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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Diet causing weaker erections?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I know this is not a health site, but I am sure that having some extra pointers or thoughts on my situation I'll have more clarity as I am somewhat baffled. I am 26yrs old, male, in moderate shape, I do not exercise, but I am in good shape. I've mostly had an averag... (414 words)

We like each other but why is he with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy, and im sure if likes me too, we can sit and cuddle for hours and just talk, he kisses my head my cheek and even my lips sometimes, he tells me he loves me often, but i wont let my self believe it, as he has a girlfriend, He said he wants to be with me... But i ... (86 words)

Does anyone have any ideas how to actually go out with the guy who asks me out..instead of deleting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I need help asap! I have been talking to this guy on facebook and he finally has asked me out. I have been asked out so many times in the past, but that is usually when I clam up and delete them as a friend. I want to have a relationship, but i have no idea what to do ... (137 words)

I want to break up but her birthday is next week!!!! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there I am wanting to break up with my girlfriend but there is a catch her birthday is a week tomorrow. Part of me feels i should wait till afterwards but another part asks how long after. A week? Two? I just don't know what to do. Any help would be appreaciated thanks. ... (56 words)

He got with my best friend after seeing me kiss two boys at my birthday party!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really dont know what to do about this guy i like! and the situation im in right now! if anyone could help me you'd be such a great help! I had my 18th birthday party on saturday night (but lets start from the begining) Ive been meeting a guy since around october'ish, we'v... (427 words)

Am I reading too much into this? Is there a chance he could love me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - erm... well what can i say i've fallen in love with a memeber of staff in my school... he's a classroom assistant, great personality, good looking, kind-hearted, respectful... basically my kind of perfect, but i cant have him, he's engaged i feel so ashamed to say it but he is. ... (322 words)

I need to get him to get over me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi guys, i'd like you to be brutally honest because I really need some help. There is this guy I got with at a party a while ago, not much happened other that spending the night together and a bit of kissing, anyway the next morning I woke up and he was already awake. he'd bee... (156 words)

Will he take this opportunity to break things off?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My capricorn man and i had a fight, he wont take my calls or call me, what should I do? I flipped someone off on Saturday, that cut me off, he got angry at me, saying I should not drive crazy, and should not have done that. We were already feuding because of something else. Bu... (265 words)

One of his daughters doesn't like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hello..im in a bit of a dilema..ive fallen for this guy and im really in love with him..the thing is that he is widdowed but he has 5 kids..the youngest is the only one that lives with him,hes 12, and he really likes me..the problem is that his daughters really dont like me ... (196 words)

I don't want my ex back but the tie is still emotionally intense

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I were together 2 years and living together for one year before I finally gave up on feeling that he was the right guy for me. He was openly seeking out sex partners throughout our relationship eventhough he knew that I could not deal with it. I become more and more ... (524 words)

Can we be highschool sweethearts forever or will our love fade I'm scared please help if you have relationship experince

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i never wantedlove until i met my boyfriend at 17..but surprisingly weve fell deeply in love at a young age weve been together 1 year and four months and have been threw alot...its going great..im 19 now and hes 18 i have a promise ring that he got me after 3months...we love ... (156 words)

Attraction killers for men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Someone asked a similar question about what men typically do that would kill the attraction a woman may have felt for him. So I felt curious to ask, What kind of things can a woman do that would make a man lose desire for her? I look forward to your answers :)... (54 words)

33 year-old male virgin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - As a 33 year-old virgin who has never been in a relationship and has never, ever had sex how can you learn how to court a woman, flirt with her, ask her out, that sort of thing? That said, how can you learn about women generally? Are there actually any single women around by ... (127 words)

I'm a guy and I'm scared of sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, I'm a guy and I'm scared of sex... Before anyone asks, no I'm not a virgin but being a guy, there's a whole lot of pressure to achieve... And if you don't, there's that horrible look (and sigh) of dissappointment. Not only that but girls nearly always tend to say ... (132 words)

I lust after my boyfriends best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been in a relationship for 3 years he's my best friend nd i love him dearly but our sex life is v.stale, there is no passion or lust nd iv tried so much to inject some. problem is iv resently been spendin more time with his best friend and his gf ( with my bf). nd during ... (178 words)

