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36-40,
*gyzee
writes:Hi, i sincerely need your help. Its concerning my eldest sister, she's been married for almost 2years now, but marriage for her has been hell. On several occasions due to quarrels, he throws her belongings outside and changes the locks of the house, this is so painful cos she keeps coming back home, to be honest, its hard to see a smile on her face, and they are still married without a child yet, cos she cant think of having a child now. This situation is really getting to me, divorce is the last option. What can i do on my part?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Bruce, when you put your cursor over the flag its name pops up.
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reader, Ngyzee +, writes (5 May 2010):
Ngyzee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHoneygirl Thank you so much, u've been helpful. And Bruce Lee, i think i'll go with yours. And i'm a Nigerian. Thank you
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reader, bruce lee +, writes (4 May 2010):
 I agree with honeygirl. Your sister should see a Lawyer if she needs advice. A lot of people in the world are not happy with how their lives have turned out. Take me for instance.
But getting back to your sister, maybe she should get the divorce and then celebrate with a glass of wine. Make sure it's just one drink though. We don't want anyone to become an alcoholic.
Or if you think divorce is a bad idea, see if you can bluff her husband. Give him a warning to clean up his act.
By the way, I don't recognise the flag near your name. What country is it?
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (4 May 2010):
you should talk to her and ask her what does she want to happen, does she want to stay with this guy or would she prefer to return to her parents house?
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Hun, if your sister is asking for your advice, then in these circumstances she needs to see a lawyer. However if she has not asked for your advice then you are going to have to leave her to decide whether she is happy with being treated in that manner or she wants out of the marriage.
Honeygirl
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