heart skip a beat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am torn between two guys. the first guy i have known him for 8 years, we have been friends with benefits on and off for about 6 years, i always felt like he was the love of my life. didn't matter who i was with i always ended back with him. but in feb i want to go visit ... (244 words)

Having doubts after break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I ended things with my long distance boyfriend of 1 year, a month ago. The distance was hard, we were fighting a lot the last 2 months, and I figured it was best to end it. We haven't spoken since, as I decided no contact is best for me to heal, he did contact me once ... (368 words)

In Love, Or In Love With The Sex?..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have sex about twice a week.. I love everything about my boyfriend and he loves every thing about me.. and were absolutely CRAZY for each other, I feel I am in love with him strongly and I wanna be with him for forever. I ... (110 words)

Birth control question!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have been on birth control for about 4 months and after the first two months I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend a bunch. A condom is not used AT ALL. Do you think I should have less sex, sex with a condom all the time, or just keep having unprotected ... (73 words)

Am I really that selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age - Hello! I am 48 years old, separated for 18 months, divorced for 2 months. My older daughters, 31 and 29 are both married and have children of their own. I was married twice. My daughters were from my first marriage, my second marriage lasted 20 years and my daughters were ... (291 words)

Stupid or just plan silly in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am hurt. I recently reconnected with my high school crush. He indicated strongly that he is interested in me. I feel same way about him. However we do not live in the same town. He lives in a smaller town. I recently learnt that he is dating someone... (180 words)

Would you stick with your boyfriend if he was going to prison?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20 - we have been together for 3 years. She is at college studying and lives at home with her parents but spends alot of time at my place. I have a bit of a criminal record and a year ago I got a suspended 2 year sentence for GBH (grevious bodily... (253 words)

Who do I choose between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - There are two guys and they are both so wonderful in different ways, they both love me and I don't know what to do. What should I look for in the way they act around me and treat me???... (40 words)

What's the right approach to ask her to be my girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known this girl for about 3 years and she just broke up with her bofriend about 2 weeks ago and during those 2 weeks and still continuing we have been hanging out 3-4 hrs after school, we also hang out during school. she is always close by me, and after school she always ... (120 words)

How can I make him stop loving me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up about a month ago. He's suffering so much because he loves me a lot and it seems he has a difficult time accepting it's over. I love him too, but I don't want a relationship with him anymore (we had many issues because he was too jealous and I think ... (79 words)

We are arguing over pointless things. I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having problems lately. We've been dating for five months and I know I'm in love with him. We have been so happy, until a couple weeks ago. I really don't know what happened. I just fell under alot of stress and pressure. Maybe it's cause the s... (178 words)

I'm ready for a relationship but she isn't yet. Will she ever be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having intense feelings for this girl for about six months now at least. When I first developed feelings for her, she had a serious girlfriend so I didn't act upon my feelings. But recently she has split with that girlfriend and since then we have discovered we both ... (401 words)

Did I bring her cheating on myself by allowing an open relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have had a semi-open relationship. Several years before we got married, she asked about having other women around - for both of us. She has had more girlfriends than boyfriends (sexually, romantically is inversed). I was not comfortable with it and initially... (530 words)

Should I accept the relationship is over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age - two weeks ago i asked my husband to leave after yet another argument after he had too much to drink. he left and has now rented somewhere. we met up i thought to sort things out, he told me after much thought he wasn't coming back, because he couldn't be in a position of me ... (121 words)

Boyfriend doesn't trust me because of facebook.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, my bf and I are having problems mostly because I don't give into everything he wants. I'm tired of the accusations, and the distrust he has for me. I can't keep defending myself to him. I'm loyal, I love him, but I'm worn out literally. I've told him to treat me as an ... (267 words)

I don't like him texting girls late at night. Should I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't mind that my boyfriend had friends that are girls, but I told him that I don't want him talking/texting them late, which I consider after midnight as I was told this was "Booty call time". And keep in mind that we live together. As far as I knew he was respecting this ... (127 words)

