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writes: My bf has got everything I want in a relationship except... there is no spark, he can feel it but I cant! Should I risk all of this just to get that spark or must I live with it... a good man like this is hard to find. :(
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 That's up to you to decide... Keep in mind that while there will be benefits to staying with him, it could seriously hinder your chances of finding someone better to fall in love with to begin with...
Saying that you have a boyfriend isn't exactly a green light to guys... and if you lie about it to a new guy, then over time fall in love with him enough to leave your current guy... it'll be starting off the new relationship with a lie. If that makes sense...
I hope it works out and I no-one gets hurt...
Keep us informed :)
Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK we agreed to stay together until one of us fall in love with someone else. Am I doing the right thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): He will get over it he will probably guilt you back into being with him, and it will work for a couple of months but you will feel the same again. The spark is very important and personally your just setting yourself up for failure a year from now. Keep moving forward
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have been dating for 1 year and 2 months... Today I started crying because I couldn't hold this in any more, I told him that I loved him but that I'm not in love with him. He said that I have lied to him this whole time and that things wont be the same any more. I think we've broken up and my heart is broken. I've put this on myself. I blame no one but my self. He gave up every thing for me and look what I've done! I really hate myself!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): Do you feel like you are settling? What happens in say ten years time when you meet someone that you feel the spark with?
He may be a good man but does he make you happy?
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (9 June 2010):
Could you live with him for the rest of your life without this spark? Are you happy even though you are spark-less??
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