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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

All the symptoms and still no period! Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello ladies, your advice is very much needed, i had unprotected sex with my fiance on the 28th of march (9 days after my period started) i have a cycle of 26 to 28 days, so i got scared and took the morning after pill which caused me to have spotting a week later for about a ... (121 words)

Help!! Where did I go wrong???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I've always known that a close female friend of mine has had a thing for me. I've always had a soft spot for her, but never really acted upon it. Until recently where I realised I've liked her, and always have done. We've always been texting frequently to and fro, about g... (561 words)

How can you tell that hes not after your money or expect you to pay for things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am new to the dating world, here goes. i have been dating a guy for the last 2 months. at first 3 dates he paid for everything a gentleman and now we share which im happy with. my question is i dont know if expecting too much from him, but how i see it i would prefer it lik... (365 words)

I need him to grow up!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I am 20 years old and my bf is 23, we meet usually twice a week, for sex most of the time, he only text me, no calls! I'm the one who rarely calls.. we had a great romance a long time ago, he is my first real bf and I still love him like I did the first day. all of this see... (132 words)

Can a guy tell if you're a virgin or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So i'm 20 and lost my virginity recently. It was with a guy I sort of know. I was drunk at the time and so was he. He didn't know I was a virgin and I haven't told him. I don't think it's a good idea he knows. Is there a way he could tell? I didn't bleed or anything but ... (100 words)

Will I be able to meet a future girlfriend without relying on my work/occupation to find her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 at university and I'm currently doing a masters in Civil Engineering. I've had 2 girlfriends before and after my last one I decided to concentrate on my exams and wait until I start working (after I've done a bit of travelling). ALthough because I'm in a male dominate... (84 words)

Is there hope for change or should I just let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out my bf had lied to me about something very intimate. In the weeks that followed he showed no willingness to talk about it and said very clearly that talking about it makes him feel uncomfortable. The fact that after almost a year or being together he doesnt feel a... (312 words)

Can I believe what he tells me or is he just playing with my emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i need some advice here. I have known a guy for the last three years. At first he was my boss and then i trianed and am now the same level as him and still work for thhe same company although a different location. when we worked together i never showed any interest in him ... (520 words)

Why all the mixed signals...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known this boy at my college for 3 years he always gives me all the signals he likes me so much, eye contact body language perfect! so he asks me out in the 3rd yr i was nervous and scared because of my past experiences and i didnt want to make the same mistake but at ... (279 words)

Confused... Am I a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know how it all started, but i know i wasn't the 1st to make the move, yah, am 6-7 years older than her, but i know i will never think of something like that... it all started a long time ago, we will play, make love and all that, before she relocated last 3 years to ... (93 words)

I'm so hurt... why did they not invite me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't wanna seem like a selfish witch, but my best friend B and I are pretty much known as best friends of the school. We have another friend M, and we started going places together the 3 of us lately. But I found out that they went by themselves to hang out today from ... (131 words)

How can I stop her flirting with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im going through a tough time atm. My dog died, my grandad died, i split up with 2 bfs in 2 months, my mates are all falling out and im very delicate. The worst thing is that my best mate has a boyfriend who is perfect for her but he is everything i want. He is all the things ... (263 words)

I'm dating my step brother but we're not blood. Is this so wrong???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old female dating my step-brother who is almost 18, but am I wrong? We love each other. His parents are freaking out, because we are step, we are not blood kin, what is the big deal? What should we do?... (48 words)

Now that we're broken up I wonder... did I focus too much on superficial things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I listen to my gut, or listen to my heart? When my boyfriend and I were together, I had some worries. We had a difficult time having deep conversations... most of our conversations were about each other's day, that kind of thing. but we really couldn't talk about thing... (488 words)

Is it just my heart talking? Why do I feel so hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) age 41-50 - hello everyone! I wonder if anyone would be so kind as to listen to my problem and offer some advice. A year ago I made friends with a lovely guy - we hit it off so well right away and became very close friends. I soon developed a crush on him, but as he is gay and with a p... (449 words)

Help!!! Why did he leave??????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so i dated someone 28 years old for four years. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter arguments and me ignoring him he ... (527 words)

Why is my friend behaving so weird with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my friend behaving so weird? i thought it would pass but its gone on for so long now! Hes said stuff in the past such as we;re great friends, we will always be friends, i'll never fall out with you, i love you(as a friend). But.... When we go out he wont speak to m... (316 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm eighteen years old and ive been with my boyfriend for about four months. even though that seems like no time at all, both me and my boyfriend feel like we're "the one" for the other.he proposed after just a couple weeks. lately though, it seems he doesnt really want me a... (322 words)

