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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really need some advice.i'm 19 and i've been with my boyfriend for two years. i love him so much and he makes me so happy.the thing is, i'm just not sexually interested. we don't have sex a lot of the time, but when he wants to have sex, i always just feel i'm not up for it. i don't usually initiate any of it, infact, i don't even mind not having sex, but i can see it's getting to my boyfriend. we live quite far away from each other (as i'm at uni) so whenever he comes to visit, i'd rather just cuddle. i know, he feels bad that if we do have sex, because he goes home the next day..i just need a bit of advice Reply to this Question
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reader, tnt  +, writes (4 May 2010):
maybe its because you don't really have an intrest in him and instead of having him feel bad after you do have sex maybe you should just break it off with him before he decides to go get it somewhere else and then you end up hurt too.
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