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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My best friend hit on my ex days after splitting up, ...and our other friends support her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Back in Christmas, me and my friend had this argument and we're no longer talking as she did something that no friend should ever do... (she kissed my boyfriend and said that she loves him, a few days after we just broke up, he didn't have any feelings for her and said he still ... (411 words)

He's house hunting with his friend instead of me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my husband works 10hrs a day so we see each other for 1hr a day cause he has to sleep anyway he has a friend and where looking for an apt 1br but he has make plan behind my back and they pick a time and look at the place even though I for gave him. Their still making plans ... (95 words)

I'm 16 and he's 14... is it wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and this guy he's not my boyfriend as such, we always mess around... Weve done alot of things together i really like him, i think he likes me as well but im not sure, we always flirt with each other, but we're not together either, we're planning on having sex, i feel ready ... (78 words)

Would it be weird for a 17 year old male to date a 15 year old girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a seventeen year old boy and I have a huge crush on a girl who just turned fifteen. She's very mature but would it be weird for me to date a girl two and half years younger than me?... (41 words)

Is there anything I could take to lower my sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife has a low sex drive. is their something i can take to match this i have a high sex drive and would like to match Im 32 shes 28 we had 4 kids i want i every other day she wants it every other mouth pleas help thanks John P.... (70 words)

Why does my ex keep contacting me now that he has a new girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend brokeup with me three months ago, about one month later he got a new girlfriend. In the last three weeks he has been texting me, but i haven't repiled to any of them. It use to be once a week he would text me, now it's everyother day. I don't want to reply ... (91 words)

Bullied for writing poetry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well i wright poems, and i am a boy i have been bullied for this befor and am relly ashamed of the fact thta i wright poems about a girl i am mad for. i was bullied by two people who found out, but the seemed to stop. but now i have no confidence and i want to show her how ... (403 words)

Does he like me more than her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like my best guy mate and ive liked him for ages. a few weeks ago we were talking on msn and he asked me who i fancy and i said i didnt want to tell him. he then told me that he kinda has feelings for two people and he would tell me one of his if i told him mine. he ... (168 words)

Do men lie about a relationship status?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Will men say a relationship is fine and everything is ok even if not -- in order to break up at a convenient time for them or do they more likely really mean that everything is ok? And at the same time he did let you know that he almost changed the locks twice with all o... (67 words)

I have a confusing situation, here and I need help as I'm going crazy in my own head!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm asking this because i'm just too confused, This girl has loved me for years, she asked me out 3 years ago, and due to my own stupidity and nervousness i turned her down, even though i had really strong feelings for her. subsequently, she went out with someone else, a... (338 words)

He put our dating on hold because he has cancer! But he's kept in touch and I wonder if he is still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age - I met a man recently and we had three dates but seemed to click on an emotional level very deeply very quickly. Then he found out he had Cancer and told me he just wanted to be friends. I was heartbroken and felt like i was going through a bereavment. He seemed to have kept in ... (95 words)

How long do I need to wait before I take a pregnancy test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy. Right, I had sex a week ago and the guy pulled out (I know I'm a complete idiot and I regret everything) he said there's no chance I could be pregnant and obviously I don't believe him at all :/ I need to know how long I need to wait before I can find out if I'm pregant ... (76 words)

Touchy-feely hairdresser... should I be bothered by it? Or is he just friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I have a male hairdresser and is he touchy feely ie touches my shoulders when talking to me and every time I leave the salon he gives me a hug goodbye. Should I be bothered by it or would you think he is gay or just genuinely friendly to me. ... (55 words)

Cramping after my period and plan B?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had I had protected sex with my boyfriend for the first time on April 23. My period came about the 5 of April usually last about 4 days. My periods are very irregular cannot predict my next one my cycle is typically 30 -35. I believe I was ovulating all the wk from 19 until ... (218 words)

I don't feel like his girlfriend any more, I just feel used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 months now but we have known each other for 6 years as we used to have casual sex, on and off. I have doubts about us as he makes me feel used sometimes and I doubt his faithfulness. It all started when he kept saying things to me that ... (433 words)

