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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does my boyfriend hold my arm in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why does my boyfriend hold my arm instead of holding my hand in public? I've been told that he's trying to "guide me", that he's being protective and guarding me. I'm still curious as to what this may mean when he does this. Thanks.... (47 words)

I hate my miserable life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old, and in the 8th, soon to be 9th grade. From kindergarten to 6th grade I hanged out with the loser click, but then I got 2 7th grade and started hanging out with more popular ppl. The thing is, all the years b4 in my life, left me with not-too-great social ... (231 words)

Am I a fool for putting up with this issue?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I dont know what to do? Have been with my partner or 3 years. We dont live together.He brought his ex wife to this country last year. DId not tell her that I excisted. He wanted to see i they could get back together. After 8 months..it "all" came out in the open. He said that ... (230 words)

Having doubts about my LDR!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear reader ( i guess) any ways here's the thing i've known this guy since i was 17 thought the internet and we were friends for almots 5 yrs now( im 22 now) this year he conformed his love to me and i love him too but he lives far away so it's basically a long distance... (136 words)

Should I get involved even though I'm going away to college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always thought high school relationships are a waste of time. I've always thought that senior guys and freshman girls getting together was wrong. Now, I met a girl who I really like and really likes me. We kissed for the first time recently. My problem: I'm 18 and she's 15 ... (183 words)

Should I steer clear of him? He's on medication and a recovering alcoholic.

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, i met a man online a few months ago, we spoke around twice a week mainly just silly talk but it was very enjoyable and funny, recently we have been out on two dates, when im with him we have a nice time, the conversation is good and he is a gentleman always. on the seco... (330 words)

He wants to wait to get married even though we have a baby on the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I am having relationship problems with my current boyfriend. We are 19 years old and i am 7 months pregnant. We are in college and he goes to college a few hours away. We werent planning the baby but just took it as a blessing. I am a christian and really want ... (191 words)

What should I do to get our sex life back on track?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I usually have a good sex life and If we fall into a routine will try new things (to an extent!)... But every few months he decides that I'm not putting enough effort into things (when I go on top) and he stops and lies there and says 'show me what you've got' ... (220 words)

Will guys be interested in a girl like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am indian ,a young girl artist who likes to draw things that makes everyone smile ,dance is my passion and i love cooking and i am considered beautiful among other indian girls but i am not that smart or intelligent that counts my low grades in school, i would like to ... (108 words)

Could I be reading too much into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a school ball coming up, and there's this boy that I really like. We were chatting the other day, and he asked who I was going with. I told him that me and my friends were going as a big group, and he said, 'ah, I would ask you but me and my (female) friend arranged to ... (230 words)

Is something wrong with me since I'm not sex driven?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm sixteen and I'm still a virgin. I have had 4 boyfriends who have all tried to get in my pants and have been really close to but haven't. My problem is sex just doesn't seem appealing to me right now. Is there something wrong with me? It's like everyone around ... (61 words)

Getting the teacher I love a gift?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, for my teacher (that I have a major crush on), I want to get him a gift for the end of the year. Just a little something to say "Heyy, thanks for putting up with my mental retardation when it comes to this class and all the lunch hours you spent explaining! And ... (153 words)

Love my boyfriend but no sex makes me want to move on

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i are having problems i guess you could say. we have been together for a year and a half now. we only have sex about twice a month. his first excuse was that he never wanted to cause im too pushy about it but now he says he has a libido problem cause he is 37 ... (170 words)

He cheated! Will I always be suspicious of him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone known of couples who have faced infidelity in their marriage and worked it out? My husband and I have been married for 9 years (together for 16) and he has had a 3 1/2 year affair. We have 2 children together, ages 6 and 4. Is it possible to restore the trust and ... (82 words)

Pain and bleeding whilst urinating (female)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am experiencing pain and bleeding during urination. i have researched it to see what could be wrong, as i know that pain is a common symptom of chlamidia. however, i didn't find anything that mentioned bleeding aswell, and i cant think of any possible reason that i would hav... (147 words)

