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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:ive liked this lad for 2years now. he knows how i feel about him and after 15 months of him knowing something happened bewteen us. I didnt have sex with him because i wanted to make sure i wasnt being used. This carried on for a couple of months but then at christmas he went away to his sisters for a while. I saw him the other day and we were talking like normal. I text him the other night saying u know i like u im getting fed up of umin and arin whether to tell u. am i wasting my time. I know he hardly evr has credit but he hasnt text me back. Am i wasting my timewith him? is he not interested? or does he not have the guts to tell me?? pleasee help me.
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reader, KaytiieBabyy  +, writes (10 June 2010):
Hay Darling, Boys are a hard topic. Trust me. i never know what my boyfriend wants. Give Him Time. Mayeb Talk it out in person just sit down with him and be like look i do liek you alot, hwo do you feel and see where that leads you. dont have sex because he wants to if yrou ready and you wantto and you feel liek yoru not being used then do it, apart from that i dont knwo what else i can say.
Hope i was help Darling. xx
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reader, LottieCole  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Dear Anon,
you were wise not to have sex with this boy, unfortunately it does not sound as if he likes you in the same way you like him. Two years is a long time to wait for someone who has not commited themselves in a relationship with you. My advice would be to move on, focus on yourself, where you want your life to go, your career and your future happiness. Those lie with you and not on the answer of someone else. In time he may realise how he treated you, or even discover feelings for you. But this time round you will be in control and he will have to chase you. Never wait around for someone who only sees you as an option.
As a young girl you have your whole life ahead of you, so focus on being the best you.
I wish you luck for the future.
Lottie x
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