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writes:ok so, heres the deal, I have an amazing boyfriend, hes not perfect, but he perfect for me. I have really bad self eestem issues, and i feel likei have to bring up every thing me and other boy talks about to him, to make him jealous so you know, he will try harder, and want em more, "guys want what other guys want" thats kinda what i feel like, but its destroying our realtionship, i dont know how to over come this, just today we ahd a fight about it, so i went though and deleted a whole bunch of guys numbers, idk if this will help but its worth a try. so my question is, how do I stop doing this, and if im going the right way to handle it?
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reader, crissyj89 +, writes (4 May 2010):
This isnt self esteem thats driving you to do this. Its your ego. This is not a good thing at all, and you need to become determined to change this aspect of you. You want your boyfriend to stroke your ego, and thats unhealthy. Yes, we females love when our man compliments us, but fishing for compliments and playing games to keep him and his attention are what tends to drive men away. So, make up your mind. Every time you realize you're doing it, make youself stop. Nothing is stronger that will power. And apologize to your boyfriend for acting this way.
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