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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does she like someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - does she likes someone else? or not this girl i really like and have been talking to seems to be hiding something. when i asked her if she still wants to talk because she see somthing in the future between us she said that she has been thinking a lot about it like everyday an... (109 words)

He wants to be good friends but how can we be if he wont speak back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok please help me im so confused!! My mate and I have been out for s drink, just to hang round together...you know. Hes always been strange round me as he wont talk to me. I never understood why but this particular meet up was a prime example. Normally with anyone... (425 words)

Head over heels for my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi im a boy in year 8 and ive practicallly fallen head over heels for a girl in year 9 in a different high school that im going to in september. i see her at scouts once a week but i speak to her everyday on msn and texting all the time but im not sure what i should do because ... (71 words)

I am at secondary school and I fancy 6-7 people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am at secondary school and I fancy 6-7 people!!! What should I do?... (15 words)

Come on people, am I in denial? Is this an obvious one or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I’m dating a guy who’s most cherished memories are when he was in a band as a singer and both men and women adored him. 1.He’s extremely meticulous about everything he does from dressing to cooking to barbering. He unconscienably spends hours in the bathroom knowing that A.... (541 words)

He seems less interested in me, and is only really happy when we're doing things sexually.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together just over one year now. he has cheated on me in the past but with a girl he has never met, so i let it go by and still love him. but just recently within this past month he seems like he is a bit less interested in me and only seems really ... (124 words)

Advice after weight loss, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess I would start with this: About a year ago I weighed almost 200 lbs and now that I am down to 145, I am noticing a lot more about myself. Normally I just noticed the stretch marks and fat that my body had decorated itself with, but now I notice every little thing. Th... (133 words)

Do I choose the father of my child or ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Who do I choose, between father of my child who I had helped become rich and turned around and started an affair with other woman he just comes from another town or a man that I met on line and had similar problems and just hit it off but he also comes with nothing the same way ... (264 words)

They're not fake. Really.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My question involves my breasts. I was really blessed... i guess with my dads metabolism and my moms big boobs. They are 34DD and still growing. i'm 18 and 5'10" and very small waisted. People (mostly guys) think my boobs are fake... how would i get people to realize that i ... (67 words)

How to talk to a guy who knows you have a crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After being introduced to a new group of people I found myself thinking about this guy all the time, I worked with him and his group for a week however stayed good friends. I really liked him but I didn't let on and we exchanged emails for a long while, having a really good ... (627 words)

17 and pregnant. Can my parents stop me from moving out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old and I live in Kentucky. I am pregnant. Can my parents stop me from moving in with my baby's father? Thank you. ... (27 words)

She makes it seem like I'm the bad guy and says stuff like "you're my bestfriend, my only real friend" which is true.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Long story short, I've been with my girlfriend for 2.5 years. I have found out one year into the relationship she got bored of me and thought I didn't care anymore and started flirting with guys and eventually a year later she leaves me for a guy that tried to rape her and ... (351 words)

Do I believe my male mates who say he's trying it on again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok i meet this guy slept with him twice but since this all happened he has since got a gf anyway he still has work 2 do at my house, i had bought him something and he said to me over txt that have i still got it, i replyed yeah still have it want it wrapped in a bow with lol... (307 words)

I don't understand the things he said when we were making out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I let my boyfriend of 3 weeks finger me yesterday. Before he did he asked if it was okay and I said yes, if I was allowed to touch me. He said "I'm not as exciting." What did he mean by this? I ended up just kind of rubbing him through his jeans because I thought he meant he ... (281 words)

Is there any hope for a girl who's been played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The title describes itself. If you've followed my questions before, then you'll know the guy who I was so "head over heels" with. Today, I don't think I could've been any madder, or felt any more stupid. I'm feeling so hopeless right now... Any advice for a girl who has just ... (541 words)

My parents don't approve of my 20 year-old boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 15 (and appear 17.. to some).and i have always been told that i am very mature for my age as far as the way i behave, talk and the way relate with adults.i am already in the eleventh grade and ready to graduate next year (two years ahead of my proper graduating class). i ... (223 words)

Could my weight be holding him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm overweight, and i've liked this boy for a while now and i talk to him all of the time, he's usually flirty and says he loves me, and i've kissed him before but only when drunk. He offers to walk me home on a weekend and he tells me i'm pretty. All of this makes me think he ... (86 words)

