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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Back with my ex, but still feel so lonely, and worry that if he ever left I couldn't start over!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I have a problem, I m back with my ex and I feel like this is pushing all the other guys away, many guys who I may like don't dare and talk to me because they already know that I m still with my ex and I will always do, these times I feel trapped and so afraid of the future ... (128 words)

Am I being unreasonable to expect these things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a newlywed only married about a year. My husband never learned how to drive and I really would like him to. He just won't do it and won't even try. I am getting really tired of hauling him around places. He takes public transport but complains he doesn't want to pay... (208 words)

How can I say "no" to my neighbors without becoming the building bitch?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - this isn't about a romantic relationship, but moreso a neighborly one. I just moved into a new building. I live on the first floor and these kidsare ALWAYS out by my patio. They ask for food, gum, something to drink, etc. At first I would and now its become a daily event. I... (281 words)

He played me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: paragraph breaks were inserted to make this easier to read. Also, ".." was removed from every single sentence. Please use standard punctuation and paragraph breaks when following up. Please.] Haha. Here's the thing. My ex boyfriend broke up with me the day afte... (1242 words)

I can't feel empathy for anyone! I want to, but I can't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm well-liked, I have lots of friends, and I'm a pretty sweet person. People trust me and often cry to me about their problems. With friends, typical teen situations like suicide, parents, grade-failure, love, are the topics talked about. With a boyfriend, it would always be ... (405 words)

Is texting my mum about my boyfriend a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so heres the thing. Im white, my boyfriend is of pakistani decendancy. We have been together for over 6 months now, and well the problem is, my mum, she is really racist and i have been scared to tell her. I am planning to tell her by text before i get on the plane to ... (122 words)

Should I reveal the truth to him?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a friend, who i've known for about 7 or 8 months now. i've always thought he was really good looking and always fancied him, but when we became friends i decided to ignore it and keep quite about it. recently though, i've realised i have feelings for him we get on reall... (162 words)

Is it possible to know you will be together before you even talk to them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to know you will be together before you even talk to them? i recently saw this boy at my school and think he is attractive all of a sudden, but i know i have seen him before. I am 17 and i really feel like he could be someone i have somthing with and i never... (186 words)

I need space from my husband of 25 years. How do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I posted a message a couple of weeks ago and had some good advice from some kind people. My previous question to you was whether I should leave my kind, caring, loving, gentle and attentive husband of 25 years because, despite all these thing... (708 words)

I really really like him and I'm worried I've blown my chance by seeming controlling.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay basically, me and this boy have a lot of history and weve been on and off for the past 3 years, and hes mucked me around a lot, but i have forgiven him and hes said hes going to change. recently he told me he loved me and said he wanted to meet up. i said no because i ... (246 words)

Religious conflicts...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys I could some real answer plz. First I was a Hindu when I 1st meet my husband he were also Hindu, about a year later he said that he wanted to become a muslim because he found peace their... so I help him all the way and now he is in the islam faith!!!! my problem is I ... (202 words)

Should I simply back off or try to pursue this further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m having the most difficult time understanding this man right now. It seems that the more we see each other or the closer we seem to get, the more distant he becomes and the less he initiates conversation or even responds to my text and phone calls. While I would normally ... (216 words)

Women, what is this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well this is embarassing. I don't have any idea what this is. Earlier today I went to the bathroom after this I was about to take a shower when all of a sudden all this white discharge came pouring from me down my legs. I don't think I have an infection or anything. It fel... (139 words)

Do you think my teacher may like me too???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question, more than one I think. I'm from the Netherlands and I'm 16, I have this teacher (24) who is absolutely amazing and I have like.. a real crush on him. The first day I met him I was already in to him and I know it's impossible but seriously he is really f... (307 words)

My boyfriend has a fat fetish... and I'm not fat!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a fat fetish?! what do i do...?? i only found out by reading his emails and saw loads of BBW adult sites he had signed up to. i am totally normal sized (even slim) and he has never suggested that i gain weight or anything like that!! I am worried as there are ... (123 words)