Broke up with my boyfriend of 2years today, and already I'm talking to another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 2years today, the main reason being because he was texting and flirting with this girl and I just didn't feel I could trust him anymore seen as he;s cheated about 4other times. We've ended on pretty good terms, well as good as they get, but the ... (202 words)

Can't shake him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age - I am seeing a man casual , I am separated, so is he. I think we really connected in the bedroom for sure. We text no phone communication so I wait for his texts I'm finding I am having very deep feelings, we discussed that our children come first that's all fine, but he doesn... (83 words)

Wife has seen our friend naked and says its not big deal!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Not sure what to do. My wife and I are married a few years. We started dating in high school, and got married after dating almost 3 years. She has this male friend who she grew up next to, he was a neighbor, and they never dated but were friends since they were real little, ... (435 words)

Blue films vs porno films

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - what is the difference between blue flims and porn movies..? can anyone give the differentiation please..... (16 words)

I think I have become a FWB not sure how I feel about this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I have become a FWB which I am not sure I want but I do feel attracted to this guy. We have kissed on many occasions and have started going a bit further hand jobs and fingering, we have never been out we just sort of have a bit of fun if we both just happen to be in ... (191 words)

My friend is so angry at me how do I make it up to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the other night i had some problems with a very close friend, he is more than i friend, if that makes sense. im 18 and he is 27. he lives far away so it is hard. anyway the other night, we were going to watch a movie together, as he lives far away we were going to do it online. ... (258 words)

How can I get boys to like me without looking like a barbie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Aunties and Uncles .i hate it that boys my age always go for the girls with make up plastered to their faces, with push up bras and girls who adore themselves. they dont actually know them they only go for their 'looks'. Girls who go round with a 3inch layer of make up on ... (205 words)

Have a terrible crush on my 40 year old teacher, help,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - At first it was a crush, I know, but after a year I feel as if I really love him and it's ruining my life! I can't go anywhere, do anything or talk to anyone without him always being in my head. I'm 16 and he's 40, but I don't even see that. I just love everything he does, ev... (362 words)

How do I tell her about my deep feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a male 16 and i have been speaking with this girl for about 3 months, about 1 month ago i fell in love with her, and i would like to tell her about my feelings, but don't have the guts to do it, i am afraid that this would ruin our good friendship. For a while i was looking ... (191 words)

We argued, broke up, now I want him back, what can I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing: My boyfriend and I broke up a while ago because he didn't know what he wanted and also wanted to be more independent as we're both only young. Because I was confused as to whether we were still together or not, I ended the relationship. I've wanted to get him ... (536 words)

How does one get on birth control pills, I am twenty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to go on the pill but last time I asked my GP all she told me was that there was no reason for me to go on it because I am not sexually active and have no medical reason e.g. heavy periods, irregular periods etc. but I want to go on it just incase I do meet someone one ... (101 words)

Having sexual problems and need your help please??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met a guy, he’s great in all aspect except for one thing…..he’s a one min. men, s3x with him only last 30 secs… I know that he’s frustrated but it doesn’t seen like he can control it… it’s horrible, I feel horrible – it’s also a major turn off. Anyone experience ... (78 words)

How do I cope with being dumped by my boyfriend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend dumped me on saturday for another girl and I'm so hurt as we moved in together 6 months ago and I was starting to think about getting married. My mom passed away 4 months ago and my 13 yo brother was put in a group home. We were going to get custody of him but now ... (149 words)

Guys, what do you like in a girl??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, us girls all know that the worst kind of girl to be to attract a guy is one that is "clingy", "desperate" and "needy". So guys, what is exactly is your definition of these things? Texting you once a day? Once an hour? Calling just to see how you are? I'd love to know you... (62 words)

Can't trust him, but think about him a lot, what now??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here is guy I met on net and we have been friends for a year . We were very good friends and he shared everything about his life with me. He said he loves me more than anything and wants me as his life partner. As it is a online relation and we live far away so I was taking ... (319 words)

Sending me mixed messages, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a sort a here and there relationship with a friend at uni, we are both have admitted that we like eachother at the end of last year, and we are still attracted to eachother now and imo would work well as a couple, but everytime we have gotten close to that stage he ... (314 words)