Is it normal to still wonder about the break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to still wonder about the break up? Sometimes I feel like I am very dense when it comes to relationships and breakups. Often, it takes me a while to really accept that my partner and I, are, indeed, broken up. I think this is in large part due to dating people in... (472 words)

I am pregnant and he wont marry me so I left him. Do you think he will come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years and are very much in love. We are now expecting a child together and happy. I want to get married before the child come but he doesnt. It means alot to me and its all i think about. We are both in college. Today I left him ... (79 words)

Do you think these are good gifts for my boyfriend's 17th bday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, it's my boyfriend's birthday tomorrow and I urgently need to know if what I've got him is an ok present. We're 17 (well, he will be tomorrow) and have been together over a year. I got him some fred perry trainers and a wallet. I also got him a necklace-chain w... (172 words)

I had a friend give him my number, but he hasn't called. Will he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! I met this guy and we flirted for about 3 days (that's all I saw him) and then I never saw him again. I am "friends" with someone who works with him on Facebook and asked him to give him my number. His friend said he gave it to him last Thursday, 5/6, and its now... (95 words)

He lied and told me he lost his phone when he really just didnt want to talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, there's a guy, that's been a jerk, and I don't know what to do! I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now, things were going fine and we went out on saturday. On the sunday i txted him to thank him for paying/thank his parents for cooking, and that i'm busy... (318 words)

At my new school do I pretend to be straight or come out as gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - New School New Chapter! but I can't hide myself as well as before! The thing is people say I'm shy when I only am when I'm around guys and ages ago I started to see why. I'm gay and in my old school I couldn't really hide it anymore and even though I hide by talking about vi... (116 words)

How do I get her to leave me alone without hurting her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I need a bit of advice on how to let someone down gently. i started seeing this girl basically just as a rebound and we had sex a few times. I never told her she was a rebound for me and i know, morally this is wrong. But now she behaves like we're in a relationship. im... (196 words)

I love my ex, but our relationship just cant continue.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I love my ex, but our relationship, sadly, can't continue. He has a hard time accepting this, and he's really heartbroken. I'm really worried about him, since he's suffering so much. I'm sad about the break up, of course, but I already accepted this relationship can't be. There ... (128 words)

A boy on the bus looks at me and texts someone. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Baisically, there's this really cute boy its been nearly a year since i 1st saw him. Hes on the bus.. i know on the bus nothing's gonna happen. But he stares at me on some occasions and always texts infront of me then looks again.. i dont know what this means? is he talkin ... (100 words)

My boyfriend is bored with the relationship and unromantic

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend isn't romantic as much anymore. I feel like he's not attracted to me. When I confronted him about it, he said he's still a romantic guy but just can't be romantic with me anymore for some reason. What do you think is the problem and what should I do? We've been ... (68 words)

What do you think of the crossdressing scene?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. Iam a 42 yr old male who likes to wear girls panties an other girls underware an girls clothes. Yes iam a crossdresser. I was wondering what girls or other crossdressers think about the scene. My female cousin use to dress me as little girl when i was very young. ... (82 words)

Pregnant, feeling alone and trapped, with no job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 years old. i feel so down and depressed, been up and down for a year now. i spend most my life crying stuck in my room. i have no job, eventhough i try everyday to get one and have been failing at them all, im pregnant, and i have a boyfriend who isn't here for me enough, ... (183 words)

How can I get rid of these funny little feelings atm whilst we are trying to re build our trust ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. I lost trust in my boyfriend a few months ago, i didnt have belief in what he said, through social events and thing like.. and we broke up. A few months later we spoke about everything and we sorted out alot of things and we got back together :) However occasionally... (126 words)

We used to like each other now but how do I get him to leave me alone now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I have been trying to get over because of his past he is a cheater I written many post about him and they all told me the same thing basically for the whole of 2009 we have liked each other and said we didnt for fear of rejection then i found out he called me ... (196 words)

My mate was abused--how do I get her to go to counselling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Me and my partner are engaged and we are hapy together. Although this, I want to know how best to cummunicate about the issue below:= My parner has gone through a touch sexual rough time and I feel that she is a bit too dependent on me. I feel that she wants me t... (236 words)

Hes went through my friends but won't go out with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. Sorry its long, but its very complicated. So there is a guy i have liked for about 4 years now (since i first met him), lets call him a. He is really nice, kind, considerate, funny, all of that. Firstly he went out with one me my friends. Now i think of myself as a g... (381 words)