Black marks on my skin..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I shave my legs every day, but in spots, it leaves little black specks and it looks like i need to shave still. Although my skin stays extremely smooth.. does anyone know whats wrong here? by the way, i have a light case of psoriasis(spelled wrong i think) could it have any... (57 words)

Why is my ex giving me such mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so i dated someone 28 yrs for four yrs. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter arguments and me ignoring him he wrote ... (486 words)

What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He is turning 16 on June 7th and im still at a loss of ideas. We have been dating for almost 3 months, so i dont want to get him something too intimite, yet i dont want to get him something meaningless either. Hes an all-out country boy. He loves bull ridin, horses, country ... (114 words)

We're becomming distant from each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Okay so I've been fighting with myself on an issue for months, and I just don't know what to do. I need some advice. So about a year ago I met a guy, lets call him Ben, and we connected almost instantly. We became really close, really fast, and we were basically, as close as... (386 words)

I'm 14 and I want to have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 14 years old and I want to have sex. But I don't have a girlfriend. I'm tired of masturbation. So i want a girlfriend. Not for sex(but that's a point). I also want to love her an so on. All I can say is that i'm not a VERY good-looking boy. I'm on average level. S... (91 words)

How do I move past these thoughts of him and his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been in the same group of friends since freshman year high school. We sorta drifted in and out over those years but were always in contact. He had a serious relationship for 2.5 years but they broke up. He's talked to a few girls for a few years ... (217 words)

Will this "shyness" go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and just started dating my first boyfriend. I'm comfortable around him and we seem to get along great BUT he says i'm really quiet... specially around him. We've been dating for 2 weeks now, going on 3, and I think this could cause a problem. I'm a shy person but i don't ... (157 words)

How to get my ex back from him - long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5334 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex were (are) in a distance relationship. I visited her twice and was planning on visiting her again this June. Whenever I visited her, we always have so wonderful times. We both enjoyed our time walking together everyday, going to the park or downtown, dancing, ... (678 words)

Is this normal or am I losing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5331 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I know if my bf still loves me.? Lately maybe 4months ago I been notice someting wrong in my relationship my bf doesn't calls me like before and when I'm with him he seems soo bored sometimes he dosent even want to have sex. He says he's tired but I'm tired of talking to ... (82 words)

Can you get trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5335 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this girl for about a year and 2 months now. I did some hurtful things to her. I cheated around 3 times but came clean about it. She always forgave me. I had been emotionally unstable from my childhood and previous relationships. Also I had been going throu... (277 words)

Guys: how would you prefer a girl to tell you she likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I really want to approach a guy and tell him I like him, would any guys care to share the way they would like this done for them? What is your ideal setting for a girl to telly ou she likes you I get your all different but if I can get general ideas that'd be nice X... (66 words)

Does this girl sound interested enough for me to try something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this girl in this acting program i go to that i cant seem to get off my mind recently. Shes everything ive been looking for and more, shes got grace, style, a sense of humour, likes to party, laid back, beautiful just everything. Well yesterday at this class i noticed ... (136 words)

Is this how a shy guy flirts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Two questions here: 1) would you consider a guy(someone thats not very forward with showing how they feel) putting :) at the end of texts suddenly a sign of flirting/ he likes you? 2)If you said to someone we might be going out one night if you wanna come?...and they repli... (81 words)

Losing a friend with the breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm having a little trouble getting over my breakup but I already know that I'm a strong person who wants to continue with life because it existed before the relationship and sure will after. The problem is losing a friend. I became best friends with him, he was my g... (191 words)

Is he actually moving toward commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf and I have been together for just shy of two years in a long distance relationship. We see each other every weekend, go on frequent trips together, vacation with our children together etc. We live 500 miles away from each other now. Back in January he told me that he ... (274 words)

After two years he says he still thinks of me -- what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - It has been almost two years since my boyfriend and I broke up. I spoke with him last week in regards to business issues and he felt the need to tell me that he still thinks of me all of the time and he seemed concerned about how I was doing. What does this mean? if anything..... (58 words)

How would you as a person want me to act if I felt this way towawrds you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - "OPs own title" I really need this question answered and taken seriously. There is this guy, and i have like him for nearly 3 years. He's my high school crush if i were to put it that way. Lately, we've been talking loads every night on IM and we have a laugh. My friend at ... (151 words)