If I'm pregnant do I have to tell my abusive ex boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I had the issue of sleeping with my ex although I'd already broken up with him. Mainly I just wanted to see him but he wouldn't keep his hands too himself so I'd give into him. Well now, I've officially called it off. I'm done with him I don't want to be with him ever... (247 words)

If the person I like doesn't feel the same should I give up to prevent rejection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is a bit of a general question although it does apply to my current situation. If you feel as though a relationship with a girl isn't going to work for some reason, ie you aren't compatible, should you forget asking that person out, even if you get on well and are ... (102 words)

Confused over my long distance romance, please help me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well im 16, and i have been in love with this guy for two years. only problem is, he lives about 4 hours away and lives where i go on holiday, (i go there about 6 times a year so i see him alot) everytime i go down, it's like we're together. the last time i went down th... (296 words)

Why would my girlfriend say she lost her virginity to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend already lost her virginity but she regrets losing it to her first because it was rushed and it was a bad experience etc. and wished she had done it with me. She refuses to claim him and when people ask her who was her first, she claims me. Why is that? and would ... (61 words)

Why does my cartilage piercing smell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *OP's own title" Two years ago I had a cartilage piercing done in the top of my ear. When it was first done my ear swelled up a bit and had a mild infection but I took antibiotics and the infection cleared. Now my pierced ear is the same size as the other and the piercing looks ... (115 words)

Why would he leave his health concerns for me to deal with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm having a problem with my boyfriend of 1.5 years, but I guess to understand I'll have to tell you a little about both of us. Me: 21, emotional, bad anxiety, not the most articulate, work for my dad. Him: 27, emotionally dead, partier, works out of town 2 wee... (408 words)

Is there's any thing I can eat or drink that would make my belly stop hurting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 17 and i was wondering if there's any thing you can eat or drink that will make your belly stop hurting or not hurt as much when your on your period? I tried taken tums it dint help, Also is there drinks or foods that will make it worse when your on it? cause i love ... (105 words)

Marry here, marry there... marry where?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have one more year in school,i should graduate in the fall of 2011, and within one or two months of graduation i plan to move to mexico with my boyfriend. what we want to do is get married here in court and then have a church wedding in mexico because i feel it would be ... (129 words)

At my wit's end with my copy-cat friend! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. There is more a friendship then relationship question. I'm 21 years old and have known my friend since grade 9 (7 years). We were best friends for 2 but when she became anorexic/bulimic and I tried to help her while everyone else was encouraging it, she dropped ... (478 words)

"Stuck in the wrong relationship"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - "OPs own title" hi, i have a really good friendship with this guy and i talk to him a lot but recently its been told that he fancies me and then he asked me out and well i said yes and everybody says were cute and great together but i don't feel attracted to him in that way i ... (128 words)

I have a gut instinct that my partner is cheating on me. I do have past trust issues.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a gut instinct that my partner is cheating on me, but then i ask myself why would he cheat when i give him everything... i have sex with him everyday and i can tell i please him as he always wants sex with me, do any position he wants, give him oral whenever he wants, im ... (142 words)

Feeling like I need to make a move...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age - My question is: How do you make the change in your life that you know you need to do, but always find it is easier to stay where you are. ... (30 words)

I am desperate how can I get him off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im desperate... i dont know what to do anymore. how on earth can i forget someone that i love so much but cant be with?? i have tried to go out with my friends, have fun, keep myself busy at all times, unfortunately there is nothing i can do to forget him, his on my mind 24/7. ... (138 words)

What would you think about this if it was your girlfriend and your roommate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Folks i would need some advice.The one i get from my buddies always involves alcohol :s this is the first time i do this kind of thing but here we go. Found out a couple of days ago thanks to a lost email that my girlfriend of 2 years with whom i live has been getting att... (176 words)

Do we have a second chance at love after 30 years apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age - I married my first love in 1979 and we have 2 kids together but due to him cheating on me I divorced him. We both remarried the wrong people and always kept in contact over the years and I never stopped loving him.Now we started back seeing each other in February 2010.We both ... (126 words)

I want to message him but I'm scared people will make fun of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok i have this group of mates that ive only started gettin to know for the past year, they're all practically the same, pretty snobbish. One had a quiz night a few nights back all was fine and i met my mates boyfriends mate, and kinda liked him i really wanna message him and ... (91 words)

