Can I carry on with my girlfriend?

A male age 36-40, *anny_zeco writes:

I Met my girlfreind where( i was her first boyfreind) i work and we have been with each other nearly seven months since christmas.! the first few months were going well but lately i have seen her true self.! At first when we went out if ever there is a young girl or a group of woman she will put her hand over my eyes and tell me "dont look" or sometimes " you fancy them"? "why dont you go and ask them out" or shell say "there better looking than me im ugly and fat". The other problems she has is that she cannot bare to not see me even for more than a day!,and i constantly am in contact with her 24/7 with texting and phoning her.! She expects me to always hug her and be near her, If i go and sit on the computer or even watch t.v. in a different chair i am not allowed to sit on my own i have to sit with her, cuddle her, and tell her that i love her, She always wants a lot of attention. Even if we go out for the night she always kisses, cuddles me ! She says " No other girl can have you , your mine" . The problem is its getting me down with this constant attention and if i dont respond to it I get " you dont love me no more"!, or sometimes shell go off and cry.!! she gets really angry sometimes especially when things dont go her way, shell cry all the time, shout, scream, and even grab hold of me,! shes also incredibly immature for her age (18) she acts like a 10 year old spoilt kid! She does an acting course at collage but has no freinds and doesnt like girls at all she says there all bitchy, cant be trusted and talk about you behind your back, which me and my family find strange.! shes an only child and lives with her mum but im not sure why shes acting like this! It was only the other day when i ignored the phone, that she came round to my house knocking and banging on the door! crying, and on the floor in tears! throwing one of her many hissy fits! . I do love her and am trying to cope but its very hard to. She doesnt want me going clubbing either , and im not allowed to go the bar on my own in fear of other woman taking her off me. I dont understand her behavior when her family have given her a lot, she gets lots of nice birthday presents, and gifts, but she says she doesnt like her family.!!! we tend to argue quite a lot lately when she stays round which is even more difficult with the fact its my parent house,!! she can easily get upset and has different personalities where sometimes shes really, really happy and overly excitable, and then she can go from that to miserable ,crying,she never can relax and always has to be on the go, she is even protective of me infront of my mum as she always kisses me or holds me when my mums looking.! . Is it time to call it a day or is there any way we can get through this.????

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