Ex boyfriend broke up with me but wants to remain friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex bf of 3 months broke up with me saying that he felt that the relationship was getting too serious for him and that he wasn't ready. I deleted him from Facebook. Now he comes on my skype and wants to talk "as friends" on regular basis - he wants to keep the friendship ... (186 words)

She sees it as a one night stand, I thought we were going somewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres a Girl i like who ive gone pretty far with in the bed room but she only see it as a one night stand i thought that it was going some where and i dunno what to do if i just leave it or try and make it go some where . she say she likes me but dosent like relationships i ... (94 words)

How can I tell if I am gay or bi or straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I think i'm gay or bi buti really don't know,, how can i know... ? I mean I think i like girls to,, i mean aftir i found out my friend who's two years older then me, is gay I git a little exited. but i still like guys, i think.... plz i really need to know....... (60 words)

How do I deal with matchmaking friends who want to get me with my uncaring friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago I texted my friend and told him something personal that happened to me. Thinking I would get support from him. Nothing, it seems like he never cares about me, or treats me like a friend so I texted him that I would never speak to him again. I won't see him for ... (212 words)

He acts different toward me around his friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - okay i need advice please. im close friends with a guy at work i really like him but i really dont know how he feelsa bout me. when he started the job he was very nervous and had a ear breakdown due to his wife leaving him. anyway ive spent the last 8 months counselling him and ... (199 words)

I had sex with a gay person, now my friend is making me feel afraid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know there are so many questions asking about this kind of thing already, but I would like to ask for some advice or comments anyway. I'm a female, 22 years old and now living in the UK. Right now I'm having a bit of trouble identifying my sexual orientation. I h... (351 words)

Why shouldn't I pity him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Last week, I was having an ordinary conversation with a male friend of mine who I feel pretty close to. I made a comment that I felt sorry for a guy we both know as no one seems to like him very much. He told me quite sharply that I should never pity a guy, not even him... (100 words)

I couldn't be bothered to have sex with him anymore, will he cheat?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i'm laura and i'm in an interracial relationship with my Fiancée for 7 years he still find me sexy but i can't be bother to have sex with him much now , at first we used too be at it like sex craved teenagers the slightest touch would turn me on but i'm scared he will lea... (101 words)

How can I win his heart back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my ex broke up w me a few wks ago, because he said he didnt love me anymore. We were together for about 10 mths, im currently 7mths pregnant. We argued alot and broke up several times during our relationship but we really loved each other. Recently he told me he thought we ... (117 words)

Are these signals mixed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf are both 16. We've been going out for 5 months. I'm confused about what he thinks about us 'doing stuff.' He's touched me everywhere but with the exception of a couple of times sticks to the outside of my pants when rubbing me 'down there'. He previously talked ... (98 words)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was 140 pounds and 5'2 i usually ... (474 words)

Is this guy a player or what?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, its been a while now that iv been texting a guy who is 6 years older than me. when he first txt he wanted to know if im single. today i found out that he has a girlfriend and a baby boy. he always ask me out but iv refused till now. should i acccept his proposal? is he a ... (64 words)

She came back in my life...not sure if we should stay friends or just end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here is the situation; Ive been together with this girl for over a year, when she broke up with me. She had all kind of issues, like anorexia, etc. After the break up I decided to forget about her and move on, but now about 6 months later she has initiated contact ... (141 words)

How do I ask him, who that blonde girl was in his car?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm in my 20s and not really had that much experience with guys and have slept with only 3 men. Anyway ive been on-off, seeing this guy who the other week said he sees me as a good friend. He's 10 years older then me. Anyways, we first met, last yr. Fell out and s... (176 words)

How do I work through these trust issues I have, in my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for 10 months. She is 29, has a 2 yr old, I am 26, we now live together. She has somewhat of a past, I have had people tell me about things I really wouldn't want to hear. I have put that aside but lately I have been having issues. I have been ... (239 words)

