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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love him dearly but he hurts me in anyway he can!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm about to be 16, he's 17. we have been talking for about six months? and well we have choose to date when he comes to my school next year, well anyways i think he's abusive and controlling. you tell me... 1.) i'm not allowed to hang with other guys. 2.) if he sees me talk... (285 words)

Is it odd for a girl to go clubbing with groups of guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering what people (guys and girls!) think about a girl going along on a night out with mainly guys? Twice in the past I have gone out for drinks/clubbing as the only girl in a group of guys - the first time it was pretty good fun, although one of the guys who had ... (254 words)

Should I play hard to get, contact him, or just forget him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so there is this guy that i used to work with until he was transferred a couple of weeks ago to another store. while we did work together we became friends and eventually our friendship turned into something more. i was in the middle of a seperation and he was in a ... (285 words)

In a relationship with a woman with kid... now doubting!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone on Dear Cupid! I have some mixed feeling I thought I'd share. I have been with a woman that is 5 years older than me for 2+ years now. She has a daughter that is currently 8 years old. At the time I met her I was 24 and she was 29. I just turned 27 last w... (611 words)

Hey I was wondering when guys say they don't know why two girls fooling around turn them on do they mean it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i was wondering when guys say they dont know why two girls fooling around turn them on do they mean it? Iv been just wondering cause like all guys i know say they dont know why it does lol, also cause all the girls i know dont get turned on when two guys fool around. So why ... (112 words)

Is my husband cheating or just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and he has a son from a previous and we have 2 kids together.Im a stay at home mommy looking to go back to school. we met right away got married right away then had our first child right after. ever since we have been ... (193 words)

Help with interview questions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am applying for a job at GAP and they are asking me these questions please help me answer them please?? * Please give an example of when you have either given or received good customer service: * Please give an example of when you have successfully worked as part of ... (120 words)

My friend is going through a tough time and is really cranky

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend who is going through a tough time at the moment. She is sometimes arguing with my other friend and she sometimes argues with another girl. She is always complaining about how hard her life is. She gets really upset if you say anything to her which could poss... (138 words)

How do I talk dirty to my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How exactly do i as a guy talk dirty? I mean its obvious the kind of stuff to say like how sexy my girlfriend is and stuff but anything more than looks and i get almost like worried im seeming to full on or obsessed with sex even though my girlfriend talk dirtier than i d... (77 words)

B/f's father died, his mom is needy and I'm having trouble being patient!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and for the first 3 1/2 years everyhting was great. 8 months ago his dad died suddenly and he moved home to be with his mum. Since then things have been falling apart. We hardly see each other, partly because of work schedules, but ... (256 words)

I am in middle school, and I think two of my teachers like me, in "that way."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this might be kind of long, so I will shorten it up. First off, I am in middle school, and I think two of my teachers like me, in "that way." I'm pretty tall for my age; 5'7. Here's what one of them does: When I walk by, he stops doing whatever he's doing and says... (408 words)

I have wrongly thought badly about my manager and have regrets about my behavior

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently discovered that i have mis-judged someone for the last 5 years. I have worked for my company for the timeline above and have always enjoyed it although one of my managers, i thought didn't like me and gave me a hard time. But now i have realised, and w... (391 words)

First love keep trying or give it up!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age - I don't know where to start. I was married at 17 and have two children. We have been married for 30 years now. When my first child was about three months old I met the brother of my sisters boyfriend. There was an instant connection, but i was married. We flirted a bit and ... (340 words)

His ex's facebook page says they had sex, he denies it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends cell phone is always going off with phone calls and text messages (mostly work related), on a few occasions he has left the room and it was late at night and it was his ex texting him. I asked him about it and expressed my concerns. He said nothing was going on ... (116 words)

Messed up a friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - About a week ago, I made a huge mistake by telling my close friend I had feelings for him. He freaked out and hasn't talked since then, and I know he's weird about it because he reacted similarly when one of our mutual friends fell for him. The thing is, I've been able to ... (107 words)

She kissed another guy and I think she told me before someone else did

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Should I be worried?? Ok basically im 18 and so is my gf , we have been together for almost 2 years now. I am her first serious relationship and she is mine. After about 4 months of being together it was a close friends of hers birthday and he had a houseparty, she got... (618 words)

