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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I slept with my cousin, should I bring up relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my two nights ago at my 18th party I slept with my cousin, we had an amazing night together the whole night before that happened. and we were very close last year when he visited. appart from lat year i dont ever remember meeting him. we hadent saw each other since about ... (85 words)

Is 8 months long enough to wait to tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been with this guy I have been "seeing" since August, I am afraid I am catching alot of feelings for him, when I don't hear from him and don't see him I am cranky as all heck lol. I am afraid that I have these feelings while he may not share the sentiments. I am ... (159 words)

Does it make me gay if I want oral sex with another guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have always considered myself straight. I find the idea of sex with girls extremely arousing. However recently i have been finding the idea of giving ang recieving blowjobs to/from other males. In particular gettting the ejaculate on my face. In almost evry other way i find a... (119 words)

We used to watch porn together but now he hides it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i used to watch porn together all the time, now he is hiding it. any idea why? i love watching it with him and i loved that he was into sharing that with me. we used to have wild crazy fun times and shared very openly about our sexual escapades. why has he ... (95 words)

Should I keep chasing her or let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There is a girl at my job I like I asked her if she had a boyfriend she said yes I told her he was lucky cause I think she is pritty, I ask her if it was ok for me to call her she said yes then one day I ask her if could take her out to dinner and she said yes I told to let me ... (145 words)

My husband loves me completely but I don't love him. Should I leave him?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age - I've read other peoples' questions and answers about whether they should stay in a loveless marriage, but no one seems to be in my situation. The fact is, my husband of 25 years is a kind, affectionate, caring, loving, reliable, attentive man who takes care of me and loves ... (480 words)

Age and love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i am in the university and i recently fall in love with this lady from our home area though she lives in germany' i lov her and i cant help it, my problem is that, she is 6yrs older than me n it meks mi feel a littl unsure of her lov for me, she sometimes talks to me about... (91 words)

Making him open up without criticizing him!

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy about October last year and it started off quite casual. We started to see each other more and from January it has become more serious with us spending time together and classing ourselves as a couple. He's very inexperienced in relationships even though he is 33. I ... (367 words)

I lost my virginity to someone I barely know and I don't know why I did it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I lost my virginity to someone I barely know, I'm 23 and I dont know why I did it. i was always a good girl with muslim values, good parents. I always wanted to wait for my husband to do it. But I had done everything else including oral, with different guys, I felt like taht ... (920 words)

Did I do right letting hurt boyfriend go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I started online dating last October after being a happy single person for 2 and a half years. I felt ready to meet some new men and hopefully, someone to love. I went on two dates at the end of last year, two nice men but not for me. I went away for Xmas with fa... (1115 words)

What to say to him when I see him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo,I was in the club 3 days ago and met this very handsome guy. He seems the playa-playa type (very good looking,best dressed,some girls were trying to talk to him) but he clearly made it seem that he was interested in me. When the girls came to him he gave me a "don't worry, ... (245 words)

When will it be clear that he wants to see me again? I'm back into the dating arena after 8 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love some advice (esp. from any male readers) about first dates. I had my first date in 8 1/2 years on Saturday (split with my bf of 8 years 6 months ago, took a long time to feel better and get the confidence to date again). We talked for ages, had lots in common, ... (288 words)

I've become attracted to a cartoon character, and can't imagine a relationship with a real person.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I am 16, closer to 17 and I have never had a relationship of any sort or wanted to. I read and write erotic literature regularly and get turned on, often by things involving girls more so than guys, but the idea of anything doing anything with a real person fills me with ... (101 words)

I found out my son and his on-again-off-again girlfriend are trying for a baby! Should I say something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age - I want to start off by saying I am not trying to interfer with my son's life and I jsut being cncerned. My youngest son Steven has been dating his girlfriend Lora on and off for 2 yrs. They met through friends about 4 yrs ago but they both where in other relationships but beca... (367 words)

Why was he a no-show? And what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I've been talking to a friend of mine on the internet. We live in different cities but have hung out a few times. We're the same age and I've known him since 7th grade and I am now a freshman in college. We were never really "friends" exactly but recently we've been ... (289 words)

My periods are worryingly light

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there . my period is late by 2 months . but i dont think im pregnant . see the thing is my last proper period was ...21st feb this year and its always on the 21st of every month for about a week. March came and i come on the 18th ! i ALWAys without fail have such bad tumm... (305 words)

