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Question - (4 May 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So for every woman,the universal face of charming, is george clooney. Men that are "smooth" seem to wisk us away and make us go head over heals. For men, who is that? What is smooth for men? what qualities to men find charming in a woman? What makes a woman smooth?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (7 May 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI think "charming" falls into the same catagory as "classy", either you are or you aren't.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010):

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The reason for askng this question, is that i just wanted to be a charming person, i didnt think it would come across as fake or anything. I just wanted to know how to be charming, ah. The give you goose bumps kinda thing you know?

For ex.

For girls its, look us in the eyes when we're talking. Greet us when you see us,smiling, compliments.saying our names. Looking at us ect ect ect

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

The reason for askng this question, is that i just wanted to be a charming person, i didnt think it would come across as fake or anything. I just wanted to know how to be charming, ah. The give you goose bumps kinda thing you know?

For ex.

For girls its, look us in the eyes when we're talking. Greet us when you see us,smiling, compliments.saying our names. Looking at us ect ect ect

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A male reader, ManAfterChrist United States +, writes (4 May 2010):

ManAfterChrist agony auntNice, comfortable with herself, and NOT sleazy! I want her to be picky about who she associates herself with, it's a sign of confidence. If she sleeps around, I don't want it. I like women to respect themselves.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010):

Nothing is sexier than a woman who is (to steal a lyric) "a lady in the light and real freaky in the dark."

For me, intelligence and conversation. I think you'll find there is not much of a "universal" for men. You'll find women most men will agree are hot, but as for a universal, I don't think it exists.

q is dead on. :)

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (4 May 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI agree with Bruce why are asking this generic question? What's your motivation?

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A male reader, bruce lee Nigeria +, writes (4 May 2010):

bruce lee agony aunt I think women have to be three things...Sexy, smart, and kind.

Simple as that. But I would like to ask a question...Why are you asking us this?

Is there some reason behind this question?

There are women out there who have all these three things but it is rare.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2010):

Confidence. If you can sit with a woman and have an interesting conversation, and she comes across as confident, then a man will start to be interested. I always like a woman who's confident, and I suspect most other guys would agree with that.

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A male reader, IHateWomanBeaters United States +, writes (4 May 2010):

IHateWomanBeaters agony auntI think that a real man would want a woman to be herself.

If he asks you to be someone aside from who you are, then you should not be in that relationship.

Someone confident with themselves, really.

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