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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex with a big guy - any positions for more body contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just started a new relationship and the sex isnt exactly satisfying. I think it might partly be because of his size. He's very tall and though he's not fat he is quite chunky and wide. I like to be physically close to a guy when we are having sex. I like to put my arms ... (143 words)

Where is my G-spot?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've enjoyd having sex with my boyfriend for quite a while but no matter what, i can not get to orgasm. I looked the g-spot up on the internet but if i stimulate that place all it makes me do is want to go to the loo. Is it suposed to be that annoying or am i just one of those ... (66 words)

Confused over ex. Does she still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - okay. this might take a while. soooo. i been with this girl for a year. we have been on and off not down to me. the first time she dumped me she gave me no real answers as to why, it took a while to get back together and then we did and everything was perfect. she suddenly... (297 words)

Love in absentia

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age - After several months of mutual attraction between myself and a very nice man, we met up and discussed establishing our relationship. Asked if I wanted to take our friendship further or just remain good friends. We decided to take this further. We spent a very good night ... (143 words)

In love with my best friend and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so heres the deal I love my best friend (female) and I have done for a few years now to be honest. I'm really not a confident guy, but about 18 months ago I finally grew a pair and asked her out. I was so sure that she would say yes and every time i'd played the conve... (379 words)

I'm not used to playing games when dating and don't know how to react to all of this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - There is this man I work with and have been really attracted to for months now. I could tell he liked me too because he always wanted to be around me, watched me constantly and always looked over when making little jokes or talking to someone else,etc, he was literally bumpin... (340 words)

Broke up and she wants no contact with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for the last two years and last month in march was our 2 years a month on she tells me it's over. before the split she told me how much she loved me and how our 2 year anniversary was so special. We're both at the same university doing ... (255 words)

What to do when a friend thinks your a lier and doesn't believe you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do say to a friend that doesn't believe me? Hello, and thanx for the help. Okay so i have these two friends one of them has been my friend for almost 2 years and the other for barley a year. So the problem is that my friend that i know for less time got mad at me for so... (211 words)

How do I tell him not to eat my face when he kisses me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Kissing advice... Recently me and this guy hooked up, we'd liked each other for a while and only really had the confidence to share out feelings when a bit drunk, I know it's sad!! Anyway he is an awful kisser, he pretty much "eats my face" and I just wondered how I could apr... (90 words)

Whenever there is a problem my b/f goes into hiding

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We have an amazing relationship and are very much in love. We get along great and love each others company. He's ONLY problem, is that if he feels there is going to be some sort of confrontation, he will avoid me. We live 2 ... (274 words)

How do I make sure I don't hurt him during a bj?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has asked me to give him a blowjob, i dont think i am ready to yet, but i have been wondering, what would make him enjoy it to the max? And what do i do to make sure i dont hurt him?... (44 words)

We've had five dates, there's serious chemistry, but he's still dating others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Dating, met online dating and he still has an active profile.... hi, needs some unbiased opinions not from gf's but others. I'm no stranger to online dating just recently went back on again, after a short break. I've met great people, and horrible people. About a month ago, I m... (351 words)

Feel so disrespected and used but can't get out of the relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have always had problems in the bedroom and it's getting to the point where i feel very disrespected by him and as if he has unrealistic expectations of me. I feel trapped in this relationship and anxious when left alone in a room with him because i know he ... (692 words)

He's moving slower than I might expect -- could he be seeing someone else too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now, we've known each other for about a year and he has a bit of a reputation for being a bit of a ladies man. Anyway he hasn't tried to have sex with me yet...he's never even mentioned it. On group clubbing nights out even when ... (113 words)

In a relationship, but thinking about another man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and i love him but we fight alot. I have dreams very often about a guy who i liked even before i got into the relationship and i think about him all the time and im pretty sure he has some kind of feeling for me. But he has a ... (92 words)

He's ignoring me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this friend (let's call him T) of mine used to talk to me and we used to be comfortable around each other. Then when his best friend told T that he was interested in me, things started going weirdly. T told my "sister" that his best friend was interested, but told her not... (120 words)