Argument with a co-worker who I thought was fond of me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) age 41-50 - ive just had a huge row with the guy i work with, we've been close friends since he started where i work. i also really like him. i know hes very fond of me and we get on really well. he had some bad problems last year and ive basically been there for him through everything. he ... (160 words)

My husband told me I stole his money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - "OPs own title" Please I really need help. I met my husband 2 years ago. We were in different states. We marry in Islamic way with out any paper work. after that I was still in my state. my husband gave me his checking card to use for money. I never used more then $300 every ... (137 words)

Scared to get in contact with my old friends after everything that happened

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - right, this is a really long story and im in dire need of help so please bare with me =) ok, here goes. . . all through highschool i was best mates with 2 amazing girls, jade and leah. in the last two years we had a fairly huge argument and what jade did was unforgivab... (361 words)

Druggie ex has no interest in our baby

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my bf just broke up about a month ago and he is 18 im 15, and now im pregnant. i just told him like 2 weeks ago, and he says he doesnt want anything to do with it. I havent told my parents yet, he wont help, and on top of that he was a major druggy and still is. i ... (187 words)

Is it ok to act as his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My 2 friends like eachother but the girl wont admit that they are a couple. They guy is completely in love with her and would do anything to make her happy. Is it far to the guy for my friend to act like a girlfriend but not admit that they are a couple?... (53 words)

We share a foot fetish... we didn't do anything wrong did we?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, well I'm a 14 year old. And the thing is, I have a really good friend who's a girl (though not a girlfriend) and we visit each other often. One time when we were assigned on a school project and it was during our exams. She came to my house, the thing is no one was there ... (332 words)

One day a week really isn't enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello every1, me and my bf r goin out for 5 yrs now. he says he really loves me, he also plans for our future, and when we are together we are so right for each othjer, we also have great sex life but the prob is he never initiates our date.he is always busy wit... (179 words)

Opinions on sexy pictures?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - What do people think of allowing your partner to take sexy pictures of you? I'm not talking about nude or even in bra/pants. I'm thinking of a sexy babydoll or chemise, something racy but with no parts showing so if anyone did end up seeing them I wouldn't be completely ... (52 words)

Why do I even like him anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday i told the guy i really, really, like to leave me the hell alone after i saw him all over his ex yesterday. He's all over her but still calls me and asks to hang out. I thought we were done but he keeps talking to me. I realized that i need to let go of him because ... (123 words)

She knows I don't like it but she does it anyway...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and i have been together for about 5 months. shes my ex best friends gf (i kno not a good start already). i really love her and i kno she loves me too.. problem is, she tlks to a lot of guys! and i notice guys are always tryna tlk to her and txt her.. i get mad ... (241 words)

He wants to keep both of us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband left me with 2kids for his mistress. He still contacting me for the kids and every time he visited us, he left me broken hearted. I am mentally and emotionally tortured thinking he will see his mistress again after he saw me. I am confused and hate myself as I ... (130 words)

How can I like him when I hardly know him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) age 26-29 - Is it possible to fancy someone you hardly know? This guy in my year at school is so cute and seems really nice and funny, and i know he likes some of the same stuff as i do. But I've only ever actually spoken to him once, so we're not even 'friends'. But recently I've ... (104 words)

He prioritises his sister over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend treats his sister more like a girlfriend than me. he buys her really expensive things and treats her all of the time, giving her spending money and he says he's going to go half with her for her tv, it's like it's his daughter. i don't know, i just don't und... (182 words)

Confidence issues are keeping me single

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey :) So this is going to make me sound like a complete looser but I seem to be totally incapable of getting a boyfriend! Im 15 and i havent even how a first kiss yet - how pathetic? I have really really really low self-confidence and so im quite quiet around people i don't ... (106 words)

Best friends are going out, but the guy says he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, okay i've known this boy for about 7 years, i went to primary school with him, and then when we went to secondary school we remained friends untill he asked out my best friend, and now he is acting horrible, hes keeps on fighting with me and arguing, but if hes not doing ... (194 words)

Why has my husband gone off sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) age - What are the reasons for a married man to completely gone of sex? I really don't know what to think.. This is my husband ,after 26 years... Around 4 years ago ,he stopped touching,having any sexual feelings all together. Almost feels like a spell... He used to be horny and very... (90 words)