Why does it take longer for him to respond to certain texts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, My boyfriend always replies to text messages really quickly when they are business or funny. but as soon as i say something like 'i've missed you' or similar it always takes up to an hour for him to reply. he always gives an excuse like he was busy at work or maki... (115 words)

Gone off sex and it's destroying my marriage! Help me get it back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age - i an a 49 year old have been married to my second husband now for nearly five years , i love him to bits but i have gone off sex this is destroying our maggarige and i want to know what to do to get it back . i have been through the menopause hasa this got something to ... (71 words)

Choosing between friendship and love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in love with a boy for the past 2 years but within those years he has been in a relationship with a friend. He finally confessed to sharing the same feelings and has ended the relationship. His ex girlfriend is absolutely devastated and knows the reason for the ... (101 words)

I don't know if it's Love or Lust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused. Someone tell me what can i do... My relationship ended about a week ago today... Last night there was an earthquake and I got worried for him. i dragged on the worry for the whole night and i didn't sleep. I was crying and crying and my friend decided to call him ... (485 words)

I wish he would give this another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..i was strong and didn... (291 words)

Is it worth the effort to ask her out if we're only going to be together for 4 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Good news: I'll be receiving my degree within 4 months. Bad news: I'll be moving where my future job takes me or back home until I secure a job fit for my career. Granted, I've lived my whole life leaving and trying to make new friends. It'll be just as tough to move aw... (182 words)

He is afraid of divorcing his wife because of the children, and I love him so much. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - First hello dear cupied, my name is ari, my life has passed through a lot of problems , I was married beforefour year and I divorced for a big reason i had, he was an alcoolical man, and my life with him was like in prison and God helped me to escape from him with a lot of ... (354 words)

I like two guys and I can't have either!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - please help me, my head is messed up. i like 2 guys and there best friends, im not using there names so im just gonna call the guy 1 and guy 2 , so guy one ive liked him for a long long time now he's one of those guy you cant get out of your mind , but thing is he as a ... (267 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want me and my wife won't leave...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a 11 year relationship. The first few years were good. She treated me with love and was really nice and kind to me. Fast forward 10 years, and she started taking me for granted, cursed my parents, treated everyone i knew badly. On one argument, she told me that i ... (458 words)

He's the only person I've had sex with, should I have a fling?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked a question on this website nearly 2 years ago whether to stay with my boyfriend or move on, I decided to stay with him. We subsequently moved to a different area. The problem started exactly this time last year where I was starting to have feelings for someone at work, ... (279 words)

He seems interested but hasn't asked me out...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I've been friends with this guy for quite a while and I've known him for a few years... It's only until now that we've started getting closer. We hold hands and hug a lot, and he's even tried kissing me....But he hasn't asked me out :/ Is he just being 'friendl... (67 words)

How do I turn him on without being too up front?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend works really hard and it makes him tired so his sex drive is lower than mine. We have sex once or twice a week, and normally it just happens. It's really easy to get me in the mood but not quite so much with him. Sometimes I'm horny when he's not, and I want to ... (103 words)

Will I ever get past just dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out that a guy I dated for a while a few years ago is now married and has a daughter. I learned this as I am dealing with the end of my own 2 year relationship (the longest I have had). I feel that the guy who is married was a really nice guy and did like me.... (284 words)

She said I was a stalker! Is she mad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - right i like this girl so much . we have been talking for about 3 months and that included text , msn , phone and meeting up . she called me the cutest and sweetest guy she has ever met and she told me when she got to know me better we would talk about a relationship. how ever ... (289 words)

He pulled out but is there still a chance of pregnancy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and i had intercourse last week. We both know that we had to be careful but something happened and freaked me out. My partner managed to "pull it out" but has ejaculated by accident after he removed it. Some of it was on my skin, just outside the 'V'.. I quickly ... (86 words)

Will he ever like me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Erm I really like this guy and i mean when i think of him my heart goes weird i proper love him. we did go out but his granny died and he wanted to be alone and that was a couple of days after he asked me out and it was like i got my dream boy and suddenly the carpet was pulled ... (132 words)

Friend of a friend annoying me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i really think i have a problem and i need help. i was bullied a lot as a child, and i also have an older father who was a good provider, caring usually but he also has a short fuse , really bad temper and is strict. i have always felt weird compared to other young people. i ... (708 words)

