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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He broke up but then acts all weird when seeing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i was with a much older man (33 years) and he sent me a message ending it (were together for 6 months). he said he couldnt see me to do it as if he did he want to get back with me......like why would you send someone a email saying it??! how unfair. he said not to contact ... (191 words)

It starts out fantastic and then one of us dump the other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hiyyaa emm I've been out with tis guy like 3 times now and its always been fantstic at the start thn it always ends up one of us dumping the other for some reason or another. I really like him and I want him back but I'm scared 4 times wld be too much. plus I'm scared of wat my ... (68 words)

Because of my childhood & past I'm co-dependent but I want to get over this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, I am not sure how to put all of this...anyways, I was very abandoned as a child (at 34 I can admit and see this now)...anyways, my mom used to leave me alone alot while she went out and it caused me alot of anxiety. She used to have to leave a hotpad on my stomach to ease ... (295 words)

I really want to date him! How do I let him know I won't shoot him down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there's this guy I've met up with a few times. They were never official dates, just coffee but i could kinda tell he wouldnt mind us being official. The problem is that he's so shy when it comes to dating! He's not shy talking about normal stuff but as soon as anything ... (102 words)

At my age, my parents still don't know I'm a lesbian. How do I tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age - Hi My parents doesnt know I been a lesbian all my life. My parents and I never have even asked me if I date! Never been a subject of conversation. I respect my parents and I wish I could just be me but I cant. Better yet dont know how to approach them. They are my priority... (120 words)

Do I leave my wife and child for this affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Should I stay with my wife and child or not? I cheated on my wife with a woman from work. The affair has been going on for about 1 month. The affair would have continued but I recently moved across the country for work. Our marriage was in bad shape prior to meeting this ... (244 words)

We broke up, but still see each other and he's lying to his new g/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and my ex were dating for about two years and it was awesome and then we started arguing alot then i broke it off but i kinda didnt want it to end so i wanted him back but a few weeks later he got with another girl like three yrs younger then me..he still talks to me ... (105 words)

Does this mean I'm gay even though I love women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old "boy" and heading to college soon. My first time I was curious to porn was in the 6th grade. I watched gay porn and immediately was hooked. I began masturbating to it and now I look at men on the streets and sometimes get aroused. I've always liked women and ... (111 words)

My pregnant fiancé has no energy and won't have sex with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance doesn't want sex with me anymore... Please help! My fiance doesn't want sex with me anymore. She and I are both young and she is with child. She has no energy, she sits around the house all day, sleeps till after noon, with no job. I try to have some type of sex... (98 words)

My male friend and I are close but I feel he jerks me about

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm mad at my friend but can't seem to figure it out. he will reach out, make connection, we are close at times, then he will just ignore me. i'm feeling jerked around and sick of it. when we talk he seems genuine and we have great conversations, he opens up to me, me with ... (160 words)

What I see in my police job makes me afraid for my own kids

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age - I am a father of 3 teenage children 1 son and 2 daughters (13, 15 and 16) I am also a police officer. Over the past year we have been called to many parties with underage drinking/and or fights and once we got there we found live sex, orgies, group sex. It seems to be happening ... (231 words)

She has a long distance boyfriend but she flirts with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl a lot. We flirt each other, texting, hang out, talking on the phone. She told me that she is in a long distance relationship with a guy 2 yrs. She doesnt want to give up but it makes her tired now. She keeps sending me signals and lead me on. Seriousl... (166 words)

My boyfriend is never the cause of the reactions he gets

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What do I do when my boyfriend thinks that he is not the cause of any fights or the reactions he gets due to his rude comments, or sarcasm. He only wants to deal with my reaction but not the stimulus that he has sent.... (45 words)

Water affects my nails more than I think it should!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my nails are long and have nice white tips, the only problem is whenever my hands go in water the tips go clear and wont go back to normal for at least 24 hours. Its not because of cholerine! just normal natural water effecting them. has this happened to anyone before and how ... (58 words)

Why does it hurt after I climax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know if this makes sense so ill try my best to word it correctly lol....Okay so when me and my boyfriend have sex he always trys to make me finish way to early into it, and as soon as i finish it gets really painful and hes just there still going at it, i dont understand ... (91 words)

