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writes:I am in my early 20's and a university student.I moved away from home 2yrs ago and left my friends back there so i do not really have friends. i have people i can hang out with, laugh and chat with but no proper friend i can say am going to see for a weekend or even stay over with. not just that, i am not bothered to make friends, i dont like to go out so i turn down most invitations and just want time to myself in solitary quiteness.Also I stay in the same house with my sister and her husband. I work part time and most times work irregular shifts such as overnights that makes me not to see them when i get back and it makes me so happy. But as soon as they get back they'll always come to my room to chat or say hi or disturb me asking for help (esp my sister) and i hate it so much. I just like to be left alone.I hardly talk with them, dont use the sitting room much, always in my room but i wonder why they wont just leave me alone.My sister's husband is a lazy twat. Does nothing around the house, i do all the cleaning weekly, and if i get caught up maybe with work or exams he would just let the house go dirty as if he hasn't got hands.He doesn't do the dishes, even his own and if he sees dirty dishes in the sink he just adds his to it.Now i am sick and tired of all this shit. I can't move out cos i am always broke, but i just want to live my life alone.Do i have a relationship problem? or can anyone tell me how to go about getting all these people to understand this.
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Haha Wow. I was reading this and I'm like that's exactly me..except for a couple details. But I don't know if you have relationship problems..I don't know if I have relationship problems but I sometimes think I do. But I know how you feel. You say your sister is bothering you, but she's just checking up on you. She loves and since she doesn't get to see you regularly, she feels that it's an obligation to visit you in your room when she gets the chance. And about the cleaning and the husband not doing anything..I HATE THAT TOO! So idk If you have a relationship problem. What exactly are you asking for? I mean i know say you want to live you life alone. I get that you want to LIVE alone but you can't BE alone for the rest of your life. Get out there make friends, gf/bf, be happy and have fun. Just live life to the fullest, don't take a second for granted. And don't worry about your sister's husband...hopefully you'll have your own place in the future. Good luck
-A.E
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