Caught my husband watching porn when I was pregnant. I have been depressed ever since.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since i was pregnant i've been depressed. Okay I'm only 20 years old. And i was pregnant with my first baby. I was only 7 months pregnant when i caught my husband masturbating watching porn. Can you imagine how sensitive i was during my pregnancy . Iv been hurt and ... (63 words)

Is he trying to make it my responsibility to end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance had an argument the other day he had been drinking i tried to resolve things but he just carried on getting at me this was the last chance for our relationship and he knew this. He asked for his stuff back and said it is finished i have had to call police as he ... (193 words)

I caught him lying and now he is giving me the silent treatment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So after i caught my boyfriend in a lie, dealing with him and another girl, he hung up the phone and has been giving me the silent treatment he is not answering any of my calls or texts, why would he do that to me? No matter how much i call he would just ignore my call i have ... (139 words)

My ex is pregnant, why is it suddenly churning me up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my last girlfriend around 8 months ago, we parted on good terms. We still kept in touch went for coffee and stuff (we were friends and colleagues before we started going out.)I knew she had got back together with her previous boyfriend shortly after we broke up ... (127 words)

Am I just wasting his time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 3years. And I love my boyfriend very much. We are at the age where people start talking about marriage and babies. We've been having this talk. I love him and can't imagine my life without him. But I don't know if I want to marry him or have ... (114 words)

Should I tell him why I deleted him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So there is this guy that I was working with on a project for the past two months. In these two months we became pretty close and somehow we developed a great friendship. In the last two weeks of our working together he told me that he liked me and that he had always wante... (696 words)

She has stopped talking to me so much, has she gone off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for quite awhile now, and I really like her, but she's quit spending time with me at all. At first she wanted to see me everyday, and talked to me every minute we were apart. Now she tells me everyday she wants to see me, but always "forgets" or ... (126 words)

Am I gay or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently questioned that i might be gay so i met up with a guy i met online to see if I enjoyed it. We preformed oral on each other then he preformed anal sex on me. I did cum but am still not sure if I'm gay or not?... (50 words)

I love him, but we are so different.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am living with a man that is 8 years older than I am. I really think he is losing interest in me in more ways than one. I love him but there are so many ways that we are different and I get so lonely because he stays so tired. I don't want to leave I just want to feel wanted ... (87 words)

Will I be able to find a woman if I follow my dream career?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Do people still meet potential partners after university? I'm 22 and the annoying thing is that I am confident now to talk to female strangers, particularly ones that I find attractive and used to find intimidating as most are the same in that they are as nervous about talking ... (157 words)

He saw another girl naked before me and I can't handle it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I's past gets brought up a lot.. Like he gets depressed if one of my friends brings up "do you remember when you and him did that??". And just last night we were talking about sex and being naked, and I asked him if I was the first girlfriend he has ... (171 words)

He's still in my heart. It seemed so right but now it's so wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so confused about what has happened, how he has behaved, how I have behaved, and how I feel about it. 18months ago I was married. I was relatively happy, sortof. I was very into my work and I think my husband and I had both grown in different ways. I was invited t... (1090 words)

Worried by his relationship with his female friend, now he wants to go see her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend has had this girl(friend) quote the word "Friend" for 3 years. Well, he's known her for 3 years. I have talked to her a couple times before and she seems nice. The thing is he texts her a lot, and she's brought up in our fights a lot because I get jealous ... (189 words)

Language barrier!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I really like that is Mexican, and I am Vietnamese. This guy use to work with me and we've always been really close. My question is, he said he wants to be with me and I do too but, he only speaks full Spanish, and I only know a little bit to understand and ... (83 words)

I can't trust my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have an amazing boyfriend. The only problem is that I don't trust him.. I use to have his Facebook password but he changed it because he caught me snooping.. again. I always snoop at his stuff. His texts, his Facebook, his conversations. I always ask who he is texting ... (103 words)

Is having pictures of his ex and visiting her profile inappropriate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, just wondering if I'm over reacting. My bf, and I have been together for almost two years. He has pics of his ex and it began to bother me. He claims it meant nothing and said he would get rid of his album. He gave it to his mother. Well, my thought is he can get the p... (95 words)

