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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He goes back and forth between me and my ex and I'm very confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - need advice please help. I came out of a 3 year relationship and he wasnt very nice i started goin out with friends enjoying myself when i met this lad we hit it off an was txting all the time meeting up he had just come out of a relationship to and had a daughter with this ... (1088 words)

Interpreting 1st date communication!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I need an interpretation of post-first date communication, please! I went on my first date in 9 years today (split with my bf of 8 1/2 years 6 months ago, took a long time to feel better and get the confidence to date again). I think it went really well-we talked for ... (268 words)

I want to tell my best friend how I feel about her but I'm afraid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my friend and i are best friends for over 5 years. we are both girls. i've been having a crush on her for over 4 years. i dont know what to do. shes straight but sometimes it feels like she can be BI. the fact is because few years after we became best friends we were searching ... (291 words)

Crushing on an army guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm 14... Well I have recently joined CCF (Combined Cadet Force, which is like Army, Air Force and and Navy training) And there's this guy.. He's two years older than me, and he helps train the new-ish people. He's just so nice and and sweet and and amazing ...... (197 words)

Can I trust him again? He's always showing signs of cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im a 32 yr old who has been screwed over by every man ive ever been with..when me and my husband now got together i accussed him so much,but he would always say he would show he was different.Well oct.of 08 i found out he was txt a girl from a bank where he cashed his check..we ... (122 words)

Ex wants to know why I deleted him from facebook

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I deleted my ex-boyfriend from facebook about a month after he broke up with me. Before that we were friends on msn and FB, but we weren't talking unless I initiated communication (only twice). 1 week after I deleted him from Facebook and msn, he texted me both o... (133 words)

What should I do now after 22 years of marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 22 years. We have raised 3 kids, and now have 2 grandkids.We seperated 8 months ago when I moved out.Over the years I left probably 10 times but never to another woman and always came back within a couple days.There was never any doubt my wife always ... (356 words)

Stop the madness!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid,this qoustion is about my sister and she went out with this guy they went out and broke up 3 times and he cheated on her with her best friend how wrong is that and she keeps going for him over and over again what can i do to stop this befor she gets hurt again.... (57 words)

At 14, am I too young for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I'm 14 . my bf is 17 . one question , is this wrong ? we are both in love w / each other ( told each other in october ) and want to have sex . both our first time . question # 2 , I too young ? we've been together for the 2 nd time in august . 1 st time was in feb 09 and ... (114 words)

Awkward situation with Boyfriend as I cant get to the orgasm!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a long distance relationship since last 2 years. After a rough ride, things are finally smooth. Both of us are happy and satisfied and we love each other a lot. We make every effort to stay as much in touch as possible now. We casually engage in virtual lovemaking on ... (642 words)

How should I go about dating this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - so there's this girl i really like who goes to my university. i asked her out to lunch a week ago (and it went well) which i paid for even though she offered to split the bill. I've been txting her every couple days just to see how shes doing and flirt a bit, i always initiate ... (154 words)

Is he trying to tell me he fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, any guys out there who can tell me if this guy is attracted to me? Iam used to men just telling me straight that they like me, and have never had this problem before. He follows me around ,blushes profusely when he sees me, watches me all the time, laughs when I laug... (273 words)

Boyfriend says he's a shitty boyfriend and wants a break

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just dont understand, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 7 months and everything is great. we've never fought! i know thats crazy that we havent but its the truth. and he just recently got a new job that he's very busy with and is on call and works tons of hours ... (383 words)

I think my room mate's ex was hitting on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My roommate and her boyfriend broke up a week or so ago after a little over a year together. They still talk to each other, but are not officially "seeing each other." Last night her ex IMed me on facebook and we started talking, and it seemed friendly, but I was worried in ... (193 words)

Friendship or love? its all going very bad as hes very shy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im really confused about my friend. We;ve known each other 2 and a half years. But recently we;ve started going out more as we have now left college so its not like i see him everyday or anything. Theres usually me him and afew others that go out. Yes i like him alot and ... (501 words)

Can you love someone with bad skin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have really bad skin. I don't mean acne or some dry skin, I actually mean eczema and chronic dry skin. On top of that I suffer from allergies and hay fever, so all year round I just have horrendous skin. I have rough hands, dry flaky nose and terrible skin on my legs. Besi... (111 words)