"The guy I like doesn't want to take me to the prom!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

Finding latex gloves and using them

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi.. Is it worth getting latex gloves for when fingering my partner's genitals and where are the best place to get them?... (27 words)

Can a relationship work after the lies he told me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated this man for a while and found out he was married. I walked away because I did not want to be in a relationship built on deceit and lies. Recently we started dating again. He told me that he divorced his wife. He tells me that he wants to build a life with me. I ... (83 words)

Why didn't my guy friend cared that I got sexually harass?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I told one of my guy friends that i got almost harassed sexually looking for support and we were close. Now Were not talking to one another and he hasn't talked to anyone or has been online. I thought he would care but he didn't respond when I told him and then I freaked out ... (103 words)

My financial situation is making me depressed, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need some advice. i broke up with my fiance after 7 years last year. he left me on the verge of bankruptcy and didnt care. i was left with all the debt -55,000 now im at home living at my mums due to me having to do an iva. im so depressed-i was having a terribl... (143 words)

Relics from his last relationship - Should I ask him to get rid of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi There, My boyfriend of 15 months and I are about to move overseas together - I've been transferred to the UK branch of the company I currently work for. We've been living together for the past year and have just come through a rough patch in our relationship, having to do wi... (275 words)

Is it worth trying to get him back or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How can i get my man back. We have been together 3 years and i thought we both loved each other very much. Recently he told me that i whinge and he wants out. He is very stressed right now and i think thats the main problem, its not me! Is it worth a shot at trying to get ... (71 words)

One minute he is fine with me, and the next he turns incredibly shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would a guy talks to you fine one minute and then not the next? I dont mean it as in a "player" way. but like one time we all go out he may say a few things to me, like just say something hes been doing etc(he wont talk a lot) and then the next he just talks to the others ... (105 words)

A very complicated mess with my wife, the girl I lost my virginity to, my best friend and now the boy I have found out is my son......

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - When I was in school I was on the swim team. We had an away meet which was the regional meet so the school put us up in a hotel. This wasn't chapperoned very well and I went to the room of some girls from a school that was from a rival school in my home town. I knew them ... (759 words)

We broke up because of this sticky situation but we still love each other, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a bit of a problem... 2 weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up :( we broke up because he is going to work away soon and I wouldn't see him for upto a month or two at a time or even be able to talk to him because he won't have any phone reception or email or anything ... (375 words)

How can I get our spark back or should I just give up on our relationship like he has???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now we ve always been good together and can never keep our hands off each other but over the past couple of months his started to sort of distance himself he hardly touches or talks to me i love him to bits and i need some advise on how i ... (76 words)

Should I stop being friends with him after all that has happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 , and really in love with this guy , he is 16 . I added him on facebook , he was a friend of a friend , and she said he was really sweet and i should get to know him. So i did , but eventually all my friends got involved with him and they all fancied him , including ... (586 words)

I'm terrified that my baby is not ok or that I'm not even pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi Im 12 weeks Pregnant with my first child im so Excited! i have my First scan next week so i can see the baby. My partner is coming with me. im just scared they say there is no baby there, or that there is something wrong with it. But i must be pregnant because i have a... (127 words)

I’m hurt, saddened, angry, betrayed, confused. What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been happily (or so I thought) married 3 years. I’m a good husband to her, I love her with all my heart, treat her well and always look after her (her words previously). Major area I am lacking in at the moment is finances as I am unemployed so she is the ... (257 words)

Am I really attracted to my husband's best friend or is this only happening because my marriage is on the rocks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I fancy my Husbands best friend - is it just because my marriage is on the rocks? My husband and i have been together for 10 years but only married for 3. Earlier this year we began to have major problems in our relationship and therefore jointly decided to have couselling ... (216 words)

How can I find out if he missed me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do about my guy friend? When we met we were so close then he drifted apart. Now he ignores me and doesn't treat me like a friend. This makes me so sad. So after two years of heartbreak about this guy knowing that I liked him and not reacting I told him if he ... (170 words)

I'm questioning our relationship - if I have doubts does this mean he is not right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I feel like i'm in a mental cloud at the moment. I seemingly are unable to make a decision as i want to be sure its the right one when i do. I have been with my bf for a year a half we split funnily enough at the same time last year when we first got together - he ... (527 words)

I've never fancied anyone before and I don't know how to handle the situation! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I need advice! Sorry if this turns out as a long mess but I’m confused. I’ve got an infatuation with a boy in college with me. I don’t know what I’m thinking let alone him, so any help and I’ll be happy. I’ve never fancied anyone before. It’s a big deal for me to be inter... (473 words)

