A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I,m very anti-social. and I dont like goin out to pubs or drinking. It all started when i started secondary school i was bullied coz of my weight and My glasses. I was even used as a prank by I boy. He said he fancied me and stupidly I believed him and he told me to wait for him outside school. I waited for 2 hours and then i seen Him and some boys in a car videoin me. My friends supported me but I never told my parents.I,m now finished school and i didnt get to college. I,m paranoid about people using me and I never had a boyfriend or a kiss :( I need help how can I get out of this Hell :(
View related questions:
bullied, never had a boyfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, trigger18  +, writes (4 May 2010):
hey this sounds very similar to something i experienced in secondary school. the guy i had a crush on had been asking me for weeks to go out with him. but two weeks later his friends told me the truth. he was only going out with me for a joke. it hurt alot at the time. it still has a huge affect on me now 7 years later but im with some one now. hes lovely. he taught me not to think about the passt because u cant change it. you shouldnt worry about who u are or what u look like. if you love someone it dosent matter about what they look like its who they are inside that counts. its not really much advice but having been there before and knowing where i am now. it just shows u that not all guys are the same and you will find someone who will love you no matter what. i wish you good luck and hope that everything works out for you hunny xx
A
female
reader, BunnyTee  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 I suggest you seek some counselling from a professional in this. Garden-variety, public advice isn't going to help you through your issues. Understand that children are cruel to each other and you were subject to that. The best thing you can do to help yourself is ask for help when you need it and sweetie, I think you do because Paranoia and self esteem issues require help.Best of luck to you and please, above all things respect yourself!
...............................
|