My bf took me off his Top Friends list on Facebook!! Why would he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a top friend list on his face book for 15 people and i was in it. Today for some reason he took me out of it! We see each other everyday and he is so loving and kind. And when i got home from his house i noticed he replaced me with his other male friends. ... (176 words)

I had a dream my bf cheated on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a dream my boyfriend cheated on me.? He had sex with some girl in a closet, then some where else too but he wouldn't confess that. Then he was telling me all of this like he didn't care, like this was nothing. I woke up with my heart pounding, and I almost cried. Wh... (83 words)

Itchy skin problems! My doc thinks it's allergies...but I'm not sure. Any input?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am having a problem. It started when I just got to America in January. Frequently, I experience itchy skin in the cold and sometimes when I am on my own and not in the cold. I also have a lot of pimples on my forehead until i started using a good face washer which reduced it ... (94 words)

My teacher won't mark my work!! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I did all my work. I went to hand it in and my teacher opened the door she said no. She then shut the door in my face. What am I gonna do?? if she doesnt mark it I've failed:(2 years in college(not university):( I dont know what I have done to her..I've not done nothing ... (157 words)

Lately, my husband's lovemaking behaviors have been different! Just wondering why this has happened?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 7 yrs married for 5yr. We have always had a great relationship and a great sex life. Recently he got a new job that takes him out of town for the first week of every month. Ever since he came home the last time, he is different in bed. ... (124 words)

How does one work closely with an ex-bf? Is it possible in the workplace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I work with my boyfriend of over a year. We sit very close in the office. If we decide to break up, is it possible to handle this like 2 mature adults and not let it affect our jobs? I would like to hear from others who have worked with their SO and broke up and how they ... (88 words)

She cheated on her ex! Should I stay with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend and we are in a relationship since last six months. Her ex-boyfriend came to me and told me everything that existed between him and my girlfriend. They used to kiss a lot, even got physical but it was not proper. They were in a very good relationship. But ... (124 words)

While overseas my husband refused to meet or talk to my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age - Recently, we met up with members of my family from overseas. My husband refused to meet with them or talk to them, and I was so embarrassed that we left early and came home. He made no effort to take part in any of the joint activities arranged, which I had to do on my own. ... (101 words)

After six years being around him just isn't the same anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Im 23 years old and ive been with my partner 6 years we have a 14month old son and we got a morgage a year ago, im so confused i really dont no if i love him anymore i havent let him near me for about 3months now i just dont feel attracted to him. Ive tried telling him how i ... (129 words)

What will happen after no sex for 8 months?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - if a woman doesnt have sex for 8 months will her vagina tear the first time she does ... (20 words)

How would I find my biological father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and looking for my biological father. I have found my biological mother. All i have is his name, surname and birth date. Please help me as to how I can go about finding him... (37 words)

I don't know if I love my b/f anymore, there's someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically I have been in a relationship for a long long time. I met him when we were young teens and have been with him ever since. I really did used to love him, despite the face he cheated on me numerous times. I forgave him but we still have trust issues. I have had chance ... (259 words)

In love with him and don't know how to contact him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i,m not used to puttin these kinda things up so bear with me.... Hi i,m an 18 year old female from Ireland and I,m in love with a guy i fancied when i was 6 I fancied him for years and now we went to different school and now he's down the country. I got overhim but now ... (93 words)

I'm 14 and in love with my much older former science teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm fourteen i've been in love with this teacher for almost 2 years now , he was my science teacher and something about him just was appealing to me hes way too old for me hes about in his 45's but i still find him kind of attractive other may not agree well every one ... (675 words)

How does one overcome bitterness, or should I say pettiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I know a lot about myself and why I react a certain way to certain situations. But I want to know how I can overcome my pettiness complex. I am still twisted and angry that all the girls at school and university ignored me. Is this being petty? What should I do to get this fact ... (176 words)

A question for the players....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is for someone who has been a player or is currently a player.If a player doesn't get sex from a girl or knows that he won't get sex from a girl,would he stay in contact with her.Should the girl be paranoid if he wants to stay in touch with her.The girl didn't ... (88 words)

Any way to make my very noticeable assets less visible?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am only 14 years old and i have 34 DD boobs, they are the biggest in my year, i used to like them but now in the summer when i want to wear vest tops they look huge and they are really pert and they just sit their..my friends are jelous but i am scared about as i get older ... (107 words)