Treats me like dirt, U dump him, suddenly he's perfect!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so here's the deal. i was dating my boyfriend (now ex) for about six months. things seemed fine and great until i found out he was getting pictures from another girl and flirting with other girls via the internet. he is a shy guy and like lives on his computer unless we were ... (301 words)

Do you think he's a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so this morning this girl from my boyfriend work called him, i knew it was a girl because of the way he spoke to her during the conversation he kept asking her how long she was going to be there. And he told her that he would come out that he has to go and brush his teeth and ... (362 words)

He ended a four-year engangement because of paranoia

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MY boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and have always had the perfect relationship, we even got engaged last october.it was so hard getting engaged because our families didnt want us to be together at first so we did everything to get engaged and we did and ... (450 words)

Am I really that bad at sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Almost two years ago i had this boyfriend and he had sex with so many other women. his penis was slightly smaller than average(but i have had small guys before so no biggie) and everytime we had sex he always complained about something. like when i would ride him he complained ... (151 words)

Who do I trust, God or my friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I have been in a relationship with a gal for over 2 years. we agrued alot. till 2 months ago I stopped. after nearly 5 weeks of not fighting or arguing with her, she decided its over... My heart feels broken. Had dreams of mairrage ect.. I believe strongly in God. I have pra... (141 words)

Horrible rash on my legs

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, this morning I shaved my legs in a hurry and stupidly did it without using any soap or cream...or anything but water and the razor. Consequently a now have a rash on my legs and it looks awful!! Needless to say, I haven't done that before and definitely won't try to take ... (76 words)

How do I get out of this terrible, long term relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok..here is it....i have been with this guy for about 11yrs now...things are not good....we are not married, because he says i have an bad attitude..oh well...he always has an excuse of why i have not gotten a ring after all this time....there have been problems between us for ... (234 words)

Should we own up to her partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently bumped into an old friend from school and college, who had been away at university for a while. She had come home for the Summer. She was the girl who took my virginity, and so when I met her again after a while, the inevitable happened. The sex was pleasant but... (112 words)

He begrudges us for being together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's bestfriend is also my bestfriend. Let's call him A. Okay, so I knew A back then, before I even know my boyfriend. A and I used to liked each other but suddenly out of nowhere he got a girlfriend, so I back off. A has now broke up with his girlfriend and before he ... (173 words)

Is it really that bad for me to hang with a 21 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, turning 17 in August. I'm really good friends with a guy but he happens to be 21. My parents know about this friendship and aren't very happy about it. My mom has even threatened to call the cops on him and wants to kick me out of the house. We had a big argument this ... (228 words)

Troubled marriage and I need space to think clearly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to do. I've been married for 2 years; together for 7. I'm not happy with my husband anymore but I can bring myself to be committed to leaving. We've tried counseling and things didn't get better. His temper is out of control to the point he has become ... (274 words)

Things were great until my friend told him about a fling I had before we were together!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been in am amazing relationship for the past 1 and a half. He is loving, caring, more than perfect, appreciates me, notices me..most things i have never even heard of. He is also pretty emotional but hes the type of guy that needs to have a woman in his life. I a... (309 words)

Would a girl say yes when you ask her out and give you her phone number if she weren't interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I finally got the courage to ask out this girl I've had a crush on for a while. She said yes but said she was busy this week but maybe we could get together next week or this weekend sometime. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me no problem. But for some reason I ... (225 words)

Losing the love of my life and feeling like I've been played with the entire time...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - well this will be long so i appreciate anyone who actually reads this in advance... from the begining ill start, i met this gorgeous girl 3 years ago through word of mouth by her. you see i have been in a pretty successful band for 7 years and always was searching f... (1509 words)

Is lending him money a good enough reason to get married

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, Here's the situation. My SO and I have been in a relationship for nearly a year and a half. We've lived together for a year now and are preparing to go off to grad school this fall. The thing is, he's asked me to cover his living expenses while we're in school, ... (297 words)

Great guy but a small penis. Any tips?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently began a new relationship with a man i work with, having been messed around for a long time i realised that this one is different. He is sweet and charming and very respectful. However i have quite a lot of experience in the bedroom whereas he has only slept with ... (136 words)

My job, car, and house suddenly don't seem good enough to ask for her hand!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am under a little bit of stress over my relationship. We have been together for 3 years and had plans real soon of asking for her hand; however all of the sudden my job, car and where I live gets brought up. Funny thing is that it wasn't really a problem before. Now it ... (183 words)