What should I do about my 1 year long distance relationship?? I need advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help trying to figure out what I wanna do with my realtionship with him.. We lived in the same city for a few months but then he had to move 1 hr 30 min away but we decided wed continue seeing each other knowing it would be harder being long distance. We would see each ... (238 words)

Why does the man blame the woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - why does a man do something wrong and then try to turn it around on the woman instead of making up?... (21 words)

Am I a crazy stalker bitch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name a Olivia and the guy I am currently seeing well we have phone sex ALOT and we were having phone sex and I was orgasming and I could of sworn he was laughing and giggling but he told me he was oragasming also but in his voice he sounds like he is trying not to laugh... (304 words)

I've had enough and I'm ready to leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to leave my husband but not sure when and how to go about doing it.....he has not changed his ways when it comes to the put downs the criticism etc.. he complains when I don't cook and when I do its crappy.....mind you we have a 2 yr old and twins who are almost 8 ... (120 words)

I really like her but I'm not attracted to her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age - I was introduced to someone that I felt no real cemistry for and tried to see if anything would develop as far as feelings go. We hve had sex but I just don't think she is my type at all and I try to see if feelings can develop but I don't think that I am attracted to her and ... (87 words)

Girlfriend broke up with me, such a waste of a great relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was with this girl for about 4 months, and honestly, they were the best 4 months of my life. I’m 19 and she’s 17. I went to high school with this girl for 4 years (she is one year younger than me). We never really talked, and she didn’t stand out to me. One day I talked t... (844 words)

Update for pregnant by my old flame results for my sins

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am the one who posted pregnant by my old flame in late march some updates for you who may remember I chose to have an abortion I was 3 months pregnant I could not tell my live in boyfriend of 5 years that I have been messing around with my old flame.I have not told my old ... (156 words)

Should I have sex with him knowing it means more to me than him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I've been friends with this guy since year 7, we've always been incredibly close for example he rings me up all the time for a chat and we have nights in together, he's really attractive and I'm not. During our friendship he's had a number of different girlfr... (251 words)

Should I date someone my own age or stay with my older boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months. He is a lot older than me (i am 18, he is 32), which isnt a problem between us in terms of personality but i cant tell my family about him, and i have not been introduced to his friends or him to mine. Also, it is a long ... (803 words)

I love him but am unsure if he's right for me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Lately I have been very confused about my relationship with my boyfriend. I love him very much and we have a beautiful history. Before I would never think of anyone or anything else but him. If we were apart I would miss him dearly and I couldn't get enough of ... (437 words)

Husband going through a mid life crisis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Age is posted as 15...mistake?? Quick Question, If a man is happily married with kids, but his wife will not have sex with him until he has "the snip", will he look for sex? And is it possible that he is going through a midlife crisis (aged 36) ?... (56 words)

We've been dating for 4 months, he says he loves both me and his wife and now she's coming back!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! i have a serious problem here. i met this guy in december 2009, he told me his wife has left him for 14 months, then we started dating, now were are so emotional involved he just told me a week ago that the wife is coming back from thailand. he said he still loves h... (154 words)

Anyone have any serious side effects from taking the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people, Okay i went to the doctor last week to get the pill, i have it but i have to wait till my period comes and start it on the first day. Im really nervous, more so about any side effects. Have any of you experienced anything serious because of the pill? Thanks... (59 words)

Am I a bad girlfriend? My boyfriend says I am

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (?) age 36-40 - hi, i am not sure how to ask this. i have a boyfriend. lately it has not been smooth. we argue a lot and i get offended too much. in my relationship, it is getting so bad. he usually will be sweet if he ever offend or hurt me and convince me he didn't mean it. but now, h... (387 words)

This guy has got to me but there's an ex in the picture

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age - dont know were to start,i wrte in a few days ago about i met a musician who approached me ask me to tex him and he was`nt attached!so i texed him and no reply texed again still no reply i hate waiting and i know he was going to germany for 5wks soon so i rang him we had a chat ... (266 words)

The guy I am seeing wants to engage in incest themed role play!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Sorry, I'm sure you get questions like this all the time... Anyway, I'm 18 and I'm "seeing" a guy who is mid 40's, he is divorced and has no kids and I'm going off to uni soon so it'll be goodbyes in a bit, the other day we were laying in bed and he asked me if I had any ... (161 words)