I can't get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get over a guy? My case of break up might be one of the harshest. Before our 9th month 9 a few days ) he just said he didn't love me anymore and he broke up with me. I was left to cry there alone and sometimes now I still cry even thought it's been almost a month. ... (145 words)

Will we ever have a child together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Not sure if this is the right question for this site... but it never hurts to try! Right? Ok so my husband and I have been trying to have a baby for over a year, about 6 months ago I found out I have PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome) I have been on clomid since then! I had a ... (117 words)

Ex says she wants distance but then tries to make contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me in February and said she wanted time apart but we can still be friends hang out, talk etc, over those months of being on time apart we argued because I found myself still playing the boyfriend roll while working hard to fix things and she ... (375 words)

Will asking him about sex ruin our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need help, i have known my boyfriend for about 3 years but only been together as a couple for a month and a bit but i really really like him and i feel like i want to start being a bit intimate with him, maybe not go straight to sex but start having a bit of sexy time. i ... (129 words)

Doesn't want a relationship but still likes me what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok for the past year me and a friend have been hanging out together at mine, theres always been flirting and a kiss. Recently its started to get more intimate. Now i told him a few weeks back that i liked him, and he said he didn't want a relationship so i was like ok thats ... (105 words)

Hi obsessed ex has been making MY life hell forever, is there anything I can do here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay i need some help with this one. I've been with my boyfriend just over a year. We're in a long distance relationship between the Uk and the US and ive just spent 5 months over there with him. (Let me explain the story) He split up with his ex girlfriend 2 years ago and ... (466 words)

Could back pain pose a problem for my pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all- quick question, I am suffering from back pain and I'm wondering if this could be any any problem for my pregnancy?... (24 words)

Could I be pregnant after coming into contact with his sperm after he left?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Could I be pregnant if I made out with my boyfriend and later, after he`s gone home I might accidentally put a little sperm close to my vagina while I was sort of fingering myself?... (35 words)

Men: How is it that young men are attracted to older women- does he want just 'benefits' with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Need your opinion on this one. I am a woman in my forties. I have a great family:a husband and a 23 years old daughter. I look very young, sometimes people think I am in my mid-thirties. The last few years really young guys started to like me. At first i noticed it, i rea... (504 words)

I don't understand my anger and whether I should control it or not..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i control my short temper? when someone annoyes me i lash out at him/her and i cant control how i feel... i dont know if am doing the right thing by telling people when they annoy me...or i should just to keep the peace... (49 words)

Split up over him talking to another girl and lying about it, I am so hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and i went to dinner yesterday, we had a good time and talked and stuff(we recently got back together). while we were separated he started talking to this girl, which i had no problem with because we were not together, when he came back i told him that he needed ... (304 words)

My colleague is becoming a real pain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Afternoon all! Can someone please shed some light with what's going on in my colleagues head?! My colleague is becoming a real pain! She does things on purpose to start arguments and get others in trouble amongst other things. Yesterday she was running late for work s... (249 words)

Row because his friend gave me his number, but he calls other girls gorgeous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had a row all because i was talking to one of his mates and he said that i was stunning and gave me his number just in case i wanted some one to talk to when i felt alone. When i was messing about with my boyfriend and i read one of his email's and he was ... (73 words)

No wow factor, am I making a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

29 May 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Me and my bf have been together for a year now. We have got a 9 year age gap between us. He isn't the guy I usually go for, I like guys who are my age, tall dark and handsome... well my bf has got a good heart but he is as tall as me, a whole lot older and, well like I said, ... (201 words)

Nice one minute, horrible the next. Why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why but one minute this boy i know was talking and being nice to me the next hes being horrible and he turned on me, i told him i don't wanna be friends with him if he's going to keep doing this to me and he his just acting like he doesn't care. I don't think he's ... (86 words)

Should I go with another guy because his parents like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this guy.. I like him so much its not even funny..he lives about 50 minutes from me..he can drive but his parents are super strict and we can never EVER see each other.. He just got grounded for cussing out his dad because he couldn't see me.. I feel like his parents ... (130 words)

Scars from cutting..will it put guys off?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a bad history of sexual abuse as well as physical abuse when i tried to prevent the sexual abuse from taking place.. because of this i started self-harming. ive cut myself pretty badly and deep and have really ugly scars from it on my arms and a few on my legs and the ... (102 words)