"Online dating issues"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - "OPs own title"I decided to try the online dating. However, I am encountering the same problem over and over and wanted to know how others deal with it. The problem is about the amount of time taken by someone to reply. For example, this guy messaged me first and I replied to... (226 words)

Desperately in love with the devil!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - "OP's OWN TITLE" Ok so I have been in a realtionship for over three years, and my girlfriend always playes these mind games, and hold our relationship over my head. she consistantly tells me that i am sooooooo mean to her, aqnd that all I do is walk away, so on and so four... (371 words)

Do relationships between escorts/customers ever realistically work? Especially when the once retired escort goes back to work for financial reasons? Please give me some advice guys...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old woman who for most of her life has worked as an escort. I started when I was quite young and as I was a single mother, I welcomed the added finance. What I didn't realise was how quickly it would turn into a lifestyle, almost a kind of addiction. Before I ... (1354 words)

Girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me with my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So about 6 weeks ago I got a letter from an old buddy/no longer but its a love letter/appologie from my ex best friend. This. Letter went on to say thing like how sad he was cause his life was falling apart and things like that and how he wished she didn't kick him out of our ... (424 words)

Is there anything that can help me with my excessive sweating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my feet are really sweaty. it means i have to wear socks and tights all the time. the thing is, i have prom in a few weeks, and i want to go bare-footed, but i cant. its ruining my life. any suggestions?... (42 words)

Am I being selfish for at least wanting him to talk to me occasionally? He has a lot going on with his family but his inability to balance things in his life is getting annoying!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm frustrated cos the guy I'm dating doesnt know how to balance career, fam etc. He told me hes either 0 - 100 % about things and once hes 100 - thats all he focuses on..which usually applies to work.Recently hes been tryin to get a job, a car etc. He has previous duis and ... (386 words)

I accused my husband of having affairs for 23 years and now he has left me, but I cannot accept it is finally over!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a lunatic. I accused my husband of having affairs for all 23 years of my marriage. Then he filed for a divorce. Now I cannot stop asking him to take me back. I send rude sms everyday and I am either very nice or i swear rant and rave at him like a mad women. What should I ... (80 words)

How do I show him that I am no longer interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So how do you give a guy signs you're not interested? I thought I really liked this boy, so I was really into him and flirty and stuff.. now I've gone off of him. Its for various reasons, but the thing is he still keeeeps on texting me and messaging me online and I keep giving ... (80 words)

This "father figure" situation has gone too far....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been dating a girl on an off that has only been living in the US for a few years. I myself have lived abroad for almost 2 decades. I tend to become a father figure to the girls I have dated and I don't mind it. I am not controlling, although sometimes I worry too ... (245 words)

I cringe at compliments!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy who likes me, and he constantly tells me how beautiful and amazing i am and how it's so good we have a lot in common, (music etc) However, i feel uncomfortable when people say things like that to me, im not sure why exactly, but when people compliment me, it m... (132 words)

My so called best friend has stolen the guy I like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a big problem. My 'best friend' is making her move on the guy she knew i really liked. First he liked me and there was definetly a connection, then i didnt see him much, but when i did next see him my friend was flirty with him, and hes a guy, whats he to do, ignore... (227 words)

My girlfriend thinks our problems in the bedroom are her fault, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) age 36-40 - hi im 21 and my gf is 18 and she is very tight but it still takes me forever to cum, like both get to tired and she just jacks me off. i dont jack off for days then have sex and still the same any help will be nice thanks she thinks its her and feels bad. i try telling her it ... (69 words)

Is he into me? Or is he not that into me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

21 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there's this guy I am somewhat interested in. And one day he came up to me, and asked me for my name. He purposely came over to talk to me even knowing I am gay. On top of it, he's very shy with everyone else, but he seems to only talk to me a lot. And on the occasion ... (270 words)

Is it wrong to pursue a guy? Or do I have to be chased?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is there a proper dating process? Ive hung out with this guy a cpl of times, we talk a lot here and there. After we met he had implied he wanted to kiss me, so when I saw him the next time (he made me dinner/movie - it was nice) I thought it was gonna happen but it didnt.So... (254 words)