Does he want me or are we just good friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a problem with a 'friend' of mine. We are both 24, college educated. We have been friends since we were 15, in July 2008 things began to get very intense. When I say intense I mean we had more contact, we have never kissed or had sex. We text every day, I usually get ... (250 words)

Is this relationship I have with a 31 year old man wrong?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I've really only been attracted to older men (mostly teachers and other figures of relative authority, etc. I don't appreciate guys my age cause they're all terribly immature) and I love a guy who's 31 - that's 15 years older than me. I love him because he is the ... (517 words)

How do I make her overcome jelousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my lovely girlfriend have been dating for six years.the problem is that she is too clingy,every now n then i will say once or twice a month i will go to friend braai have something to drink or so,the problem is she normaly send me sms or phones now and then asking when i ... (77 words)

Do affairs ever lead to successful marriages?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Where to start? I want to ask this differently than others have. Have you had an affair and it worked out? I'm single and have never been married. I teach at a university and had an affair with a student, and it lasted long after class was over and she earned the A in class and ... (270 words)

Is my boyfriend not over his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know there have been a million questions asked about this, but I really need somebody's help. It is driving me crazy constantly thinking about it. I've been dating this really lovely guy for about 5 months now. We're happy together, and he tells me he loves me everyday. ... (673 words)

How much space and distance should I give him? I do not want to lose him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of ten years has all of the sudden starting to question our relationship and whether we should stay together. He is saying that he is unhappy and feels likes there is no hope. But he still loves me but it feels different and that he does not want to lose me in ... (378 words)

We have only been dating for a month and she is moving abroad, where does this leave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been seeing this girl for a month. shes told me she really likes me in a text. also told a mutual friend. She told me shes off to ibiza in about 2 weeks to work til september. Im ment to be going out there at some point maybe july/august for a month maybe t... (94 words)

How can I approach the girl I like when we do not even speak to each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that i know and i have interest in her but i don't know how to approach her since we are not communicating.pls help.... (27 words)

He wants me to abort the other man's baby but then he wants me to accept his stealing son! I don't think these conditions are fair....

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have separated due to financial issues, his disrespectful stealing son, and his disrespectful self. Anyway I became pregnant, he want to reconcile but cant see himself raising another mans baby. So in other words he want me to abort. But tells me its my ... (163 words)

I think my colleagues are taking advantage of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really frustrating problem at work which I need advice on. I seem to be the only one in my office who has paracetamol for headaches, colds, pain etc.... So my colleauges instead of buying themselves any come and scrounge off me! I don't normally mind giving peop... (185 words)

Should I move on or try and re-kindle our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship over 2 years ago. I was in the relationship on and off for about a year. It may not seem like a long time, but there was something about this girl and I could never get over her. Around Christmas (December) I told her that I didnt want to talk anymore.... (229 words)

How can I get away, without totally ruining my life further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there hero's. So I'm feeling really lost in my life at the moment. I seem to be running on a loop. Changing some things and making the same mistakes again with others. I feel I need to get away from everyone in my life just for a while so I can clear my mind. I've ... (155 words)

Does the greatest happiness come through having a partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, and I don't care too much whether I do or don't. But I have been thinking about something lately. I need to know how one finds the courage to face up to their fears? I lack motivation to leave the house sometimes, and i... (223 words)

My period is a bit late -- is it just stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My period is 2 days late and I have not had any symptoms that it will come (I usually feel some cramps a week before it starts). I've been having protected sex with my boyfriend and there have been no accidents with the condom. I am not on the pill. I took a pregnancy test t... (130 words)

Should I let him go and be a man or will he be happier with only one woman: ME?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need the guidance of a few red blooded males. I love my man very much, we have a lot in common, he is very smart and manly, and very attractive. He has acheived a very respectable amount in his life, not only money wise, but experience wise. We've been together for over a ... (190 words)

The girl who advertised on-line for casual sex is using my sister's photo!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) age 41-50 - A few weeks ago, I responded to an online ad for casual sex. I'm 27 and single, and I was planning to use protection, so I didn't think it was that big of a deal. I chatted online with the girl who placed it a few times, and she seemed really cool, with a sweet personality, and ... (214 words)

Should I give him up or wait until his family holiday is over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

13 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - iv been seeing a guy for little while now and he wants me exclusive but he has a girlfriend of 1 yr who he only sees once a fortnight and said hes just waiting till hes been on holiday with the kids with her as he promised them .i really like him as he is first guy to turn my ... (90 words)

I have strong feelings for her but she says I get on her nerves

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13 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all. What does it mean wen the girl who said we should 6e friends says I get on her nerves. She doesn't knw why she says. I jux try 2 talk with her because she doesn't really talk 6acc. Jux reacts to what I say. I don't try to purposely piss her off 6ut I always manage 2. ... (120 words)

How do I be there for him but give him his space?

