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writes:im the jealous type to..i've been in a relationship from since 2008 october 6th n i still have the guy..yh we run out of things to say but eventually he always seems to find something to talk about at one point in time...we never had sex..i want to but im scared that it might hurt since he's 'BIG' n im to young for that..n im begining to think in order to keep our bond from going,we'll have to have sex..n i really love this guy..i kno he'll stick around if i dont have sex with him but i've run out of things to do n say n it only leaves me to one suggestion..n thats sex...so shud i do it or shud i not?
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reader, Helper411  +, writes (10 June 2010):
u should wait untill your married. sex is something that is suppose to be sacrid between man and wife. not dating people. if he asks say u want to do it when your married.
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reader, GSDfan  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 I wouldnt. I think you will end up regretting it later on. You are too young and if he cant appreciate you enough to wait until a time when you are ready then he is not worth it anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): don't do it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): From my experience, you don't want to have sex in order to make someone love you more or to keep someone. Personally I wish I was a virgin again because you don't get it back and it should really mean something. For girls sex means something and they automatically get attached to that guy and it can become difficult to maintain that relationship if you had sex with your boyfriend just to keep him. I think that you should try to talk to him so that he knows how you feel and know what your concerns are. Talking to him would help make things better.
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reader, Dekten  +, writes (9 June 2010):
Okay, lesson #1 about sex: don't do it, unless you feel absolutely comfortable. Otherwise, you'll just end up feeling regretful later on.
Just enjoy your youth and don't worry about these things just yet.
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reader, raiders +, writes (9 June 2010):
 Never have sex with a person because you want to hold on to him, never have sex because you feel pressured, and never have sex because everyone one is doing it. I feel you are young and you should hold on to your virginity for while more. When you decided to have sex let it be because you yourself have made that mature decision and believe me when I say this the question you posted shows you are not mature at all for sex, and you still have doubts.
Please respect yourself and your body and if he doesn't want to be with you unless you have sex than you will ended up winning because you will know for sure that he was a total looser. When you do decide to have sex let it be with someone you truly love because this will make your time feel special. Just remember that not always do we stay with whom we gave our virginity to so all we have is our memories. Make a nice memories a memory that will bring a smile to your face not one that will cause you feel shame and pain.
Please hold on to sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): definately not! If ur too young then wait til u no its right for u. You want it to be special. Especially if u no he will still be there even if u dnt hav sex. Try getting to no more about him so u hav more to talk bout x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2010): Okay the fact that you have already run out of things to say is not a reason to have sex. Thats, I think, more of a reason to maybe spend time apart. Sex is not the answer at that age. You guys are young enjoy being young. Sex ruins everything when you are that young. I had sex at your age and i wish i could take it back. You said it your self that you are to young so forget about it. Go to a park with some friends and play basketball (or watch the boys play). I had sex that young and ended up getting pregnant at 16 and most of my friends that I had that had sex that young also got pregnant. And i only know one girl that is still with the father of her child and it's a constant struggle for them because they are not right for each other. And trust me the last thing you want is a baby, they consume all of your time and then you wont be talking about anything but baby poop with your boyfriend. Enjoy youth while you can, if you say this guy wont leave you then don't worry about it. Go to the movies with him or go to the beach. Do activities like that, don't have sex it solves nothing. Wait until you know you are for sure ready and don't have to consult anyone else about it. And make sure to be safe! Good luck honey and always remember to respect your self.
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