I'm at breaking point, I thought I was who he wanted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sorry for the length of this its going to be an absolute essay! But i need to get it off my chest and i need some serious help. I’m honestly wishing right now i could just curl up and die. And im sorry to say that is no exaggeration. I will try and cut it down but this has ... (1342 words)

How can I stop my hands from sweating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am gooing out with this person and we hhug and hold hands and all that sort of thing but i find it so embarrasing when we hold hands and my hands get all sweaty i mean i dontt think that he minds buut what if he does so i need help with why my hands could be sweating all the ... (71 words)

I would like flirting lessons!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and need flirting lessons. any hints or tips? my friends seem like pros to me but I never seen to get it right. x... (28 words)

I hurt my boyfriend deeply before he said he could not love me , does he still have feelings for me??

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - To sum up my long and complicated relationship of 3 years, I hurt my once devoted and loving boyfriend many times with lies , betrayal and bad attitude. He's given me many chances and trusted me again but I still do it... It's because I'm this self-centered, insecure girl who ... (260 words)

We're like sexual ships that pass in the night....how do we get on the same schedule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband works late and rarely wants sex. When he does it is usually at 2 or 3am, when I am often too tired. I'm in the mood during the day, but then he's at work! How do I figure this out? I don't have a particularly strong sex drive and so waiting aro... (81 words)

My wife and I are going through an emotionally difficult time, how do we cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have been with my wife for almost 6 years. We have been married 2 1/2. I have one step child (8) and we have 1 child together (1 1/2). Our relationship has been nothing but successful when it comes to teamwork, communication, friendship, monetary success, ... (600 words)

Drifting away from my wife, having an affair and utterly confused! Please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a married man of 5 years. While my wife is a wonderful mom to our two children our relationship has diminished to the point where I feel were just good friends. She does not feel the same, but unfortunately our lack of time together, intimacy and other things have driven ... (219 words)

Tricky nipple hair situation, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is dark haired, sometimes she gets dark hairs around her nipple region, how to I go about this because it is sometimes hard to concentrate during foreplay? Thank you... (31 words)

How can I convince her that my love is real and that it isn't just sympathy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - To summarize a long story, I told my best friend of 12 years (opposite sex) that I loved her and would like our relationship to become boyfriend / girlfriend. She has many issues, with the main being incredibly low self esteem. She has been used in the past and believes... (293 words)

Pregnant and happy about that, but my family are really unhappy I'm not married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts, Late last year, after many problems, I had an operation on my ovaries. They found cysts on both ovaries - a few other things besides. They said the damage was such that my chances of conceiving a child was very very slim. I have great boyfriend of onl... (192 words)

Dreading the upcoming conversation about anal sex!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I just read a question where the guy was worried his girlfriend was lying when she said she had never had anal sex before....I'm about to be that girlfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really really love him. We have been through a lot, and... (293 words)

He needs my help, now he wont reply when I said lost his email add

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am talking to my ex again after months of bitterness towards each other. We broke up a yr ago. To move on from the heartbreak, I deleted him in EVERY online connection I have with him..chat, fb etc. It was effective because I have never memorized his email address as he ha... (292 words)

Was that my clue to get out and find someone who will love me for me unconditionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - here is another question: i have been in an 10 year relationship. we have one child together. he says every year we are going to get married...never got a ring. not going to happen. he has been married before.. he says my attitude gets in the way (thats an excuse).. i feel ... (97 words)

Why did his relationship status go from single to it's complicated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well i have been dating my significant other for about 6 months and he had his status as single until recently when i looked and saw that it said, "it's complicated" now i don't have any idea how i'm suppose to take that and i don't know if that is necessarily a bad thing ... (623 words)

I need to know, maybe from a female perspective, if she loves me still or not and what is the best thing to do from here.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about three months. A week ago she wrote me a letter telling me that she wasn't ready for a relationship and that I should move on. She explained that this was her first relationship and that she is confused and doesn't know what she ... (373 words)