She lied about my wherabouts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I have had abit of a rough time where I found out I was pregnant it was an unwanted pregnancy and i find it a very touchy subject so i decided it would be better to abort rather than have a child that I would struggle to feed and clothe. I told my best friend about my ... (187 words)

I can't help but find reasons to let go!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi After I got divorced ( a 13 yr relationship) I met a man(7 yrs older) I really liked right away, first we were friends and then we became FWB( it lasted for 2 years) He was clearly using me since he never spoke of having any feelings for me nor did he show it in actions and ... (365 words)

Do I ask him to apologise or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i fell in love with my teacher last year and Ihonestly didnt want to stop these feelings whatsoever but i decided i had to let go for summer otherwise i would have a horrible summer and a depressing year when he wasnt my teacher again. but then he became my teacher again after ... (167 words)

I want to make a move on the boy from church

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I really need some help. There's this guy from my church who i really like. He's about 8months younger than me and in the year below at school (different school to me). I have liked him for over a year now and have allready asked him out once before (about 5-6 months ago). ... (126 words)

Is my clingyness causing him to act distant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So i've been with this super great guy for a year now -- and i had feelings that he maybe is losing intrust in me due to me being super clingy. I do know that i have been some what clingy buy not to the degree that he and my friends have stated. I truely love him and don't ... (225 words)

Teachers: Have you ever had feelings for one of your students?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I would Just like to know how many teachers actually fall a little bit for their students, this question is for male teachers only. Have you ever had a crush/fell for/had thoughts that your student was ever attractive? and has you student ever told you they had a crush on you? ... (57 words)

How do I support my parents when it all goes wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really worried about my parents. My mum is 46 and my Dad is 63. The relationship between my parents has gone down the drain. They haven't slept in the same bed for about 12 years. I know for a fact my Mum doesn't love my Dad (even though she cares about him) and she has... (617 words)

In a love triangle, at 40!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - well try on a 20 year relationship that i was always waiting on to be perfect nicest guy ever but after many years drug addiction did us in ! and i met someone else alot younger who makes me happier than i ever have been but my heart is still with my ex who everyday i think of ... (251 words)

Weird crust on my eyes...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - does anyone know an instant cure for really crusty eyes, I think its meant to be like scaley sleep on eyelids or something. It makes me so self concious! ... (29 words)

No period but no symptoms either...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old , i lost my virginity a month and 1/2 ago . But i havent came on my period since then , i havent had any symptons of pregnancy . I dont know what to do im only in 10th grade and i am a dancer for school and im scared to tell my parents ,, what should i ... (72 words)

Getting to know him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like to know how i could get to know this guy at school better. i like him alot, and he knows i do but he isnt really ready for a relationship yet. i understand this because i guess neither am i. but i really really want to get to know him and im pretty sure from... (165 words)

Feeling guilty about my past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my current boyfriend on and off for a few years. We'v been back together and goin strong for five months.and things are better than ever. But lately I've started feelin this guilt about people that I've kissed or may have kissed when we were on breaks and stuff. ... (169 words)

What's holding me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey people i need your advice. I dont understand myself. Its been awhile since i broke up with my ex boyfriend but i do find it so hard to start dating again. So many men have approached me but idont know whats holding me to do so. Am confused cause am over my ex boyfriend and ... (132 words)

Is she cheating on me over the internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years. Every since we started dating she's always hidden her cell phone from me. I never thought anything of it. She's also always had a password on her computer. We've had our litle tiffs and fights here and ... (513 words)

She's having sex with another but I'm still not over her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm sorry if this has been asked before. I've recently split from my girlfriend but we still live together cos I can't afford to move out yet. Anyways she goes out the other night with het "friends" but she doesn't get home till 9am the next day. Concerned - I asked her where ... (229 words)

Should I see if the other guy can satisfy me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I`ve had three lovers in my life and the biggest of the three was my ex hubby just at 5inches and 5inches in girth before my bf now witch is almost 4inches long and 4.5 around. I noticed the difference the first time he put it in and I was let down but didn`t care cuz I don`t ... (290 words)

