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writes:I dont know what to do. One night I got really drunk and one thing lead to another and I slept with my first cousin. I became pregnant with twins but i thought for sure that the father was my ex, turns out they look just like my cousin and I just know that they are his. They are both perfectly healthy and it seems that we just dont know what to do. We have not told anyone what happened, but we both want him to be a part of their lives. He wants to do the right thing by us, but we just dont know what that is right now. Please help us!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): Um yes you two will become the gossip of the family. I know as in my family there are a couple in your situation and yes they always been the you know, werido family for everyone else. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere are only two possibilities. My ex and my cousin. So After the results come back from my ex I will know for sure. And those should be in in a couple of weeks, so i have already taken care of that part. Its everything else that terrifies me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): It costs hundreds of thousands of dollars to raise two kids to adulthood.
Please, spend a couple hundred dollars now to pin down who is the father.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really hope your right, but along with the timing and everything else it just seems like im not going to be that lucky. Im really terrified that my family is going to dis own me when they find out. Part of me just wants to take off and move away where people dont know us. Im just so scared. I dont know what im going to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): you said the babies potential father is your cousin and that your children look alot like him ... is it possible that he is not their father and that they just have commom family traits which they picked up from you though you are not a carrier. My mum out of 7 kids was the only one with blue eyes, and both her parents likewise had brown eyes ... she was often jokingly thought of as the potential daugther of the postman lol She was her parents no doubt as her children look like her father and she looks the double of her mother's aunt with them blue eyes too. Sometimes things skip us genetically but that doesn't mean the next generation won't inherit them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell right now we are awaiting the results from a DNA test on my ex. If that comes up that their not his that means they are definately my cousins. But the truth is i think i already know in my heart that they are his. They look nothing like my ex. And he has these piercing blue eyes that my daughter has, and my eyes are green and my ex's are brown. They look like they were copied right off his face. They look so much like him, that soon people are bound to start noticing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell right now we are awaiting the results from a DNA test on my ex. If that comes up that their not his that means they are definately my cousins. But the truth is i think i already know in my heart that they are his. They look nothing like my ex. And he has these piercing blue eyes that my daughter has, and my eyes are green and my ex's are brown. They look like they were copied right off his face. They look so much like him, that soon people are bound to start noticing.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 June 2010):
Get a paternity test. It sounds like they might be your cousin's anyway, but the only way to tell would be with a DNA test.
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