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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I need advice regarding an overbearing mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's a bit like daja vu! I was on here just over a year ago with exactly the question!! My boyfriend and I split up because his mother didnt like our relationship, but we worked through that issue and became close again but it was in 'secret'. I`m 31 and I have four childr... (314 words)

I just found out my bf was married but separated, yet JUST signed divorce papers!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Before anyone makes any assumptions, here's the background story: I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. The first few months he lived at home with his parents to catch up on debts. I would stay over all the time, and no one in his family ever mentioned an ex-... (717 words)

My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patience. I dont know how to t... (135 words)

What is he thinking in his mind??? I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i was seeing a guy for 5 months, he text me every day from his holiday he and every day morning and night whilst he was away he decided to tell me he had fallen in love with me and when i asked why he said he felt something was missing and that was me. text me love you darlin ... (165 words)

Totally confused about everything in my life...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm a guy and I'm 15. I live a very boring life, in fact i have no life at all and no TRUE friends. It sucks. It's pretty lonely and sad. And lately I've been getting a real desire to find someone to call my own. To be in love, to fall in love, to be loved. And even though ... (187 words)

Am I a man whore???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so people keep calling me these names and I'm just sick of it. I'm 17 and I'm gay. The think is I get turned on very easily and am very friendly and flirtatious. So I tend to flirt with a lot of guys... and some girls too. And even when not trying it seems as if I'm going ... (190 words)

Does she deserve another chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) age 41-50 - This might take abit long. Me and my girl have been dating for year and a half, and she recently started a new job 3 months ago. But the past week shes been acting a bit strange. She was suddenly dressing up for work. Few days ago she had a problem with her phone, i said ... (1217 words)

Seems he's far away enough from me to cheat on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 years now.. we have been in a long distance relationship.. he is in med school and i am back here in the US.. i feel now that he is far away he may cheat on me.. is it possible or am i just being paranoid..?... (54 words)

How can I open up to him more when he talks about sexy stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and in my first ever relationship. my boyfriend always says sexy stuff to me and i never know what to say back. i look like an idiot and he gets a bit annoyed that he's the one that always does the talking in terms of sex. when he asks what i want him to do, i never know ... (65 words)

Can you really go from being bi curious to straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right here goes x im 17, ive been with my boyfriend since we were 13 and i love him to pieces. the thing is, he's always been openly bisexual, and ive always accepted that as part of who he is and i love him despite that, i honestly have no issue there. However, he s... (230 words)

Is our relationship over...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a gay relationship for 1year, and my bf has been going thru a difficult time in terms of his boss cutting down on staff, pay cuts etc, so we have not had the life of luxury we once had as we are both ;living from pay cheque to pay cheque. His apartment has be... (435 words)

18 year age difference!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 with a 36 year old. We have been together for 2 years now. everything has been great. Apart from having to hide from everybody. A few days ago my mom passed and i moved in with him. We finally told his parents because we could no longer hide it. Now it's all a mess. His ... (239 words)

Am I not good enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy Peoples! Recently i started dating one of my childhood friends and everything is going great! I'm so happy! We both gave eachother our bebo passwords. One day i decided to check his private mail. I probly shouldnt have invaded his privacy but i found out he was writtin... (105 words)

My husband is wearing me down soooo much... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - See I've been married two years and my husband tells me I'm a dog that should be put down, or I should drown in a tub, awful wife. We fight a lot and maybe that's my fault but I wouldn't fight with him if he wouldn't back me in a corner. How so he worked for a cab compony ... (196 words)

My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited. This hurts my feelings and I feel insecure because of it. Is this something that normally takes place when a man has been with one women for a long ... (228 words)

He's threatening to post nude pictures of me on the net!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up over a month ago. We had many issues, he was controlling and too jealous, always thought the worst of me and called me names, didn't trust me at all. He's been obsessively checking out my Facebook profile. I blocked him and his family members, I also ... (267 words)

He's ignoring me, what do I do? He was my life!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me i really need help because i dont know what to do i feel so ill and sick. i have been texting a guy for nearly 3 months and we were getting on brilliant he was kinda my boyfriend! until 5.30pm today uk time. i messaged him saying what u doin? we have been ... (140 words)

Every time I have sex it brings on a period!

