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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Signs, signs, signs..but does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There's this guy who I really like, but the problem is that I can't tell if he's interested in me too. I mean, there's things he does or says that seem like he could be interested but what if it's just my imagination? He's a sports assistant at my brother's school and when I ... (236 words)

I like a thicker man as this man does not feel masculine to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age - Am i being superficial? I went through hell in my divorce four years ago. It has taken me till now to get my self esteem back as I had a horrible divorce and a few bad relationships after. I am feeling well and my self esteem is back, I went on a date with a guy that seems to ... (177 words)

Want to spice things up with a lapdance but unsure how to do it, or right time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together three and a half years, we have quite a good sex life but sometimes it feels like i want to do something different to spice it up. I have heard that one thing that might work is a some kind of sexy dance you know lap dance or something. I ... (150 words)

Am I naive or is he a pro liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, how do i know if the guy i'm in love with is not taking me for sex, we dated for a couple of months before i realized that he has a girlfriend, we were having a long distance relationship and seeing each other once every 3 weeks. To cut the story short i know about th... (131 words)

I'm scared of giving too much away in case he just sees me as one of the lads!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've recently found myself developing feelings for a friend of mine. We have known each other for years and grown closer in the last 12 months or so. Over the past few weeks we have been spending quite a bit of time together and I have started to feel jealous when he gets ... (205 words)

Should I give a cheating husband a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I feel like I really need advice. I have been married for 3 years and my husband cheated on me a few months ago with a girl I can't stand. He says that they just made out and then he ended it, but he was really drunk so I'm thinking that it was more that he cou... (175 words)

Forced to chose between fighting friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice. Two of my best friends havn't spoken to each other since early january. I have been trying to hang out with both of them. well kat* decided that i had to choose who i was going to stay friends with. and i told her that i didn't want to choose. but she wouldn't ... (280 words)

Is it normal to be married and have crush like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My work frined and I are deeply attracted and connected to each other and i'ts driving me mad, I'm losing my concentration! I am having good days when we are together and bad days when we're not. The problem is that we are both married. We have not discussed affairs and... (232 words)

I do love her but know she isn't the one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do. I'm in love with two girls. One of them is a friend of mine and the most amazing girl I've ever met. The other is my on-again off-again girlfriend of three years. I've been contemplating breaking up with my girlfriend for awhile now but I'm scared. ... (233 words)

Am I ugly for this or am I just being stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really hate my body....im not that fat but i have stretch marks from when i was bigger... Do these marks make me ugly? And does anyone know a way to make them less visible?....... (35 words)

I'm in love with my best friend, please help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 year old male an i think im in love with my best friend (who is a girl btw). i have known her for about a year and we hit things off from the start, people have always commented on how close we are saying things like we seem to have known each other for ever :). but... (143 words)

Should I be worried about his female friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have had a few fights over him having friends that are women, yet when I went to sign up to take salsa lessons he got jealous. I signed up anyway and told him I did. A couple of days later I had a friend text me from her bf's phone, who my bf doesn't know of. I ... (181 words)

How can I cope with my boyfriends moods?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, my 27 year old bf (I'm 26) is constantly exhausted and I don't know what to do with him! I suffer from severe depression, and he gets very quiet and grumpy when he's tired, and I always think it's me, due to aforesaid depression. Basically, my question is how to deal/ ... (124 words)

Why is she telling me that other women are checking me out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so my girlfriend and I go out to clubs and go dancing. We both love to dance and have a great time. One thing that drives me crazy is that she keeps telling me about other girls that are checking me out. I am there do dance with her. I dont go there to check out the ... (70 words)

What do I have to do to convince military boyfriend to stay with me even when he is deployed abroad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We met about a month ago through an online dating site and hit off instantly soon after we met. Well, about a week after we started dating, he got the news that he may be deploying in December, but back then, it was only a 50:50 chance. A few more weeks has passed and I cas... (450 words)

We had sex but I don't see having a serious relationship with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a long one! i met this guy in a club, at the time i was trying to get over my ex who i really liked but he didnt have the same feelings. So I was going out and kissing a few guys.anyway met guy, guy and i hit it off and we didnt kiss for ages because his friend was ... (773 words)

My friends have ditched me for relationships. How do I let them know that it hurts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Should i tell my friends it really hurts me that they've all ditched me for boyfriends and girlfriends? I recently moved to a new school and have found it really hard to fit in, anyway about a month or two ago I felt really sure that I had made a group of friends but they... (212 words)