I know the relationship is wrong but I don't want to let go of him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I dont really know where to start...I have been best friends with a guy for the last three or four years who has helped me through a previouse relationship with his friend..He has always been there for me and listened to me endlessly speak of my love for his friend and often ... (538 words)

Medicines to stop pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - can any medicines stop pregnancy after a week? ... (10 words)

Dare I ask her out? She's not keen about having a b/f!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a crush ona girl the same age as me. i m not sure if she likes me but we are really good friends. and she is not very keen to have a boyfriend! i dont know how to propose to her! any solution?... (46 words)

Is he blowing me off and am I misreading his friendliness with something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been working with a guy at an office for almost a year. He is 21 and I'm 19 and we get along really well. We're both extremely sarcastic and we pass the day just teasing and joking with one another. I have been crushing on him for a while now, but I get mixed messages ... (396 words)

I love my maths teacher (i am a boy)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a small er crush on my teacher.shes about 30 and really nice looking and has a big heart.but when ever i see her i cant take my eyes of her.sometimes when she helps someone eles in front of me i stare at her backside...i know its wrong.even my mates say you are so ... (97 words)

Why do girls always end up with someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My love life sucks. Every time I start to like a girl she ends up going out with some one shortly after I begin talking to her. Or she end up no longer talking to me in general. Not to say I don't get a girl once in a while but their not the kind of girl I want and the rel... (81 words)

New guy I'm dating is backing off because of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not even sure where to start... I met this guy about a month ago, we hit it off really well and had a kind of whirl wind for the past 4 weeks. Everything was going great, until 4 days ago. I have been sinlge for a year before I met this guy. My ex and I had a messy bre... (300 words)

Him watching porn is a side to him I don't know and I don't like it!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically, I have the best boyfriend, soon to be fiancee but I hate him wanking to porn. I have never been bothered in past relationships but I think because we are so close I hate the fact he hides it from me. I feel it's a side to him I don't know at all and it upsets me. I ... (348 words)

What kind of a cold hearted person is this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I dated this guy let us call him J last semester and part of this semester. We broke up in Feb. of this semester. Last June the guy dated on and off for 4 yrs which we shall call C and I broke up and 2 months later J and I dated. Anyways J and I were best friends since 2007 ... (838 words)

I give up my friends, job to be with him in another country and then he leaves me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy 2 years ago while traveling throughout the world. We dated for a few months and went our separate ways. We kept in contact and i ended up going to see him in his home town and staying for 4 months living with his family, it was amazing, we were so in love. Before ... (533 words)

Are there any real woman,who would like to team up,and get our ex's back home :o)...? Ladies?Only if you feel it's worth it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello.i am very much still in love with my ex.and i want to work on getting him back...we are both on the verge of getting married.well were both engaged.we text,here and there.and message on myspace.we are eachothers first love.so i feel why should those who love eachother ... (97 words)

Can I tell my teacher I love her like a mother?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My Spanish teacher this year is like a mother to me. I love her like a second mom. Would it be weird if I told her that when I graduate next year? Do you think it would "creep her out"? Because I really want her to know how much of a positive impact she's had on my life and ... (69 words)

Advice on handling an ex and little to no contact

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - As some of you here know my ex broke up with me 2 months ago but we've been going in and out of contact since about 3 weeks ago when she initiated contact with me asking whether I'm thinking about her and missing her. She was very eager to talk that week so we did. Then another ... (261 words)

He always comes back to me when other women hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age - I met this guy over 5 years ago when he was one of my employees. We talked everyday but never anything that I thought might lead to a relationship then or later. He was married and I respected that. I never though of him as a partner at all. After many years and a very bad ... (338 words)

I'm scared of being gay but I get turned on by girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am going through puberty and I am scared of being bisexual before (about a month ago)I was scared of being gay but now I am getting turned on by girls please reply as this is a embarresing question and I am scared of asking my parents please reply soon as I am scared ... (59 words)

I have urges to have sex but am afraid of the consequences

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been urging to have sex with my boyfriend of 7 months a lot lately... i want it really bad but i'm scared of the consequences. what should I do to satisfy these feelings without having to deal with consequences?... (40 words)

He still talks to his ex and I'm wondering if he's really single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been seeing this lad for two weeks now and am starting to realy like him, he still talks to his ex but im fine with it, im just not sure if he is actually single. he txts me and phones me constantly so it makes me think he is single but when he goes to his dad on a saturday ... (91 words)