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31 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Every time i have sex with my boyfriend it brings on a period even if i'm not due one?? can someone please explain this?... (24 words)

She says she's not bothered whether or not she has an orgasm!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there im going out with this girl and we have had sex. she has never had an orgasm ever and i really want to giver her one. i know i can but she says she doenst really care whether she orgasms or not. i respect that but im still going to try. but im curious as to why she ... (92 words)

I need him, he is my Romeo... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i just got busted for sneaking my boyfriend over to my house today to hang. My grandma's finace called my mom and she was pissed off, so she is taking my phone so i can not text or call him and we are in love. we made out an had clothes sex behind my house. My mom already hated ... (107 words)

Does this married man, 26 years my senior, like me for more than revenge on his cheating wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does this married man, 26 years my senior, like me for more than sex? I'm 19 and have started an affair with a 45 year old man. His wife had been cheating on him for 2 years with his best friend before we even met and he stayed faithful to her for that time as he has two ki... (313 words)

It seems like I'm going to lose her... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey,Guys, I have some problems with one of my friends, And i need you help. This is the thing,one of my friend's a girl, who has been my friend since high school, is going to celebrate her birthday, and asked me if i can give her a present for her birthday. But i di... (282 words)

Is he keen or just luke warm...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have two children with a guy i was with for 8 years we broke up in january. 3 months later a friend of mine hooked me and his friend up we started dating and have been together for about 2 months. he doesnt lie to me or hide anything but he never really calls me or texts me ... (167 words)

Help! I want to have sex with my cousin... is this bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, is it bad that i want to do it with my cousin? Shes so beautiful!! she has a great body and shes one year younger than me. please help me!!!! and how do i ask her to do it with me?... (42 words)

Stressed in case we lose contact after my holiday...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been talking with a guy who is currently in another town. We cannot see each other every often but last time he was here he asked me out and we had a blast. He is talking to me very often and he is consistently contacting me. It is clear from his emails that ... (256 words)

Why does the man you love need to be so controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age - My question is why does the man you love need to be so controlling? I was married to him for 29 years. He left me for a younger woman then she died and he came back into my life. I am in her house with him but he wont let me bring my home things here. I have my own home. I ... (88 words)

Friend problems... I'm really confused, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this problem with my female best friend (I'm a guy) for the past year, everything went so smoothly. We were with a small group of friends. Then one day, my best friend fought with another friend in the group and they decided to stay away from each other. I of course ... (685 words)

Is it possible I could have an STD? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need to know, ASAP... can you get symtoms of an STD the day after you have sex? It was unprotected and my first time with him... such a huge mistake! I don't know what I was thinking!!!!... (42 words)

I am scared to death... Am I pregnant???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. well i was hanging out with my best guy friend. and he was in the mood, so i jacked off, i had a little bit of cum in the middle of my hand but i wiped it off, about 2 hours later i was masturbating home alone, i put one finger in but not all the way.. could i be ... (64 words)

How can I help my food-crazed cousin stop eating and obsessing so much about food?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I have a relative I am currently rooming with. She has some habits that really annoy me and I don't know any nice way to bring it up or let her know. And I need help doing that. She has battled with weightloss all her life. It is so hard to eat in front of her ... (513 words)

Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both happy... well today we was ... (111 words)

Does she have feelings for my brother over me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've known this girl for 2 years, and have had feelings for her for about as long. she is married and is planning on leaving her husband (not because of me.) and when she does she is going to be moving in with me and my brother. i told her that i had feelings for her a while ... (244 words)

Are sweaty hands a turn off during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My hands always sweat really bad, sometimes for no reason. I keep thinking I'm going to saturate somebody with sweat so I don't bother with sex anymore. Is this a turnoff when having sex?... (35 words)

Does my ex want to be with me again or not???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - If you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again, is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..noone cheated..i think ... (487 words)

I miss my boyfriend to distraction, what can I do regain control.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. It's been about 9 months now. We hit it off last summer and things are going really well. But we said goodbye about 4 hours ago, because he'll be flying off to another country with his band to perform there. W... (234 words)