Did he lie about using a condom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met my childhood crush in the park. He had grown to be rather handsome, and I sat next to him talking about memories. He then asked who I had liked in college, I said he was my sweetheart. He then cupped my face and snogged me, then asked whose house we could go to. ... (113 words)

He didn't trust me but I never did anything wrong!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, i've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years but he's always had trust issues when it comes to me. I can't go out to parties without him and if my girlfriends are planning a girls night out we have to argue before i go and he will find something irritating to say ... (384 words)

I disagree with my parents view on arranged marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents are strictly orthodox and believe in arranged marriages. I love them a lot. I'm not that pretty either. I have two secret crushes, both of them complicated. Crush 1 I have been sent to an all girls school but we interact with the neighboring boys school on the b... (257 words)

Should I just settle for the kid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I are having a baby. She's 11 weeks gone. Now she doesn't want to get back with me at all and I recently found out that when we were together she had cheated on me. I'm so stuck I don't know what to do, do I forgive her and hope we can work things out, or do I contin... (76 words)

I want his love even though I don't love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and my current boyfriend have been dating on and off for 10 months...at one point i was inlove with him but after a awhile i fell out of love...i started cheating on him with different guys...i have commited so much infidelity its rediculious..and he has no idea what ... (294 words)

He only talks to me on the bus

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you still be friends with a guy who doesn’t ever answer your texts anymore, doesn’t care, and ignores you! I wouldn’t. The only reason I stayed friends with him was because I liked him. Not Anymore. I didn’t talk to him for a whole week. Thinking that he wouldn’t care. I ... (245 words)

This whole situation is so messed up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kinda LONG. But please i need some advice So ive known this guy 3 years.. (i ask a question refering to what specifically happened between us so im gunna brief you) So he always like me.. Even when i started dating my boyfriend he was saying that he really like me, when ... (1213 words)

32 and never been in a relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, I'm 32 and believe it or not, but I've never had a boyfriend :( No guy has ever really shown an interest in me. I've never been on a date or even kissed a boy. No one has ever asked me out. I'm starting to feel it's too late for me now, since even if someone did show... (105 words)

He has no passion for anything

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is emotionally unavailabe. He is passive agressive but not in a hurtful way. He never tells me "No you cant go here or do that" but when I go ahead and do things, he literally lays on the couch the whole time I'm gone and feels sorry for himself...wont even eat. We ... (391 words)

I've tried to help him but our relationship is going nowhere...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have long relationship, we are together like 2 years now. Everything was doing fine untill his mom died. Ever scince he changed and I was always ready to help his get true. In our country, people mourn for whole year, and don't go out or go to partys when close family member ... (246 words)

Pushes me away, then comes running back. The cycle repeats

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for almost a year now. We are not officialy going out, but we do pretty much what every bf/gf does. I love him, and i'm pretty sure he loves me too. But the issue is, he is a very insecure person. He has never admited to other people that he loves me... (381 words)

Is it common for a man to lose his sex drive after childbirth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I seem to have read a lot of problems, on this website and in magazines etc, about men losing interest in sex completely after they've had kids. I really want to have kids in the future with my boyfriend and I know he wants them too. However we're only 18 and 21 a... (130 words)

How to pleasure a guy without removing his clothes...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend hug or kiss, he generally gets a boner pretty fast. I've had my hands down his pants and all that, so I know he's comfortable with me, but I was wondering, is it possible to rub his boner through his trousers? and if it is, does it feel good and how do ... (62 words)

Is my friend using me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im worried im being used. my male friend had a lot of personal trauma last year and i helped him through it. whenever we have breaks at work im always paying. its costing 25 pounds a day as he always wants to go in coffee shops like starbucks etc. im getting resentful because i ... (145 words)

Scared of making the same mistake as my Mum

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im 16, ive been with my boyfriend nearlly five months, it hasnt really been that long i think. but last nighht he was drunk and told me that he loved me more than anyone else and that he wanted to be with me always. this scares me cause im not ready for a really long ... (131 words)

Is this more than a student-teacher relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I don't know how my teacher feels about me and the relationship between the two of us. This teacher is a male teacher, early 40s, married with two children. He has taught me for my first 2 years in high school. He has never taught me ever since. Whenever he sees ... (246 words)