How can I tell if I'm special to him or just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this past year I met this awesome guy just through friends at university. When I first met him I thought he was really cute and so nice and hilarious. We would hang out in a big group during our spares, and often him and I would go for hour long escapades to the near by ... (350 words)

Why did my shy crushes mom keep looking at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just last night, my crushes mom was over to pick her son up. My parents were also there (for most of the time, just my mom) and they were chatting with her. For time to time, I noticed her mom looking over at me the same way her daughter does. For some reason, this mostly ... (163 words)

Why wont he take me seriously and go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I almost had An affair with a married man that is twice my age. I am 31 years old and married for 6 yrs. I started to fall for this man at work who is a surgeon that is really attractive for his age. We started having coffee and talking on the phone a lot. There was so ... (241 words)

Going on date with b/f--how to do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really want to go on a date with my boyfriend just me and him alone somewhere but I dont know what we could do or where we could go, also i dont know how Id ask him...... (38 words)

Will my boyfriend dump me if I get spots?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend so much and he has told me millions of times that he loves me and he calls me beautiful loads (which makes me feel good) but he keeps making fun of people with spots and unattractive people when he talks to me, and I am just starting to get small amounts of ... (87 words)

I don't know how to act atound my boyfriends mates

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i love my boyfriend so much but I dont know how to act around his mates, its not that I'm affraid of them or anything its just that I dont want to let my boyfriend down by acting weird, also Im affraid they might make fun of me or something...what do I do?... (53 words)

I really wish I could talk to my mom about relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like my mum but I feel like I dont want to tell her anything about my relationships because I find it hard to talk to her about stuff like that (and I think she'll probrably tell all her friends) and I really do want to tell my mum how much I love my boyfriend and tell her ... (84 words)

I like her but am wondering about her relationship status. Should I ask her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Should i ask her if she have boyfriend or not? I just broke up with my ex about 4 month ago. This new girl is a good friend of my ex. They share same classes. I have my own reason for my breakup. But in their mind my breakup was because i fancy this new girl. In... (297 words)

My boyfriend told me not to talk to other guys. I'm scared he'll leave me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been fighting lately and we love eachother very much i feel like everythings my fault of all the fights im scared that hes gonna lt me go again im happy with him but the other day my guy friend gave me a hug like a friendly one and i kept snobbing him ... (158 words)

I spend more time playing up to friends than being with my boyf

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I have a boyfriend and we've been together for about a month now. He is really sweet and he trys to spend lunch-breaks with me at school but I never know what to say to him or what to do...and I feel really bad cus i spend most of my time talking to my friends or 'showing ... (68 words)

Husband doesn't put forth any effort in the bedroom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 21 years old and have been married for a couple of months. I love my husband so much but when it comes to the bedroom he dosnt put any effort in it anymore, i have been fighting over this with him because i dont feel as though he appriciates me am i wrong to be feeling ... (61 words)

He asked me out but I'm in love with his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, so there's this guy that really likes me. He's 18, did i mention im only 13 almost 14? Well anyways he wanted to go out but i sort of said no. he said he wasn't mad or anything, so that's good. But here's the catch, his younger brother's is 16 and im inlove with him. I Have ... (169 words)

I'm scared about meeting his family and having all the attention on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of eight months has asked me to come to his little brother's birthday meal at a restraunt and I'm in two minds.. I've met his older sister and Dad before who were both nice (although his Dad was a little.. unwelcoming but my bf had warned me of that before hand... (189 words)

I want us to either be together, or not, because I can't take this inbetween stuff!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'v recently been dumped by a guy who I was with for 3 months but before that we been together on and off. He broke up with me this time because I wanted a break, I just felt we were getting too serious and I got scared as i'm moving away this summer. The break up affected me ... (1341 words)

I have almost never liked my mother, do you think she is in the wrong or should I get over it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 going on 16 and I have almost never liked my mother, and today one of my close friends funeral was today and we had been talking about it all week and she told that I could go, but when I woke up this morning I asked her if I could still go to the funeral, and she said ... (197 words)

