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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The ex: She was so eager to talk to me but then when we did talk, now nothing??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A week and 2 days have passed since I have last communicated with my ex. We were in NC for over 3 weeks and then she initiated contact with me. She wrote me saying that some things have really been bugging her and she's been wondering if I've been thinking about her as much as ... (431 words)

Ex and I keep going back to each other but he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex was everything I ever wanted, and we fit together perfectly. And yet after 3 and a half years it falls apart. It had been going badly for a couple of months, and there were times when i completely did not trust him. And it was all over one particular girl, and guess what, ... (326 words)

I love them both but I can't have them both!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend who recently asked me to marry him for 3 years now, he is the kindest and most loving guy and he treats me like a princess. However over the past 8 months i have been getting feelings for an old friend of his, and the feelings just keep growing and ... (157 words)

I'm confused and my sexuality and dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really confused, I liked this guy who had a girlfriend, then we kissed at the cinema, but when he wanted to again I said no because of his girlfriend. The following week I went round his house and we kissed multiple times and he was telling me he loves me. He broke up wi... (196 words)

I'm 18, he's 50 and my teacher..is there a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

2 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - What do you think I should do? I get that this is your typical textbook Oedipus complex (fancying older guys due to lack of older male guidance) btw so I don't need any advice on that anyway, so here goes, I'm head over heels in love with my Italian geography teacher, he's ea... (166 words)

What should I do now and Will she take me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I (both 17. I'm 2 months older) have been going out for two months long distance. But one day she broke up with me because I told her that I thought that she liked someone else. She really broke up with me because after she was talking to this other guy I made up a ... (324 words)

They both claim they want to be my best friend but then they tear me apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My 2 besties in the whole world always fight and want me to take sides and when we fight they gang up on me and call me fat and ugly even though im prettier than both of them, they both want to be m BEST friend but i cant choose they rip me apart, should i keep them? ... (58 words)

People say she's into me but I just can't imagine that she is

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need advice on this girl. We've became very close friends this past year, and over the last few weeks I've developed stronger feelings for her. She is so cute, but i love everything about her, she's the girl version of me. We have a good time together, and are always ... (157 words)

My friend is so into herself that she never listen to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend is always concerned about herself. She always goes about something wrong with her, and never really listens to my problems. I like her and everything, but she gets annoyed over the stupidest things and it makes me annoyed sometimes because i think its quite ... (97 words)

How do I get b/f to stop yelling at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend moved away a few months ago and ive seen him a few times and everythings been good but now everysingle time we talk on the phone he gets mad at me or raises his voice and he always just says that i make him feel bad for everything and i dont do anything wrong at ... (209 words)

Do drugs make guys want to play the field?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - A while ago I did cocaine, it made me really horny and the guy I've liked for ages stayed at my flat that night... We had sex. In the morning we decided it was a one night thing :( I was pretty disapointed. Now I'm with another guy and we both do drugs - will he leave me ... (78 words)

B/f says that a break will help our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 months. Our relationship is strong and we never fight. We're definitely in love with each other. But just today, he asked to go on a break. He said he wants time to spend with his friends and not always be with me. He is always ... (121 words)

Her attitude is that boyfriends are too much work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so, this girl, we are best friends. we pretty much tell eachother everything. i love her, she loves me, and we care alot about eachother. well, stuff has been changing between us. we like eachother and we both know bc we have talked about it. the only hitch in us getting to... (150 words)

Are we friends or lovers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello everyone,i need ur advice plz ! 2 months back i ended a short relation with a guy who lied to me about having a girlfriend and i decided to give a chance to a man who seemes really nice at start, he got in touch with me first through smallworld website and expressed his ... (499 words)

I don't want to be intimate with my partner, constantly thinking about someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help, i met my partner 3 years ago we worked together and after 7 months of seeing each other we had bought a house and moved in together then two months after that I became pregnant. Our little boy is just amazing and the best thing that has happened to us. However ... (215 words)

She cheated so I cheated too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend cheated on me after six months and i forgave her, and now she countinues to flirt with other guys and go to the bar once in awhile to flirt with other guys or meet with other guys, so i cheated on her am i wrong?... (47 words)