I want to have sex with a grown man

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my adult friend's won't have sex with her husband unless he has the snip. I talk to him often and we get into conversations about sex. It is becoming increasingly obvious that there is a lot of sexual tension building up in him. We talk about different sexual fantasies ... (97 words)

Girls: what pet names do you like?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I just started dating this girl and we've been texting a lot. I've called her "cute" a lot. I've called past girlfriends "beautiful" and I know they like that, but it feels like just using those two words isn't enough. I mean, it would get repetitive eventually, righ... (119 words)

Could my ex-lover be dangerous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok...so I've written other posts regarding this situation. Long story short. I had a 9 month affair with a wealthy man. I'm married. My ex-lover knew that, but I didn't know that my ex-lover was married with children. I got pregnant and had a miscarriage - it was my ... (179 words)

Husband being pestered by his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am with my husband for over 6yrs. His ex keeps calling and texting him. He takes her calls and admit that they talk every week and they are just friends. It make me feel insecure when they speak to eachother; he still insist that they are just friend. I told him I do not ... (132 words)

Is equating love and sex causing me a hassle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am looking for something that might help me-I am in a new relationship with a woman; I am her first girlfriend-and I am starting to feel frustrated with a perceived lack of sex, and with myself for being so pushy about wanting sex. My main problem is that I equate sex wit... (413 words)

I still feel bonded to my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help it's torturous.? I cant help it but keep thinking of a relationship that's already impossible. I cant stop thinking of my ex. It's torturous. I cant help it but i feel so much for him i feel so bonded. i am tired of having this influence my mood every day. i've bee... (93 words)

What's this 'squirting' business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all, i did post this question before but i cant seem to find it anywhere so have not had it answered as far as i know! sorry if its just me being stupid, thought id ask again anyway! :) my boyfriend and i have a very good sex life and always want to try new things. just rec... (125 words)

Brother's friend has been using me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing a guy for over a year then 1day he told me hes got another gf and he loves her but i can still stay with him if i want but he cant give me what i want (commitment) i left him. he turned out to be my brothers Friend but i didnt know (he did) cos he never came ar... (203 words)

Her lies are unbelievable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm Asian Guy Married to native Canadian girl.i never been to canada i met her on line and my father help her to get here. any way i got married here with her. i only know her for 1 year now. currently she is in canada and i;m here asia so waiting for my visa My question is... (772 words)

MSN conversation has left things sour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm feeling stressed at the moment, because me and my boyfriend have just had a bit of rough conversation on MSN. I really love him but I'm worried. He's way too good for me and usually we just joke about and I'm not the type of soppy person. But he said to me that he thinks we ... (95 words)

Why won't he call me his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 2 months. It's not normal dating....we are together 4 to 5 nights a week. He has met my family, I have met his, he has come to work functions with me, he is talking vacations in 5 months....yet he will not label me his girlfriend...he says we ... (68 words)

I discovered something worrying on his computer

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three and a half years and we love each other very much. I have a problem of snooping his computer from time to time - I am too curious for my own good - but I have managed to all but stop myself from doing it. The last ... (261 words)

He sees me in a bad light

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night my boyfriend of over a year broke up with me. Honestly, our relationship didn't start off on the best foot (he cheated on his ex girlfriend with me) I know, I know that's not good. He broke up with her right away though. All of a sudden last week he tells me about ... (188 words)

I have an unusual eating disorder

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im 17 years old and for as long as i can remember ive had a problem with eating. Its not a common disorder so many people critisize me. Since a yound age i have only been able to eat the same food (basics such as potatoes.. noodles.. chicken) no vegetables and no other ... (294 words)

Should I show him I'm suffering or endure the heartache alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do guys get over a relationship so easily? How is it anyway fair to me that I am the one that has to suffer? It's been over a week since my ex broke up with me and I am coping with it quite well but I still have my days. It's not fair that I am the one that has to be s... (254 words)

I blame his alcohol abuse for his actions, should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age - Hi I met this man around 4 years ago, he told me he had had a drink problem but it was behind him now. any way it turns out not to be true he became ill once well he came to stay with me untilhe got better thats about 3 years ago. All in the garden was rosy no drinkin best man... (369 words)