There is a language barrier but she wrote me a love note. Should I see where this goes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a bit of a delimia actually like a confusion well this girl she speaks no english and lives in panama well I meet her and there's a languange barrier, I recently found out that she wrote me a love letter and read it to her friends This has nothing to do with this but... (140 words)

I think I need therapy, but I don't know where to start...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'l try and keep this short. My friends have advised me to seek therapy, but i am not sure what to type to seek and if there are other ways in which to help me. Basically, since the age of around 17 I have been getting increasingly obsessed with my weight/appearanc... (281 words)

When I flirt with her she doesn't seem to flirt back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, there is this girl...let's call her Jude. Well i like Jude for a few months, and i can almost say i actually love her, though we spend little time together, about 4 times a month we go out together or with friends. Last time we went out, she asked me if her hair looks ... (123 words)

B/f wants to get more intimate but I'm unsure about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 16 year old guy. And I'm gay. Me and my boyfriend have been togethr for a while..but now he wants to get more intimate with me. I want to.. but i'm afraid at the same time. What do i do?... (43 words)

Does his friend's reaction mean that this guy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge crush on a guy. We get on very well and often smile at each other and generally are really comofrtable around each other. Sometimes I sense he might like me as well but like me he's hesitant to show it. One day we were talking and his friend was there too, and w... (193 words)

I'm trying to figure out my ex boyfriends thoughts. Any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i need some help here. Im trying to understand my ex's thoughts. We just recently started talking again after being broken up for about 6-7 months. He got a girlfriend right away and him and i haven't talked since. But we just recently started and he starts telling m... (452 words)

Would I make a suitable foster parent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 years old Im a teaching assistant and i absoulutely adore it. I love children and they are my deepest intrest! i enjoy helping children to reach their potential and i enjoy supporting children to get the best out ogf their education! Recentley i have been thinking... (148 words)

He cares only for his family...not me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - please help me . we are going to divorce. i met my husbad 2 years ago.i am in usa 3 years ago my husband is here almost 12 years.we are from middle east.first time when we met his parents was living with him . he told me afther our engagement his parents will go to his ... (856 words)

He sees me only for casual sex and I care about him a lot! How do I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so lonely... I have great friends,I am surrounded by great people but I feel so low. I found out the guy I was seeing only sees me as someone for casual sex, and I know for a fact that he is sleeping around. There are 2 other guys who I know like me, but they ... (217 words)

Left my pregnant, controlling wife and feel guilt! Should I just suck it up and go back for the kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years(but been with for 7 years total) now to a woman who has 3 kids from 2 previous relationships who I get on really well with and have taken over much of the father responsibilties seeing as the other 'dads' don't want to know about their own ... (624 words)

People bully me in school, about my weight! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, Okay, i've been going through some tough things right now the biggest thing i've just accepted is my sexuality wich i'm now happy with! Well the problem thats been going on from when i was 08 until now which is 13 and well the point is im very... (152 words)

I like two boys! Which one should I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey There is a boy whom I've known for years, and we have been out on and off since i met him, which is about four years. Im in year 8 now and on facebook he asked me out. But my mum said that she wouldnt like it if i went out with him again, but i do anyway because i love h... (104 words)

Should I divorce my workaholic husband?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) age - Should I divorce my workaholic husband? I am tired of being alone after 15yrs of marriage and want more.? He isn't a bad man but he has a full time job and then started a second business. I have spent our entire marriage begging him to spend more time with me but as he gets old... (322 words)

He says he doesn't want to lose me..so why is he being distant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm 24 and I've been with my bf for just over two years now and up until a few months ago everything was great. Our relationship resides us between long distance (see each other at weekends) when I'm at university and being close distance when I'm back for... (975 words)

Please help me get over this guy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i met my ex boyfriend last August. As soon as we met, we fell for each other, there was just such a strong bond between us. So much so that he came up to see me the following weekend as we couldn't bare to be apart any longer. Yeah so basically he lives in Southampton, ... (567 words)

Girlfriend wants to go clubbing, but shes only 15!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is only 15, and she wants to go clubbing. She lives in Montreal, and im in Toronto (long story, she had to move for a little while away from Toronto but were going to stay together). Im 15 as well, and i think a) she is way to young, b)she doesnt know what clubs ... (159 words)

Should a guy ask a girl out...on the street or in a mall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Would a guy ever ask a girl out just on the street or the mall or something? Basically I know its kinda sad but I don't have a load of friends and I don't really ever go out clubbing. I work in the city so I often go shopping during the day and stuff, so I was just wonderin... (77 words)

My heart says fight for him or should I let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - MY husband and I have been together for 8 years and married for almost 4. We have a 3 year old and I am 4 months pregnant. We have had a bump relationship for a while. He got into drugs and cheated on me. I turned to his parents for help telling them about his drug problem and ... (417 words)

