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Am I imagining all of this attention, does it mean he wants me romantically or as a Am I imagining all of this attention, does it mean he wants me romantically or as a friend?

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Question - (9 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2010)
A female Belgium age 41-50, anonymous writes:

"OPs Own Title" I'm Confused about this guys feelings!!

This guy really seems to want to be close to me all of the time, watches me, checks me out from head to toe, remembers details about me,tries to touch me,finds ways to make conversation,

Tries to make me laugh, laughs along with me, defends me, appears protective towards me, is nervous and fiddles with things around me, he blushes a lot in my presence as well which makes me think it is more than a friend thing.

I know he is not gay

This has been going on for a long time and I like him a lot, he does not appear shy and coversation is great between us but he has not said anything to me which would hint at a date. He does compliment me often, and /or teases me sometimes in a nice way.

Could I be imagining all of this JUST because I like him, or do you think he has an attraction for me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010):

I'm in a situation that sounds just like yours - except that I have good reason to think that in my case he is actually unavailable whatever he may feel for me. If I were you I would consider two things: is it possible he is in any kind of relationship; and since it seems like he has a certain shy side, do you think he might be looking for a little more encouragement from you before he comes forward with his feelings?

This is a great topic I've been thinking about from my own perspective and I'd LOVE to hear other people's opinions, especially men!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010):

It sure sounds like he is attracted to you. Next time you are doing something with a group of friends, invite him along.

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