My girlfriend is very sensitive and I accidentally offended her! How can I make things right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all. Thanks for checking out my question. Okay, so my girl is VERY sensitive. Yesterday, I called her and everything was okay. We talked about this and that until the point where her friend called when i was talking to her. Her friend made an intentionally mi... (161 words)

Why is the man I am having an affair with behaving this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age - Could someone please explain what this guy is doing to me,by the things he is saying. Well for starters he is married and we have been having an affair on and off now for 30yrs, with some breaks in between. I know his wife but only on a very casual terms.he is in his early 60... (221 words)

Finally I've been accepted into a new school, but because I have been bullied for years I have annoying habits! How can I stop so I don't annoy my new friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Today, I got amazing news! i've been accepted into a new school! but the reason i wanted to move was because my cousin was bulliyng and i was tired of faking that i did'nt hear his insults about my weight and apparently too nice personality! I've been bullied since ye... (185 words)

How do I tell him that I don't feel the same way without offending him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5339 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - A co-worker, and close friend of mine, is a married man. He's always flirted with me, but I thought it was innocent. But he's recently confided in other co-workers that he is in love with me and considering leaving his wife. I do not want this! He is confused, and according to ... (148 words)

I know he is not really into me but I am finding it hard to let go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 20 dating a guy who is 28.at first i wsnt interestd in him but as i got to know i started to develop feelings for him,i foumd out that he has 2 kids and he hasnt realy broken up with his baby momma.after we had sex he started being distant,i call him he doesnt call me,i send ... (106 words)

We are forever breaking up and getting back together again, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok..this may be long and i appologize but its doing my head in..also i hope it makes some kind of sense! 2 and a half years ago i moved interstate with my partner for work ,hes always earned a lot of money and i also ended up with a pretty good job..after a year i was ... (928 words)

Have I made the right decision to cut her out of my life?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is about as complicated as it gets, so I'll try to be as clear as possible - apologies for the length and the spelling/grammar errors below. The story goes: Back when I was 15, I met a girl in my home town. We fell in love, and started dating. Even at 15, we w... (1578 words)

All of a sudden he wants nothing more to do with me, only days after he told me he loved me!

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been going out with an older man for many years, we dont live together and as we are a bit apart we dont see each other that often, but weve always had a great relationship with its ups and downs not many downs,, id say, we talk a lot online which helps when i dont see ... (192 words)

Can anyone help me to figure out my feelings for my teacher?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I will try and keep this short. I don't know how to describe my feelings about this teacher (married with 2 kids, late 30s/early 40s). I have known him for about 5 years and he has taught me for 2 of those years. He always smiles at me and whenever we talk we are ... (163 words)

What's up with him and what do I do?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] I'm 13 he's 14. im VERY shy and he's just shy. we go to the same church and stuff. i liked him the first time i saw him (2 and 1/2 years ago) i dont talk to anyone in church much. mostly little kids and family. i hang out with little k... (752 words)

How do I get rid of these razor bumps?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i keep getting razor bumps in my pubic area and they will not go away. i got this big bump that im not use to on my lip os down there and i picked it and cler stuff came out is that normal??, i was thinking it was herpes but if it aint how do i take the razor b... (66 words)

Should I tell him I miss him? I feel he shuts me out but it is hard for me not to talk to him.

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seein this guy for a couple of months.We talk/see each other daily.He recently turned a new leaf and is tryin to quit drinking, get a different job, a car and his family is visiting because his grandma is dying.A week ago we hung out and it was fantastic, we laughed ... (335 words)

How can I bring her former feelings for me back?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - the girl i love and i know she loved me back says she had strong feelings for me but she doesnt know what happend to them. what can i do to show her what she felt when she says its too soon for her to see me. how can i get her feelings back and why did they leave so abruptly?... (61 words)

Did my wife have gay tendencies?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my wife for about 2 years total and one year married. I love my wife more then life itself, and we have a baby on the way. However, a past relationship she had with one of her friends (who is a girl) has always vexed me. Just before I started dating my wife, ... (291 words)

I have a constant fear that my penis is too small!

