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anonymous
writes:How is he so selfish? We seriously JUST broke up,he JUST dumped me. And he is already hanging out with girls. How do I know this? Facebook..I know I should stop looking,but I can't help it. We were together for over a year,I can't just shut him out of my life completely..:( He actually told some random girl over Facebook that he is doing ok, he is just "getting over a breakup,it's for the best." This girl is someone he knew before we dated, but NEVER talked about her, and I never met her..She did try adding me on Myspace, but never made contact with me..He also left her a comment before we dated that said she was beautiful,blah blah. She did have a boyfriend, but doesn't now..Do you think someone can move on THAT fast? This hurts...
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (5 May 2010):
 He had a head start in getting over you because he knew he was going to end it. So by the time he ended things, you were in shock while he felt he was allowed to move on because he wasn't tied down anymore.
As much as it hurts, you have to delete him from facebook and forget about him. Walk away with your dignity and pride. I'm sure in time you will me a more wonderful guy and your ex will be a distant memory.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010): listen hes trying to move on and you have to do tha same.. while your wastin time spyin on his facebook hes havingbfun when u could b meeting someone else..he doesnt want you...move on because when your thinkin bout him he not thinkin bout you
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reader, Sakuchanz +, writes (5 May 2010):
People get over their exes in different ways. So many people say they "cant get them out of their lives completely" but are you actually trying to?
Stalking his profile on facebook and seeing what girls he's talking to isn't going to help you at all. You guys broke up. As harsh as it is, you gotta move on 'cause he's already moved on
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 May 2010):
He had already moved on. By the time he had dumped you,in his mind he had moved on. That's why he had to leave you. He'd moved on. If you'd dumped him, he'd have felt this way. He simply wasn't the right guy for you, and ended it before you got even more hurt. So focus on your own life now, and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): He might have just dumped you but was obviously contemplating it for a while... If he's not afraid to just dump you then it's obvious he's not afraid to hurt you - I'm sure you can do better! Of course it's a diff matter whether you want to or not...
Good luck geting over this guy
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