The signs are there...so does he not love me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Are these signs that my boyfriend no longer loves me: - Turns up Late Alot - Puts His Mates First - Breaks Promises He always hugs me, kisses me, tells me he loves me and we still have sex alot (maybe too much) but some days he can be very distant. Im also 14 Weeks pregna... (148 words)

Why didn't my wife orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my wife and I have been fighting lately. Normally, I am the one who gives in says I'm sorry, etc etc. Whether it's my fault or not. But lately, when we fight I've been standing my ground. Well, she started crying the other night saying that she feels I don't love her a... (125 words)

I love this married man so much...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hia, i've got a major problem and it's really tearing me up cause i don't know what to do. I've just turned 18, and my parents know this woman (let's say her name is amy) and have done for a few years,and they are very good friends.She's married to a man (lets say his na... (387 words)

Does she like me and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - DO NOT SAY ITS IN MY HEAD BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN WITNESS TO THIS AND SO HAS MY FRIEND. 1) Seemingly brush against you on purpose when walking past. She has only done this ONCE but it seemed she did this on purpose as there was plenty of room to avoid hitting me. 2) Blocks... (369 words)

Is he really interested in developing a relationship with me?

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a pub with my mates last Saturday and I met this guy M there. After chatting for a while he asked me if he could give me a hug and I said yes. Then he went on asking me if he could give me a kiss. I was quite reluctant to do so because I didn't know him at all but my ... (363 words)

I don't want my best friends to fight over me! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My two friends are boys and they both fancy me. and I don't know what to do because I don't want them to fight. please help me.... (27 words)

We broke up and I can't get over him! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hiaa I have a problem. I broke up with my bf a few months ago and now he's with someone else. but I can't get over him. its when youve not got someone that u realise how much you needed them. and now when ever I see them together I have to leave the room to stop myself from ... (89 words)

Should I stop messin' around with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy who is my friend and me and him mess around alot not anything sexual but we do stuff like kissing and flirtin. Anyways he just started to go out with my friend and im really mad because she know we mess around. And even though they are going out me and him are ... (81 words)

I didn't get a card for my birthday and now, the GF is upset at me??!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - It was bothering me that my GF didn't get me a card for my birthday(2 days later). She noticed that something was on my mind and asked me. I asked her if she got me anything for my birthday and she told me she "didn't know what to get me" (so I got nothing) but she got me the ... (138 words)

I'm shy..how do I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I am 13 and this is the second time I went out with my bf and we kissed once then but we broke up but now were back together. He is good friends with my step brother 'guess what I am thinking an once I that I knew he had to leave :( well he told me wat he was thinking an it ... (101 words)

Trust issues are in the way..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do i start! I have been with my oh for almost 3 yrs now, we have a 23 month old daughter, but right now we are close to finishing! We have trust issues, i thought we finally got over them but then i found out he had been lying again so my trust has gone out the window. He ... (195 words)

Boyfriend being spiteful for something I have no control over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend was meant to come and see me tonight (i live 30 miles away from him, at uni) but he isn't coming because his sister and his grandad are going to london tomorrow.. he said his grandad wouldn't appreciate him not being there. it just feels like he doesn't ... (262 words)

Should I support my friend with her current b/f or tell her of my feelings for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is about a girl whom I consider as my soul-mate. We have been friends for about 5 years now.Ironically when she was in same city as mine for first 3 years, I got in touch with her very little.For last 1 year or so, since when she went abroad,we have started talking online. ... (213 words)

Just friends, but I want more!

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The past few months have been very stressful for me. Im graduating college very soon. I fell for my best best friend. He spent xmas at my house and we hooked up. It was so exciting and everything was great. we have lots in common and he was mad about me. I knew for a long ... (594 words)

I waited faithfully for him while he was deployed but now he says he only loves our daughter

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help. I waited.. i've been waiting faithfuly since Jan 09. I sent him packages, took good care of our daughter, was nice, honest, affectionate. But then he came home, and he says he's too different to love me anymore. He says the only person he loves is our daughter and I'm ... (92 words)

How do I stop family members from talking over me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have problems with family members because they don't listen to a word I say. I might say something really important, and they just talk over me or change the subject. They treat me with no respect. I'm starting to feel like they're taking me for granted. The more I try t... (95 words)

Does he like me or not? What are signs I should look out for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To try and keep it short, I need some advice on figuring out if this guy likes me or not. We go to different unis so I've seen him out only a few times, most times have been at clubs when we go with our own group of friends. He is a friend of a friend so i don't know him that... (249 words)