I'm pregnant and my husband hasn't had sex with me for the past 2 months!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 weeks pregnant and my husband has not had sex with me for the past two months. Should I be concerned? What is going on? I confronted him about this issue and nothing happened. He does not seem to care.... (46 words)

Now that our son is born he has kicked her out and swears he will do whatever it takes to get his family back. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 2 years and have a 2 month old son. My husband told me when I was 4 months pregnant that he "loved me but was not in love with me" and left. He said that "I deserved better" and many more cliched statements. I immediately suspected him of ... (251 words)

Does he really have ED or is he seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Another day, another burning question. So I slept over my boyfriend's place last night and noticed the following: 1) A note I had sent him back in January that he has kept on his fridge is no longer there 2) A picture of us that he had as his work Blackberry screensave... (297 words)

Is it normal not to be over him after 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey to whoever is reading this, thank you in advance I was in love with this guy two years ago and it finished of badly. I was so hurt, i had never felt anything like that before and even though i was told by people that 'you will forget him' i still haven't. And even though ... (214 words)

Is it safe to make this fantasy come true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, is it safe to make the "rape" fantasy come true? Me and my boyfriend want to give it a try its both of are fantasies, but i dont want any thing to go wrong or be awkward after it happens, do you just go back right after into being the lovey dovey couple you were? There ... (142 words)

He's married but he still wants to sleep with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok...so i have been talking to my ex-boyfriend who is married and he keeps begging me to sleep with him again....apparently he doesnt care that he is married if he still trying to sleep with me. When we were togeher our sex was outstanding....he keeps asking me to be with him ... (96 words)

He says it's over -- is it?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this is going to be a long one but I really need as much advise as I can get. So, I was with this guy for over a year. In this year we got very serious. We lived together, had a boat, a dog, a quad. Our friends are even the same people. We moved very fast in the beginning ... (837 words)

How can I make my mother in law feel better? She's had a rough run of luck!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my mother in law are very close, and she has had a very troubled past with relationships, the father of her sons left her for his secretary and she was the one who built their company with him, but on the divorce since she was still in lvoe with him and she hoped he ... (207 words)

Late period, but negative pregnancy tests.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am about 2 weeks late on my period and have no pregnancy symptoms and 3 negative test. i took another test yesterday morning and it was negative. i do get a little nausea and dizziness but it could just be in my head. i also feel pressure on my abdominal area and i know thats ... (128 words)

I've lost my sexual appetite at 22.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, here's the thing. I never thought that I will reach this stage, It's not my thing to ask advice from the internet but I'm just confused and uncertain. I've been dating this guy since 3rd year highschool. I'm 22 now. I graduated college and I had my first job. We st... (251 words)

Undoing the effects of child birth.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have given birth to a child and my vagina is very loose. please advise me on how i can tighten it up to enjoy sex with my partner. thank you.... (31 words)

Disgusted by my boyfriends interest in porn.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i feel so disgusted. this morning i went online to listen to music and as i was typing visited porn sites started appearing in the browser. i love my boyfriend, weve been together for 3 years, recently moved in together. hes always been a gentleman, opening my doors... (152 words)

My husband crossdresses . . . help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out about 2 years ago that my husband is somewhat of a crossdresser. We have been married for 15 years. He said he's been doing it since adolescence. First part of our marriage I would find underwear, garters and he always would lie and say they were not his. Then aft... (486 words)

This break up with my longtime girlfriend is really hurting and I have no one to talk to!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone and i am sorry for my English i really need some help and thanks for everyone that will answer me i have been in a relationship for a three an a half year it was the best what happened to me the girl i met she was wonderful in all ways i was her first love and w... (864 words)

I've been talking to my ex, only he's now married with 2 children! Do I end contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my exboyfriend and i have been talking for about 3 months now after 7yrs. He is currently married with children. He says that he doesnt want our communication to end just because he is with someone else, saying he wants me to be his women for forever, because he doesn't want ... (129 words)