All kinds of cheating questions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: 3 questions from same poster all about cheating... Would you ever forgive cheating? Lets say it was only touching and not sex, and the person who was "touched" was very drunk and stopped it after a moment and got really upset immediately after. Does the form/ext... (207 words)

B/f chooses to go in with his sister rather than me to buy his parents a gift

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 May 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Should I be offended if my bf chooses to go in on a b.day gift with his sister instead of with me for one of his parents? I asked him first and he said he wanted to ask his sister first. We've been dating over a year and are in a serious relationship. ... (61 words)

Crush on older woman

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have had a crush on a woman that is almost 16 years older than me for the last 4 and a half years and she barely knows i exist any suggestions on how to get her out of my mind ... (41 words)

how do I go about not being so awkward with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i met this girl at prom a while ago. i thought she was very cute, but thought nothing of it because i am gay, and most girls are straight. well, her friend, her, and i danced that night and had fun. on the ride back, the girl i thought was cute, turned out to be bisexual, ... (149 words)

Do I have a right to ask him not to send a postcard to the girl he loved before me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going away for the weekend with my boyfriend. He told me to bring a pen to write postcards with. He has a female friend whom he used to be in love with before he met me, and I know he will want to send her a postcard, he sent her one a year ago when we went away together ... (281 words)

What will my husband be like in 10 years if he doesn't want sex now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Men over 45!!!!!!!!!I really want to know ,what is going on. Do guys over 45 decline in sexual desire and erections,or is this just my husband? He used to be so horny,I couldn't keep up.,and now he is off sex,and his erections are week or lost. What is the truth???I hear,there ... (109 words)

Everyone I date is always in my ex's shadow

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with a guy for a loooong time and we broke up three and a half years ago because it wasn't working out. this was mainly because we were quite young and at uni so living in different places. we stayed in touch and i guess i've never really got over him. he went t... (333 words)

In need of some advice on how to deal with a cold boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OPs own title" Okay, So i've been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years and we dated before around 3 years ago. 3 years ago he was the perfect boyfriend, I couldn't ask for anything more. But we broke up and he got back with his abusive ex-girlfriend. My boyfriend has some ... (711 words)

I like him and he seems to feel the same, but I'm a bit aprehensive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last weekend I was at my friend's (C) house with some other people and I met a guy (A) there my friend knew from her old school. We got along really well and talked and kissed for hours. But then one of my other friends (B, A's best friend) got a little angry and it turned ou... (184 words)

He cheated and thinks I'm blowing it out of proportion

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some advice!!! My fiance have been together for almost 10 yrs now,he cheated on me with a lady from a local bar right b4 we were to get married 3yrs ago! I have tried to work past that but he still talks with the woman and just recently I found out he went to her daughters ... (120 words)

Can you give a BJ to a guy with a condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to give a BJ to a guy who has a condom? Like what if the girl does not want to swallow or spit out? Also, you can get STDs from oral sex, can you prevent it with a condom?... (42 words)

My mother is dying and I'm having thoughts of cheating on my husband..what is going on??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I need a lot of opinions on this, may be from your own experience, but i really need to understand what's going w/me before i go and spend 200/hour on a therapist. I am in my early forties, been married for over 20 years, and my marriage is veru successfull. We ... (804 words)

I'd like his parents to know about their soon to be born grandchildren

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 6 months pregnant me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now when i first got pregnant he didnt want the baby at all but he said that he wouldnt leave us.but as the months gone by hes very distance i call he doesnt answer the phone hes always ... (181 words)

I don't have the guts to leave him but I don't want to stay either

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my partner for 4 years. We have a 2 1/2 year old daughter. I was 19 when I fell pregnant and at university 3 hours drive from my parents house. I moved in with my partner and I feel that the last few years I have fallen out of love with him or ... (359 words)

Every time I see her I just love her more

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Right.. My Ex-Girlfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. I have been in love with her for 5 years. We were going out for 6 months and it wsa really good and working well until she broke up with me because she thought we were having problems.. During the next two months she m... (273 words)

Is he just trying to have sex with me? Or do we really connect?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man one night through a mutual friend. He lives a couple states away but asked for my number so that we could "keep in touch." I assumed it was just a friendly thing as I'm a very social person with friends all over the world. But when we started talking we just ... (375 words)