I already don't trust and then my husband cheats! How can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice...Im a married woman who found out a month ago my husband has been having a affair for the past 6 months..just to give you a look at why that bothers me so bad..when i was 10 my father died and my mother passed away 9 yrs ago of cancer and 6 months ago ... (188 words)

He's offering to fly me over to meet him but I'm afraid to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a 20-year-old student from the UK and I'm currently nearing the end of my first year at University. For the past three years I've become close friends with a guy from the US via an online videogame that I've been playing since the age of 15 and continue to play... (326 words)

How do I tell him I could be pregnant or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I had sex with this guy , and i took 2 pregnancy test and one showed up alomost positive , and now he thinks i am , but i dont think i am , and im going to the docter to make sure , what do i tell him if im not and how do i tell him. Helpp!... (61 words)

Boyfriend, drugs and pornography

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out that my boyfriend has been lieing to me for maybe the duration of our three year relationship about porn, i foud some on his computer. since then he has been treating me diffrently and i even foud out he has been snorting legal coke from a head shop, i feel very ... (85 words)

Just started dating and don't want to mess it up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have recently started datin this guy I really really like. And I don't wanna mess it up. So how should I act. Because its only been a few days.. I don't wanna rush into anything and make him not like Me. Please help any tips or anythin. Thanks! ... (50 words)

Masturbating and urination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey; When i have sex or masturbate, I kinda pee a little... is this normal? x... (17 words)

My girlfriend won't give me what I want

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating over a year and 3 months and I don't get blow jobs anymore. I give everything to her but I don't get anything in return. I floss, I brush my teeth, I shave (both areas), and I am a good boyfriend. (flowers every month, never really talk to ... (137 words)

Happily married but also in love with my possible half brother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been happily married for nearly six years and have two wonderful children (one from a previous relationship; and one with my husband). A couple of months ago, I made friends with a young couple through friends and over time I fell in love with the young lad. I told him ... (261 words)

Should I explain my actions by telling my new boyfriend about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age - Hello, I have asked for help a lot over the last almost year. I was the one who dated a guy who dumped me due to his ED problem and blamed it on me (he gained 20+ lbs while we were dating). He was over 350 lbs at the time and told me that we didn't have chemistry. I realized ... (290 words)

My boyfriend keeps ditching me for his best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, my boyfriend of two months, whom I really have a great amount of special feelings for is kind of... obsessed with his bestfriend. Or he's getting there, anyway. It wouldn't bother me, really. If this obsession didn't mess up our time with eachother. He doesn't call me ... (222 words)

Can an age gap in a relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 15, and recently started work experience. It's been great, and the people there are really nice. But there is one of my co-workers who I can't help but feel attracted to. However, she is 21 and I know that there isn't much chance of me and her ever being in a relationship. ... (71 words)

3 years on and I still want to be with my step-brother so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About three years ago I was having sexual relations with my step brother, this went on for about a year. Before people jump to conclusions here let me just define this relationship for you. We are not blood related and we were not brought up in the same house. Infact we are not ... (468 words)

Unemployed husband has put faith in God, while we owe 40 thousand pounds!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age - I been married for over thirty years now. My husband I both work for the same company. My husband has arthritis in his leg and been complaining about it.He has beenworking with this comapany for over thirteen years. Anyway he came home one day from work, in a good mood and had ... (148 words)

Have I messed up my chances of getting my ex back by having a one night stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, I really need advice, My and my girl broke up 3weeks ago and I been working to get back with my girlfriend for the past 3 weeks. Basically I'm doing this No Contact thing for about 30days so I could get myself together and get her to want me back and its working.... (215 words)

We split up almost a year ago but I'm getting mixed signals from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for almost a year. I am still close with his family. He and I only talk when I am at his moms house and he I ls there. When we hang out, we have a great time. We have a lot in common, we laugh all the time and he will flirt with me. ... (124 words)

Is it normal to be this obsessed by my image?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I got rejected in the past because I'm not very good-looking. I used to have a best friend whom some guys think, is pretty and they often talk to her with me, standing by her side, ignored. I have a huge issue about being ugly or looking ugly. I'm obsessed with be... (115 words)