Cupid's terrible timing!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met back up with a girl from college, and went to visit her. She lives 4 hrs away, and we hit it off really well. About 3 days after I returned home, she called and told me that she just found out she was a month pregnant by some army guy that she has no feelings for, and has ... (105 words)

He doesn't want to lose me? Why does he still want us to talk if he doesn't want us to be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so my ex and i have been talking and getting along pretty good recently, the thing is we are not together but at times he acts like if we are he tells me he loves me and stuff. i am the type of person that does not like to be played so i told him he had a week to tell me what ... (363 words)

I'm not allowed to have coffee with a girlfriend and I have a curfew 8 p.m. set by my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is my story. I've been married for 15 years. I was married young. My husband is a good person, never cheated, helps out with cleaning, making suppers. Isn't very affectionate, but let's me know in different ways how he feels for me. My problem is I'm not allowed to g... (278 words)

I wonder if I should be more open to sex, after my rape experience?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 18 and was a virgin until I was raped a few months ago by a man that attacked me on the street. I do not count him as a sexual partner obviously, but it has kind of changed my attitude towards sex and my virginity. I am not desperate to lose it or anything and hav... (261 words)

10 years long friendship ended because of something trivial. Need some honest opinions. Am I at fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an old friend. We've known eachother since elementary school. We live in different cities but we still hang out together. We call eachother often and we help eachother out. My friend is very sensitive, from a young age already but I've kind of grown into the no-bull type ... (688 words)

Long-term marriage, troubled relationship, now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age - Well, here's my question. Probably not the first time this type of question has come up. I am a 50 year old male, married with two grown children (one already married with 2 children already) and one daughter in high school. My wife (1 year older) works outside the home... (845 words)

Does anyone have any advice to pass on to my friend to help her cope with the loss of her Grandpa?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A good friend of mine who I haven't talked to in a while sent me a very personal email about how she's mourning the death of her Grandfather. She now lives a long way away and I was a little surprised to get the email. We're both relatively young and have not had to deal ... (114 words)

Boyfriend troubles!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im 18 and iv been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, i do love him ever so much but i feel whenever there is an argument i dont get a say, he always overpowers the conversation and its finished when he has finished it doesn't matter what iv got to say. Even if i do get c... (273 words)

His new girlfriend is hassling me thinking I want him back when I am happy just being his friend, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A split up with my ex 3 years ago in June and a year and a half ago we got chatting again, we've spoken a handful of times in 18 months. Recently I have been seeing more of him as he is still friends with my brother and is doing all the plumbing work for me in my house. (He... (237 words)

I want to be her "friends with benefits" but I'm not as sexually confident as she is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been talking and hanging out with a girl who lives around and hour drive away from me. Having asked her on a date, she made it clear that she was not looking for a boyfriend. However, she said we could be Friends With Benefits... I am 100% up for this, but I only lost ... (123 words)

Is it too soon to ask him to leave his girlfriend for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so There's this girl (let's call her..Rebecca). So a couple years ago, Rebecca started going out wit hone of my close friends (Tommy), and after a month or two him and I got closer. It eventually lead to us kissing, talking, and touching. They broke up twice, she found... (421 words)

After we have been friends for so long surely it is a waste to throw away our friendhship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a best friend since i was about 9,and we have been friends ever since,Im 16 now and we fell out about 2 months ago and haven't made up since. We were so close and although i have a lot of other amazing friends,i still can't help wanting to have her back in my life ... (245 words)

If we are good friends why does he behave like this? Has he got a problem with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello im really sad right now. I feel lost and confused. One of my good friends is behaving very strangly with me and i dont think theres a good reason behind it.If it was a constant pattern of behaviour i might be able to figure it out easier but its not he's forever ... (633 words)

My boyfriend is coming home in 10 days and I don't think my thrush has fully cleared up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is home in 10 days and i had thrush a couple of weeks ago and a used thrush cream and it went away but now a think its comming back and my period is due tomorrow and then its only 3 days till he comes! by the time my periods away what am a gonna do if its back when ... (68 words)

Why do some men cheat on their wives?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?... (11 words)