I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I want as much of him as I can ... (206 words)

My sister is dating someone that doesn't seem right for her. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! My sister is dating this guy and he doesn't seem right for her at all. What should I do? Should I tell her or shut up and pretend to be happy for her? The absolutely biggest reason that I can point out is that she really wants kids and pretty soon too (she's 32) and he ... (129 words)

My girlfriend only calls when she wants something! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - dear sirs, my girlfriend only calls me when she wants something ! wht shall i do?... (26 words)

Should I make the first move? If he rejects me, it'll be awkward.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very shy boyfriend... I want him to hold my hand on the first date... He did that with quite a few of his old girlfriends... So I'm not sure if I should make the first move or not... If he rejects me, I'll create an akward atmosphere... But if he doesn't... (92 words)

She broke my heart, Should I meet up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm lesbian. And when I was a young I developed a crush for my best friend. We were riends for 13 years and I never told her. She broke my heart when she was dating people partly because I was in love with her but mostly because she stopped hanging out with me all together when ... (193 words)

Dating for 3 months, are we taking things too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all. so my bf and i have been dating for 3months and we both 17. we extremely close and hes said he would marry tomorrow if he could and that i am THE one. i feel the same way about him. ok, so heres the story.. he loves my tummy.. we have made out, and then the other night ... (138 words)

My boyfriend wants us to live with his parents. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I have a problem. My bf wants us to live in the same house as his parents. And even if I like them, I'm not sure I want to live quite so close to them. What should I do: tell him no and maybe lose him or agree to it?... (51 words)

My boyfriend seems keen on having a baby, but says it's not 'good timing'. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I want to have kids, I want it so bad, but my boyfriend (lived together for 1 year, dated for 2) doesn't seem completely sure. He seems very keen on having kids but also says its not "good timing". I've just finished studying and I don't have a job. And he thinks it would ... (113 words)

Trying to have a baby, and nothing has happened. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm trying to get pregnant from march we don't use condoms, don't worry we do go for tests. i haven't fallen pregnant still, i want my own baby as much as my boyfriend, her family and my mother want grandchildren. i just want to know what to do. how should i do it?... (55 words)

How long will my thrush tablet take to get our sex life back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod Note: OP's original title] Hey everyone, im going to try make it real quick, and would appreciate any advice given. About two months ago i got thrush as a result of being run down and stressed, the first symptom i had was really painful intercorse, then followe... (469 words)

The pill failed, now I'm pregnant. How can I tell my strict parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old, and I am pregnant. I'm very scared to tell my parents because they are both very strict, and my mom is very old fashioned. I'm afraid they won't talk to me ever again. I did not know that antibiotics make birth control pills less effective, so when the cond... (121 words)

I'm not happy with my partner, should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I've got a 3 year old son with him, and I've just found out I'm pregnant again. I should be happy but I'm not, I don't think i love him anymore. i'm miserable all the time he hasn't done anything wrong and i feel so guil... (223 words)

Why would a work friend suddenly turn cold, and also show 'distrust' in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [Mod note: OP's original title] This happened many years ago at my old job, but it still bothers me every so often. I was an associate (cashier, stock, cleaning, inventory, etc.) at this store, and there was this assistant manager that everyone liked. We were basicall... (395 words)

My husband left for another woman but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi i am a 39yr old women married to a 39yr old man, we have been together 24 years and married 17 together we have 3 children. 5 weeks ago he woke me up to let me know he had met someone else, he met her 2 weeks before they started texting each other, he slept with her on the ... (166 words)

He has an online business and strange behaviour -- is he keeping something from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together officially about 3 weeks but casually dated for a month before that. he has a job and gets paid fairly good money, $9.55 an hour, but he sells a lot of things online. he always has money to blow and is constantly meeting up ... (452 words)

My husband has been cheating with his sister-in-law, and won't give her up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included that I was a whore. I was and ... (274 words)

Should we know each other's password?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my 5 yrs bf and me were really cool abt facebook. he gave me his facebook password and i gave him mine. i never had any prob with that. but he used to surf my profile and got angry with some guy leaving msg.bhe yelled at me. i initialy used to visit his profile seldomly. and ... (97 words)

A guy with too many feminine traits. Please help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All, I am a guy aged 23 years. This is not a very serious question, but would appreciate your views. I really want to see the movie - Sex and the City - 2". Considering the fact that this movie is considered a "chick flick", would it be really awkward for a guy to w... (176 words)