Does my ex really love me or am I being strung along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and i broke up after a year and 2 months together at the end of last year. (We broke up because we argued too much) During the 4 months we had apart we saw other people but we decided that we still loved eachother and met up again. The thing thats getting to me is... (248 words)

How do I get this depressed feeling out of my chest?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm soo depressed and I feel is killing me inside. Sometimes I wake up feeling ok and others days feeling down and I throw up and I dnt even eat. How can I make or what do I do so I won't think negative. When I think negative is when I get deppresed can you please help me ... (67 words)

Drugs and cheating tore us apart but I still love him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My ex and I fell in love at first sight - or at least in lust! After two weeks we started going out with each other and it was wonderful. I worked seasonly and had to go back to tour guiding in Spring. He was upset about this but wee said we would stay together. After ab... (728 words)

15 flat and a tomboy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, there's this thing. I'm 15 and well, I'm flat. All my friends are way more developed than me, which makes this problem even suckier. Guys in my school tease me for it and the guys who are close to me tell me that I'm pretty, nice and all, but they still don't know why ... (105 words)

Disgusted and hurt but ultimately confused

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months and while we've had our ups and downs, he never gave me a reason to not trust him.. However, I found something suspicious on his facebook chat and my paranoia got the better half of me and I ended up raiding his email accoun... (277 words)

This will be the last night I'll probably ever see him, should I tell my ex how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - From my part, it was the greatest love of my life.From the minute i set eyes on him.. [ i was 14], i love him. Now eighteen, four years later, my feelings havnt gone away. We've been broken up for three years, but we always someone how find eachother for a while but loose ... (337 words)

Hes got a gf, is there no chance now? (I'm gay)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Im so confident, and comfortable with myself. BUT I fall in love to easily. Its starting to hurt. Theres one boy. Everyone says were cute together. I love him and I flirt with him all the time. But just yesterday he got a gf. Is there any chance for me? Or should I give up? xx... (56 words)

Was me sleeping with this new dude just a way to find a way to forget about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm really concerned about my self respect now. I just started talking to this guy for about two weeks now, but I met him in my class. We went out on a date, and chilled and talked for a little while. But not enough to know each other. And today, I went over to hius house ... (235 words)

I am really, really Jealous and grossed out about my wife's past sex life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 5years, we have been married for 4 years. I love her with all my heart. I love her so much that I believe if we had met at any time in my life no matter what I was doing or what I had going on at the time, I would have drop it and been with her. ... (583 words)

Is phone sex more of a chore than fun for girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How much masturbating is to much? And also do girls like phone sex? They make it seem more like a chore than fun.... (23 words)

I love my girlfriend but she is totally overbearing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I never post on these types of sites, but I have been searching the web for answers, because I am just torn and confused as to what to do: I am a 25 year old male law student, and have been with my girlfriend for 3 1/2 years. I love her very much, but she is so ov... (643 words)

Do any guys not fantasize?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So a guy (not a boyfriend who would have any reason to lie about this to me) told me he honestly doesn't fantasize when he masturbates, that it's like mind-clearing meditation. He doesn't feel like it's sexual at all to masturbate and very rarely uses porn except to get started ... (104 words)

How do I get him to stop being my friend and tell me that he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age - I worked hire a man, got him over to this country and after 2 great years started writing him and we have developed a very great friendship. He lives on the other side of the country, and is waiting for his company sponsored green card. I go to see him because until 1 week ago ... (263 words)

Guys who say they aren't ready for relationships..yeah right

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a question that has been bugging me. Four years ago I had just arrived at college. I met this guy first at the club and I hooked up with him. The day after I realized I just wasn't interested in the guy I met at the club however I did get to know the guys roommate. ... (528 words)

How hard will a guy try to get a woman into bed if he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused about this guy's intentions... He initiated conversation with me, chased me for dates, etc. Actually, he's one of the sweetest, most attentive guys i've ever been out with. Actually, he's so sweet that it makes me nervous... I mean, he's so smooth, he s... (201 words)

He's married and I have a boyfriend! Should we stop seeing each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello evry 1 i have a question im a female 30 i hav a boyfriend but i rarely see him but i love him...but on the other hand i met a great man wonderful hes perfect in every way hes tall dark n handsome i ended up cheating on my bf with this man....just to find out hes married n ... (114 words)

My parents limit the time that my b/f and I can talk on the phone together

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties, My parents limit the hours I may text/talk to my boyfriend. my mom won't let me have my phone past 10 on weekdays and 11 on weekends. My boyfriend and I have been together over a year, and I love him. I know I'm only 16 and I know nothing, but he's like a part... (351 words)

