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writes:Hello all,I am gay, and I am having a dilemma. I've searched so many websites, and they all have the same answers for my question. After not finding anything different on the websites, I figured it'd be interesting to receive real opinions from real people.What are some signs that indicate a guy likes you?I've read some of them, and I end up confused.So there's this guy that recently came up to talk to me. And now we talk a lot, and there are points in our conversation when we don't talk to each other but smile as we make eye contact with one another. On the other hand, I might be reading to much into it.Essentially, before I make a first move, I'd like to be aware of what are the signs of interest in a person (particularly a guy. One more thing I appreciate any advice coming from anyone, but I would especially appreciate the advice of anyone who's willing to admit how they expressed their interest for someone they like. As in, have you went out of your way to talk to them? Thanks :] Reply to this Question
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reader, crazybeast  +, writes (14 May 2010):
 from personal experiance all you can do is put your self out of the way.
when i fell for my best friend we very much spoke like you do, speaking for hours, laughing alot around each other, staring into each others eyes... the works, after awhile of this i did decide to confront him i said right to his face that i liked him and has had enough with the subtle yet obvious flirts his reply was a little unplanned tho, he said he wasnt into guys but if he was he would have asked me a long time before.
this gave me 2 thoughts 1 he honestly didnt meen anything by it and is straight or 2 that he was closeted and needed some sort of release because he was scared or some other reason.
not sure if this helps you but it did for me, we still do this type of talkin, never apart laughing and always lookin at each other but it has made us more compfortable and open to each other, i say only good things can come out of this.
i wish you very good luck with this situation x
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Ask him if he likes you? you have to go for it and tell him that you are attracted to him and that you enjoy spending time with him. his reaction will either confirm what you want is the case or it will let you know he is not interested in you in THAT way you will be free
do it! talk to him directly
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (4 May 2010):
Ask him if he likes you? you have to go for it and tell him that you are attracted to him and that you enjoy spending time with him. his reaction will either confirm what you want is the case or it will let you know he is not interested in you in THAT way you will be free
do it! talk to him directly
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): Honestly, its very hard to tell. if the person cares for you and has a desire to get to know you. then there's probably something there. Eye contact is very important. If he looks at you directly in the eyes then he might have a thing for you. Get to know the person better before you jump into conclusions.
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