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writes: Well I've got a massive proble i've really really liked this girl for about 4 months but she's going out with this guy but I'm quite good friends with him. I keep spending loads of time with her and stuff and she knows I like her, and her boyfriend even cheated on her and she's forgiven him, I keep think she likes me but obviously not , please help me I don't no what to do:(:( Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Legioness +, writes (21 June 2010):
Vicious circle then isn't it..? Do whatever feels right for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know it would be immoral to go out with her if they broke up but at the end of the day they don't even talk, and he has kind of been imoral to me because I went out with her about a year ago :(
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (10 June 2010):
Keep away until she is actually avaliable. If you get in between them life will go pear shaped for sure. She knows you like her and yet she is choosing to stay with someone who cheats on her so I would be very wary. Move in different social circles for a while to let the flames cool and then see what happens.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (10 June 2010):
Don't go there love, she's already got a boyfriend. It doesn't make a difference whether he's cheated on her or not, at the end of the day it's immoral and you'll find this out for yourself in later years.. Just be a friend to her, despite your feelings. If they break up then begin to think on how you're going to act upon your feelings, although this will still be immoral as you'd be betraying your friend.
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