I really like him but I'm worried he is going to dump me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of five months has gone away and we had a small argument before he went away but i thought it was all forgiven and forgotten. but i dont think it is. i have a guy who likes me (i used to like him) but then went off him and now am in love with the guy i'm going out ... (158 words)

Has anyone had any success turning friendship into love? I want to hear some stories, good or bad, before I tell my friend I love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right guys and girls i need your help! My best friend is a guy, we've been really close for the last 2 years, but known each other since college. But it has been the last 2 years we've become closer. Its only been the last few months though, that i've realised just ... (299 words)

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok heres whats going on.I love my boyfriend very much and we been through a lot together.he understands me more than anybody and i understand him like no1 else..we are just alike in every way..we think the same,do the same things,and i can even tell him what he's thinking ... (182 words)

I'm really scared about coming out to my family!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I really hate saying this fact about me but i'm gay and have accepted but I'd do anything to not feel like this but I can't turn back now. I've gone through the step of accepting myself for it now I always fantasise and occasionally dream about having a relatio... (203 words)

Is it odd that I am close friends with my ex's girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I am friends again with My ex-boyfriend's girlfriend-me and her have so much in common, that it is weird! Her and I are very close, we talk on the phone and we email each other! She told me yesterday that there have been numerous times when he has told her that she rem... (128 words)

My married lover wants to end the relationship, what can I do to stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age - some days back i had asked a question on relationship with a married christian lady with whom i have been working for the last 12 years. now i would like to ask another question in this context. 28th april was my birthday and i offered the christian lady to have lunch with me ... (173 words)

Any pointers on performing oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i need some pointers on how to please her through oral sex. She is a virgin and she doesnt want to have intercourse yet and i want to make her feel the same way i feel when she gives me oral sex. she has also expressed an interest in me going down on her. some one tell me some ... (60 words)

I'm worried I might be pregnant after my boyfriend pressured me into sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my name is chey and im 17 years old my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now and we just had sex last night that is saturday the 1st i was nervous about and and didnt really even want to have sex.. He peer pressured me into it so i did it he said he was ... (283 words)

I'm worried that my ex may end up dead if she stays with this man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age - Hello.Im male and my relationship with my ex girlfriend finally collapsed recently due to her chronic alcoholism (advanced stages,korsakoff syndrome e.t.c).I now stay away from her and share the upbringing of our child with the grandmothers,so the child is safe.Which is just as ... (188 words)

Should I try and win my ex back or see where it goes with the new guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So....last month I came home from work to a "Dear John" letter from my boyfriend of 5 years. He said he has some mental issues he has to work out and doesn't want to hurt me any more. At first he was really mean and spiteful, sending me nasty emails, saying terrible things to ... (163 words)

What makes a guy fall in love with his best girl friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what makes a guy fall in love with his best girl friend? what are signs to look for? thanks!!!... (19 words)

Am I heartless for hoping he lost his job, especially now it has come true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Does this make me heartless? i separated with my boyfriend for six year, two years back..because he was an alcoholic and a womaniser...this left me hurt, used and i got low self esteem issues...for the six years i supported him, financially and emotionally that everything ... (192 words)

Why is he pushing me away and why cant he just be there for me when I need him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is he pushing me away? I lost my husband a few months back. He suffered from bipolar disorder and took his life. I understand some people seem to think I need my space, but really I don't want space. I want comfort. About a year ago in the turmoil of my marriage I had a ... (276 words)

I want him to tell my he likes me when he is sober!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i know this guy years but never really talked to him and he was known to be a rude guy. i dont know why but we set up a date and met up. he seemed really nice and all.. after that i saw him again but he had some problems at home and didnt say a word during dinner. later he... (281 words)

Is it possible for us to resolve our problems?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - First of all i would like to apologize for the long story here Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited regularl... (1154 words)

I'm stuck in the same cycle with my boyfriend and I don't know what to do anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been with my bf on and off for four years and i left him before because he got so wrapped up in drugs he seemed to forget about me completely, we had a few breakups last year and just recently got back together and i thought it was for good everything was going great ... (84 words)