We adore each other and have been good for each other but I can't be intimate with him because I'm a lesbian

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there everyone, I really need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and I absolutely adore him, I love him. But I'm a lesbian. I've been with girls, had relationships with girls and I'm unable to be intimate with him and he knows the ... (277 words)

She can't get past the idea of smoking weed

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9 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and we have a blast together. I've never been in a relationship so strong before. Recently, we've been fighting about one subject and one subject only: my smoking habits. It's not that I smoke cigarettes. I did, but I quit ... (728 words)

He has a g/f but flirts with me alot

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I like this guy, and have for a long time. He has a girlfriend, but he flirts with me a lot. He's three years older, and I don't know what to do. Help me?... (36 words)

I've fallen for him, but I don't know just how fond of me he is

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - please advise me here. i have totally fallen for my best friend i know hes fond of me but dont know how much. on occasions i have vaguely made jokey suggestions and he says he has lots of affection for me in a sisterly way. i was crushed then later he said you know i joke abou... (110 words)

Is there potential for a lasting, healthy relationship?

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this wonderful man on Match.com and we really connected. He is 40. I am 32. We started going out over a month ago. For some reason, I felt really comfortable with him and revealed alot about myself to him right away: the fact that I was raped 10 years ago, the fact ... (345 words)

He acts like he doesn't care about me anymore and only cares about himself

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and a half and we live together. when we first got together our relationship was great. he showed me a lot of love and attention and always made me feel wonderful. but lately all of that has went away. we used to have sex ... (246 words)

I don't mind helping someone get on their feet, but I don't want to be taken for a fool.

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have started seeing a man 22 and i'm 43. It started well but he asks me for five or ten dollars here or there and i pay for our dates since i have a full time job and his is part time. He is looking for a full time job also to get a car and we both are full time students. But ... (194 words)

Wont have sex but keeps getting off 2 porn!

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am a 26 year old woman and i am with a man 17 years older than me. for a while now he keeps making every excuse you could think of so he dosnt have to sleep with me. he might look for it once or twice a month and expects me to be all on for it after him ignoring me for ... (167 words)

I've been in love with him for 4 years but we aren't really together

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in love this this dude for almost four years now but we havent been in a committed relationship. he is or has been engaged.but says he's loves me and want to be with me. I dnt kno if i should wait on him or move on? he havent talked about the situation in almost a ... (60 words)

I'd love to date my close friend but I'm ashamed of my financial situation

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i adore my close friend and would love us to date-i know hes fond of me. im scared of him knowing stuff-like how my ex left me edging on bankruptcy thanks to his grasping so im insolvent for 3 more years and my flat looks really bad. i have little money so my floors are bare ... (77 words)

B/f wants phone sex and I don't know how!

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. well iv never had sex but my boyfriend has before and me and him have only made out and stuff like that. Well he wants to try having phone sex, im fine with that. The problem is i have never done that before so i dont really know what to do but he told me he wants me ... (151 words)

Getting back together with an ex that is your friend

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at the start of the school year and we liked each other right away. He eventually became my bf and I can honestly say he was head over heels for me, until he broke up with me a few months ago. I can't say I was shocked when we broke up because he hadn't been t... (377 words)

How can I get my b/f in the mood?

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i was wondering when me and my bf are away from each other we mostly text or talk on the phone, well most the time when i want to talk about sex il say some thing like "im cold come here and warm me up or im hot help me cool off" Do you have any other ideas on things i ... (216 words)

I think he's cheating because he doesn't answer my calls

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So if you call you boyfriend after you come back from shopping, he doesn't pick up when you call the first two times and it barley rings 4 times, you wait a while and call a third time and the other time it rings 5times.. I'm pretty sure he ignored my call the first two ti... (107 words)

He says I have a special place in his heart..what does that mean?

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have intense feelings for my close friend-we have the deepest conversations and get on amazingly well. he calls me 7/8 times a day and we're always on the phone for ages. i know i love him but cant ask if he feels the same way as hes told me hes dating someone casually ... (119 words)

I want to break my hymen so sex won't hurt so much!

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Don't get me wrong. I respect myself and I don't really want to have sex, yet anyway. But I used to want to, I've matured since then and have realised it'd be better to wait, but when me and my ex boyfriend did try, he only got it in about an inch or so and really couldnt go ... (174 words)

Creepy teacher!

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9 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, i'm not gonna sugercoat this. I think my tutor is a pervert and his actions are starting to make me feel uncomfortable. I am by nature a flirty person, but it's not always in a sexual way, just giving people an ego boost if they look like they could use one. I never said ... (228 words)