Who is the father of my baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ok i had sex with my x december 19,20 that is the last time i had sex with him then had sex with my friend the next day for the rest of december and january my last period was january 1st i want to the doctors and he told me i am 19 weeks and 3 days today 5/17/10 and my due ... (83 words)

Feeling the "poke" during sex. Is this normal? Its painful!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys. this is for the ladies mostly, but guys are welcome to chip in too! any advice much appreciated. my boyfriend and i are very much in love. about 4 months ago i lost my virginity to him. he wasnt a virgin but he was very gentle and caring about the whole thing. any... (286 words)

Why am I torturing myself with memories of my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got the most amazing boyfriend who treats me so well and I basically couldn't ask for more. But I still think of this guy I dated briefly before I met my boyfriend. This guy was so into me, pursued me so much and I fell so hard for him. We only dated for a month and ... (191 words)

Should I be worried that this could turn out to be more, or can a man and a woman really just be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 2 1/2 years now. We have been so happy together, but since I have been with him, all his friends one by one have just kinda ignored him through this time, I used to be friends with them all on face book so it was all great that we all got along. ... (397 words)

Does this prostitute have feelings for me or is she just using me for money?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age - I have meet a prostitute and enjoy her company immensely, her being a prostitute does not bother me, i am married not happly married, and prefer her company allthough it is on occaisionally, i think she likes me. the only thing when we go out out her body language does not ... (92 words)

Should I have a baby with my boyfriend? I'm scared of being sick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right me and my boyfriend have been together 1 1/2 years now.. his 22 and am 19 we have just come of a break but he is saying he wants us to have a baby.. i dont no how to feel about this as i have a phobia of being sick and morning sickness really scares me. i love him to ... (89 words)

What does it mean for her to call me her Cabana Boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend says I am like her cabana boy. What does that mean? I do cater to her as far as giving her massages and serving her drinks in bed at times.... (32 words)

How can I express my feelings to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I miss this girl who I am in love very much but I am not sure how to express my feelings to her? I know she loves I can see it in her eyes ... (34 words)

Is what my boyfriend and I have a deep enough connection to consider getting married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'd like advice from anyone out there who is currently married or who has been. I want to know if you think that what my bf and I have together is a deep enough connection to one day consider spending the rest of our lives together. We're not ready for marriage yet, bu... (1059 words)

Was it wrong for my husband to have "harmless" chats with other women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi is it okay if you are married , deeply in love with your spouse and still have harmless chats with strangers ? In another country? Telephonic conversations etc . My husband did this stopped before i knew but i came to know later it was not sexual but he chatted every ... (120 words)

How do I get this girl to be in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 24 n i really like a girl at my institute. Im in final year and she is in pre final year hence ive only few days to be in college. i 1st saw her when she was in 2nd yr , here is my story- i used to see her but never stalked her ...after a month and half she started ign... (508 words)

How much "groping" is too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my girlfriend, and like I have seen both of our fathers do, I like to (in private) randomly grap my girlfriend's butt or boobs and maybe squeeze them, but never anything forceful. She'll laugh or say something like "oh yeah" in a "naughty voice," and doesn't seem to ... (90 words)

Why am I finding so hard to deal with his ex's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - oky here goes... Me and my boyfriend are having a very hard time... I used to get upset over his ex phoning him and finding letters from them and what ever... luckily i got over that... and then... on Saturday I we went out and I had to face not one but to of them on the same... (208 words)

Was dating a brilliant guy, then his ex came back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - After bumping into a friend if a friend a couple of times on nights out, I finally agreed to go on a date with him. We had a great time and really clicked. He kept in contact and we went out a couple more times. I then went on holiday for a couple of weeks and when I got back ... (422 words)

Is it a good idea to keep in contact with a teacher when I am about to finish for school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a good idea to keep in contact with a teacher when I am about to finish for school? I have this teacher which I have known for 6 years (from year 7 to year 12). He is in his late 30s, married with 2 kids. I don't like him in a romantic way. I admire this teacher a lo... (226 words)

Accidentally discovered my fiance had been loking at porn online - should I worry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, well i'm very much in love with my fiance, who I have two beautiful kids with - our eldest who is 19 months and our new arival who is just 11 weeks. I feel so close to him and can't imagine my life without him - i can't wait for him to be my husband. We would have married ... (302 words)