Has my problem caused too much damage for us to recover from?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years now, but our sex life has died. During the first year we were together, we quickly fell in love and wanted to be close all the time. Eventually, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend, but it turned into an extremel... (637 words)

I feel so low about everything in my life.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age - Hi, just need someone to talk to. I seem to have lost my way. I'm single, have a job I love, and good friends. But I have lost my joy in life. I think ther is a combination of things that have just got on top of me. I'm ok for money but the credit crunch means things are a ... (295 words)

I feel like my boyfriend is looking for an escape route out of our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 3 months and im starting to feel like hes looking for an escape route out of the relationship. Hes very friend orientated so will see them most weekends and he also goes on cycling weekends so half the time i feel neglected as our time together is ... (201 words)

Confused about my current guy, my ex and my sexuality!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I liked this guy who had a girlfriend, we ended up kissing at the cinema, but when he wanted to again I said no because of his girlfriend. The following week I went round his house and we kissed multiple times and he's telling me he loves me. He broke up with his girlfriend 2... (186 words)

Torn between my boyfriend and my perfect best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm stuck in a dilemma! You see i have been with this guy for 11 months now, i know its not really that long, but i do love him, or well at least i thought i did. We get on really well, but recently we've been having a few little arguments, nothing major an... (605 words)

He likes to "fake" celeb heads on nude bodies rather than spend time with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, Sorry to keep going on about this but I need more advice about the faking (celeb heads on nude bodies) I don't like. He said he would only do faking when I'm out and then I kicked up about that because I think it's just weird. So he said he wouldn't do it at all but... (160 words)

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been going out with this girl 2 and half yrs now.. love her to death.. but for some reason.. i really want to trust her but than i cant.. our sex part was great before but now its like i have to ask her for it.. and sometime i feel i force her to do it.. she doesnt seem ... (135 words)

Am I too young to be masturbating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, im only 13 but i already masturbate should i keep doing it or should i stop?? i really like it but i feel kinda wrong inside being so young!! please help!!... (33 words)

How will I bond with the new baby seen as we are in the process of a separation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - How will I be able to bond with our new baby? Hi, We have been married for two years and our marriage has been turbulent for all of that time. The relationship has been abusive - emotional, verbal and at time physical. At regular intervals throughout the marriage I have ... (398 words)

Is this acceptable behaviour in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - is it right for your for a girlfriend or boyfriend to flirt or look for singles, when i have given her money and help her out with some bills?... (29 words)

How can I get this boy back? I'm sure he is the one for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with this guy for 10 months and he finished me about 5 months ago because we were arguing. I still love him so much and i've tried to move on, by meeting other guys and stuff-but nothing is working. if anything it's making it 10x harder for me, cos it reminds me just how ... (495 words)

I'm afraid to come out to my parents but they are forcing me into marriage! Where can I turn for help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a sixteen year old homosexual girl.i live in jaipur and study in class 10.i have not yet come out to my parents thinking they will disown me or even kill me.we used to live in U.A.E only till last year.we have settled down in jaipur because of financial reasons.lately my ... (116 words)

I feel like I do everything for her but get nothing back! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i need some advice. I have been dating my Girlfriend for 10 months now. i do lots of things for her. i love her to death. but some times she is a mega bitch. like out of no where. She also can do whatever she wants and i cant. she tells me who i can hang out with pretty ... (108 words)

19 years old and still a virgin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19 year old male. I've only kissed one girl ever, and I am still a virgin. I've been alone for a long time, and I am really feeling low. I wake up feeling pointless, hopeless, and as if I will never find someone or lost me virginity... help i need advice. I'm shyiess I got a ... (83 words)

Is he still in love with his first girlfriend 12 years later?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age - I am in a long distance relationship of more than 2 years with a really wonderful man. We are really close and speak every day for at least 3 - 4 hours. He has had 2 previous marriages and one long relationship of 10 years. Trouble is the following: He dated this girl in his ... (199 words)

