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How do I get over my fear of kissing and touching? It is holding me back from getting into a relationship!

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Question - (4 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *hadowre writes:

Hey, heres the thing. I like this dude(I'll call him Fred). Well I think I do. I cant stop thinking about him. I dont really want to get into a relationship because I freak out about the whole kissing thing and the touching. I really dont know how to get over it. Its holding me back big time. Any suggestions? On top of that, I'm really shy around him and I dont know what to say. I'm not a social person, I prefare to read a book, listen to music or play sudoku. Last saturday, this guy came over, I knew him from a drama group I was in about 3 years ago. He kissed me at the end of the night and Fred saw. I immediately pulled back and told him no etc. I kind freaked out there for a bit. Fred did see all this and we talked, and he understands. But talking to him since that, its a bit awkward talking to him. I dont really know what to do. We are also the same starsign, and we are both very alike, obviously. Can anyone help?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (6 May 2010):

chigirl agony auntTell Fred you like him, and if he likes you back, give him a brief kiss on the lips, take his hand, and go on a date together.

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