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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a friend, a guy, and we kinda liked each other since 2 years ago but he didn't make any kind of improvement and signs to make this more serious and so I kinda flirt with his best friend too, at the time. And so, I'm now in a relationship with the best friend. A few months ago I started to like my friend again and we chatted for a few times and I told him how I feel about him and how I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, his bestfriend. He told me he still likes me too. But problem is, my boyfriend is like, very attached to me, like a love to death thingy. And I started to worry that if I broke up with him, I will ruin their friendship. And I'm also confused because my friend has never showed any kind of signs to make the thing between us a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010): Listen, for one thing, you'll probably just become some chick they both banged back in high school. Classy. You should have more self repect & honor not to mention RESPECT. Do you want to be 1 of 2 people who screwed this guy over in the worst possible way? His friend- this guy- is obviously a dog. And you sound like a selfish self centered little girl. If he would cut his best friends throat by stealing his girl, How much respect do you think he's going to give you Honey? And you're debating on whether or not to act like a tramp & a skank & betray a guy who trusts & loves you for that dude? Just Don't sell out like that. It sucks to be a girl who cheats on her boyfriends with his best friends, anywhere you go. It opens the range of believable rumors about you amoung other things my friend. And if you ever develope real morals you might feel bad about this one day. But for now- don't fool yourself- he IS just a slimey guy you can;t trust..and you'de be a low down woman to participate in that. But I would suggest, if all else fails- just talk to your boyfriend about how you really feel- so he can dump you & distance himself from both of your selfishness & backstabbing ways. I wouldn't keep sugar coating this if I were you. Grow up & look at the bigger picture. How would you handle your best friend running off with him once he's yours? It's not like he's not that type of guy...
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reader, tenfold +, writes (4 May 2010):
Let me put myself into the shoe of your boyfriend. Let's see... I'll be very hurt... I'll be very emotional... I'll hate my best friend very much... I'll not want to see you any more but deep inside me I still love you... That's about it.I'd say better make yourself clear, which is love and which is crush?
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