My dancing makes me unintersted in sex with my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive got a really serious problem , Im a lap dancer exotic dancer in Australia , I love my job , make great money , and really love seeing the guys get all turned on with their Big erections that they can hardly control . The problem is my husband , I get really turne... (169 words)

How do I fix this distant feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 years now, I moved about 3 hours away a year into our relationship. I love my girlfriend, she is my first love and my first and only sexual partner. Lately I feel like we are drifting apart, we don't talk as... (208 words)

Is my Teacher being inappropriate? Or is it just my imagination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a sophomore student at a private preparatory school. My problem is that I have a teacher that i have recently become uncomfortable around. But I am afraid that the reasons I have aren't reason enough to talk to someone about. You see I am a very physically close... (298 words)

Is the ABC method for oral sex any good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do i properly perform oral sex on my virgin girlfriend of almost three years? i have heard about the "ABC" method. is that any good? help please!... (28 words)

Why are her family acting like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was over her house the other night to visit her brother. She and her parents were out watching her perform in a play. Her brother didn't seem like he wanted to go, but later on, I said I wouldn't mind going. When they finally got home, her mom hollered down at us to tell us ... (268 words)

What does it mean when a guy acts like this but already has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when a guy: - looks to see what my reaction to something is before making his own? (ex. something funny happens, he looks to see if i laugh before he does) - i catch him starring at me, and smile at him, he smiles back and looks away. - brings me back... (241 words)

I bought him a "man's" magazine but he tried to downplay his enjoyment! Surely a man would be thrilled his wife bought him such a thing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age - Looking for a man's perspective... I bought my husband a popular men's magazine because I get turned on at the thought of him being turned on by looking at other women. I am 100% straight, but I also get turned on by the magazines. Why would my husband downplay his en... (164 words)

Why won't my boyfriend tell his parents I am pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 37 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has not told his parents that I'm pregnant, whenever I ask him when he is going to tell his parents he always tells me that he will do it soon and its now 3 weeks left until our son comes... Please help don't know what to do, I've even ... (76 words)

Should I be worried about not using a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfeiend had sex last night first time, her backseat of her car..no condom..and today we did...i masterbated about an hour n half before she came over, but i washed myself with soap and water before she did so no residue wod be thre.she came over..she sucked ... (117 words)

I've been labelled a tease because I won't sleep with him!

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am talking to this guy i really like, he is technically my first everything! (Besides when i was younger like 10-12 messing around with my older bro's friends going to third base (oral sex) ditching 1st). I am now 26. He is what i want to consider my first everything. Never ... (289 words)

My girlfriend's period is late, should I worry?

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2 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - The other day my girlfriend told me she can't remember when she had her last period. This understandably freaked me out. Whenever we have sex and I cum its always with a condom. I remember once before she brought this up to me, but it was a false alarm. She told me stress c... (170 words)

Fighting often, and in front of the child -- should we divorce?

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for four years. We have a wonderful little girl who is three years old. So when we first met we were both on drugs, in a very bad place in our lives. We started out as friends and gradualy it turned into more. Before we got married, we got ... (642 words)

I'm afraid that my fiance will regret not 'playing the field'

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for about five years; since we were 18 and reaching the end of high school. We've been engaged for a year and three months and our wedding is in one week. Everything is settled, planned, ordered, and ready for showtime in one week's time. ... (407 words)

How can I convince my parents to let me have a boyfriend?

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a little promblem getting through to my parents that i can have a boyfriend. Thay dont understand that i am about to go to high school..... what can i do to kinda like drag them into understand that i love someone and i want to spend time with him?... (52 words)

I don't want to just hit on girls until one of them says yes, ..but is it reasonable to think a connection could happen naturally?

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2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - It seems like everyone I know that's my age has had sex numerous times. I'm feeling really left behind, last time I had a girl friend was in 9th grade...I'm almost 20 years old now. First the girl this girl that I liked lost her virginity, then today one of my other female ... (275 words)

What do you do with your hands whilst kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

2 May 2010 (?) age 26-29 - where do guys like a girls hands to be while they're kissing ? ... (13 words)

Why does my ex still want contact with me?