Could this be why I've never had a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 17 years old and have never had a boyfriend. is thsi really strange? because i feel like everyone around me has had at least one serious relationship in their lives by this age. I've made out with many guys, too many to count, but all of these kisses were from drunken ... (140 words)

Complicated love-square

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I slept with the man I love who also happens to be one of my closest friends. It happened two weeks ago and it was sincere and passionate and amazing, everything I had imagined it to be for all these months I had been in love with him. Unfortunately it is all very ... (456 words)

He teases me alot! Does that mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im not sure if this guy likes me or not and I've never asked somebody out before and Im scared of rejection. So anyway he's really nice to me but he also teases me a lot. He's a jerk to all the other girls in my class except for me. He always stands up for me and ask... (216 words)

She's taking forever to choose between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

16 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay this is a long story but i wont go into so much detail as i could be here all day. been in a long distance relationship for abt 4yrs, anyway my gf was supposed to come over in Mid Feb this year as i had just spent 9 weeks with her in malaysia from nov09 - mid jan 10 but ... (631 words)

I don't want my ex to marry his new girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dumped by my ex boyfriend in August last year. He did it via email and sms. Refused to answer my calls. Even when I went to his place to look for him, he refused to see me. He told me we are not suitable. His friend pitied me and told me he was dating other girls and have ... (384 words)

Having an affair but scared to let my husband go.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 15 years, have two children aged 18 and 12, and I have been having an affair for the last 7 months, and now im in a total dilemma! My husband is generally a good, honest, man, but he plays golf on his days off work and me and my youngest son are left to ... (254 words)

Molested by Mum's boyfriend Continued

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know if i was molested or if im just over reacting.. my moms boyfriend is generally too close to me. he continously touches my bum and brushes past my breasts-but i know he does it on purpose. he will like rub all along my thigh with on hand and with the other hold my ... (157 words)

Molested by Mum's boyfriend

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, deep breath.. i have been molested by my moms boyfriend for about 4 years. from about the age of 12-16. as a result of this, i am very uncomfortable and nervous around him. every time i see him my heart beats a thousand times faster and i just want to die. it feels as if my ... (131 words)

He couldn't stay hard and now he won't see me!

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! My boyfriend and I are together nearly a month. We tried couple of times to have sex, but it all end up before we even took our cloths off because his erection was gone. The last time we tried, he told me that we shouldn't see or talk to each other for a while, that he is ... (101 words)

In love with my fwb/ex?! help!

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so my first real long-term boyfriend of 3 months and I broke up about four months ago. Since then, after we got over the awkwardness of being around each other after the break up, it seems we can't keep our hands off each other whenever we're together! Before we dated, ... (322 words)

I told my sister I would have a baby for her but my fiance wants not part of it!

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone my sister is 31 and unable to have children without ivf Soon she will be trying with ivf but the doctors say there is a very small chance of it working as she has lots of problems in her reproductive area. We have known this for many years but over time it h... (304 words)

He abuses me but other times treats me like a queen. Can this relationship be saved?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I need to get out but my love is preventing me from doing so. I've been with him for I think about mmm 2 years and a couple of months. During that time he has been in jail for 8 months and no it wasn't all his fault. But that's another story. I am very much in love ... (536 words)

Crushing on my cousin and afraid of my feelings

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16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, heres my problem first time I've seen my cousin in 5yrs(shes now 18 im 19) and at first site I was hooked everything about her is amazingly perfect, her smile her looks, her personality... everything I've looked for in someone she has, I gotta feeling she may think th... (250 words)

My friend has erectile dysfunction

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16 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Sir, one of my friend penis not getting up it is not Hard, when he going to sex it not getting up what we can do what is the reasone ... (41 words)

Is it impossible to get over your first love?

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16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Has anyone gotten over their first love? How long did it take for you? Is it even possible??? Did you find love again??? It's been a year and a half since my ex-girlfriend dumped me for someone else. I don't think about her as often anymore, but if the day came, I don't th... (255 words)

I'm 35 with no money, no job, living with parents and a broken relationship. How do I get out of this?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd really appreciate some advice please. After being made redundant a year ago and only managing to secure a few temporary contract jobs since, my life has seemed to have taken a downward spiral, as have my finances and relationship. I'm 35, with no job, no money, forced ba... (290 words)

I need to move on from this relationship but just don't know how to do it!