Why do I always pull stupid pranks on my boyfriend? I think I just crave attention or want a reaction from him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys I've been dating my bf for almost a year and everything is/was going well. I have a problem of pulling stupid pranks on him. They seem to be compulsive and I realise the implications after playing with him for a while. I started by saying Im pregnant 2 months back n ... (266 words)

I may be losing a close friend but I'm not sure how to fix things....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had a recent falling out with a close friend. I feel it is mostly my fault because of things that had occured, and thing that I had said and done with him. Well, I met him last fall at college and at first we were just casual friends. Then when winter break came around ... (607 words)

Am I in over my head with this younger lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i'm in a bit of a dilema, about 4yrs ago i met this guy (A)...he was married going through a divorce and i was in a very unhealthy relationship with guy (B). guy(A) and i became friends working together and he was like a shoulder to lean on....one night my bf,guy(B) and i ... (497 words)

Masturbating Question.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Well, I've been masturbating for about a month now. I'm sixteen years old. I have not broken my hymen; I tend to just stimulate my clitoris and the area around it. When I do masturbate, my stomach tends to feel like it's dropping (that's the only way to explain it, as i... (136 words)

I just want him to trust me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so when i meet the love of my life i was going thought a lot and had hit rock bottom and i mean hit it rock bottom i hit it hard. I didnt care about myself or anyone around me. I was living in an apartment where it was nonstop drinking and doing drug people came in and out ... (489 words)

I had unprotected sex a month ago and now I seem to have pimples on my penis, what could this be?

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21 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone... I was not being smart and I had sex with a girl without a condom. It's been like months but now I'm starting to see some stuff on my... Penis. It looks like pimples but there red. I have a few little ones around my genitals but one big one on my penis.... (97 words)

Should I take my sister's advice to find another guy to get over him?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for over a month and the we became friends with benefits. He just told me last night that he cheated on me while we were dating. I was outraged and said a lot of mean things. I don't think i can stay friends with him, i still have feelings for him. my sister ... (70 words)

This break is going on too long, now I am getting mixed signals and mixed feelings....

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21 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok me and my girl have been together for about a year and some change and its going good and one day she tells me how she misses me but 3days later she wants a break for 2weeks and she says its going to make us stronger in the fututre so i was like ok cool. 2weeks later nothing ... (162 words)

Missed birth control, negative pregnancy test, but still not quite right, please advise?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone so im a little confused. I am on birth control and doing a little bit of exercising. Last month i had missed 2 or 3 pills. I never usually miss.. but my dog had got to my pack and had a few so i just skipped them thinking I would be OK since i been on them for so ... (225 words)

Is it normal to feel the way I feel?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is not really a question. I just need to understand whether the way I feel is normal. I have seen in many posts in dear cupid that many women are worried about their bf/husband getting turned on by other girs, watching porn, etc. But in my case, I get so aroused by the ... (219 words)

The sex (and kissing) in our relationship is horrible! How can I talk to him about this without offending him?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a two inch penis and he does not satisfy me sexually. He doesn't even know how to kiss properly, he grabs my chest aggressively, and does not give me much pleasure. He's a heavy set guy and I'm significantly smaller than him. When's on top, it's uncomfortable, ... (137 words)

How can I get her to stay in the sex positions I like for longer?

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21 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello im writing this in hopes that i may get some good advice on how to deal with my problem. See me and my girlfriend have been having sex now for quite some time, and though we've had some really good intimate moments and usualy lasts more then 50 min in which case we en... (210 words)

Inattentive Boyfriend...

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and I feel like our relationship is fading quickly. My boyfriend used to be so attentive, calling/texting daily, making time to see me, and generally doing all the right things in a normal relationship. However, ... (313 words)

I was about to propose to her but then her behaviour has got me thinking, is this normal in a relationship?

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21 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok the pass 4 months i have been going out with this girl and ive deeply fallen for her and was going to propose to her tonight but some of the things she does makes me think twice like, is this normal in a relationship ditches me to go to town, text's a lot of guys t... (177 words)

Is it normal to feel jealous, even though he hasn't done anything wrong?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband and I have been married for almost 7 years!We are both 31 years old. We have a pretty good relationship with an occasional argument here or there. However, he is and RN in a trauma hospital and he works with a TON of younger woman. Ranging in age from 22 to 28 I ... (119 words)

I feel like I've become a bitch towards men...because the treat me as if I have no feelings, help!

