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writes:Right now, all the girls I liked i n the past didn't like me back or it couldn't work out. What do I do since now I'm out of college for two years? I can go to bars, but I'm vary of that. I've met some cute chicks before, but I've shied away from them. It's like I'm confused, and I don't know what I want. I regret not finding a girlfriend. I mean, I can ask random chicks out, but I'm vary of that. I'm not the best looking either.......so I don't know what to do with myself. I'm thin as well. Internet dating has been horrible for me. Advice? I don't know what to do with myself at times. Reply to this Question
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reader, Liza999  +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Your confusion is acting out in your reality. Get clear on what you REALLY want first! Repeat over and over in your mind everything YOU like about you and then others will see it all around you!You are beautiful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): It's not about looks, it sounds like you're overthinking this.
It's really easy man, you're a guy, you see a girl you like go over and talk to her, no matter where you are. if she's interested in talking to you and the conversation goes well ask her if she'd like to meet up sometime and get her number.
That really is all there is too it, stop thinking and just do it. Don't worry about your wants, needs or any of that nonsense, it only confuses the situation. Don't worry about rejection, looking like a fool or any of that stuff either, just assume that every girl you talk to wants to be with you and you'll be successful more times than you're not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): I think you should just take your time. Seriously, you're very young. There's no rush. I know you really want a girlfrind right now, but your main aim at the moment should be that of working on yourself, your insecurities and fears.
A nice girl will turn up one day, that's for sure. But that won't happen until you've sorted things out with yourself. I suggest you just have fun now, don't obsess about it! Things will just fall into place at some point. Good luck!
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