Its to the point where its painful, but I love it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This question might be weird.. but when my bf and i are having us time and he kisses and fondles my stomach and breasts i really like it alot and it feels great. but my question is why does the harder he nibbles my nipples feel beter. to point that it is painful but i love it.. ... (61 words)

Will he think I'm just trying to get his wife out of the picture?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this sounds really messed up but please keep an open mind when reading. i was talking to this guy we'll call bob. we talked for about 2 months and got verry close told eachother everything and he was leaving for vacation. well while on vacation he got shot in the head but ... (543 words)

Deployed and confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am currently deployed and have been so since August 2009 i will be home in 2 months. This deployment has turned out to be very bad for my marriage. All the way up until January my wife and i were ok, we communicated positively and talked about a bright future together. In ... (430 words)

I am falling for someone who is not totally available

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age - I am falling for someone who is not totally available. He is one of my senior bosses and he is helping me at the moment to leave my job with my diginity in tact.(Its for the best and what I want). Whenever I see him around the company, he always double takes me. Once anothe... (292 words)

Is he scared because he's never been attracted to a woman before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically my gay bff and I used to be super close, practically like a couple. Over the past week or so he's started acting a bit off with me, we're more like passing strangers or people who have just met than the friends we used to be. He sent me a text last week saying 'you ... (178 words)

15 years old and in love with a 26 year old straight guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm now a 15 year old teenage boy and I'm in love with a straight guy which is our poultry boy, I just can't help the fact that I'm in love with a 26 year old straight guy, I've been asking my friends about this matter, well they told me that maybe this thing for me is just a ... (163 words)

Girlfriend is very secretive about things!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

- Hi guys. I have been seeing my girlfriend for over 1 1/2 years, we get on OK but she is very secretive about things. Firstly she keeps her phone on silent whenever she is at home (she says she just forgets after keeping it on silent from work), she never has any text messages ... (169 words)

Is she trying to tell me something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Q-vo ....I hope to understand her some day The story is we are divorced ,and she said theres nothing to talk about ......after i found out she is seeng some friend and prior to that we were doing so great something i did or said went wrong.....i just don't know , she still ... (95 words)

How can I make small talk with strangers? What should I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I don't know what to do about this situation. It has nothing to do with being in a relationship, but I'd appreciate some help here. How do people make small talk or conversation without feeling awkward? I want to make small talk with strangers just to be polite and... (149 words)

I don't know where I stand with my boyfriend, need your help to decipher this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know where I stand with my boyfriend and would like your opinions. We have been seeing each other for a few months. He works hard but makes time for me. He calls and texts every day. He is gentle and caring and I can talk to him about anything. He confides in me and ... (153 words)

I really want to live in the family house! It's my lifelong dream.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - In some years to come I want to move out in the country to a house that has been in the family for generations. I grew up in the house surounded with a big family and relatives. They have houses just nearby or even a smaller house built into the house I now want to live in. I ... (251 words)

Weird vagina!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

29 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Some background information, ever since I was 14 I have had one really large labia on my right side, I absolutely hate it!! It makes me so unconfident and especially around inexperienced guys as I'm worried they will just be like "ew, what's that?!". So my question is... If, as ... (76 words)

My wife won't give me a blowjob!!!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

29 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'd like to start by confirming I m 32 not 21. So this is my problem... My wife don't want to give me a blowjob anymore because she says she doesn't like it. I'm going down on her all the time because that's the only way that she can have multiple orgasms. I like to give her... (107 words)

Can I still be pregnant even if the pregnancy test was negative?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My period is late. My cycle is often (but not always!) 30 days, I'm now on day 34. I took a pregnancy test yesterday morning but it was negative. The last week I've felt nausea, backpains, pain in my stomach, headaches, been very very hungry etc. Can I still be pr... (85 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about my history of physical and sexual abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I tell my boyfriend about my history of physical and sexual abuse? I really love him and I know he loves me unconditionally and would do anything for me. Should I tell him or not?... (36 words)