Should I tell my partner I was abused when I was younger... by my brother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - When I was a child I was abused (sexually) by my older brother. I've had no contact with him for years except for the past year when my father got sick and he was there. Aside from my mom, the rest of my family does not know about it. Being in my late 30's now, I'm totally ok ... (133 words)

Did I spoil her...? Did I do something wrong???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, i love my girlfriend and we have been together for 1 and a half year. I am 20 y.o and she's 19. It’s our first real relationship. We are comfortable with each other, since we spend a lot(!) of time with each other. Before i start explaining the real prob... (778 words)

Is it me blowing things out of proportion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend goes out he just doesn't bother to text me or anything, it seems he ignores me, he said he'd change after he didn't text me all night the other night... thing is, he doesn't even understand how it feels because I never go out. I don't know whether I'm blow... (64 words)

Why did he say hi to me on Facebook if he never intended continuing the conversation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up about 5 weeks ago, on good terms. Following this, we did not contact each other. Then suddenly, out of the blue, he popped up on facebook but the conversation was very short; it was just the boring 'hi' 'hows you' etc. Then i asked him if he had been up to ... (98 words)

Where do I go from here...? What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few years ago, I went on a holiday trip to France to visit some relatives and generally have fun and relax from work. I am not religious anymore but at that time I was (not strongly orthodox but enough that I went to church pretty much every sunday - oh and not Catholic, I ... (1042 words)

Girlfriends sexual past is causing trouble for me...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I just found this site and decided to ask about something that is causing me trouble to see what others think. I have been with my current girlfriend for two years... She is older than me, and I was a virgin when I met her which I think is one of the reasons I have had so ma... (400 words)

I don't know if I love him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started going out with this guy about a month ago, he is the sweetest thing and I really like him and he recently told me he loved me and I said ok. I really like him and care about him but I don't know if I love him yet. And to make things worst my cousin saw the whole thing ... (121 words)

Does my fiance have something to hide?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age - My fiance and I bought a house in July. Turns out, a woman he knew in high school (also friends with her family) lives 1 mile up the road. He hadn't seen her since high school, but when she found out where he lives, she stops to see him. She has a 16 year old son and ... (304 words)

How can I tell him I'm interested, I'm just not confident enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age - Well now I have a bit of confusion with a guy at work. I think he is really attracted to me as I have lots of attention from him, glances, stares, etc. We laugh at each other's jokes and banter and it's like we are the only two people in the room most of the time, even i... (474 words)

Wife doesn't satisfy me sexually like past loves...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - my former girlfriend was raw with me in bed,she made me feel that no other woman can give me hot sex,now am married and cant find such satisfaction in my wife,yet i love her,what do i do?... (37 words)

Is she interested in me or just wasting my time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - well i have been texting this girl for a couple weeks now but i have only taken her out once. We go to the same university but don't see each other there because our schedules are different this semester. the problem is i am not sure if shes interested in me or is just giving ... (154 words)

Does my lecturer have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on my lecturer at university, i find myself thinking about her all the time, I know its wrong but i look for reasons to speak with her and see her i cant help it, but shes in a relationship and i would never dream of ruining this, or acting on my feelings. Im ... (197 words)

Does she act that way with everyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Help!, I was at a girls house last week, watching films in her basement, and she was acting really flirty, she was hiding her face on me when there was a bug on the wall and then when we were on her couch she was lying with her head on me for the entire movie then fell asleep ... (168 words)

How do I stop being jealous over my FWB?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some help.. I was going out with this guy at work, like having sex only and I think I fell in love with him. Well, I don't think he feels anything for me. This is my first type of relationship like this (like having sex with a guy only and not dating. Now, I think, ... (287 words)

Will boys be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, basically I'm 16yr old female... I have never had a proper relationship with anyone, never had sex or done any sexual activity. I know think that because I havent done anything no boy will be interested when I start college. I get horny all the time but dont even have the ... (70 words)

I'm living in a fake happiness! I'm depressed and I cant get over him, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help getting myself out the biggest mess/fantasy world of my life! Im truely in love with a friend of mine and i cant snap out of it. Im lost without him, the thought of him being with anyone else tares me apart. I can't be happy anymore, i dont want to eat, its the ... (519 words)