Movies without being porn that will turn a couple on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some movies for you and your boyfriend to watch that will turn you both on? Something that will give him ideas and make him want to do with you. But not any porn movies. Thanx... (40 words)

Husband says he has proof of my affair through text messages

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a mentally abusive marriage for 16 years. He has isolated me from all my family and friends. I had already decided I was wanting a divorce but, I ran into an old boy friend from high school who told me he tried to reconnect with me before I got married, he came ... (159 words)

Smelly green discharge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have had this kinda clear/greenish discharge for a few days its not itchy or sore but it is a bit smelly i am getting kinda worried and i dunno what to do. i know it cant be an sti cuz i am still a virgin but it is kinda getting to me. what do i do ... (65 words)

I don't have closure and wonder what would have happened if we had tried harder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice please. From 2004, I met this guy during university and we met up casually. He messed me around i.e. sometimes he’d call and text, he’d forget our meet ups or he’d text out of the blue. He was the first guy I dated and kissed. I really liked him. Anyway ... (684 words)

One night stand emotional attachment

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - oook i fall in 'love' after a one night... this is what happens (all the time)... i look, he looks, we have fun, if he just fcks me then leaves, Good. but if... i look, he looks, we have fun: but if we eg hold hands-talk about our lives and i get kissed on the fore... (157 words)

I feel like she's trying to tell me who I can talk to, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *all names in this post are made up. Hiya I really need some help. I lots of friends but 3 very close friends. Chloe, Aimee and Stacie.* Recently Chloe and Stacie had a bit of a fall out and now there is alot of tention and awkwardness between them. They bearly talk and ... (256 words)

I have erection problems and need advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I posted a topic here a couple of months ago, but I'm still not sure what's going on...down there. Let me explain, it seems either I can't get a full erection, or it majorly curves down, it gets hard as a rock, but it curves down at an angle, and I'm not sure what caused t... (93 words)

I'm just his Saturday night date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm going crazy here. I think I'm just going to end things with the guy I've been seeing. He obviously doesn't want me to be part of his life other than a Saturday night date. I know I'm not a patient person, but tonight will be our 17th date (every Saturday night since the ... (267 words)

Friend always has to have boy's attention!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, my friend have splt with her boyfriend and now when ever we go somwere she has to have boys attention. i know that she wants a bit of fun but shes only thinking of herself. i say this because the other day we was over this boys flat and she and him disappeared and left me ... (148 words)

Should I live life as the teenager that I am or stay with my 38 year old fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - lets see if i can explain this in a way that might make since. ok im a 19 year old female i have been dating my fiance whoms 38 years old for almost 2 years now. i love him and his son very much, but lately it just seem that we dont have the spark any more and i feel like he ... (269 words)

2 girls..I like them both and I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend and we have been out for coming up two years. i am still at school and just about to leave for college, and we're both going our different ways. but recently i have taken an interest to another girl who i have liked for a few years too, the only thing was is ... (132 words)

I don't classify this as cheating but my boyfriend will!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, Ive been dating a guy for about 2 months and I told him I would never cheat. But recently I was out with friends (1 girl and 2guys) one of the guys is an ex boyfriend. When we were leaving, i hugged him goodbye and I turned to kiss him on the cheek like I do with all ... (119 words)

I'm tired of a one sided friendship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - this girl and i have been friends for a very long time. up until last year, we were really close. what tore us apart was that we drifted apart due to school and work related schedules not working well with the other -- which was fine. But then one day, i found out that s... (370 words)

He had a sly errection ..what did I do ??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone , Im a little confused over an incident that occured recently . There was a group of us going out for dinner and my boyfriend was driving ..we were one seat short , and seeing Im the smallest I jumped onto a male friends lap in the back seat . Now admi... (215 words)

Go back to dating the ex or move on with guy I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So,my ex (now at least) have known each other since the beginning of last year...and we've been on and off since the end of last year. If we disagree over something its usually something silly,like last time we broke it off because his friends (see my other qs) were being st... (203 words)

