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writes:OK so me and my boyfriend have had sex- multiple times and of course we've been safe about it but also ive given him oral too and i know for a fact that he was a virgin (like me) before we had sex and we both never participated in 4play before each other and now i have a sore inside my mouth like on the back of my top lip and my brother says its an STD but is that really possible considering we both dont have any STD's? anyways, someone please help, it would be greatly appreciated because I'm really confused! Thanks readers :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): IT IS POSIBLE. you can get hurpies(and other std's) from kissing or even drinking after people. Then one of you could have given it to the other 'down stairs' through oral sex. after that... you get the pictur? And some people can be born w std's. i would get checked if it really bothers you.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Herpes simplex, chlamydia, gonorrhea and HPV are a few of the infections that can be spread via oral sex. You don't have to have intercourse to contract any of these. It's pretty unlikely in your case as neither of you have had any kind of intimate contact with another person, though.
Don't get too caught up in the semantics of things. "STDs" means "sexually transmitted diseases;" but there are other infections not commonly called "STDs" that could get spread through close contact.
I have some eye-opening links for you. You're doing well to be monogamous and careful! Keep it up! http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/hpv-genital-warts/news/20090729/oral-sex-cause-throat-cancer-rise
http://www.webmd.com/genital-herpes/default.htm
It's not a bad idea to see your doctor to make sure it isn't something serious. Take care.
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reader, rambini  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 It is probably just an ulcer, they appear randomly and are not related to stds. if you were both virgins, and haven't engaged in foreplay it is highly unlikely you can have caught anythin. if you are worried you can both go to your gp or similar and get tested. But like I said, sores in your mouth can appear for a variety of reasons, ulcers, abcesses, and they are not usually related to stds. however, if it persists for over a week, or if you get any other symptoms which concern you, go to your gp.
best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): COuld be a canker sore. Are you using any kind of protection? Please go to Planned Parenthood so you can get more educated about sex and STDs. Your question leads me to believe that you are not informed enough to be having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): Please go and see a dr...
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