Are there any ways to get rid of excess skin after losing weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 5' feet tall, I recently lost weight ( and continue to do so in a healthy way) I went from 170 to 150 in four months, eating healthy food and going to gym, since January of this year. I am wondering if I will need surgery to remove any fat flab? Is there away to avoid ... (77 words)

Is it safe to have sex during periods without using a condom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi is it safe to have sex during periods without using a condoms... (13 words)

Why did he blow me off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked him out and he said that he wanted to go out with me maybe next weekend. He said that he wanted to go on a real date with me maybe on a Friday or Saturday and that he would see me tomorrow at lunch. I sent him a txt a couple hours later. He never responded and he didn't ... (87 words)

Why is my friend behaving so weird with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my friend behaving so weird? i thought it would pass but its gone on for so long now! Hes said stuff in the past such as we;re great friends, we will always be friends, i'll never fall out with you, i love you(as a friend). But.... When we go out he wont speak to... (321 words)

I am worried about the shape and size of my penis, and whether it will cause problems in my marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 21 year old and due to muslim cast my mom and dad forcing me to get marry and i am also agree but problem is that i have curved shape penis and it is too small and too weak and thin. i am afraid of breaking relation about this topic after getting married.i am ... (86 words)

I am struggling to trust my boyfriend because of my past, and he is only making things worse by not comforting me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 and my Boyfriend is 24. We have been together for over a year now and he is everything to me. we have fun, get along well, and im his First Love. i have been hurt badly in the past and have serious trust issues because all boys use to do was lie, cheat and hurt me, i ... (378 words)

I'm stuck in a time warp. Is anything ever going to change?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Every time someone tries to help me, I throw it back in their face because I am disappointed with everything that's happened to me in the past. The worst years of my life was from the ages of 14 to 19. The years 1994 to 1998 were bloody terrible. I developed an obsession wit... (150 words)

Guy at work, is he interested or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm interning at an insurance company, this is my second week. I'm a headhunter, this guy is an insurance agent so sometimes he's in the office, sometimes not. Anyway first time i met him was last week at the door. He was staring at me for quite some time as i pushed it open ... (196 words)

Jilted and still single.....

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14 May 2010 (M)

age - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] When in my twenties I dated a girl who was a few years younger than me.I called it off when I sensed that she had issues, and I had issues of my own. When we parted I had never known her to be sexually aroused although she let me touc... (229 words)

I still do care about her and I don't know how to reach out to her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hey guys Im in a dilemma, i would have never thought a day would come for me to seek advice from a forum, I started dating a girl whom i used to totally admire, prior to us dating i was coming out of 2 year relationship so i told my current girl to take it slow... she s... (234 words)

Why does my ex boyfriend act in cycles?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i broke up oct of last year. a little over 7 months ago i guess. He got a girlfriend right away (rebound) but then he confessed feelings for me says he wished we could get back together all while being with her. Then he saw me and says hes totally happy an... (685 words)

My wife sent naked pictures to my dad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I surprisley come to know by viewing my father's mob.images taken and given by my wife's totally nude and having sex pic. and shoked very much in my life. i was in dream of our healthy and whelthy family having father-mother with two childrens girl and boy. but right... (189 words)

Would my tongue bar get caught on his braces?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had my tongue pierced last year and i now hardly notice it. and theres this guy i like who's quite open to piercings n stuff, we're getting along great and we've kissed a couple of times but not snogged. i was wondering if you had any tips for kissing with a tongue bar? i ... (170 words)

He loves me, he's not ready, he comes back, now he won't even be friends! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused. My boyfriend broke up with, right. Like the night he was doing it I managed to stop it the first time. Cause he was telling me how he wasn't ready for a GF. So I had pep talk with him and got back together with me saying that he was ready cause he loved me and ... (350 words)

Worried that my fixation on him will ruin our friendship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have come to University and in my first year. I have met this person (male) and I feel we get along very well. But over the last 3-4 months (ive known him for 6 months) I constantly worry about him, what he is doing and always want to be around him. I also have dreams about ... (142 words)

