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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok so I've been with my husband for 8 years but these past 4 months I have been having an affair. He has a girlfriend, but is nit happy. We agreed at the start that it was just gonna b a bit of fun. When we meet it is generly just a physical thing, but he txts and calls constanly. Problem is Im falling for him. He's got and so funny. He buys me things all the time, chocalate, teddies, jewlery. He remembers the date that we first had sex. I don't know if it's still just a bit of fun for him or if he's falling for me! I'm far to scared if rejection so can not bear to tell him that u like him, would rather not know n carry in as we are for the time being. He's on holiday with his gf at the mo, told him not to contact me. Thought it would give some space to think, but he txted me a day into his holiday to arrange for us to meet up! Am soooooooooo confused! Didn't want to fall fir him, but I am!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 May 2010):
Wake up. You're being used for sex. That's all. He's seen your unhappy in your marriage, and is just taking advantage. Of course he's kind and remembers all the dates and give you things. That way he can get you into bed. That's all it's about. So make a decision. Either end the affair and move on from this guy and get back to your marriage, or divorce your husband and move on form this guy anyway. Because when it comes out, you'll look the worst.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 You are worried about what your lover thinks but I think you have forgotten that you are married. If you want to continue a relationship with your lover you first have to be honest with your husband and you have to tell him you have found his replacement.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (4 May 2010):
 So.... what advice are you looking for? Should you tell him?
I'd suggest being honest with your husband first and foremost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): Married. Hello?
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