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female
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30-35,
*nonymous82889
writes:Hi, my boyfriend and i have almost been together for 2 years. I love him more than anything and am head over heels still sooo in love with him. He used to be like this with me in the beginning. I have been through tons of serious relationships but this one is different. My boyfriend is very hurtful, he is very verbally abusive. He broke up with me a couple times saying that i couldnt handle my alcohol which caused fights. The thing is i have quit acting like a fool when i drink, but he still doesnt seem to care when im upset. He told me he hates that im stupid, needy, irresponsible, and all that stuff and it hurts a lot. He told me once that he ought to shove my face in dog shit, we have a puppy he just recently got me and it went poo in his room which caused him to yell at me and call me stupid and it went in his room and told me to leave his house. Recently i felt things were different. He told me that hes been getting annoyed of me lately and not wanting to hang out with me,but then he ended up texting me that same day asking me about my day and calling to say goodnight. The next morning i called him and asked him if he was 0% not in love with me and he said he didnt know and yelled at me. The next day he called me to have a talk, and it was a break up talk. He said he just couldnt see himself having a future with me because of the qualities i possessed and decided to end it. He was crying and holding me like he used to back in the beginning telling me he'll always love me and blah blah and that maybe when we get back together later on well be stronger. Usually i am the one calling him and begging him back, even if hes in the wrong. This time i decided to let it go in hopes that maybe well have a strong relationship when we get back together, which is a big deal for me because i always try to fix everything. He eventually called an hour later saying he wanted to ride our relationship out till the end, and that he wanted me to sleep over on a school night which is out of the ordinary.( by the way we are in our junior/senior year of college) Everything was good but then thinsg went back to normal. I dont understand why i cant just break up with him. I love him sooo much i just cant leave him because i always have hope. He still calls me to say goodnight and tells me he never fell out of love with me. I am so confused. help, i feel so depressed.
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