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writes:I have been in this relationship for about three months already. We used to be at the same school so we get to see each other everyday. Those were the times when i felt like I was really valued so much. He would bring me home everyday, we talk on the phone for long hours, we text a lot, he even postpone some of his activities just to spend time with me when he was still a student org leader. But now that he graduated, things changed. He got accepted as a medical representative and is now in manila for his two months training. I was not in favor of his decision because that job has a lot of traveling and i will be missing him a lot. But still he pursued it, so i just supported him in his decision. Before he left, we had a serious talk. I told him that we should try to communicate as much because i will miss you, he told me he'll be calling me everyday. So as weeks pass, we talk everyday not until just recently when he stopped calling me. He's purpose was because he wants to focus more on his training and he's so pressured so he suggested that we should talk during weekends. That was fine with me. We were so okay after that conversation, but just after a week, i found out in his facebook profile he had a status that says "Wanted gf! ahahaha" I was so mad and hut when i read it. So i called him up many times but won't answer my calls. He just told me he was so busy and please not now. I really feel awful about it. We were so okay, why would he look for another gf? i don't understand. He doesn't wanna talk. He'll be back this month and people are telling me that I should break up with him for being so rude. What should I do? I was so much hurt but I can't afford loosing him. I love him so much. Please help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): I am currently in a log distance relationship. And i find that the hardest thing is trust and not being able to tell what they want.When my boyfriend has his 'off days' i used to nag him, and try and call him loads and then have a go at him. But over time i realised this dint work and it just pushed him away. So when he's blunt and off with me now, i tend to do it bck to him, and hes more worried about what is actually wrong with me and i find he starts to question me and give me more attention.If this doesnt work then maybe hes moving on, and i know how much love hurts but sometimes you have to move on too ...
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 I'm sorry to say, but it looks like your relationship is over. Those actions of his are not just being "rude" but it sounds like he's moved on.
This is unfortunately very common for relationships that begin while in school when you see each other every day. After school ends, people's lives change. Sounds to me that you're better off without him anyway.
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