I am a virgin, should I forget this non-virgin girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm 22 and from a Greek Orthodox Christian background. I'm still a virgin, not because it has been drummed into me that it is a sin to sleep around but because I choose to respect women and the fact that I only want to make love to a woman that I truly love. As of yet... (247 words)

How did he get over me so quickly?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there :) me and my ex boyfriend were on and off for about 2 years.the good times were the best of my life, but the bad wer the worst, and i think that he would say the same. Last time we split, which is 3 months ago and by far the longest we have been apart, i realise... (304 words)

Should I give her time on the trip to cool down? Or is this the end?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Things have come to a head recently with my gf. For a long time we have fought over what I think are small things like what time to come to bed, how to hang the washing etc etc. Just last night I informed her that I was going out with my mate and if she was ok about me goin... (970 words)

Why cant he just tell these other women he is married to stop them flirting with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, My husband's exes are getting in touch with him, calling and sending texts even though he doesn't answer them. I do understand that he is committed now but the problem I have right now is that this line they are texting and calling he got after we got serious and decided ... (382 words)

I feel like my existance is useless, can anyone help me feel better about life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23. Lately, everything has just fell apart in my life. My girlfriend sort of betrayed me, and my family always says how stupid I am. I don't relate to anyone, because at college, it's like I'm invisible. People just act like I'm not there, and I don't even matter anymore. ... (660 words)

The guy I fancy told my friend he thinks I am unattractive! How can I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - help! I like my semi-friend (he's a guy) but he doesn't like me back. in fact, he told one of my friends he finds me unattractive! how can I get over him?... (32 words)

I'm worried that this might end up being a sexless marriage! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I got married four months ago to a man I badly knew intimately. I have come to realise that he is impotent. He's older than me by 14 years, I am in my mid-30s. He's not opened up to me about his condition, but I notice he hardly sustains an erection through love making or ... (108 words)

I think I am ready to lose my virginity, but is this a wise decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently overseas and undergoing a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend who is back in my own country. I will be returning to my country in 3 months time and I was considering should I give my virginity to him then as I guess I am ready. Do you think it is wise... (98 words)

Could it be obsession or destiny?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am really confused, i had this guy that had a major crush on me back when we where in elementary school, we met on his first day of school, i was playing hop scotch with my friends and my mom started talking to his mom, i noticed him immediately and well my mom called me ... (639 words)

Why does he need to have these other girls in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for 4 years, we have a 1 yr old son together. Out of these 4 years there have been 5 "other women" in our relationship. He has never physically cheated on me, but he tends to build friendships with other women behind my back. Even going so far to ... (195 words)

Is it wrong for me to want to wait for her despite the fact that she is engaged?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll just get straight to the point. I am 20 yrs. old, and I am in love with my best friend who is 26. She has a 4 yr old daughter. She and I have been friends for about 2 years now. We are extremely close. I love everything about her, her smile, laugh, she's beautiful and ... (169 words)

When I turned down his marriage proposal he went and married his ex instead!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i was living with a man he ask me to marry him and i wouldn't because i was mad at him that day. so he went and married his ex. he was gone living with her for 2 weeks before he moved back home. we have been living together now for 2 years sence they have been married should i ... (80 words)

It feels like he has done a 180 degree turn on me and I have no idea how it happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't even know where to begin. I met someone online because well I was tired of trying all the traditional methods or ways. Well the guy I starting talking to is in another state. He has asked me to move several times and I just wasn't ready to and he is unable to move where ... (483 words)

I really like him but I don't want to be the rebound girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i'm a student and i'm 22. I met this guy 2 years ago. Last year we were in the same section in college. We started to hang out and we clicked together, there was chemistry. we like the same things, and wants the same thing, we laugh all the time. I felt like he was ... (422 words)

How can I deal with the pain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been in a relationship for 7 yrs about a year ago I found out that he was cheating on me, b/c I loved him I just figured that if I stayed with him and showed him that I loved him he would stop and of course it never did about 8mo. after I found out what he was doing I ... (432 words)

