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Why do I have feelings for this other guy but love my boyfriend?

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Question - (4 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *ositak25 writes:

well i am a freshman and i am 14 years old going on 15 anyways i have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 7 months and i really do like him but he is a real dick like i wanted him to come out in my 15 and he said he didnt do 15's and plus for valentines day he didn't give me anything on the other hand i would text him and he would ignore me

anyways this year i met this guy name erick and he is a sweetheart he is always remninding me how pretty i am and that im speacial and always telling me what i want to hear and he is coming out in my 15 and i hang up on him like 20 times and he always calls back im so confused why is it that i have feeling for the other guy but love my boyfriend?

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A female reader, Rositak25 United States +, writes (5 May 2010):

Rositak25 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Rositak25 agony auntthank u

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010):

Hunny u are only 14 years old! Yes I was once ur age and had a bff something inocent tho! I was never sexualy active or any of that with him! This guys is just a JERK u need to break up with him!on the other hand U have NO idea how many Guys will tell ur pretty and all the other things the other guy is doing! Let me ask u a question? Is this guy aware of ur situation? Bc if he is then all he prob wants to do it get u in bed! I hope I'm wrong but all guys are jerk and that's their way of getting something when they want it! (Telling U EvERYTHiNG u wanna hear)

U are going to have a party for ur 15 right? Like a quinceanera? Usually that means when a women turns from a girl to a women! So u are not a women just yet! U really shouldn't be dealing with any of this problems at such a young age! BECAREFUL!

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A female reader, Sakuchanz United States +, writes (4 May 2010):

Why does another guy do things that your BOYFRIEND should do? Honey, I suggest leaving this guy because you're supposed to be a top priority to him. If he doesn't want to make an appearance on your birthday of all days- the day where his GIRLFRIEND was brought into this world what do you really mean to him.

You may love him but obviously isn't on the same level as you. No matter how many times he calls you back when you hang up on him

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (4 May 2010):

raiders agony auntAs your boyfriend he should want to come out in your 15 since this is a very important day for you, You two are young but if you are his girlfriend than his priority should be you and he should try to show you affection on special days like valentines day or your Quiencenera. Maybe you should break up with him and date this other guy who has shown you interest. You shouldn't have to feel stuck with a guy who is being a jerk to you, move on.

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