Situation with my ex girlfriend....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex started talking to me yesterday online 6 months after we broke up. We haven't spoken since then. So her talking and asking how I was was rather put of the blue. The conversation ended with her suggesting that we go on holiday together. What am I to make of it? She ended... (133 words)

Problems with condoms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - in my past, present, and probably future relationships i have never liked using a condom. i dont know if its just me, the brand, or what. i think that smell like plastic, ranted they are, but still not a turn on. they inhibit my..pleasure. to such a point where if im usin... (106 words)

Is there a subtle way I can bring up sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there a subtle way to bring up sex with your significant other? in my case, with my girlfriend, im not interested in anything kinky, just not the same position every time, i guess you could say i want to switch the positions up a little bit, because it seems like it mi... (88 words)

Possible betrayal in my relationship...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright... So I am having a big problem in my relationship of two years right now. And since I found some helpful answers on a previous question here, I have come back. So here is the info on the situation... Early when I met my girlfriend of over two years now, she had to ... (538 words)

I think he likes me but he has a long-distance girlfriend, does this mean he is a cheater?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i like this guy and i think he likes me. We talk/text almost everyday, hes asked me to go with him to many places, one place was the movies and we went. Another was a play that a highschool was presenting. And everyone askes if we are dating, i never respond and neither ... (97 words)

Why did she start hating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going to apologize for wasting your time now....I'm sorry Ok, Just as the title says. I really, really, really, really like this girl, so much so, that it's reached the point of love (for me at least). I'm 17, she's 16. Now, I know what you're thinking: "You're both too... (1389 words)

Every time we leave each other it becomes harder and harder!

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello , okay so my issue is that me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship , we have been together for about a year and a half and we were best friends for like 2 years before he even asked me out , but the thing is he moved away like 3 months ago and when he ... (173 words)

Places to meet quality women

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey im newly single just broke up with my girlfriend of 7 months a few weeks ago and i needed some advice. Im 23, and a recent college grad. My girlfriend was a great person but i just wasnt ready for a serious relationship, she is a few years older and was ready for something ... (110 words)

I'm afraid I'm going to get Aids or HIV from him!

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17 May 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I'm 22 years old woman.I have sex with my ex boyfriend. We are dating about like a 6 months. and now we already broke up. The reason I broke up with him because I found out he's using drug. Like cocain, rock and all kind of drug. I dont know about the neddle he ... (91 words)

I want to have sex with my ex but he didn't tell me that he has a girlfriend!

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently me and my ex boyfriend started talking as friends...and i let it slip that i would like to have sex with him again no strings attached and he agreed to do it, but i found out that he had a girlfriend and he didn't tell me...should i ask him about her? Should i still ... (96 words)

Pregnant and still have a period?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so I had sex a day before my period was due. It was unprotected but he pulled out. I know that method isn't always reliable. So I don't need to hear that. my period started today, 4 days late. But I heard you could still be pregnant while on your period. is it possible ... (63 words)

He hangs out with my ex-best friend... Should this bother me?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Honestly, should this perturb me? Back in the day, I had this best friend whom I've been friends with since elementary: we'll call her Sophie. Sophie and I were best friends up until just a couple of years ago; after I had a very rough break up with my then-boyfriend, ... (287 words)

I'm a virgin, he's not. Why does sex have to make this so complicated?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In summary if you don’t want to read the huge paragraph below: Should I tell my boyfriend about past experience (though minimal) and the somewhat hurtful ex? Should I feel self-conscious about him not getting a full-on boner during our second intense make out session? What sho... (930 words)

I love sex with women but like giving this guy bj's!

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and I am dating this woman right. We have sex all the time and please each other all the time. But thursday night I was at my apartment and I got on craigs list and posted that I wanted to give a guy a bj. Well I did not think any one would call. But I get a ... (172 words)

Attraction killers?

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - What things do men typically do that kill any attraction a woman may have felt for him?... (17 words)

I thought we were so happy but she wants to end things!

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17 May 2010 (M)

age - I have been in a relationship for 4 months with the women of my dreams. We both have been hurt by our spouses. My wife passed away 9 months ago. We started seeing each other 4 months ago. We hit it off completely physically and emotionally. We have never even had one cross ... (477 words)

I"m gay but engaged to mentally ill woman--how do I end things with her?