Has Facebook done it again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid: I love my boyfriend and we have been together for almost two years and we have been living with each other the whole duration. My boyfriend has been acting weird and skiddish ever since he got on Facebook. He has married women on his contact friends and he h... (87 words)

Is my teacher seducing me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well this is really stupid because I think this teacher has never taught me and I've never had him before. But every student knows him as he is the pastoral manager in our school (who sorts out the unruly/behavior problems in school) Students already labels him as the most ... (367 words)

Manager flirts and chats to everyone but me, have I done something wrong???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of an odd question which I hope I can get some answers to. I get on with most people I meet, I'm friendly, funny etc... So I been told! Somehow though my male managers seem to shy away talking to me. In my current job my male manager hardly talks to me ... (340 words)

Trying to chose between him and my family! I want them both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I belong to a family who does not approve of love relationship. My elder sister had love marriage and she and her husband always warn me not to follow their foot prints. She even said that if i fall into some relation then indirectly i am murdering her. But then i love this guy ... (166 words)

Boring boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i dont know what to do im torn between two men. my ex and my sons father, who stepped out of our lives for 5 months who is now back trying to get back together with me. or my current boyfriend who is great and would do anything for me but yet is sort of boring.. i dont know ... (124 words)

Might Be Losing Sexual Interest With Boyfriend

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok,so I am in a loveless relationship for little over a year. At times when my boyfriend wants to see me he is thinking about sex and i feel like that is the only thing that gives us an excuse to see each other. If we dont go out somewhere(which we hardly do)there is nothing ... (190 words)

My wife is noticing that I'm constantly on the internet

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well ive bin married for five years now and i recently got a computer to keep contact with my friends and fam. But i have found my self in a situation im falling for a girl i met online that lives milles away from were i live. MY question is could this be a phase or a atraction ... (84 words)

Does she deserve a second chance

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There is a long history to this story, but I'll keep it as short as possible. If it's long, I'm sorry but this is really killing me. I have dated a girl for 15 years on and off...since 8th grade. We became very close and i knew she was the one i wanted to marry. For a lot... (711 words)

Son's ball game overtakes an important task... is it his priority too or just mine?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, My boyfriend and I are planing to move in together, I am renovating my home to rent it out and moving to his place an hour away. The past two weekends he was suppose to me help me as time is running short and the list of thing to be done is huge. He cancelled the 1s... (261 words)

5 years later and I still wish things had worked out differently!

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me 5 years ago, since then there hasn't been a moment that I wish things had been different so that we might still be together today. There have been other men who have implied their interest in me but I can't pursue anything because I'm still ... (84 words)

I hate my breasts!

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I don't have the "model boobs" that you see in Playboy mags, Porn, Movies/Tv and everyday life! I don't have big boobs, I don't have those cute small nipples, and I don't have perfect round ones. I have 34b boobs with big nipples and that are pointed. I am so ... (153 words)

Is it wrong to get excited soon during sex

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi!im in a relationship with a guy for almost 3 years.As soon as he touches me or kisses me i get so excited and wet and our sex goes very smooth!But he tells me that sex should be painful and suspects me a lot.i love him so much and i get hurt whenever he suspects me.is it a ... (64 words)

I want to be cool and trust him but I don't

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and him and I started off as bestfriends before. When we were friends right before we dated we had sex. Then awhile later we dated and we have sooo many feelings for eachother and I am crazy for him and I feel I am in ... (179 words)

Am I just paranoid? Or is he blowing me off?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a week ago and we totally hit it off via texts after we initially met. We clicked really well and he seemed to really like me so we planned a first official date, dinner and a movie. The date went well, I think, we had great conversation, we never had a silent ... (416 words)

How do I get him back when he does not want to communicate with me

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29 May 2010 (F)

age - Broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago,but I still love him. I was honest with him about everything going on in my life, especially finances. He gave me advice which I was not able to follow at that moment and time. He was upset that I did not follow his advice and was not ... (163 words)

Do we like the same guy? I"m depressed!