I'm feeling insecure about my boyfriend's comments and emails to other women.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like your advice on this please. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a couple of years. Sometimes when we weren't together, i looked at his page, as he had an open profile, and i saw some comments to a couple of girls that i didnt like the sound of. Some were ... (844 words)

Boyfriend is shy in bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost three years is really shy when it comes to sex. He wont try anything new, he doesn't like me touching him or doing anything to him. We still have sex but its a case of having a quick kiss, clothes off and thats us having sex. No foreplay or nothing. He ... (115 words)

Is there any way to regain my youthful sex drive and performance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I may have messed myself up sexually. Im 39 and during my life i had a few very bad relationships that caused me to push women away for the last 9-10 years. but just because i didnt want to be in a relationship or have relations doesnt mean that i had no sex drive. during that ... (225 words)

I'm in love with him but he's not responding!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - iam in love with my classmate from fast 1 year he 2 know that but y he is not responding iam not getting before he was friendly with me after knowing my feelings he is not talking even my self not talking with him.just we both look at each other ......does he loves me are not ... (66 words)

My husband's best friend says he is just my secret admirer but I am worried that he might one day ask for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - when i met my husband 2 years ago, he had his best friend whom they have schooled with from high school to college. the friend is married to a a beautiful charming lady who is now my friend. the crazy thing is that this guy(my husband's friend) fell in love with me from day one ... (302 words)

Within the last 2 weeks I have been unable to get turned on, is this because he cheated in the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a girl of 18 been with my boyfriend now for just under a year. just recently, before we get ready for sex he is not able to turn me on, and during sexual intercouse i dont seem to be enjoying it. could this be due to the fact he cheated on in the first couple of months into ... (86 words)

I think I have met the "one" but he is the only person I have ever slept with, and now I am thinking I need to get a few flings out of my system!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i've been with my boyfriend for over a year now, i honestly beleive he's my soulmate. Totally crazy about eachother, he's the man i want to marry and have children with. Thing is, i've only ever slept with one person, him. And he slept with two other women before we ... (103 words)

I really like him but I am confused over his mixed messages

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man a few months ago, he is a manager of a pub where i sometimes drink and my daughter and her friends drink there. We kissed before but a couple of weeks ago he asked if i would like a drink after the pub shut and i went. we kissed and nothing much else happened but he ... (128 words)

How can I get more confidence around the girls that I like?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello, so there is this girl i have a huge crush on in one of my classes at school... i'm in 7th form and shes in 6th, i don't think iv'e ever talked to her in person, but i did ask her some silly question on Facebook about when an assignment is due when i already knew when.... ... (124 words)

He has been flirting with other girls on Facebook, and he doesn't even see this as being a problem!

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently opened up a facebook account to keep in touch with my old school mates however when i went onto my bf of 2 years page i saw that he had been flirting with some girls online saying things such as oh you such a hottie and calling other girls huni. i dont know whether i ... (112 words)

What's the best way to leave someone you love but who constantly puts you down?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I love my wife dearly, i would do anything for her... Sometimes she's this angel I love and adore so much and is so nice to me but the next minute she critisizes everything I do and puts me down, questioning me all the time, putting words in my mouth and twisting everything I ... (195 words)

I have not spoken to her since she cancelled our date, how should I approach this?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been out with someone a few times and it seems to have gone well. She agreed to come out again last week. Following this she messaged me for three days in a row initiating conversation/joking etc. On the day we were suppposed to go out I was a bit short with one o... (116 words)

My husband has a secret life.....how do I deal with it all?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age - Hi, I just recently found out that my husband of 18 years has kept up with an old girlfriend from college who he has always had strong feelings for the entire time we've been together. She lives 3000 miles away and they haven't seen each other for 15 years and up until 8 ... (769 words)

Is there a way to get the 'spark' back?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - if i love my girlfriend and if she loves me, why arent we moving anywhere, we're both 16, we've been together 9months, and there just isnt that how you say 'a spark' anymore, but i love her is there anyway to get that back?... (44 words)

I feel like I deserved to be molested, can anyone help me?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been molested, help! I feel like I deserved it for some reason and i blame myself for what he did to me. :( I'm extremely ashamed and embarrassed by this situation, and I'm constantly scared... any help?... (38 words)

The guy I am dating walked out on me in the middle of having sex!