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with my now fiancee for a decade, within the first 6 months she was having a hard time. She would constantly start crying and become very sensitive, not over anything that i did, but when something happened at work or school. Soon she went into a ... (357 words)

I am 17 years old male, in my senion year. I have had a crush on a 33 year old male teacher in my school since the end of my sophomore year.

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old male, in my senior year of high school. I have had a crush on a 33 year old male teacher in my school since the end of my sophomore year. =/ It has gotten to the point where I feel like I am in love with, I have actual feelings for him... Me and a few of my ... (281 words)

Should I let it go, or tell my boyfriend even without him asking??

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my man for 6 years. He has suffered depression from time to time and in the past he found it hard to be in a committed relationship. Even though we both knew we were together, he insisted on calling us 'friends' but to this day he even says we are together 6 ... (192 words)

He's confusing me...I really need help soon

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17 May 2010 (F)

age - He keeps toying with me. I completly adore him though. One thing i hate is that hes sending mixed signals! For one week he hugs, kisses and shows so much love towards me and no other girl will even catch his eye... Then the next he won't even reply to my txt messeges!!! What do ... (94 words)

Why cant he get hard?

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - one of my friend penis not getting up it is not Hard, when he going to sex it not getting up what we can do what is the reasone ... Wy the resons Any way to cheak Can we go to the good doctor or what... (52 words)

Because of my rudeness my boyfriend aren't allow at our home anymore.

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice please..... I don't how my bf would react to some heartening news. My mom and I had words with one another. It all started with she calling me a demon and i said 'one must know the next'. she get upset and we start telling each other stuff. my whole life is ... (629 words)

What’s with the bitterness and lack of the rational from such a guy?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age - What’s up with guys who can’t seem to get past their ex-wife ‘taking’ the house, the children and the car etc. in a divorce settlement when it’s been 17 years ago? And what’s up with the word - taking; when it was ‘given’ by the courts? If the wife is solely at home looking ... (126 words)

Do you think I successfilly turned off this married man?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My old teacher and i finally started talking about hooking up, especially now that i am graduating in 10 days. i know i shouldnt do this I only told him i liked him. i told him i never had a motive besides to just get that off my chest. in the texts i told him that hangin... (390 words)

Met another woman

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17 May 2010 (M)

age - Met someone and have feels for her. She is divorced with 3 children 39yrs. old. I am 49 and married, empty nester. My wife and I rarely have sex and sleep in separate quarters. The other woman is very nice, and laughs at all my jokes. I am starting to have feelings for her. ... (64 words)

Trying to start thing ups with the ex again

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, during spring vacation this whole thing happened liek a month ago. I asked my ex to prom since everything was going good like really good, she bought up a special past between us so what the heck why not? She told me she had to think about it..im like oh crud..its ... (505 words)

Love at sight?!

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was transferred to another class on my 2nd simister in sophomore year... And there was a girl sitting across from me maybe 2 table lines away... I never really thought of her on my 2 months into my 2nd simister. Until the day she and her sister presented a project for the ... (113 words)

Gay guy interested in someone who is straight, and keeping him away from a girl he's interested in

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, im gay, straight acting, outed to everyone, and have had serious relationships with guys. but for the last few months ive had strong feelings for a straight friend who lives a few doors down in uni halls, ive tried to get over him because i know its a stupid fantasy, but i ... (234 words)

Leaving for a month, what should my boyfriend and I do?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need some advice. Im 15 and a freshman and I met this great guy this year. We go to the same school but we never really talked much but a while ago we started talking and now we are boyfriend and girlfriend. We been toghter for 2 months but we broke up 2 times ... (218 words)

I'm angry about my friend and my g/f

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I rent a house with 2 friends of mine, and living with them has been great ... except when I bring my girlfriend around. One of my roomies is cordial and funny but my other roomie seems like hes always trying to impress my girlfriend or make me look bad. Sometimes he will ... (200 words)

Since my friend came out I've been wondering if I'm gay too

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ever since my frend had came and told me that she was bi sexual i have been haveing weard feelings. this mad me think about being gay and now that i got the idea in my mind i cant get it out i keep fatiscizeing about gay sex. im not shure if its just a phase or if it means im ... (63 words)