I feel left out when my girlfriend is with my best friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i love my girl a lot but I'm not sure whether she loves me or not cause whenever she is with my best friend they seem to have a lot of fun and I'm left out .......please help is it lack of trust from my side or what ?????????... (49 words)

How do I tactfully ask my partner to stop continually farting and belching in my company?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I tactfully ask my partner to stop continually farting and belching in my company? He doesn't even seem to know he is doing this. I have talked to him about it and he thinks I am being unreasonable.... (42 words)

I hate my boyfriends best friend! He wanted to have sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I HATE my boyfriends bestfriend..ever since i refused to give him sex he has been trying to break up me and my boyfriend !!No matter what i do my boyfriend does not belive me when i tell him what he's bestfriend is doing.I dont want to lose my boyfriend i love... (63 words)

Clingy or having healthy emotional needs?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you determine if a girlfriend is being "clingly" or is just having healthy emotional needs? Where do you draw the line?... (24 words)

Manager is so two faced and talks bad about everyone...surely she cant get away with it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Afternoon all, I have just come across this site and was hoping for some much needed help and advice. I have some issues with my manager at work-she has been there about just over and she seems to be nice enough to your face but speaks ill of you behind your back and is u... (604 words)

Did I lose my virginity? I didn't feel a thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey all! i was thinking about my "sexual" history and was remembering a boy asking me to have sex with him, we had been freinds for years before that so it didnt seem strange to me. well i know the first mistake i made was saying yes to him. so we did and now im no... (138 words)

Should I feel any guilt for wanting to make a new start for myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 46 yr old woman, I am in desperate need for change. I want to relocate somewhere else and make a new start. New job, meet new people, boyfriend, etc. I have two grown children 22,24 who I have raised alone, after divorce when they were babies. Both have jobs doing well. ... (191 words)

I dreamed we had a threesome, am I a bad person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a strange dream last night =s. it was me, my boyfriend, and this boy in our class. i fancy this boy, and my boyfriend knows and doesnt worry anything will happen and nothing will. but last night i had a dream we all had a 3 sum.. why did i dream this? am i a bad person b... (68 words)

I have a good job while he is very depressed about his, and very moody, what can I do for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now (living together for 1) and I’m 22 and he’s 27. When we first got together I was studying at university and he was earning a lot so used to spoil me rotten and pay for everything. However when I graduated and got a good paying ... (394 words)

Is he interested or just weird? How do I get his number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So im wondering if this guy is interested or not..or if hes just weird. I see this guy at the bar every now and then.My drunk friend told him I liked him a cpl of months ago and she said that hes not interested.One night we played pool together and talked for over an hr about ... (274 words)

I told him I had a problem with porn, now I watch it myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll get to the point. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I love him very much. Each passing day I want and need and taste for him. I have had many abusive relationships. I told him that I have a problem with por... (244 words)

Do I wait for her to come and find me, or do I go and find her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Madam, I am a 29 year old male. About 3 weeks back, I met a girl in the university I attend. she's passed 18. Well, we believe the same doctrines as christians and when I approached her, she was very responsive. She seemed to enjoy my company but gave me hints that she... (389 words)

I like him but he likes her and I want him to like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! right, i have a problem, obviously. There's this guy i like, and i have done for a few months, ever since we met at this party, well ive been seeing a lot of him because i hang out with his mates and everything, and it's not just me, some of my girls are there too. ... (165 words)

I have a boyfriend but am attracted to my female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey Im not entirely sure of my sexuality because i like a guy and he like me, but i also like this girl i hang out with alot. Shes really pretty but im not sure if he feels the same way about me. I want to try something different like in the porn videos i watch sometimes... (111 words)

Am I being a gullible fool?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hey all i really need advice. this is quite long so forgive me and hopefully you may help me. last year i split with my long term boyfriend-we were dating for 7 years and during that time he was emotionally and on 2 occasions physically abusive. by the end of my relation... (535 words)

Torn between two wonderful men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some major help. I'm torn between two wonderful men. The first one I'll call him Fred and the other I'll call Matt. Fred and I have been together for 11yrs. I love him so much. We've been through so much. But a couple of years ago my father passed away and he ... (361 words)

I am feeling very unattractive at the moment

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering about what some of the biggest turn ons and turn offs for single girls are? I'm just not feeling very attractive at the moment! So i want to do something about it. I dont mean to change who i am, i just want to change the way i act and look but still be the ... (98 words)