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my penis is around 8 inches long and 6.5 around and i read that is kinda ideal size but i constantly have this fear that i m small or something. what can i do to make it go away?... (39 words)

Why does my dad favor my sister over my mum and I?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I just really want to know why my father treats me like this... I have a 28 year old sister. She lives in Canada; my father talks to her everyday. I'm 14 and, unfortunately, I have to see poor excuse for a father (that's an exaggeration. I'm just pissed off right now): Ever... (259 words)

How can I get her back, and find some new topics of conversation when we are on the phone?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im trying to get the girl i was seeing back. she says shes not ready for a serious relationship though. how do i change her views without being too pushy? and also when were on the phone we dont have much to talk about. can i get some ideas on how to expand the conversation.... (55 words)

I cant help but feel angry with him over his sexy pictures with his ex! How do I get over this?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am madly in love and have found my soul mate, my other half. I just found sex pictures of him and his ex and can't get them out of my mind. My logical self knows that a past is a past, and we all have them. But I can't get the images out of my mind. They have now been... (155 words)

He slept with someone during the time I needed space to think about my ex, what did this girl mean to him?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with James about 5 times and we hit it off really well. I didn't sleep with him, just went on dates. My ex then contacted me and I was in a mess trying to figure out what to do. I broke it off with James because I wasn't sure how I felt. I didn't go back to my ex or ... (167 words)

I haven't had an orgasm within the 8 months of being with my boyfriend!

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and I have not orgasmed AT ALL. He goes down on me, try different positions and everything, IT JUST WON'T WORK. Maybe I think about getting one while we're doing it, I don't know. The weird thing is I can masterbate and give ... (67 words)

How can I find out if he likes me when we live so far away from each other?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really really like this guy A LOT, but he lives an hour and a half away from where I live. I got to see him and do an eyeball disection with him. We flirted a lot, and did a lot of fun stuff together, but I'm not sure if he likes me. What should i do to find out if he likes ... (80 words)

All the good women are taken!

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have been single for a while now and every once in a while I meet a fantastic woman. Now im not searching or anything, but Im not one to pass up opportunity. My standards are somewhat high I guess but since Im not wanting to rush into a relationship I suppose this i... (284 words)

How can I make this work? And how can I tell if he still loves me?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive asked before. About the guy I love with the whole long distance relationship and the difficulties. So were not together because the "Distance" was killing our feelings. And deep down inside I couldnt handle it because I would have figured things should be getting better, ... (161 words)

Boy trouble!

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i really like this guy at school and i got zapped on him (zap is where you write a name on someones hand and they cant look at the hand till a certain time or they have to ask the person out) and had a friend ask him out for me. (im not too scared to talk to him!) He said ... (83 words)

How can I get my wife to be more sexually suggestive?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age - I am a soon to be 47 year old male, and I would greatly appreciate some insight in regard to my current situation. I have been married now for 7 years (second marriage) and I have always had a strong sex drive, and still do. Sex is very important to me for many reasons, and I ... (539 words)

What do you do with a hairy tummy?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Quick question to the ladies my girlfriend has hair on her belly - do all girls get this and do you shave it off?? ... (24 words)

How can I ressurect my libido?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and I have no sex drive what-so-ever. I don't understand what happened, why I am this way, or how to get my sex drive back. I have been married for 4 months now and I feel as though my sex drive was virtually gone shortly after getting married. I even dread the idea of ... (128 words)

I love him, what should I do?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been involved with a man I thought I new for 2yrs. He came along when it was a trying time in my life. We've had a lot of ups in down in our relationship to I always new he was up to something by playing the jeckle and hyde moods. Last week we had an arguement and he just ... (423 words)

Could medication mess with period cycles? Advise, please?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this question isn't really about me, its about my friend. She's 16 and has been having sex with her boyfriend for about ten months now. They used to have sex very often and with out a condom, but recently they have cut back on how much they do it and use a condom e... (256 words)