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, lately I've been having some problems with relationships and stuff like that in general. My first boyfriend cheated on me, and so did my second. My last boyfriend and I recently broke up because we needed a break because things weren't working out. And then I found ou... (262 words)

Everything seems to be going wrong...

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - why does it always feel like the world is coming to an end when your young, life always seem to suck for me right now. i try to make friends, they think im just a bother. im too shy to try new things, and have a low self esteem.i always get critisism from my sister and my ... (69 words)

Am I cheating on my boyfriend, or is this harmless fun?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really confused! Ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 weeks and i really like him. Thing is ive been speaking to a guy online for about 18 months, and we've recently got back in touch, exchanged numbers and that. Am i cheating on my boyfriend? It's just harmless f... (75 words)

My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?

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21 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone her, or see her, unless it's... (348 words)

My girlfriend really has an interest in me or shes just using me or avoiding me

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21 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys, I was wondering if my girlfriend really has an interest in me or shes just using me or avoiding me. We started dating about a week ago but shes so confusing. She dosent like talking on the phone and never talks to me on myspace anymore. Except for when I schedule a ... (94 words)

I really really like him but I'm not visually attracted to him!

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advise, the situation is this I met this guy that I exactly what I have been lookin 4, he treats me good, he compliments me every time he has a chance, we can sit and talk about anything, I have been in a relationship before and that person was so mean all the ... (153 words)

Afraid of the future

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21 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a 20 year old male. I'm a virgin, and would say i've never really been in a real relationship. In every potential relationship i've ever been looking towards getting in, the girl in question has constantly picked someone else over me. At first i thought little of this, ... (104 words)

Do men think like women?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! Everyone help me out here I've liked this guy I've gotten so to the point that I've feel in love and we've been friends for about 5 years every since I was twenty we've past the sex thing I've done a lot for this person but when we first started out we've talked about it ... (282 words)

Am I missing something here with my boyfriend, wedding rings and man code???

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21 May 2010 (F)

- Been with my b/f 5 years and we've discussed marriage in the near future, like this summer. We're not planning a big wedding, in fact we want to just elope in Vegas, no frills. I've been looking at rings (nothing elaborate or extremely expensive) but my b/f hasn't seemed that ... (210 words)

Does my boyfriend desire my sister?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am really confused and upset at recent events with my partner of 16 years. I am 37 he is 45. We have had a great relationship and people often tell me how nice my partner is and how much he loves me. He is a big man and is thoughtful and takes good care of me. I have had ... (704 words)

Are his feelings repressed, or is he just moving on and being friendly?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and I broke up with him 10 days after our one year anniversary. I broke up with him to give him space. We are currently in high school and he has to do another year because he did not do well in his studies this year. He was not ... (220 words)

Did I handle this right?

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This last saturday I went to a party with all of my friends and saw this guy that my best guy friend told me that he thought I was cute. I went over to him and I'm not exactly sure how it happened but we ended up getting really close and we kissed around 3 times that night. He ... (141 words)

"Some Cupids kill with arrows some with traps."

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "Some Cupids kill with arrows some with traps." I have been in a rocky relationship with my boyfriend for the last two years. We are currently having problems with communication. I feel pressured to make interesting conversation because he wants to talk all day everyday. I have ... (138 words)

I just feel like there is nobody out there for me!

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21 May 2010 (M) - I broke up with my ex since Janurary and we have sort of talked during Valentines day, and very rare after that. I've been talking to this girl who really caught my attention and i have been basically kising her ass left and right and last time we talked she just saw me as a ... (369 words)

He's been ignoring me for some time, suddenly he tells me I'VE been ignoring him!

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this guy has been ignoring me for quite some time. Suddenly today he tells me that I've been ignoring him when all this time i've been trying to talk with him. What's this about? Also, the ignoring started right after his best friend told the guy ignoring me,... (74 words)

Is there something going on between them

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21 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys and girls... Well the last few days ive been increasingly worried about my boyfriend. Last friday we went to a 21st birthday party...i was really worried because even after being with him for a year and a half i hadn't met all his friends. Anyway this party was my... (282 words)

Severe Pain after having sex twice, what is this?

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21 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Yesterday was the first time my boyfriend and I were able to have sex for a few weeks. Yesterday we had sex once and then a few hours later we had sex again. Except the second time it started to hurt me. So we went really slow. Once it was over and he pulled out I felt really ... (366 words)