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anonymous
writes:I am pregnant and my baby's father dont want to have sex with me. I dont wont to go outside the relationship and have sex with someone else. My hormones are about to explode. He dont understand how I feel and he wont give in to me and have sex. Im tired of masturbating. I want the real sex. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): he might think that if he has sex with you it might hurt the baby (which it wont) But alot of men think that.tell him its all ok to have sex while pregnant...im 12 weeks pregnant and i explained to my partner its still ok to have sex and he asked the doctor who also said its fine so now his mind is put at rest and we do it alot!talk to him... good luck
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Have you tried masturbating in front of him? Maybe that will get the point across. Another thing you may try is initiating the contact. Get him in the mood first then go for it. Also, let him know that this is the last time for many years that you'll get to have sex freely. That may kick him into gear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): Wow? you have a great partner then.. he is so much caring..enjoy him and love him more or may be respect him for what he is thinking.
Just wait for some times and you have child to take care and then situation will be reversed. He will want sex and you will say i am tired.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 If he's afraid of hurting the baby you can have him talk to your doctor and see that his fears have no foundation.
If he has hangups about the idea of making love to a pregnant woman, or about the changes your body is going through- it's a pity but there is not much you can do because after all you can't force sex on anybody. Luckily this is only gonna last a few more months, so- hang in there.
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