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well i'm 14 and bisexual. Well, i have a crush on this girl, she's really cute and evil sometimes but i like it. She's bi too and like's one of our only guy friends, they both are camping with another girl (she kissed my crush and so did the guy friend, still claiming he's ... (123 words)

I'm 16 years-old and I don't know if I'm confused or i'am in love with my history tearcher.

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all you need to know about me is that i'm 16 years-old and i don't know if im confused or i'am in love with my history tearcher. He is maybe in his 30s i don't really know. But the first day when i met him i was new to the school and i thought of him as a good guy till i got ... (221 words)

The ex...is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you?

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29 May 2010 (F) - if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..noone cheated..i think ... (376 words)

Boyfriend spending alot of time with this girl and I don't like it!

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, my long term boyfriend lost a good female friend of his and has since "replaced" her with another girl, whom I know semi-well and also work with. They have been spending a lot of time together and have been going to bars together, are going skydiving together, and are ... (161 words)

Fake bangs?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi !!!!! My bangs are really messed up and girls all around me have bomb looking bangs. I want to know if there's such thing as "fake bangs" but not to the front but to the side. If so, where can i buy them ?? Are they cheap ?? Thank You... (56 words)

I want to know if there could still be an "us" but don't want to sound desperate!

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, ok so there is this guy that i really like and we were kissing buddies and that wasnt good because i actually started liking him and i decided to tell him how i feel and when i did, he had told me that he liked me too. But there was one big problem, he was ... (168 words)

Was my hymen broken? Did I even have one?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey . May 7th 2010 iWas with a friend of mines and we were in his room and we were cuddled and iTold him that i was a virgin so he has big fingers and he put 2 fingers inside me and it didnt hurt at all (remind you iAm still a virgin) iDidnt bleed scream in pain . nothing ! . ... (151 words)

I'm scared of the pain from first time sex

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help. ive been with my boyfriend for a while and we both want to have sex. he's had sex with four different girls in the past and yes, he's been tested..so he doesnt have any diseases. i on the other hand am a virgin and he knows that...im scared to have sex with him... (152 words)

What does she mean when she says "love ya"

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my best friend, she is amazing and I would die without her. When were texting and stuff she always says "love ya" when she leaves. Is this the same as "love you" or is she meaning something different.... (43 words)

I'm jealous of my friend and want to rant!

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29 May 2010 (F) - i think i am upset about things in my life..everyone i know except for maybe a few is basically with the first guy they really loved and in a relationship for years and on their way to getting married. I am in my mid twenties, went to college and have an assitant job which i ... (347 words)

I masturbate 5-6 times a day! Its an addiction!

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello.. I have addiction with masturbation since i was 13. Im 30 now but still cant stop it, i would masturbate 5-6 times everyday. It really effected my life, my health and confidence. Im jobless and still single. My life is a mess and im falling deeper in this hole. Pls help ... (68 words)

I am scared and in love and don't know what to do :( Please help me!

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, ok I have been dating this girl for about 5 1/2 months. And at first we were both a tad nervous so when we didn't do the little stiff it was ok, but now that is really starting to upset me. We started dating in December and first said I love you in Janurary, it didn't ... (340 words)

All kinds of boyfriend problems!

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: 3 posts combined: Okay So I use to spend every day with my boyfriend because we go to different schools so we don't see each other much. But it seems like now he only wants to hang every couple days. And it just makes me so mad that he doesn't want to spend time ... (227 words)

13 when I fell in love with my straight guy friend

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - it was mid July when I knew that I was in love with my straight friend I told my friends about it and it was fine with them his friends told him about the matter but he didn't want to believe till the day came that I felt he was about to believe then that's actually the time to ... (128 words)

He has photos & letters of the woman he almost married..should I be upset?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem, I started going out with this great man and I have known him for awhile before we started going out, so I know that he is an honest and hard working man. However, I am very insecure about things, my pervious relationships all ended bad, with the other guys ... (416 words)

11 when I discovered I am a bi.