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a married man for five years, he is 17 yrs older than me, and im just 25. He has told me several times, he wants to be with me and have a family, and makes me promise me I will never leave him. However, lately I feel like i need to move on ... (99 words)

If I had sex and it hurt and we stopped did I lose my virginity?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - do i lost my virgnity? i was 24 years old when i had my first boyfriend. my ex bf like to have sex with me. i said yes but everytime he tried to enter i feel hurt so he did not continued. after him i never had relationhip. now that im 34 years old and have boyfriend and we... (90 words)

Boyfriend's mom looked into my medical records and told him I had an STD!

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not a bad person. Even though we weren't in a relationship I had sex with someone I cared about and I got an std. It was my first time. I don't blame him for what happened because he didn't know and he had the decency to tell me when he found out he had it. I went to ... (426 words)

Is going out on a date while in a relationship cheating?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend thinks that dating other women is not cheating,but I think it is cheating. Is going out on a date while in a relationship cheating? Both male and female's opinion's is appreciated. ... (33 words)

I'm so afraid of getting hurt that I end things with every guy!

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi After I got divorced ( a 13 yr relationship) I met a man(7 yrs older) I really liked right away, first we were friends and then we became FWB( he was clearly using me since he never spoke of having any feelings for me nor did he show it in actions and at first I let it ... (347 words)

I can't leave husband but can't stand for him to touch me

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - U don't even know where to begin. Me and my husband hardly agree on anything. We have 3 daughters together and I have 2 boys from from before him. He treats my sons so differently than our girls. They are both great kids. They are both honor roll students very sweet kids. But ... (1015 words)

He said we are moving too fast but didn't break up with me, so what should I do?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now. we spoke on the phone once a day. His 27 and I am over the last five days he's not be answering m texts and phone calls on the four day i got a message saying that he was sorry for not talking and told me that we were ... (78 words)

What is he trying to say!

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy for about a year now, and everytime were together he says 'you're my baby, don't forget that' or we're in bed and he's about to fall asleep he'll say, you're my baby. He even says it while he's half asleep! What is he trying to say!... (51 words)

I'm jealous because my boyfriend flirted with a friend, or were they just being nice?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seeing a lovely guy for 5 months. very complicated situation, we are both going through longterm breakups but have become very close. he has told me he loves me and has fallen in love with me. Things have been wonderfully intense but sometimes it feels cold, then he ... (296 words)

A question for circumcised men who have undergone foreskin restoration...

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16 May 2010 (M)

age - A question for men who have undergone foreskin restoration and for men who have had circumcision as an adult. How would you compare the before and after in terms of quality of sex, quality of receptive foreplay, intensity of orgasm, pain sensitivity, and your partner's sexual ... (55 words)

Is it always in black and white concerning an ex?

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Why does my friend steal all the guys?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im so fed up, my friend and her bf finshed bout 1 month go now and i get thatshe want fun but every boy i like she goes for, for example the other night we went out and i was with this boy and all i did was go toilet and when i came back she was kissing him and that. i then ... (180 words)

What is taking a break exactly?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year. For a couple months we have been having some problems, I seemed to have been annoying him and he had been partially ignoring me. We had a talk today and he said he was depressed because of some things, and he c... (94 words)

He is offended because I insinuated he has a disease, do you think the break up is temporary?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have had a rocky relationship. We have fought, gone days without talking and have come back to each other several times in the 4 months of dating. Most of the fighting had been because of me and the issues I had because of the reputation i heard he had in the past. ... (432 words)

Complicated Emotional Affair - What Next?

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16 May 2010 (M)

age - I am a male who began teaching at a community college 2 years ago as a second career. Shortly after starting at the college, I began tutoring as a means of earning additional income. One of my first students was a recently separated woman around 6 years younger than I a... (1421 words)

Can't look at each other during sex

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys my boyfriend and i hav been together for 4 years when we have sex we dont look at eachother ever!!! he took my verginity.. we do hav great sex.. when hes on top of me or going down on me the pillow goes over my face. when i go down on him the pillow goes o... (164 words)

Help: My marriage is in trouble!