Do I leave my boyfriend for this other guy even though I might not end up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a very long and complicated story lol. so i was very good friends with a guy named "j" and i always had feelings for him ever since we met but i never said anything until 10 months after meeting. he admitted he like me as well but there was a problem. his best friend ... (395 words)

How can I win her over and make her see it's worth a shot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, So i'm bisexual and there is this girl that I really, really like. She's a year older, and we met through friends in college. She's a lesbian, and has said that she likes me too... But I think I may have blown my chances with her, and I need some help trying to win he... (202 words)

My boyfriend thinks I am faking it when we have sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey , my boyfriend said i sounded like i was faking it during sex but i wasnt and i told him that. What does faking it exactly mean? Cause the thing is if i keep my mouth shut nothing would come out inless i make my mouth open, is that faking? I wasnt over doing it or any ... (88 words)

Any thoughts...? Sexual frustration!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age - My fiancée that I am scheduled to marry within the next couple of months doesn't turn me on the way my exgirl friend use to. My exgirl who I was crazy about was always dripping wet for me day night early in morning and would have orgasms through intercourse almost at will and ... (171 words)

Pill problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5308 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went to my doctor as I kept feeling dizzy, and she checked me out and couldn't find anything wrong with me. I have been on the pill for about 2 1/2 years and she told me to come off the pill for a couple of months as it could be that. Has anyone ever heard anything like ... (86 words)

I am really certain that this is the one for me, but am afraid I may be wasting my efforts and will only lead to heartache in the end.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this girl for a few months now. I really like her, no wait; I'm falling in love with her. She knows how I feel, but maybe not to the extent of my feelings. She also knows that I want to date her and she’s told me she really likes me, but she just doesn’t ... (122 words)

Why can guys not learn to communicate properly???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this guy who is a friend we mail/text back and forth almost on a daily basis, then today outta nowhere he is like an anti christ . . He is hung over but surely thats not going to change him into a nasty piece of work is it???? Why is it we ladies let men get under ou... (151 words)

I feel like she owes me a proper explanation of how she feels at least!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend dumped me after we started University last November, saying she didn't want to be in a relationship at that time. We were together for around 5 months after a friendship progressed and I had helped her through a suicide attempt and the abortion of a pregnancy ... (307 words)

Deprived of sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my fiance for three years, we moved in together about 4 months ago he recently lost his job. sex before was not an issue since he has no job sex has gone down the drain. i almost have to beg for sex or masturbate, i am older than him im 39 and he is 35 what is ... (72 words)

How do I make this into a booty call relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met ran into an old friend that I picked up in a bar and we had sex. I am not in a position to have a relationship. I travel all over the US for work, and communicated this to him. He made sure to get my phone number. He texed me 30 minutes after I dropped him off, stating ... (169 words)

Wife treated exes better than her husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

31 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I was reading someone else's question and it encouraged me to post a similar question of my own. My wife and I have been married for about 7 years. When we met, she had a lot of sexy lingerie - about 20 pieces. She also told me she had thrown away about 20 pieces prior to ... (343 words)

My boyfriend is stealing from me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, here's the thing, my bf and i been together for 2 years coming up to 3. hes not working and looking for work now. In the two years i caught him stealing money from my purse and confronted him about it. he promised me not to do it and i thought it was all ok but last ... (129 words)

The boys I've known have only been after one thing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i know im only 19, ever since i have been 15 i have always had boys attention,iv always had a boy to text and cheer me up when im down. but latley iv realised that they only wanted mefor 1 thing and kept we sweet to get it. since i have realised this i have not bothered with ... (111 words)

When it comes right down to it boys never want a relationship with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm fed up of boys using me when they are bored. They give it all the sweet talk like " I really like you and couldn't imagine having this much fun with another girl" but when it come to it they never want a realtionship. This isn't the 1st time it has happened to me. I ... (104 words)

Why do I want my husband to mess up so bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

31 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I want my husband to mess up so bad? I have been married for over 17 years, I've cheated and my husband has cheated. He has lost two jobs over woman that he cheated with and he talked to several woman on a computer. We have been to church for counseling and I thought ... (239 words)