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writes:Girls and guys have ever been in a relationship with someone and they loved being around you and a few months into it they broke up with you because they weren't ready for a serious relationship. Its not ony that, but whenever we were apart she would disagree with me over crazy things. She told me she wanted to be single now and we should be friends. In a couple months she might want a relationship. She has sort of an I don't care attitude and she tells me she loves me and that she cares for me. Should I believe this. Is she having a hard time just opening up to me about what she truly feels. And did you ever get back together. Only answers from people who have been throgh this or have no negative remarks to say. Thank you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 June 2010):
I'm going to forget about the last part of your last sentence, because there is no positive thing to say. I've been there, and the truth is that she won't be coming back. I personally cut contact with the girl in question to stop a mess. You can sit there thinking she will come back, but the truth is she won't. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): yeah i have been through this......The girl is just using you emotionally she doesn't really love you..
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reader, Miamine +, writes (9 June 2010):
 "Only answers from people who have been throgh this or have no negative remarks to say."
Can't help you then.. this is a advice line for people who want real HELP and not just answers that make you feel good.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (9 June 2010):
 "this or have no negative remarks to say." Translation: Don't tell me the truth! Heaven forbid! Not the truth! Just sugar-coated lies and whatever fantasy-nonsense that says it'll all work out and be wonderful, no matter what reality has to say about it. I'm not really seeking advice, I only want someone to say that she's all to blame and it's not me, regardless of how much evidence there is to support that she's a flake! C'mon, Poster you don't set the standards here as in: only people who are going to tell me nice lies and things I want to hear.
Positive or negative, Facts are facts and truth is truth,You've got a game player on your hands playing you for the on again, off again fool-in-waiting. Whether you take it or leave it is entirely up to you. Best of luck to you, you're going to need it, I think.
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