How do I cope with conflicting emotions while continuing to support him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating a great guy I met at work. We have known each other for almost two years and been dating for six months. Over these months I've gotten to know him much better and we have gotten quite close. However, we've had to go through some difficult situations toget... (284 words)

Is this a mid life crisis or has she fallen out of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age - Hello, What I am finding most difficult is I don't understand what happened to my wife. After 17 years of apparent happiness and what on the face of it was a life with so many good things happening and ALSO to look forward to but BANG she says 'I love you but I'm not in love ... (366 words)

She says she doesn't want a relationship but we text for hours

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - when the girl i have feelings for says she has feelings 4 me but she doesnt want a relationship right now. we stoppd speakn for a few days then i tld her how i really felt. for the last couple of days weve 6een txtn for hours. i jux got dne txtn her since 10 till 2. i dont knw ... (74 words)

I really like him but am afraid he might like a different girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy I like soooo much. However, he's younger than me. Is that a problem? And I don't even know if he likes me. He never noticed me the first couple of days. Then I noticed him looking at me and when I caught his eye, he smiled. He keeps telling me that I have a... (131 words)

I really like him but he seems to like my friend instead

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

8 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Im quite young but really mature. I can sort out my friends lives easy. Im fully ‘out‘ so everyone knows so guy friends are rare, but theres this boy. I love him, he sorta likes me (in a friend way) and everyone says we look cute together. At first I liked his friend (who ... (80 words)

How can I marry the man I love when my family is against it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I stay in Mumbai, India. I have got engaged with one guys but I don’t want to marry with that person as I love some else who is married person and has 1 child but he is divorced. I have informed them about this to my parent they are against it they say that I have to marry with ... (193 words)

I really want to tell my partner I crossdress.

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8 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *Op's own title* Hi all, Hope someone can help, I am a closet crossdresser and live with my female partner of 5 years. I only do it in the privacy of our home and I am totally devoted to my partner. I really want to tell her but I am afraid of her reaction. I have built u... (101 words)

Just got married to a wonderful man, but I'm in love with my best friend

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* Hello Cupid, I'm extremely conflicted, I just got married to an amazing guy who I love like a friend (he feels the same way but we have four kids so it seem to be the right thing to get married). Here is the issue, I have been in love with my best friend ... (174 words)

I feel like I have no room for error with my depressed girlfriend.

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8 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, hopefully someone out there can help shed light on my situation. My girlfriend and I have been together almost two years. We love each other very much and always try to help each other succeed and be happy. We also both show our love to each other everyday. Or at ... (333 words)

He wont leave his 'baby momma' right now, .. is he worth waiting for?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my boyfriend about 3 springs ago this spring.... well fell in love almost right away....he has a girlfriend who he has 2 kids with their young,....but he wont leave her right now because of court and her acknowledgements he works and suppports his family own his own house ... (152 words)

Why isn't he giving me attention now we are going out?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Since the begining of December this guy has been staring at me in class talking about me nonstop even when I'm not there ( say my friends who are there) and he has been holding my bags holding my hand always offering to let me cheat of him ect. Well he just asked two days ago ... (168 words)

I've never had an orgasm and need some pointers.

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have never had an orgasm through masturbation, and I was just wondering if I could have some pointers. (I am a girl.) Thanks!... (26 words)

His Coworker, Me, and Him.

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title* Boyfriend tells me he doesn't want me thinking he doesn't want me talking to anybody that he knows that certain people are going to cross my path that I cant avoid, that it's life. He tells me he talks to this female co-worker and that it's only brief and simp... (150 words)

Which ex to choose, ..the cheater, or the emotionally closed one?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating this guy for 1.5 yrs.He was caring, sexy, respectful, educated. The problem was that he was against commited relationships. He assured me that he wasn't dating anyone else and he wasn't interested in doing so. But he couldn't call me his girlfriend. He also had ... (637 words)

How do I appear confident and sexy in bed?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so im a virgin and im uncomfortable in some ways example: i dont like when he tells me to take his clothes off....because im a little shy...and i dont feel comfortable moaning....do guys like when a girl moans?? anyway i want to seem confident and sexy...any tips on what guys ... (56 words)