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, So heres my situation.Last night i was with a guy i like.It was only our second meeting but things got on and we started making out and before i knew it there was sex.I know i should have waited when i think of it now.Moreover i was so so tired and sleepy, and beca... (171 words)

I want her back so badly despite having an affair with my friend, but she cant decide who she wants to be with!

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been dating this girl for 1 1/2 years and shes is the most amazing person i have ever met hands down. My problem is that recently at a party she had sex with one of my "friends". They started texting about personal things behind my back and he gave her advice on our ... (153 words)

Why can't he say were girlfriend and boyfriend when we only date each other?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have seeing this guy for like 2 months now but i'm not sure if were a couple, so I striaght out asked him am I your girlfriend and he said that we were dateing. So I said ok dose that make me your girlfriend and i wanted a yes or no answer but he said "look I don't see ... (201 words)

How can I become friends with her again?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex an I haven't been close for about 2 years now...the reason for that is that she loved me physically and emotionally. but i was just attracted to her physically. we messed around and because of that i care about her now emotionally. she says i hurt her and led her on but ... (295 words)

Should I continue trying to get closure after he cheated on me, or should I just keep on lashing out at him?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old, and my boyfriend and I have recently broken up due to the fact that from the day we started dating, he was cheating on me with LOTS of men! I knew that he was bisexual from day one so the men didn't shock me, it was the fact that he lied to me over and over and... (430 words)

Is the transition from masturbation to penetrative sex difficult?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All, I am a guy aged 23, single (in fact, never been on a date yet) and a virgin (no surprises). I am not really desperate to lose my virginity and I think I can wait till I find my true love or till I get married. But for the last two weeks or so, I was experienc... (615 words)

Does he like me and care about me as much as I do for him?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to be long..... So my bf and I have been dating for about a month now. We are both students but he is still enlisted with the US army. About a week after we started dating, he got orders that he will be deploying in November and since then, he has been distan... (369 words)

Is she telling me the truth?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - 3 years ago, me and my girlfriend were laying together. her friend, was a girl, came by and asked her to ride with her somewhere. she got back and I knew I smelt her as she walked by, kinda like sex. so I asked what happend and she said she just went with her friend. I didn't ... (153 words)

Was my husband having an affair?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i separated from my husband because he is prioritizing his friends and co-workers, and before that happened i usually noticed him that he always go home late at night and my brother saw him late night that he was doping of a girl in someplace but he doest tell me. then one time ... (230 words)

Is this love or am I just sprung?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Tell me if this is normal. Okay so I lost my virginity to this guy that I really liked, and now I like him even more, but we broke up, and I still like him, Is it normal to feel this way? Or am I just sprung or obsessed?... (49 words)

All my colleagues have left work because of me - should I just move firms or tell my MD my thoughts?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have a problem, I am a woman who works as an ops director for a firm. I started about six months ago. Since I started nearly all the staff walked out (one left) and they have all said it was because of me. I tell them all the time what I expect, I am a brilliant direct... (193 words)

Is she interested or not? Its driving me nuts!

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope this question isn't too long. OK, here's the situation. I came out of a long term relationship 7 months ago. Around two months after that, I met an awesome girl. We met through friends, became facebook friends, had some really good online chats and then started hanging ... (410 words)

Was she just being shy?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My crush normally shows me signs such as: looking at me when I'm not looking at her (sometimes while giggling), mimicking me, asking people she knows questions about me, showing concern for me if she thinks I'm in trouble, her friends act differently around me, sometimes she ... (301 words)

I'm not comfortable with my wife trying out to be a professional cheerleader

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so my wife of 13 years decided that she wanted to try out to be a professional football cheerleader (or NHL or NBA). Although I want to be supportive of this, and have been so far, I am not 100% comfortable with this. Any thoughts, guys and girls? Thanks! ... (55 words)

Does he love me too much?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, Here's the deal: i had a crush on a boy for four years, beginning in 6th grade. I'll let him remain anonymous. Recently we agreed to go out, and frankly it's becoming a lot. When he kisses me he gets violent, like i'll leave him if he doesnt give me his utmost atten... (118 words)

Why does my wife always tell me about the girls who are checking me out? I am only there to dance with her!

