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writes:Hi, im 19 and my girlfriend is 18 and we've been together for a little over a year now. We have always had a very good relationship for the most part with only a couple bumps along the way. Lately it seems like she has been taking me for grantid and doesn't really show me much respect lately. Theres been a few things that she has done thats aggrevated me but it was nothing major and I let it all build up inside of me and the other day she was pushing my buttons the wrong way and I couldn't take it anymore and I snapped. I told her everything that was bothering me and in order to fix it she needed to change her ways but then she said that she will not change. Then yesterday I saw her at the park with her friend and I was with my friends and we walked up to the bleachers with open beers in our hands and that really upset her. We are finally going to talk in person tomorrow and figure out how we will fix things. I think if we just talk a little bit and let the emotions cool down everything will be alright. She suggested that we take a little break but I don't want to do that seeing as breaks can sometimes lead to the end of the relationship. We both still love eachother and want to fix things. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): she was the girl you fell in love with.
you can't tell her to change because that would just be wrong.
in a relationship you've got to have good communication. & it's your fault that you haven't told her when she's annoyed you & instead you let it build up.
if you want it to work, you need to treat her with respect by the sounds of it.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Hi Hunny
I think talking will help alot, I suggest you go somewere away from your homes and each take turns in saying what you feel is going wrong without the other saying anything untill the other is finished, This will prevent arguments occuring..Both put your points across and then together come to an understanding on how you can help each other connect in a more constuctive way.
See how this goes sweetheart and I hope you sort something out and things get better very soon TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXX
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