How do I get over a teacher crush?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help with this. This school year, I've developed quite the crush on my teacher, and I actually do believe I might love him. But he's my teacher, I'm half his age and he's engaged. I want to know how I can get over him for good, because really, any feelings I have f... (112 words)

I wish I could remember. why am I stuck in the past?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a huge problem i really need help with. Over 4 months ago i got back with my ex i had been with since i'v been a teenager. We have both gone throug rough times together and i have suffered badly from depression in the past. We were both hard to deal with but loved ... (272 words)

Parent's have gone too far

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I posted on here a few times about a breakup but now I have another problem, my parents. I’m sorry this is long. They are very young and very strict. They have always made me feel horrible about any decision I have made in my life for as long as I can remember. T... (1101 words)

Am I pregnant or something else?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im a little freaked out but not that much. I have been spotting for a week and a half now. I am not supposed to start my period for another 6 days. i am on birth control and this has never happened before ever while on birth control. also i have missed a day or 2 of ... (128 words)

IM troubles

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in my late twenties. I run my IM while at work, it's OK with my work provided I get my work done. I usually keep my window minimized to my system tray. Occasionally I notice I have a message, pop open the window, respond, and go back to work. Well my boyfriend (31) w... (136 words)

My problem is, I want sex

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want sex but I want to stay a virgin. I still love my ex very much although he doesn't anymore. Should I look for a fck buddy or ask him to be my fck buddy? I'm afraid I'll get more bonded to him? What should I do??? Help! I'm 18. :( i m so confused. i want sex so badly but... (74 words)

How do I deal with the reality of this change?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when you realize that your ex doesn't like you as a person? In most of my relationships, the guys said they liked me, and even wanted to spend a lot of time around me. But, when it came to romance, after the first few months, they weren't interested in me... (452 words)

I'm 15 and a father

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8 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, and going to job corp with my gf. I got her pregnant and job corp allows pregnant woman to live there with benefits and I know i'm going for sure because well I love her, and she has my kid. I refuse whoever suggests to terminate the pregnancy. Anyways...don't like say ... (67 words)

Was told, I talk to much and I am annoying.

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - today i was told straight up to my face that i talk to much and that i am annnoying. this really hurt me a lot because this is one of my biggest problems and whenever someone says anything about it it really hurts me. i dont no how to stop and i really need to please help me!... (58 words)

Looks at other women while talking to me. Haven't confronted him yet.

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8 May 2010 (F)

- Hi I have been dating this guy for 18 months and I really thought it was my imagination, but whenever we go out to a pub for a drink, I see that when he is talking to me, he isnt actually looking at me, he is eyeing up the barmaid or passing females from afar!!!!!!!!! ... (107 words)

Nervous. First time haging out alone.

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm hanging out with this guy I really like next weekend...and I'm wondering what I should do. Hes my friend...and we've hung out before...but this is our first time hanging out alone... I'm not sure what I should wear... or any flirting techniques I should use... Help?... (53 words)

Would hanging out with him but without her be okay?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, I'll get straight to the point. I want to hangout with one of my best friends boyfriend. Just as "friends" though. Nothing more. I do like him and have before they even started going out, but now that they are, im limited. Maybe just go to the movies with other friends or ... (101 words)

Yellowish discharge, bad? a way to stop it?

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - everytime i go to the bathroom or change or something there is a yellowish discharge on my underwear. its been like that ever sence i can remember but is it bad to have the discharge? and is there some way to stop it?... (43 words)

We are in love but afraid to be with each other

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a beautiful future with great ... (607 words)

Three year dating and he will not get an STI check

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8 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner will not get an STI check up even though he has had numerous sexual partners and even a son! We have been together for three years but I have wanted to wait until we had sex. What should I do?... (46 words)

He is Mr Right but I can't commit

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8 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - when i'm with my boyfriend i love him and feel like i could be with him always. he's affectionate and sweet. i feel very lucky. but when we're apart - we live in different cites and sometimes don't see each other for a couple weeks - i feel like: OMG what am i thinking... (77 words)

Does this mean he has had his fun and is now done with me?

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8 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Basically i have known this guy for about 3 weeks now...we used to text eachother everyday up until we met last thursday for a drink... i went back to his house and left the next morning; amazing night and we both said we felt very relaxed around eachother... we then met ag... (245 words)