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16 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So I guess I will give a brief description of our relationship. My wife and I were mutual friends before we started dating in 2004. She was 19 and I was 21. She had a 13 month old boy that I immediately bonded with. We were crazy in love, like nothing I had ever imagine... (797 words)

Is he wanting the baby only because of what others say?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 19 years old and im pregnet me and my boyfriend of 4 years decided to get an abortion at first i didnt want to do it but i didnt want to throw a baby on him if he wassnt ready to hav it i was his choice to get an abortion since the day i told him.... now that i... (188 words)

He won't introduce me to his child -- how long should I wait?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this man on-line we met up and hooked up. We've been seeing each other for 9 months. About 5 months ago I told him that I wanted to be more than hook up buddies. Since that time we've gotten closer he's even met one of my children. One problem is he won't let me meet ... (87 words)

Is three months enough time to mourn?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,i had 3 years relationship with this guy he was my lover my best friend but my bf had past away 3 months ago,its hard for me to accept the fact, to ease the pain, i used to go out with my friends for a disco, drunk, everyday, and now i met a guy whom i am dating now, but do ... (94 words)

Are there really guys who would stop watching porn if it really was a problem for me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering. It seems the general consensus on this website is that women who have problems with porn are insecure and that all men watch it and it's not fair to them to ask them to stop. However, I was wondering if it's fair in my case to ask. When I was 15 I was raped as ... (193 words)

Should I be concerned that he asked about open relationships?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just recently approached me about open relationships.. asking what i thought of them and if i would ever be in one. This kind of bothers me seeing as i feel we are growing apart. i told him i didn't like the idea and thought they were stupid. I asked him what he ... (161 words)

He keeps saying I deserve better. Why can't he belive that I like him?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy I'm dating constantly wants to know why I like him, what is it about him..and says he cant understand why I like him seeing that im soo nice, a good girl..(ive never done drugs, stolen or anything like that) and he used to do drugs, fight with guys etc. he doesnt do ... (259 words)

My wife tells me I have a porn addiction

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16 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - how do i stop porn addiction? i have alot more sexual desire than my wife and it got to where i felt horable for asking for it all the time. I eventualy turned to porn magazine and it created more problems than i thought it would. she said i have an addiction and i dont want ... (66 words)

I'm 22, still a virgin, never had a boyfriend yet. Is that a turnoff for guys?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm a 22 year old girl. For some reason, I'm a virgin and I haven't even had a boyfriend yet. I'm not ugly; I do commercial modeling (not the big stuff though), and I do get hit on. My problem is that guys usually go too fast for me. I'm the kind of girl that wan... (238 words)

Third time that someone has "wanted a break"

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Question: When he says he wants 'a break' does it always mean it's the end of the relationship? Should I hang in there or should I move on? Hello everyone, I am not used to replying to blogs or doing anything internet related, however I 'googled' the issue of boyfri... (1530 words)

Does this sound like pregnancy?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello..okay I tried submitting this question and was denied cause its a common question. But I can't find one that matches mine. I need some advise as to what's going on with me. in May I visitrd my BF and was suppose to start my period on May 22 and I didn't. We had sex ... (183 words)

I'm tired of being the 'gay' best friend.

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16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, 'dearcupid'. Having used this site before, and receiving excellent advice. I thought I would give my third, and hopefully final, teenage romance problem some exposure on here. Now that I am back on the dating scene after a two year break, I have begun to notice so... (328 words)

I don't think I can be just friends with her. Should I end it?

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16 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl about 18-20 months ago when I started my new school to do my A-levels. I'm 18 years old, and so is she. About a month in, I decided to stand up and dance to Michael Jackson's Thriller in front of half the sixth form (like, 150 people?) when it came on the common ... (680 words)

Comments on a weight loss plan?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im 17 and really want to lose weight and quite quickly. i was thinking of going on a 500 cals a day diet and doing 12km a day on the treadmill. has anyone ever tried anything like this and if so did it work? thankyouxx... (46 words)

Am I emotionally detached?

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16 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I emotionally detached? I've been with my current boyfriend for a few months. He's a lovely guy and treats me well. He is tender, loving, polite and calls me everyday,so why is it that I can't bring myself to connect with him? I've been hurt in the past like almost 99.9... (145 words)