How do I cope with with my boyfriends return from Afghanistan?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in the Military and right now he is in Afghanistan and he comes home for leave in June. I have no idea what to expect and I have no idea how to act. I do not know what to do!!!! He is also talking about marriage more then normal and I have no idea what to think! ... (89 words)

Did I loose my change at love?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so ive been friends with this guy for 3 years. We attend the same college. My first semester at the college i met him, i liked him, but because he was 3 years older then me and a bit of a player, he told me that he'd make my life miserable if we talked, and that i was too ... (1681 words)

Ideas for a birthday without his friends

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - help! I've been with my bf a year now and I'm totally bored with it. I know we both feel strongly inlove with eachother. Our physical life is good however I find our whole relationship boring. No matter what I do for him and how good I make him feel he never makes me feel ... (207 words)

What are we doing wrong?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - on thursday(3 nights ago) we did it 2 times, the second time we went for a pretty long time and she was on top of me but then last night(1 night ago) when we were going to do it for the first time it was kinda hurting but i finished, second time i didnt finish cuz she said it ... (143 words)

How do I find out what I am to him?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A week and a half ago, I met a guy, let's call him William. We hit it off and started talking. William asked for my number in the end. We have been texting almost everyday. We've been taking turns being the first one to text (although I don't know if he noticed that). Our ... (106 words)

How do you play hard to get in order to get a commitment?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Guys, I and my bf have been together for 9 months.. and during those times we had problems but in those time he was the one who always call me or telling me he wanna marry me or texting me.. then after 5 months everything start to change and he got into depression ... (261 words)

How can I rid these jealous thoughts?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl friend hasnt showed me any signs of being unfaithful but i cant get the thought out of my head that she might cheat. i have gotten pissed before when she talked to her guy friends at the beginning of our relationship which was almost seven months ago and she stopped. i ... (349 words)

Too young for this love?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now, and says he wants to give me a ring, engagement ring to be exact. I was thrilled when he said this, but as i laid in bed i thought. Im 17,almost 18, this is my first serious relationship. He is 20, he has had many ... (139 words)

How big a deal is your partner's past?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - how big of a deal is your significant other's sexual past? she recently revealed that it is many more men than she said at the beginning of our relationship, and she hinted that there may have been 2 at once. this new information makes more uncomfortable, i was "safe"... (78 words)

My boyfriend acts horribly but I don't want to kick him out! What can I do?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Really need some advice, Ive been with my partner David for 9 years now. After we had been together a few months we decided to have a look into swinging, we met a few couples and a few males, but realised it wasnt for me, but couldnt really tell my partner as he was really into ... (961 words)

I'm hot so how come I never get asked out?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im not ugly i swear everytime at school all the guys always say like DAMN when i pass by or LOTS of other things i never flirt with NOBODY though i dnt like to do tht cuz then they will call u hoe or somthin but the thing is that guys always check me out n i ingnore the kids at ... (172 words)

Two great relationships, who to choose?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm in a little dilemma. About 10 months ago, I was dating this really, really, I mean REALLY nice guy. He was a great boyfriend, and our relationship was great. Thing is, by the time I met him, he had already signed up to go overseas and study in France for a year. So... (491 words)

Is he telling the truth or is he a liar?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was on my boyfriend's computer and was searching for my favorite magazine's website. When I started typing, a list of visits to this one porn site came up. My heart sank. My boyfriend had told me repeatedly that he found it disgusting and degrading and downright uninteresting ... (414 words)

How can I stop getting rejected?

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11 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Im never gona find the girl i want. how to live life overcoming this? its like everytime i find a girl that i truly fall for either doesnt like me or i mess up for being to needy. everytime im rejected by a girl i feel like i was never in their league or just not worthy enoug... (114 words)

The guilt is haunting me so should I give him my diary?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-my-boyfriend-i-nearly-cheated.html the above link is the situation i was in 9months ago. i have gone ahead and not told my bf about what happened. nor has he found out. the guilt still haunts me to this day and everyday. ... (799 words)

What can my Aunt do to get a man?

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11 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my aunt is 30 and single. she has three kids, has been married twice, has had boyfriends, but she cant seem to find "the keeper". all she can find are men who just want a piece of ass than leave. got any sugestions on what she can do to get a man?... (52 words)