Every time I'm with her nothing happens!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15-19 I want to tell a girl how I feel but the thing is I dont wanna pressurize her everytime I am with her nothing happens. Though I know that she loves me and I love her as I can see it in her eyes. Just recently I gave her a rose with a diamond(fake) in it I told her ... (112 words)

Too shy to talk to him, wonder if he has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this boy that I like in my chemistry class but we have like a hundred students in this class so I'm too shy to talk to him and sit next next to him. I have such a huge crush on him but I have never approach a guy before and this is a university school I'm attending so ... (75 words)

My boyfriends family is throwing a 'sweet 16th' party on my 30th. I feel neglected and jealous. Should I say something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's the deal..my boyfriend of 12yrs. just told me that on my birthday his family is going to have a sweet 16 birthday party for his niece. I was so hurt this is my 30th birthday and was so excited! Because he had told me that he was going to throw me a party. Like I've ... (431 words)

Will a tight foreskin affect my ability to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi...i'm a 20 year old virgin guy, my girlfriend is virgin too....recently i oobserved lots of hints by her that she want to have sex with me, i too want to have sex with her....now my problem is that my foreskin is still very tight, i can pull it back even in full erection but ... (98 words)

Sex is not as exciting as it used to be, ... and is it normal for 'straight' girls to crave other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old and about to finnish highschool. I have been dating my girlfriend for about 9 months and recently she has told me that sex is not as exciting anymore. I kind of agreed because we used to sneak out and go somewhere in my car all the time. Now we dont do it as ... (217 words)

Is he just being nice to me, ...or does he actually like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently met this guy (one of my brother's friends), and to me personally he isn't that good looking; i never gave a second thought to ever liking him. situations have lead to the present, and he is now staying with us for a bit until he gets back on his feet. at first,... (281 words)

I want to be able to forgive my mother even tho she is violent, abandoned the family, and now wants to take our home away from us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - OK, so this is a long story that I'll sum up. My mom and dad had a huge fight one day. My mother ended up leaving because I took dads side and stated that everything should be solved calmly without violence. She wanted us to beg for her back but we never did. She's a cruel an... (399 words)

I told my friend that I like him...and now I'm not sure if that was the right thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *Op's own title* Okay so there's this guy who i knew since last year but we started talking since March 1st and we've been talking everyday since then. I've gotten to know him a bit and he seems like a nice guy and eventually i started catching feelings for him(because i fall... (386 words)

Why does she lie and make excuses up for leaving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, There is this girl at school that I really like, and we seem practically perfect for each other. Everyone knows it and some have even said so but she doesn't believe it. We went out for almost a week and she left me because she found it weird to date me. The only problem... (85 words)

Should I walk out of this marriage or do I need to try more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *Op's own title* I am a 30yrs old, financially independent woman. I have been married for 3 years. Our marriage has been very tough from the start coz my husband's mother has been a very interfering and obsessive mother. Being the only child, my hubby felt obligated to help his ... (905 words)

How do I become more grateful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't want to turn into a doormat for other people but I have a question about gratitude. How do I become more grateful for things in life? Usually, we all feel better when we appreciate things. But sometimes, if you are too nice or show too much appreciation, people treat ... (152 words)

I've had my tubes tied, ...but he is not sure he could go the rest of his life without becoming a father again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Im at a loss of everything, I met a man about 6mths ago who completes me in everyway. A few weeks ago we started talking about moving in together and how exactly we were going to go about it with my kids Dads and us being 2 hours apart etc.... He then brings up t... (185 words)

When does an age difference become important?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When it comes to dating or falling inlove does age really matter? Would 10 years difference really matter? For example a 20 year old and a 30 year old. That is a 10 year difference so would it matter if the age gap is that big?... (46 words)

My boyfriend has become Jekyl and Hyde

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My boyfriend really isnt himself lately, we're on a break because he needs to finish college and stuff we've been together for 4 months and up until then its been perfect then the other day he decided he wanted a break so he could finish college without the distract... (358 words)

His actions don't match his words of love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for almost eight years, married the last three. My husband had a couple of bad relationships and has difficulty trusting anyone. One relationship resulted in a child he paid support for and never saw past the age of 3. The exgirlfr... (269 words)