I'm secretly seeing my ex and falling in love with him again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a relationship wih this guy and i really like him we started dating after me and my ex broke up because my ex cheated on me and had 2 kids by 2 different girls during our relationship. the only thing is i have been secrectly seeing my ex and i think i am falling for ... (140 words)

Is it normal to feel this happy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I just had a general question. I have been good friends with my now current boyfriend for a few years. We have been dating for almost a month. I have never smiled so much in life, I feel like I'm glowing from the inside out and whenever I see his smile or think of ... (100 words)

Confused and hurt - why is he so different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. I have his boyfriend with whom I've been dating for 6 weeks, and have been exclusive with for 2. However, ever since we've been exclusive, he's been stressed out with school (it's his Senior year of college, I'm a Freshman), which I understand, yet it's his behavior ... (328 words)

What do you think about age difference relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm going to try and make this question as short as possible. I work with a lad [I'm a student with a part time job] and have started to develop feelings for him. We have been texting a lot recently, usually just before bed. In these texts he puts kisses on t... (173 words)

What can I say to his mom to get her to let me talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i met this amazing guy who i fell in love with very quickly we spent every day together just about for 2 months he left his g/f a week after we became friends we decided to be exclusive a couple days before he went out of state for his cusins b day the day before he left we ... (419 words)

He said if he's not enough for me, he'd try viagra...what exactly does this pill do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. Any words of advice is welcome on this one, I really don't understand why I'm so confused or even hurt by this. Okay, a few times my bf and I have spoken about if his penis was longer or even thicker would I enjoy it more, I have told him lots of times I like the way he ... (246 words)

10 years of marriage and I don't feel the same way about my husband anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married for 10 years and have realized that I no longer feel the same way about my husband as I used to. He has put me through so much and I feel I cant be myself with him anymore, I am totally switched off. He has lied to me so much about stupid things, that ... (248 words)

Met him on Facebook and fell in love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think am falling in love with this other guy I met on facebook. i love him so much but i have a boyfriend who really loves me.am so confused and dont know what to do.i need help... (38 words)

I hunger for his heart, and he seems to keep it hidden!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. He is five years older, extremely intelligent, motivated, and mature, and also an artist like me. He is my first relationship, and thus far it has been a very stable one. We talk our misunderstandings out, try our best to laugh, ... (595 words)

I'm 18 and like a 14 year old!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and I think I am starting to like a guy who is 4 years younger than me. I know it is wrong, but I don't know what to do about it. Please help me... (37 words)

Will dating him, ruin our good friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have feelings for one of my best guy mates and recently found out that he has feelings for me too. i really like him and want to go out with him but im scared that if it goes wrong it might ruin our friendship. what should I do?... (49 words)

I have dreams of kissing girls, so am I bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - For anyone out there who is gay/ lesbian/ bisexual, how did you first know, I think I am bi, I've crushed on and dated quite a few guys but, although I have never had a crush on a girl, I do have thoughts about kissing them, and on occasion have had dreams about having sex with ... (67 words)

We're not really dating but he interested. How do I break this off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you break it off with someone you're not technically with? My and this guy aren't dating but liked each other and for the past 3weeks we've been meeting it his house and making out lots and cuddled up on his bed, but when I'm with him I keep thinking of an ex of mine and ... (74 words)

Girls and their "playtime"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How often do girls maturbate? How do they do it? Do they look at porn while they do it? Or just think about it?... (24 words)

He says he's scared I'm going to hurt him and he's scared to comitt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so much in love with a guy who is 6 years older than me. He has gone thru a lot in his past with the mother of his child and everytime we fight he tells me that he is scared to commit after all that happened to him in the past and he says he is scared im gonna hurt him. i ... (168 words)

Before she wanted to get married, now she says "leave it to the future!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a affair with my gf from last 14months. we both luv eachother had enjoyed life also had sex.i trust her n she too. but from the last two months her behavior has changed.before that we talk on phone mostly for 10-15 minutes. she calls me everyday. but now she calls once ... (162 words)

Girls and sexual peak

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Why can't women reach their sexual heith at 18 like guys instead of 40! I hate it! (Im a virgin.)... (20 words)

No sex! He says its his job, not us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys I need some advice, The relationship info: 2 1/2 years. Long distance relationship (im in college an hour and half away and with one year left, hes in full time work with weekends off) we see each other every other weekend and during the holidays. The relation... (492 words)

