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writes:I've been dating my girl friend seriously for about a month. Last night I told her I was on the way home from the bar with the guys at 7pm. Long story short I didn't show up till 9pm. She had told me she was cooking dinner for me and seemed fairly excited...... She was very upset because I didn't just tell her It was gonna be so long. This is the first mess up and I gotta say I really like this girl. It took me awile to gain her trust I dont wanna mess this one up. Advice, help, anyting. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Apologize with a bouquet of flowers and a box of chocolates. Take what she throws at you and do not repeat that mistake again.
If she still likes you , she will give you another chance.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Can you remember why it took you 2 hours to get home? Tell her that.
If I was her and I'd cooked dinner and was expecting you around 7ish, I'd be p***** off too! Did you call her within those two hours to say you'd be late?
If you didn't call but just showed up 2 hours late shows a lack of respect for her and her feelings. When my BF's running late he just sends me a quick text to tell me so...it's not that hard. Were you drunk?
Anyway, you need to apologise, tell her you didn't mean to do what you did and if you can, tell her why it took two hours to get home.
And if you like her so much, you better not do this again and make sure you're on your best behaviour.
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