I love him so much but I need to leave.....but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have been in a relationship for almost 4 years and we have been through a lot together we were living together for the most of the time we have been together and i had moved out after constant arguing as it was swinging me in and out of depression,i love my partner so much ... (214 words)

I caught my boyfriend of 6 years watching transexual porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I caught my boyfriend of 6 years watching transexual porn, he cried and claimed that it was normal and that he wasnt interested in men. Hes always told me that hes interested in strap ons and female domination and has requested that I do things to him but ive neve... (210 words)

How can I find out if my long distance girlfriend still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there....its not been long since ive been dating sumone who i really love a lot and now at present im staying very far away frm her and we are in a long distance relationship... i just need your help to find out whether my girlfriend still loves me the way i do although she ... (89 words)

How can I heal my broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a long story so I apologize in advance… My heart is broken and I cannot stop crying. My boyfriend of four years, broke up with me out of the blue on Sunday. Things were going good between us and then all of sudden he was upset with me and we broke up. The reason h... (1458 words)

Is it time to move on from her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a long list of questions under my profile about my current gf. We met last year - she was my tour guide. We had a great LDR and I came to China for her to teach English. Everything was great for the first couple of months then she started to change and became more and ... (681 words)

How can I develop better self esteem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I have low self-esteem and I don't understand why. My Psychiatrist says it could be because of my social isolation and Asperger's Syndrome. But I am wondering if there are other reasons behind it all. I know that I am fat but I don't think that has much to do with ... (127 words)

Did I have the right to tell her she makes me uncomfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is the back story- My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years. He is the most trustworthy person and I know that he would never cheat on me. I am 110% sure of it. My boyfriend and I, and another 3 people are all really close friends. 2 are male and 1 is ... (400 words)

I have a crush on my boyfriend's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just have a horrible feeling now, I'm dating with my boyfriend for a year and after Ive graduated, he helped to get a job and that's the beginning of this messy problem for me,...He called his friend just to help me to get a job in the same company with his friend.. and for ... (259 words)

Is something going on with his potential coworker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend gave me his Facebook password couple of months ago. We're in a long-distance relationship at the moment, and we message each other a lot on Facebook. He is planning to move here in 2 months, and I'm flying down in June to spend time with him. Couple of days... (367 words)

She's rejected others. What chance do I have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a senior, this girl i am just smitten with has some history with me, we never dated but i was close. In the end i fell short, because i couldn't overcome fear of rejection. I've regained confidence and a year later i feel like i can do this. I talk to her often, we are even ... (254 words)

How do I trust he's back to stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys i need your help.i met this guy 2years ago while i was a student.we were head over heels about each other.we had a very great sex,letme say he was simply irrestible.he has a son,he told me his son's mother is married to another man.things stayed pretty between us even ... (290 words)

I want to be happy but am anxious all the time because of my past.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have had many issues in the past with him being honest and they have added up to me feeling resentful of him, hurt by him and mistrusting. I've always been trying to get the feelings of happiness back from before he started lying to me and before he broke my ... (405 words)

Feel like we are in a relationship without the 'title' yet hes so against it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for around 5 months now and have always been on the understanding that he doesn't want a girlfriend or a relationship. However of late his behaviour has changed somewhat, he calls 2-3 times a day and texts constantly, makes an effort to see me everyday, ... (189 words)

My husband won't give affection, so I'm seeking it from elsewhere

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why do I do what I do? My husband is my world. He is kind, funny, hard working and attractive. But has hard time giving affection. I have been married for nine years and feel "we" will always be. He's been working on affection, but now my mind has been on chase for who I have ... (268 words)

He's still married, but I'm in love with him, should I be his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please no criticism, I'm asking for advice.... this guy and i are coworkers hes 27 I'm 20. my schedule changed to one that is similar to his so i drove him home from work and stuff for a while. last summer, he just randomly started kissing me. we kinda were getting close. w... (327 words)

Why can't I say no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and this guy used to like each other. I didn't do anything with him and rejected him and that caused his feelings to get hurt at the time i did not care. Back then he would have bought me anything i asked and do anything i asked this was in 2008. then 2009 he proceeded ... (282 words)

