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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:It all started in high school, everyone has said he is a player but for some reason I couldn't help but like him. We like a lot of the same stuff n can sit n talk for hours. He makes me smile just to get a text or be by him. We finally ended up sleeping together 2 years ago (he's 23 n I'm 20) after we did the first time he was only back on a break from texas n went back n I found out he started a reationship with this other girl, he came back n we started talking again, we slept together again n he went out for his bday n we just stopped talking. We finally hung out again the other day n all these feelings come rite back into play again n he finally explains to me what happened how he got trashed n slept with this girl n felt guilty. Now that we hung out some of his same bad attributes come back into play tho like gettin him to actually make plans, n I really would like to try to have a relationship with hime n see how it goes? How do I get past this slump?
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (4 May 2010):
 the only way to attract his attention is to state you would like to date him and if he says no just ignore him.stop sleeping with him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 May 2010):
He felt 'guilty'. Yeah right. He's just telling you what you want to hear. Stop looking at him with those starry eyes for a moment and look at the facts.
1 - Everyone says he's a player.
2 - He slept with you on a break, then went away again and started seeing another girl
3 - Then he came back and you slept together
4 - He got trashed and slept with another girl, then claims that he's guilty.
5 - You have seen that his bad attributes have now come out.
This guy is a user of women. He's not interested in a relationship, he's just interested in getting his own way. You won't be getting anywhere with him. He's only after one thing, and you're wasting your time. Even if he does agree to be your boyfriend, it will only be a matter of time before he's moving on to the next girl. You'd do better to move on from him.
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