How is it possible to start falling for someone so quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been divorced for about 2 years, and been on a few dates. The longest I have seen someone was about a month. I meet a girl at work (she asked me out) and we have been talking all week for hours till 1 or 2 in the morning. The weird thing is I have started to have strong ... (163 words)

I feel guilty for wanting someone else despite being in an open relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been in an open relation with my boyfriend for a few months now and even though it is an open relationship i feel guilty for wanting someone else. im flirting with another guy that im madly and truelly in love with and i keep getting a really bad feeling about doing it... (124 words)

Why can't I get over the crush I've had for 6 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no idea where to start. I have had a crush on this guy since I was 13 and he was 20. I am now 19 and I have been talking to him online through facebook and myspace. I was in a relationship for about two years and I had a baby boy. During the relationship I was sure I w... (342 words)

The best friend and the boyfriend......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. We really love each other and I know his meant for me. His best friend some what set us up. We are really good friends, we talk and laugh. But now I think I might be falling for the best friend. But only some what. ... (313 words)

I know I should let go but how do I do this when I love him even if it is hurting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I need some serious opinions on this. I met this guy at work three years ago. We worked together and he had pursued me in the beginning. He kept asking me out and I told him no. I just was not interested. Eventually I transferred to a different location ... (1403 words)

I want to end this friends with benefits situation with my ex?? Suggestions?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've been in a physical relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past 3 months. Prior to this we had dated for almost a year, when I decided to break up with him. I did this because I felt my needs were not being met. He was thoughtful as a friend and we did things t... (285 words)

Our relationship is crumbling after I had to move in with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently became homeless and was forced to move in with my boyfriend. Now our relationship isn't the same and it seems to be crumbling down. We're always fighting and it seems like every little thing we do or say gets on each other's nerves. What do I do to make the situation ... (58 words)

Confused about this reconciliation we're going through after I found him on a dating website!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

14 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated this guy for 2 months and he suddenly stopped communicated and I quickly discovered he was on a dating website. Things between him and I had been amazing and I really felt like we had something special and he was "the one". (I'm in my late 30's and fine being alone so ... (437 words)

Should I stay? He has broken up with me 22 times since we first got together.

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14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I might bullet this to make it clearer I am 23, Female, been with my boyfriend for two and a half years We live and work together in a pub and I am currently finishing my degree He has broken up with me 22 times since we first got together, 5 times during my finals ... (354 words)

Should I cancel the date because he told me his penis size?

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14 May 2010 (F)

age - Hi friends, I met a guy online and he is 13 years younger than me. I am 48, take great care of myself and get alot of attention from guys. We are both professionals, work out alot and he is very handsome. We have been emailing, within a week he told me his sexual fantasies... (116 words)

Are girls confused about why the average guy isn't more confident in himself?

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14 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Are girls confused about why the average guy isn't more confident in himself?... (13 words)

Please help me get rid of these feelings...

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14 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,I live in belgium. I came here with my family six years ago to study. I'm married with two children and have a relatively happy married life although I never tasted true love with my husband. However it was ok and I was happy with my children and my study. I have a terribly ... (313 words)

Is going to visit a state forest free?

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14 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - This weekend, I'm going to a state forest and I had some questions because I couldn't find much on their website. I was wondering if it costs money, and if so how much. Sorry if that's a dumb question, but I don't know much about it haha. Also, I'm just gonna be walking on the ... (78 words)

Boyfriend with the wanderlust!

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14 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Things have been going ok for a little while with my boyfriend, until a couple of weeks ago where now all i feel is a mixture of love and resentment. He's planning on going travellng around southen france in a few months time. This all sounds very cool and you would think ... (224 words)

How do I get my point accross and tell him that his porn watching is affecting our marriage?

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14 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is very addicted to porn. i have asked him over and over to stop, but he still wont. i have even threatened him with divorce and told him he would never be able to see his daughter. he still watches it. i feel like crap when he watches it. im a big girl and im losing ... (117 words)