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I was 11 years old when I knew I was bi, I was attracted to a girl yet much with a guy he was my best friend for two years and I told my mom and dad about it too bad for me they weren't able to accept but the fact that they transfered me in the province, I'm still the same bi ... (102 words)

Pregnant from anal sex?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I have a couple of questions to ask and I would appreciate your help! Basically I had anal sex with my bf if 3 yrs and I'm freaking out bout the possibility Of being pregnant! Its been 3 months and I got my period in the first 2 Btw.. Only the tip of his thin... (200 words)

He's been cheating online with obese women...what should I do?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am engaged and getting married in 5 months...I discovered my fiance's fat fetish online almost a year ago, and I confronted him immediately. He assures me that he is extremely turned on by me and desperately wants to marry me. I am a tall thin blonde, and I know I am very ... (318 words)

I'm beginning to consider walking away from the one man I've ever loved. Is this a good idea?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question about guys who get into their comfort zones. So I've been with the same guy for the past nine years. A typical Ross/Rachel type relationship - soulmates.. not always OFFICIALLY together.. but never really been apart.. you know? Anyways, I love him more ... (492 words)

Just wondering what an orgasm looks like and feels like?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm a bisexual sixteen year old and I've started experimenting with my girlfriend... Who I just love so much, but recently she ate me out for the first time, and it was amazing. I was nervous at first but then relaxed and it was amazing.. I was just wondering what an ... (96 words)

Don't trust men, but curious to meet my biological father

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and have been living with my mama and stepdad 4 about 13 yearz. he isnt sexually abusive but he is abusive in every other way. i hate him. cant wait till next febuary so i can move out and although he has resentfully provided 4 me financially i still hate him. everynight ... (157 words)

How do I confront him when I'm guilty of having snooped?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so basically I did the wrong thing and snooped and looked at my boyfriend of just over a years emails. I had a feeling back in January there was something to worry about when he was constantly getting messages late at night and we had one problem in the past where a girl ... (329 words)

Can't give myself an orgasm

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have 16 years, and i have never had an orgasm. i often masturbate, but every time i do that, i need to stop very quickly, because after few pleasent minutes, it starts to feel very unpleasent, so i can't stand it any more. I'm a bit of woried, i don't know if there is ... (77 words)

Should I bother pursuing this co-worker?

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I have a question about a girl at work. She started working here like 2 years ago. I liked her a lot, and felt it was pretty mutual. However, I never asked her out and another co-worker got to her first. I was very bummed, but got over it. It's been like 1 year ... (204 words)

He stresses me out 99 per cent of the time so why am I still in a relationship with him?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately, I've been feeling drained with my boyfriend of 5yrs.. mind you a very crazy relationship from physical abuse in the past.. he is always complaining about me like for instance he does stuff that i do not approve of and he wanted me to hang oput with his friends and their ... (217 words)

Should I just let the liar fly???

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I noticed he was acting strange. He stated that he had to have a meeting with his cousin for their new business in jersey. He tried to leave me to go to new jersey on my birthday... to have a "business meeting!" I felt uneasy. ... (814 words)

Should I attempt talk to him, even out of curiosity???

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I found out I was the "other woman" in about a two year affair. The kid was older and I kept my virginity, thankfully. He had always had a "mystery" to him - he disappeared for three months without a trace and reappeared wanting me back...(seems obvious but I was ... (287 words)

Help!!! How do you continue a romantic relationship with someone who is your blood relative?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 1 year is my half-brother. Apparantly my father "got around" a lot more than I had thought. My bf and I have talked many times about our family and what attracted me to him was how much we have in common, especially with not ... (232 words)

I feel like it's ending and I've fallen so hard for her.

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29 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I knew my current girlfriend in the beginning of this year, in February. She lives in the the countryside, in a city that i used to live and it's where my mum lives as well. So I go there almost every weekend or fortnightly.. after almost three months going out together, i ... (426 words)

Should I have another child?

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I have an eleven month old son. Recently one of my friends had a baby girl and she is beautiful. She also has a son who is 12 months. Through her whole pregnancy we talked about her weird cravings and where the baby kicked the most. To get to the point: I want ... (354 words)

He is putting his friends before me and it's getting me down.

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29 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 yrs and living together for 2(high school sweethearts). We are both 23. Lately all he ever wants to do is be with his friends playing ball,music,fishing or hanging out at the tennis courts. He doesn't come home until dark.(Everyday ... (157 words)