My sister seems to have it all ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Have you ever been envious of your sister? I am, all the time. She always gets more attention than I, is way prettier and richer than me. Even though she is already 35 and married, every one still adores her youth and beauty. I know I'm being mean and evil, but if you are in m... (91 words)

I think I have blown all my chances with her by standing back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello im looking for some help with a situation with my best friend who is a girl. We have known each other since we were 15 and were now 25, we were always really close but never anything more, i knew she liked me but at the time i was young and wasnt interested in an... (513 words)

How can I back down and tell my daughter I am sorry?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age - My only daughter has always been my baby girl. Ever since she was just a little girl she talked about beign a princess on her wedding day. I always told her that I would make her a princess on that day, I just didn't think that day would come so sood. She has been with her boy ... (286 words)

I told her she'd have to wait 8 years for us to be together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 18years old guy in a relationship with a girl of 21years for over a year now. I really do love her,and she does love me,not for my money[which i dont have] or anything. Her parents are in support but i dont know if we can be together in future. I am in the university ... (101 words)

I don't mind if my husband watches porn but he lies to me about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem,i think.my husband loves porn and so do i but i dont tell him that.my problem is when he watches it he lies to me about it,and i have told him several times that i dont care just dont lie to me about it ya know.and another thing is when he watches it,it kinda ... (81 words)

Poll for men concerning porn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Quick poll for the men, how many of you look at porn when you're in a relationship? How many of you lie about your porn use? How many continue to use porn despite being asked not to? How many of you would actually stop if she asked? How many have never been asked not to but ... (91 words)

I love him when he's out of my life, have no feelings when he is in my life..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it that I miss my ex sooo much that i keep on thinking about him but when he comes back I always realize that I don't like him anymore, i find him disgusting and that I don't care if he disappears forever? Do some people experience this? What is really my true f... (62 words)

I feel used and abused. I thought he was a considerate boy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for a month and a half, it went so well and everything, he was spoiling me rotten, after a month and a half, I ended it with him because: he started lying to me, not giving me money back which I gave to him, never asked me to meet him, made excuses all ... (326 words)

How do I get out of an emotionally abusive relationship?

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1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for a year now. Beginning was great, but then it turned to hell. He cheated on me and lied to be about everything. So i finally broke up with him for about 3 months. He was my first love and everything else. He came back ... (673 words)

Why does this guy always contact me just when I'm getting over him?

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1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so back in November, I met a guy online. We talked for a while and really hit it off. We decided to meet up, and we ended up fooling around, no sex or anything though. But we ended up having sex the second time we met up. We continued to see each other for about a month, ... (618 words)

I think he's cheating and he won't discuss it!

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1 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My guy and I have been together for 23 yrs several years ago he started doing drugs, working late, anger always, money loss, not call, weird unexplainable misc. things, social scene I never new about, went to bars, hung at home socializing when I with kids, left us with no ... (180 words)

Accused of cheating but we aren't having sex!

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1 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why does he accuse me of wanting to cheat and tell me he doesn't think I want to be with him and and that he thinks I am not turned on by him anymore. Is this a projection and this is how he talks all diverse areas of our relationship, his ideas are nothing close to my feelings ... (146 words)

I'm very upset that boyfriend spent money he didn't have to buy a gun!

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1 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of 8 months just recently went on holiday with a little money he saved up. He wanted to do something nice for me and both of us don't have much money at the moment as we are unemployed, so I thought it was a kind gesture. Whilst we were on holiday, he boug... (231 words)

I don't want to give up if there is still a chance! Should I talk to her again?

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1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl in a few of my classes who I've liked for a few months now. We talk occasionally (class) and have had a couple good 30+ min one-on-one conversions (field trip/class) Also it may just be me but a few times we have met eyes and she looked away slightly embarrassed. ... (373 words)

Acai berry scam.. how to get out of it?! please help!

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1 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i am totally aware that this isnt a relationship question, but i didnt know who else to ask! i ordered the acai berry pills online for a free trial.. which ironically is actually legit, but the trick is that in the small print, it says that after 30 days you have to ... (136 words)

How do I tell my friend to lay off?

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1 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy, I've gotta question regarding my one of my friends. Im at college and i've recently been considering leaving because of it, even though it sounds a bit stupid. I've known him for nearly two years, and since that time his just started to upset me a bit. I feel he keeps ... (256 words)