He's trying to break us up.. Is her reaction reasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A guy in my girlfriends last period class is trying to break us up so that he can date her... He gave her a kiss on the cheek and was trying to get her to kiss back, but she wouldn't. He was telling her that I don't treat her right and that he would do a lot better. He tried ... (224 words)

Caught cheating twice. Should I keep away till they divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

27 May 2010 (F)

age - Hi this married man and i have been having affair for nearly four years and we got caught once two years ago and now we got caught again by us calling each other. He told me today his wife wants a divorce, their house is for sale and he says he thinks she has got a ... (202 words)

She says she has issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was dating this girl for four months and we were having the best sex ever. Hears the problem she has been married twice both of them the guys have cheated on her and she has four children between the two marriages and her last husband molested one of her children and is ... (161 words)

Is it a good idea to ask her why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up for 2 1/2 months now going on 3. The reason's behind the break up are to this day not entirely clear, it was a quick break up, meaning she never really allowed me to have a say or express my side of the story. For a while now I've been aching... (513 words)

Instant sparks but he seems to be distant.

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27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i met someone and we both had sparks at first site. we havent gotten anywhere in relationship i think because i turned him off by coming on to strong. He says that he was with someone whom he really cared for whom just recently broke it off with him abruptly and he needs time ... (93 words)

What does love but not in love with mean?

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27 May 2010 (?)

- When a woman in her mid 50's is married to a man who is 60 yrs. old say's she loves her husband BUT is NOT in love with him---What exactly doe's that mean?? They have two grown sons and no grandchildren. Anyway why does she stay with him if she isn't IN LOVE with him????... (55 words)

Is he honest about his feelings?

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27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been friends with this guy (let's call him Carlos)for almost 1.5 years. We met at school and we clicked instantly. There seemed to be an attraction. He asked out me out to lunch a few times, but at the time I had a boyfriend so I was really hesitant. Eventually I broke up ... (327 words)

The dates seemed to go really well, so why the silent treatment?

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27 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a woman at the building I work in about a month or so ago and have been out with her twice so far. The first date went very well, she was obviously having a great time, good conversation, etc. etc. and she suggested at the end of the date that we go out again. The secon... (292 words)

What's the best way to show her I've changed?

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27 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my ex and me have been talking and she just wants to be friends and that me being paranoid, jealous and other things has put her off me. I feel such a fool and trust me I know I was wrong and I just want to show her that I have changed and I'm willing to take it slow with ... (187 words)

Is he lying about selling drugs?

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27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for four years and I am starting to feel like he is constantly lying. He told me he quit all of the illegal activities (drugs/sellin) years ago but yesterday was on his FB and a chat popped up and this chick is complaining about this bag of weed she ... (169 words)

What can I do to show them that my lack of belief doesn't affect the person I am?

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27 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - My ex's parents do not like me. I don't think her dad is too fond of me but she said that today she heard her mom say to someone on the phone that she hates me. We are trying to work on our relationship and get back together but I'm afraid this will get in the way and i want to ... (201 words)

It's getting hard to wait

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27 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy and he claims he likes me back but every time i see him he is with his neighbor. when i ask him about it he claims there just friends. and when shes not around he flirts with me....... also he used to like my bff and then he broke up with her but he still ha... (83 words)

How do I get the fire back?

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27 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my husband have been together 6 years . he used to not be able to keep his hands off me and now well i can't even get a kiss so how do i get the fire back ... (39 words)

I told him how I felt and he stopped all communications with me. What happened?

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27 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a boy I love and I told him how I feel for him. After that, I tried to contact him to talk to him more about it and find out how he feels for me. He stop all comunicational links to me and, now, I don't understand much. We were very good friends, maybe not close ... (110 words)

She loves me but she doesn't want to date!

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27 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid im a 27yr old male and i meet this girl whos 22 we dated twice which i broke up her the first time cause i felt i wasnt ready to date and i think thats because i had just had got a divorce from my ex-wife, we stayed in touch after that happen, we dated again a 6 ... (250 words)

How do we communicate more effectively? And how do I keep from bugging him too much?

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27 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of a year and i are great together, when we're physically together. i only see him about once a week, and all is well. the problem is, when we're not together during the week, i feel like things are a bit tougher emotionally. we're constantly texting, but rar... (200 words)