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so my wife of 13 years and I go out to clubs and go dancing. We both love to dance and have a great time. One thing that drives me crazy is that she keeps telling me about other girls that are checking me out. I am there do dance with her. I dont go there to check out the ... (70 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend turn me on?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well my problem is basic ive been with my bf 2years, and i just never want sex with him i don't get turned on or anything why is this? am i bored or what?:(... (34 words)

I'm so confused about this boy!

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been in a relationship for almost five years until 3.5 months ago, so I don't know what it feels like to be single in college because I've been in the past relationship since high school. With that being said, recently this guy asked me out on a date by writing on my ... (521 words)

Should I respond to my ex's email even though I know she is just stringing me along in case it doesn't work out with her new guy?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago. We were going out for a year and a half. She always said that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. But then one day she started to act all distant and started to ignore me. We then broke up saying she needed time ... (318 words)

He dumped me on my birthday! Help!

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Help plz!!!!!!!!! My boyfriend said he had a suprise for me on my b-day and then for the suprize he dumped me. Guess what my b-day was 3 wks ago and I still cant get ovr him what shuld ii do... (41 words)

She's not sure if she wants this relationship! What should I do?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Me and my partner have been going out for two years now and have a lovely 6 month old baby girl, we have had a rough two years together and recently we broke up because my partner was not in love with me anymore and i dont blame her in a way cos i have not made ... (278 words)

Sex issue. Would counselling help?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age - *OP's suggested title* My wife and I are both 50. We have been married for about 25 years and she has always tried to give me the impression that she only has a passing interest in sex. Even when we were dating, sex was a bit hit and miss. Sex always has been on her terms. W... (661 words)

Is he too embarrassed to date me after what happened in bed?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This past weekend (Friday) I hooked up with a guy...sort of. He came back to my place, we spent a lot of time talking, and ended up in bed. He went down on me, and I gave him oral..but he couldn't keep an erection. I thought maybe he wasn't turned on by me, but it seemed pretty ... (150 words)

Do women love being romanced?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Do women love romance? A romantic dinner walk or special place to go?... (13 words)

Is my bf having an allergic reaction to me?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a sex/medical question - every time my boyfriend and I have sex he gets very sore, swollen and inflamed afterwards. I know he should go to a doctor and I'm sure I'll convince him to eventually, but in the meantime, has anyone had a similar experience before? If so, what ... (77 words)

Should I let my father back into my life?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My dad was very abusive to my younger brother particulary after he'd been drinking. He used to go out get drunk and then he'd come home and beat my brother. This used to happen regulary for years until my mom finally kicked him out and told him to never come near us again. That ... (146 words)

I hate my sister. Is this normal?

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I think I hate my sister. Is this normal, or should I do something to communicate better with her? She is deaf. And she has a jealousy complex. She always wants to know what I'm doing with my time, and treats me like she thinks she is my mother. She is about 2 years older th... (127 words)

To Fractionate, or not to Fractionate - That is the question.

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19 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - *OP's suggested title* Heya. I've been looking for ways to make my female friends see me as a potential boyfriend when I stumbled upon a method known as 'fractionation' I've heard numerous amounts of praise from everywhere about it, but I was wondering if my 'friends' ... (205 words)

I'm upset that he's emailing other women! How do I bring this up with him?

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19 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im 23yrs old, i have been with my boyfriend almost 5yrs now, and im afraid he is seeing other women,or at least talking to them over emails, maybe even recieving naked pictures from them. i have found phone numbers with names of girls right next to them. in some occasions i ... (170 words)