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2 May 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Why does my ex still talk to me and want to see me if she has a boyfriend? We were together for a long time 2.5+ years, and she started dating him about a week after our breakup. The last month we have stayed in contact about three to four times a week, hung out about once a ... (113 words)

Concerned about future career prospects in the film industry.

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2 May 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I really wanna major in film studies in college, but I keep reading online that it leads to unemployment and you can't get good jobs with it..is that true? If so, what should I major in to get into the film industry or get a job with a company that deals with film? (I know it's ... (74 words)

My boyfriend does not seem to have much time for me amongst the other things in his life.

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for about 4 months now. He is 20 and im 15 [ yes im aware there is an age difference.] He goes clubbing often every either thursday friday and saturday, We started off really happy and he used to call me 6-7 times a day and text ... (183 words)

To take risks with finding a girlfriend, or not to take risks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I happen to know someone who blames other people that he can't get a girlfriend. He whines that he wishes he'd never been born. He lost his virginity to a prostitute. He says he is a good guy and that he can't understand why the women won't go out with him.... (100 words)

Pregnancy and depo provera shots?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got back with my ex of three years ago. We have had sex without a condom several times. I got my first depo-provera shot on Feb. 15 th 2010, and had no problem what so ever with bleeding. Him and I got back together on April 16th of this year, we have had sex every ... (144 words)

What do girls look for in guys?

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2 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, what does a girl really see in a guy. I be myself and try to be the understandable, loving and funny. Do girls care for personalities or looks more? I'm a bit chubby yet built though not cut. I'm an all around guy that would stand up for anybody and I'm nice to anybody.I ... (106 words)

How can I make the move from locking eyes to simply talking with the girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I know it's easy, but I tend to make eye contact with cute girls often. I see girls on campus, when I'm out to eat, etc. Sometimes the girl will look away, other times we'll lock eyes. ...and continue to check each other out. I have no idea how to go from eye flirting to ... (139 words)

Are these measurements good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay...I'm a 14 year old African American female, my measurements are 34-30-38, I'm 130 pounds, and im 5'3 ..my question is, is that good or bad for a girl like me?... (31 words)

Why is his ex all that I see?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry this is so long... I'm losing grip... I don't know what to do anymore. I've been here hundreds of times, but it never gets any easier and it never lessens. I'm twenty-one, and I've been dating my boyfriend (twenty-two) for a year and four months now, and we're p... (1522 words)

Depressed and lost my way

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2 May 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I don't know where to start here... I'm a 15 year old guy and my life is really messed up. A few years back I was an out going boy, top of my class and loving life. Now my days consist of going to school depressed and hangig out with my friends, none of whom I feel I can trust. ... (171 words)

Married for 8 months, but no longer feel close to my husband

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 33 and have been married for only 8 months (been together 5 years). I love my husband, but we have nothing in common and I no longer feel close to him. He has very bad credit and cannot save money. I pay for everything, including the wedding, and feel like I'm drownin... (418 words)

What does "I'm physically attracted to you" mean?

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when a guy says he is physically attracted to you?... (14 words)

Loving the cousin but I can't tell her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

2 May 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so umm...I am a 32 yo male who thinks he might be in love with his 20yo female cousin. I dont know if I can get an objective opinion here, but I must get this off my chest before I go crazy. Basicly, its like this. When I was a teen, my three little cousins were a j... (1106 words)

My best friend is getting close to her EX best friend again?

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let's call my first friend M and my second one V. So M, V and I used to be best friends, but it came to a time where only M and V hung out together. They became really close. But when we got to 8th/9th grade, M started telling me how V was getting on her nerves and talking shit ... (191 words)

Is it ok to make rules to my boyfriend

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, but have recently decided to take a break, because I have been unhappy with some of his behaviour. We both want to get back together, and make things work, but I am wondering what steps I need to take in order for this ... (149 words)

Am I crazy for trusting my ex fiance?

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2 May 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my exfiance just told me today that hes still in love with me hes engaged but he is having problems with her i was engaged to a man i met online we never met in person before i ended it with him so i can be with my ex because i still love him he also cheated on me and left ... (92 words)