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writes:I met this girl online that I really liked and we fell for each other and it is all completely amazing, we are pretty both always searching for a way to talk to each other and I am soon gonna move to where she lives so we can be together.But the problem is, we both have sexual desires, which we can't fullfil, since we live away from each other. One night while watching some porn and seeing a video about "sharing your wife", the thought with her turned me really on and I told her the next day and asked her if she wanted to do this, to which she replied the idea is hot, but she isn't sure, because of me. For good reason.I am a very insecure, jealous guy who finds this idea so amazingly hot as long as he jerks off to it, but as soon as I am done with my sexual play and my head gets clear, I am like: "Can I let the girl that I love have sex with another guy?"So I love the thought of having her have sex with another man, as long as I am completely horny.But when I am thinking clear, it makes me wonder if it would be good for us and my jealousy.She herself said she wont do anything until I am completely sure, and that she is mine only, so even if we would do that, she would only see it as an enjoyable act.Now should I confront my jealousy and fullfil our desires and my fantasy and just do it, or should I wait?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): let it be what it is... a fantasy. play it out and you too are doomed! my advice: don't do it.. EVER!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): iF you really love her (and im not convinsed you do) you wouldn't even won't 2 thank about her being w someone else.and if she loved you she wouldn't won't to have another man touch her in that way mutch less have sex with him. I couldn't. i LOVE the man im with. maybe yall need 2 look at yalls relationship a little closer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): It sounds like an exciting fantasy which is why this is such a popular porn scenario. Speaking from personal experience, things got a bit weird with an ex boyfriend of mine and we fooled around a bit with things like that.It was much more erotic in fantasy than it was in real life (I didn't enjoy it at all) and I don't feel good about it, looking back.Also we broke up pretty soon after, not just because of that but it was a factor. I think it changed things between us and I feel sad that we let that happen.So, don't think with your penis on this one. By all means fantasise about it but DON'T make it a reality, all the more so since you have a jealous nature. Protect the relationship that you have from things like this... and try and arrange to meet up with her in person asap!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): Very bad idea. Why not use the brains God gave u. Atleast see the lady first dont just rush into things like dat. What kind of hormonal disaster is taken place in you. My friend use your brainsss
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 BAD idea.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (4 May 2010):
 This is one of those things that's actually more fun to talk about than actually do. Rather than putting the cart before the horse, why not move wherever you're moving to, establish a solid relationship with the love of your life (have you ever actually met her in real time, I wonder?)and THEN go about discussing joint forays into sexual misadventures? I think you're getting way ahead of things. If you're a jealous type then you're flirting with disaster, my friend. At the risk of psycho babble: I'd say you're trying to manifest deep fear. If you can manifest it and cause it to take place then you won't have to worry about it happening without your knowledge and you'll feel as though you're controlling the scary variables.. File under: pretty unhealthy jealousy! I suggest keeping it a little more real for awhile then go there if that's what you both agree upon, but be certain of your true motivations, first. Those kinds of adventure are suitable only for those who genuinely know themselves for who they really are! Get back to me in a bout a year and I'll afford you excellent odds that your story will be VERY different from today.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Definitely your "little head" thinking here...... if you go through with this fantasy you are condeming your relationship with your gf because nothing will ever be the same again.
Honeygirl
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reader, ChristineAvril  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 You want to watch while some random bloke acts as a "locum" for you? And you are of a jealous nature?
You are thinking with your lower brain, my friend!!!!!!!
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