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently started going out with a army guy and we got really close but now he is saying im rushing him even though he initiates the steps how do i give him space but still let him know that i am behind him 100% its not so much that we just met we have known each other for ... (98 words)

What is considered small?

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well i have alot of ?'s sorry bout it bein long, i turned 15 on march 13th. My bra size is a B cup most the time. But some times i fit into a C cup depanding on what type and where i get it. Does this seem small? Every one always says it doesnt matter your still growi... (305 words)

Should I wait for a guy who is crazy about me or see if the guy who isn't sure will figure out if I'm what he wants?

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Wondering if I should stay with my boyfriend. I'm 6 months pregnant. My boyfriend works out of town a lot. Last visit he came into town and on the second day said, "We need to talk". He says he loves me but isn't sure if he is in love with me. Said we argue too much for his... (344 words)

What's his deal? Should I just move on?

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm in this relationship, 11 months near the end of this one. Some things are wonderful and them some things just make me want to tear my hair out and smother him with a pillow. I love my boyfriend to death and I try to show him when I can that I do appreciate him. He ... (398 words)

What can I do to keep him interested?

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, I am with a guy on and off 3 years now, we always go back to eachother and the passion is still here but I don't find enough time to be with him and I feel like he may be doing something behind my back...so I need to know what should I do to keep him close to me ... (109 words)

Why is my ex acting like he still loves me when he has a g/f

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13 May 2010 (F)

age - My question why is my ex acting like he still luvs me when he has a new girlfriend he still wants to see me talk to me everyday text have sex if i let him but tells me he has feelings for the new gf.... (45 words)

I really care for my teacher and would like to give him a kiss on the cheek

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I really really....like my teacher. I suppose I am not allowed to say Love. I would feel so bad if I did...he has 2 kids and a wife..but he does not seem that happy. I mean he does but at the same time he is kinda worn out from all of it. I wanna kiss him on the cheak i ... (214 words)

Friend acts like he's attracted to me but says he isn't gay

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13 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - me and well.. lets call him tom... me and tom have been good friends for about 2 years now, best friends even, he knew i was gay cause im open about it but not obviously gay... about a year ago my atraction to him went from friendship to wanting to be his lover, i know that ... (234 words)

G/f flirts every day and its really getting old!

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13 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - OK my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9months, we have are good days and bad days, i usually start the fights. ino were only in high school but she flirts every single day. it gets really old quick and i dont know if i should just take it or keep saying sumthing. But i ... (114 words)

I said I'd have sex with this player, and don't know how to get out of it

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm 14 , and theres this guy I really like , hes 15 We had a little thing going on at the beginning but then he went out with one of my friends. He's a player and really only wants a girl to put out for him , thing is i said I would , it all started off as an innocent... (209 words)

I haven't been in touch for a couple of years -- should I phone?

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to this city to see my girlfriend "Amelia" for the weekend. And I was thinking if during my stay I can meet up with more people.I want to meet up with "Aaron" but here are the problems.. 1) I haven't seen him in over a year.(Last time I saw him was when I went to s... (162 words)

He always says he has to go and he'll call me back but he never does!

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this Guy online and after a month of phone call and emails were met in person. Everything went very well. We talked for hours and have kept in contact. Recently when I call him he always have and excuse to get off the phone and tell me he will call me back but he never ... (95 words)

Questions about a visit to the gyno

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, i'm kind of freaking out and I have a couple questions. Back in December, my mother caught me and my boyfriend of a year, having sex. She blew up and went crazy and was not very happy about it at all. Well, I told her I wouldn't be doing anything anymore. Howe... (203 words)

He's been a good friend and I'm grateful for his help; should I go to the prom with him?

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was asked to prom today by a guy who I consider a good friend for a couple of years and I hang out with him a lot in school. All year he has helped me in a class I have been struggling in. I could tell he has been building up to asking me to prom for a couple of weeks now, ... (183 words)

The only person I have ever loved hates me and it hurts!

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13 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i don't know what to do. the only person i have ever truly loved broke up with me. she wont talk to me, she hates me...and it hurts. the worst thing you can say i did was lie about walking her dog one night. i have been working 2 jobs and going to school. what ever i had i had ... (112 words)