Could I have gotten pregnant from this?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this boy messed around on may 1.we didnt have sex but he was on top of me and his dick went in like the back like where the butt hole is.idk if he cumed in me but when i gave him a hand job he did cum.when i got home my underwear was all wet and pee smelled alittle ... (89 words)

As a single-mother how do I talk to my son about safe sex?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I just need advice to every parents. I am a single mother to my son. He is now in his 13 years old. I wanted to teach him how to do safe sex because i know this is the start of youngster to have a girl friend and i know in this age he is not ready to any responsi... (122 words)

Suggestions for what I should say when asking her out?

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically theres i girl i think is interested in me in one of my classes. So im thinking of making a move and seeing if she wants to go to a movie or chill one day. I was thinking of going up to her and saying..."Hey, can i talk you for a minute. 'Insert complement here' ... (97 words)

First time meeting since we broke up

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf broke up with me over a week ago. It was all very calm and ultimately all miscommunication which caused the break up. I accepted the break up, knowing that it was pointless trying to do anything else then, plus I was upset and knew I didnt want to say anything until I ... (1174 words)

Not sure I'm still in love with my fiance

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my fiance for nearly 3 yrs now, but i don't feel like i love him as much anymore. i still really care about him, i just don't think i love him. he's really clingy and tbh it's suffocating me, also it's really irritating. i have told him this plenty of times but ... (411 words)

Am I imagining things, or does he still love me?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl, and a very confused one at that. Awhile back, I had dated someone - and it honestly seemed like we were perfectly in love. One day, around April 2009, he tells me he fell for someone else, and wanted to be with her. As much as it hurt, I let him ... (278 words)

I'm 25, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin. I've kissed three girls once each. What do you think ladies?

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, OK first of all, I'd love to introduce myself by name but unfortunately the idea of me posting on here is to remain anonymous! I'm a 25 year old man from the UK. I have a reasonably OK job, I look good, dress well, drive a nice car and I'm very easy to get on with. I... (752 words)

Should I tell my brother I slept with his wife to be?

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - About 3 years ago, I had a really drunken one night stand with a woman from work. Morning after, she was very embarrassed (she'd never been with a woman before and is adamant she's totally straight) and I wasn't really after a relationship so we laughed it off. A while after ... (348 words)

I haven't just lost a g/f, I've lost my whole world

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, me and my girlfriend have been together 2 years and 2 months.. 3-4 of those were together, inseperable, and the rest of the time we've been long distace. which of course hasn't been easy, i don't like my time at uni at all and it reflects on me in a very depressive way..... (992 words)

One time I got really "hot" down there...

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Once I was looking at porn for a long time and I got really hot "down there" and I went to go shower but before I got in I masturbated really fast and hard and all of a sudden a lot of clear oily stuff came out of my "place", it ran down my legs and squirted on my hands, and ... (157 words)

Feelings for my brother-in-law

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i have been married 13 years and i have 2 kids 11 and 1...i have always had a great relashionship with my brother in law...his wife recently passed and i have helped him a lot with his kid and we have passed a lot of time together..i must confess that i have always had ... (156 words)

Was this a date or hanging out?

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. So I met this girl I knew from a years back at a party. So I found her later on myspace and we talked a little and I was trying to hang out with her so I say do you want to go to the movies or something and she's like sure. So we went today and it was fun I... (156 words)

Is my shy crush losing interest in me?

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17 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She normally shows me signs such as:looking at me when I’m not looking at her (sometimes while giggling), mimicking me, asking people she knows questions about me, showing concern for me if she thinks I’m in trouble, her friends act differently around me, sometimes she blushes ... (243 words)

My husband threw me out the house coz I don't get along with his brother.

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17 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my husband are young married couple. everything messed up when my brother inlaw and his girlfriend move in with us... just to make the story short... they didnt like me and i didnt like them... and at the end of the day my husband thrown me out of the house becau... (123 words)

Replaced by a dildo!

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17 May 2010 (M)

age - *Op's own title* hi i have ED on and off for the past year and its something my wife will nor acsept. she as taken to using her dildo or other things. i find when she does things like that i get hard or if she taks slutty that seams to work. at the weekend we went for a ... (131 words)