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Why doesn't my ex want to work things out?

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Question - (9 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2010)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hello there . my ex girlfriend of a year broke up with me with no such good reason , she said she doesn't love me anymore one week we were in love then this , .. anywhoo i need some these questions answered

1. why would she say that to me out of no where ?

2. how come she doesnt want to work things out ,gives me no chance at all

3.told me she wants to move on and i should as well

4. said we cannot work anymore. i want to be single

5. she said she pulls me down and i deserve better ??

why ,why why ?? . what does this mean she has too much pride to come back? the thing is why doesn't she want to work it out and give away 1 year for nothing ?? that's what really been on my mind and bugging me .i still don't know and i will properly will never know because she wont tell me .

if u need more background info i can type later . thanks

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (9 June 2010):

raiders agony auntShe actually gave you the answer to your question, she broke up with you because she no longer loves you. She told you to move on and that she was going to move as well.

Its hard to understand why the person we love so much no longer wants to be with us, but unfortunately there is not much we can do but to accept it.

You said she has her pride and will not go back to you, May I suggest that you put your pride forward and move on.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 June 2010):

Time to move on. The relationship is dead, and you're looking for answers that just don't exist. People sometimes fall out of love, and that's what has happened here. She just fell out of love, and decided to end it. You'll never get the answers you want, because for every answer you get, you'll have another question. Her saying that she wasn't good enough and dragging you down was probably more likely to have been said to make you feel better. It's just a case of her wanting to end it. That's it.

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