He really wanted my number but now he hasn't called!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys i realy need your help.I meet this guy last month and he seemed intrested in me. Well we didnt exchange number because i acted like im in a hurry, i realy didnt want 2sim desparet and all. He seems shy he didnt realy say much, he just asked me if i stayed around here and ... (137 words)

B/f hasn't even tried to have sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my bf are happy in love but he hasn't made a pass or even tried to have sex with me i have said it to him he just said its not u its me i asked him is he gone of me he said no im just as lovely from the first day he met me and i wont try it on incase he rejects me its ... (83 words)

We fight, I forget about it, but he doesn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need all the help i can!! my boyfriend and i fight all the time! i mean all the time! but i love him very very very much, and i know he loves me as much as i do, and even more. but we are fighting all the time,and we fight about stupid silly things. he is getting meaner a... (179 words)

I'm bi, thought he was gay but he likes girls too! Do I tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :D Ok, I'm a bi-sexual girl, who broke up with her long time girlfriend about 7 months ago. I met this guy about 3 months later. I started developing feelings for him; he was the first person I'd had feelings for since my exe. However, this guy is gay. Very gay. He has a ... (388 words)

With so much stress in his life how can I keep us from drifting apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I cope with the sudden distance in our relationship without putting pressure on my boyfriend. My guy recently lost his mother and is coping with an ill father who is in and out of hospital, needing several visits per week. He has a full time job aswell as a time ... (227 words)

Problems from the pill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, Bit of a medical question here, and before I just get a string of comments telling me to go to the doctor, I already have, I'm just interested if anybody has had any similar experiences. Basically I had UTI (urinary tract infection), most likely brought on by se... (278 words)

Is he lying about his financial situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - please can anyone explain this-i feel like im going insane i work with this guy who ive developed feelings for. hes unaware but likes me a lot and we do get on really well. hes had a lot of stuff going on-his marriage ended last year and he hasnt handled it great and seems to... (200 words)

Have these websites got their facts right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey just a quick question regarding the contraceptive pill. Im on the 21 day contraceptive pill yasmin, and on the NHS website, netdoctor, and the fpa (family planning association) and any other information websites on the yasmin pill all say that the pill information book... (195 words)

Is she going overboard with the privacy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Why does my girlfriend countinue to talk shit to me when i get into her personal business when she is on her phone online and she ignores me when i ask her questions bout what she does or who she with?... (41 words)

Do I go over to Thailand to be with her? It sounds horrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is from thailand. because of an exchange students organization she was in belgium for 1 year. there are 2 months left now, we've been a couple for 6 months and i can surely say we have strong love. i talked to her abt it and she said 'thing is, i do love you now,... (211 words)

Do you think my doctor likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing my doctor for 2 years now. Lately he's started calling me sweety or saying i'm a sweetheart when I see him. He's always asking me about my love life lately, he also touches my shoulder when i'm leaving, do you think he likes me?... (53 words)

I am 13 and a lot of other girls tell me I should have sex, but I don't want to!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 years old and a lot of other girls are saying that i should have sex but i havent gone through puberty yet and i heard that dry sex reeeeeely hurts and i want to lose my virgenity when im married to the man of my dreams what sould i do?!... (52 words)

How do I explain to a woman that I don't want to have kids?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a vasectomy years ago, and to be honest, I'm quite happy with the decision. I definetely don't want to have kids EVER. But how do I explain this to a woman if I ever find one. Will she hate me? Will she immediately leave? How should I break the news to her? ... (109 words)

My wife doesn't let me give her oral sex and leaves her pubic hair ungroomed, I like it shaved. Any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married now for over five years. My wife and I have a great sexual relationship with some of the best sex I have every had. There are two things that I'm having trouble speaking to her about. My wife leaves her pubic hair ungroomed. I trim and shave myself and... (157 words)

Is my sex drive normal for a girl my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Im a 20 year old girl and think my sex drive is abnormal! Im always horny and always thinking about sex, maybe more than men do. This started like maybe 3 months back. My boyfriend of 24 even asked why I loved sex so much lately, I said I dont know to which he said wh... (99 words)

He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each time he has apologised for his ... (314 words)

Where do people masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm not sure if this is an appropriate question or not, but, I was wondering...most of guys and lot's of girls masturbate. I just wanted to know, WHERE they do it. I mean like, in your room, the bathroom etc. 'Cos guys would need to clean up afterwards, and, I dunno ca... (64 words)

