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writes:Ok I got drunk... black out drunk and ended up making out with another girl. The truth is I dont know why I did it, It didnt mean anything to me, and I have no desiers not even to look at another girl. We have only been together for 5 months but she steal means eveything to me. The next morning I knew I did it but dont rember the night. I had talked to her in the morning and she was mad at me from an argument but I knew it wasnt seriouse and we oould get past it. I had no intention of not telling her I did this but but I wanted to wait till she left work. What happened nest is the problem, she sean a picture and confonted me, I did not hide anything. She also works in the same building as this girl and knows her. Up to this point I have done everything to get her back, I even went as far as apoligizing to her sister. The other girl and I did talk after but only to clear the air and we both agreed that this wasnt something we would of ever done in our right minds. I did give up my GF number to the other girl because they have known each other for 4 years. They seam to be fine now. I turly have been good to my GF and wanted nothing more then we had. I havent even had the desire o look at another girl since Ive been with her. I devestated her and myself. Do you think I deserve a second chance or should she run away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): For Youwish and Sara 456, I never had feeling for the other girl, and that isnt always the case for drinking. I truly have no desire to be with another girl. Not sure why this happen, I guess I do belive in second chances in life. As for he rest thanks for the advice. I have no problem giving up the drink, I dont have an adictive personality :) Thank you all even the ones that wouldnt take me back I aperacate your honesty.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 June 2010):
She should if you don't give up the drink and do some serious making up. So give up the drink and get to work on making her feel good.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Like I was telling someone else, she should leave you unless you totally change your lifestyle. You can never say you're sorry with just your words. You can only apologize with your actions, and that takes a LOT of time to rebuild her trust.
I've always been under the impression that alcohol only makes us do what we've been wanting to do, but kept ourselves from doing. That's what's hurting your girl the most, that you didn't make out with some random girl, but one who's has a prominent place in both of your lives. The feelings for her were there for you to do what you did.
I don't know about you, but I couldn't live with a guy who had feelings for another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): Unless you stop drinking permanently I think she should leave now. Drinking excessively WILL lead to this behavior again in the future. You don't have any control of yourself when you drink too much :(
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