My boyfriend accused me of something I didn't do and broke up with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi..i met a guy off the internet..He's 20 years my senior and i was attracted to him in every way..After 2 weeks of chatting he came to my country to meet me. He's a very busy man, owns several companies and never stayed in another country for more than 3 days for business or ... (365 words)

Takes two to tango

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - stuck between two guys.. #1 Lee.. Lee i dated a few years ago for a few months. we had this really intense relationship. he is beautiful and sexy and funny and sweet. #2 Cooper.. Cooper and i are currently dating. He just bought us a house (we havent moved in yet.. our mo... (402 words)

What can I do? I think my boyfriend is dying!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. Well im seventeen and like most teenagers, i have a myspace. Well i met this boy and we began talking a whole lot. We got closer and closer each and every day. I really began to like him. He like acorss the country from me though but we were from the same state. Well he was ... (224 words)

Since I lost the baby we just exist together, nothing else!

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here's my problem: I started dating my at the time boss 2 years ago. I liked him so much I gave my notice and quit just so I didnt feel weird about us working and being together. That was 2 years ago, we now live together and for the most part I thought we were very happy. I ... (165 words)

16, think I"m pregnant, can't tell dad and abortion is not an option! HELP!

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm pregnet I know your going to say how stuped she is I know already I am any way my bf is with me all the way I just am soo scard to tell my dad I can't tell him I get scard and walk away I'm not aborshinig the baby it is wrong or neather am I giveing it away now ... (113 words)

B/f keeps asking his ex to send him nude pictures!

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here's my issue. I've been with my bf for almost 2 years now and we have a 7 month old daughter together and i'm still having the same issues with him. I have talked to him more than once and he knows how i feel about it. He is constantly in contact with his ex. They have no ... (376 words)

Please please help me with my 8 yr old relationship break down nightmare

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Please please help me with my 8 yr old relationship break down nightmare Hello my name is Jorge, I am 25 yr old male from Puerto Rico USA. I love your videos , great job you are helping on many different levels. I feel that you can shed some light on my crazy situation and Il... (1103 words)

I have never felt like this about a women before

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 3 month ago we hired a clerk to do work for another department. We started flirting right away, then she quickly came to work for my department since I needed help. The flirting went to kissing and she even came to my place once. We are both professional about it and it stays ... (95 words)

Still can't get over my crush on a former teacher

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a 19 year old girl and i need help getting over my old school teacher. I've fallen for a few teachers, but never this hard. I met him five years ago when i was in third form, and he left half way through the year. I was convinced i'd get over her after he left, but five ... (102 words)

Should I bring my ex a souvenir?

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my ex are friends. I still have feelings for him, I think he does for me though I can't tell. I'm going on vacation, should I bring him a souvenir? ... (34 words)

Something changed, and now there's been no sex in a year

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is a common problem between many women, but still I'm helpless to solve it. Please someone help me. My boyfriend and I met each other through the Internet on 2007 while I was living abroad. (so it's almost 2.5 years now that we're together). I had to stay there fo... (351 words)

He's been told that checking out other women is hurtful but he still does it

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3 May 2010 (F)

age - Why do married men say there not checking out other women while there with there wife, and she the wife see's it and says it hurts her. But he says its not true. And then when she says something about it he makes her feel bad for saying anything at all. What to do?... (56 words)

What do her comments mean?

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This lady is a classmate of mine and i have known her for almost a month and a half. We came to know each other through a competition where we both were in the same team. From that day, apart from meeting everyday in college during college hours, we exchange lots of msgs and... (206 words)

We can't move forward until his divorce finalizes, and I'm getting depressed

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for 1 yr. He treats me well. The problem is, that his divorce (he's been separated for 18 mos.) is still not final. Court dates have been cancelled, the 'other' side is being very difficult, he has a 14 yr. old daughter that lives with her mother. We ... (119 words)

Should I be waiting for her?

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This girls been my bestfriend for the last 2 years and we know every thing about each other. A while ago she told me she loves me and i felt the same, i still do but she has a boyfriend. She always tells me that she wants to be sure before she does anything but I always see her ... (85 words)

He tells his g/f that she reminds him of me -- does that mean he still has feelings for me?

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I had written earlier about my being friends with my exboyfriend's girlfriend. I am very close to her because we have so much in common. My exboyfriend is always comparing her to me. He has stated numerous times that she reminds him of me. The things that she does in ... (77 words)

Am I "Undateable" ?

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and a girl. Kind of small (5'1), blonde hair, blue eyes and i think i'm ok to talk to but i haven't had a properly dated a guy for 2 years and i'm starting to feel a bit lonely =/ I dont know weither its to do with my skin (i have a bit of acne but its calmed down a lot) ... (324 words)

Wife says you want sex give me romance. What's a husband to do?

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married for a little over a year now. The first year is always the hardest they say, but my wife may have just made it harder. She says that we have never had romance in our relationship and that from now on if I want sex I have to give her romance. We ... (126 words)

I'm pretty sure he's still seeing someone else but he denies it

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been kind of seeing this guy for a while. We've been really good friends for a while now, and recently it's developed into more. We've kissed and stuff but that's all, he's asked me on a date but we've not been on it yet. I just want to take things slow, because ... (234 words)

What does a wet vagina mean?

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - when my girlfriend and i have intercourse without a condom(dont worry were adults and shes on the pill, were careful) she gets wet before we have intercourse, she gets wet while we kiss and make out but when i'm in her and penetrate her nice and slow and all the way, we make ... (102 words)

I really care for her, but her ex is making things impossible

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Because this is quite possibly the hardest situation I have ever been in throughout my life, I really need some advice. I met this amazing girl a few months ago and we hit it off and had a great time for the first few weeks. She told me that she had recently broke up with her ... (497 words)

How long can a man stay for the sake of the kids?

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 15 years. We have 2 kids. My wife has a lot of good qualities. She is a loving mom and generally a nice person. However, she has some very bad traits that have turned me off to the point of not wanting to be around her. She overeats and has gained a ... (384 words)

Broke up 2 years ago and it still hurts

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3 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my ex 2 and a half years ago. He had a breakdown and would not get help. We had a great relationship until he emotionally degraded. I stayed with him for 6 months after the breakdown but had to end it because: 1) he talked about suicide constantly and r... (434 words)

Still having nightmares because of the abuse

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was 14 (4 years ago) i was abused, and left alone..i was scared and i didnt know what i had done wrong.. i thought i could trust the boy. but i was wrong and stupid. he was 14 too.. i just didnt think things like that went through boys head at that age, but they obvs do.... (121 words)

Men: Would you have treated a woman like this?

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I when out with this guy from work with his friends. We when to a couple of bars and a sushi place. We really hit it off. He bought me drinks that night. He stayed the night over at my place. We did not have sex but pretty close. The next night he invited me out w... (301 words)

How can I make my 40 year old husband feel sexy not OLD?

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm 39 years old and my husband just turned 40. He's starting to look more like his father when his father was in his 40s and he's not liking it. He's not balding or anything but he keeps telling me that I'm aging a lot more gracefully than he is and that I get more ... (256 words)

My Husband Doesn't Support Me Emotionally

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3 May 2010 (?) age 36-40 - I am married to an army soldier, who does not seem to understand my needs at all. We have been married one year , and there has never been much romance in our relationship, just strong feelings. He doesn't understand my emotional needs; writes them off as irrational and ... (477 words)

Testing the waters...is it wrong to want to do so?

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres the situation, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He's the only serious and sexually relationship i've been in. I'll admitt he is a bit controlling and won't let me do much. And we've been dating since I was 15-16. Ever since we lost our child I've felt ... (142 words)

What do you do if you find out your husband is cheating?

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What wil u do if u discover beyond reasonable doubt that ur husband is cheating on you? I gave up so many things i hold so dear,jst to keep my marriage. I was using my husband's mobile phone wen i discovered a txt message he sent to another woman whom he addressed as a man,that ... (87 words)

Confused on whether a guy likes me or not

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy i got to know during a certain program at my school,which lasted for 3weeks.We're both in our final year of the same college.During this period,i got to know the guy better and even noticed that he's kinda cute.Well,we've been talking since the program.I've been ... (317 words)

There must be something wrong in our relationship if I had a one night stand, right?

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3 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing my bf for 18 months. We are both separated and have kids, live apart and he has a difficult job that is physically exhausting so when I do get to see him (not as often as I'd like) he is often tired. There are a few things that are getting me down about it... (166 words)