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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Im a 14 year old male ..... Ok,, So here it is ,, i love this girl so much ,, well i love 2 girls so much ,, is that wierd ?? but my main question is if i love both these girls i dont know how to tell 1 of them that i love her ,, the 1 i love most is wayy out of my league,, i think thats the only reason i love the other 1 aswell .. should i tell the one that is out of my league ??? and if yes HOW ?? Reply to this Question
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female
reader, YouWish  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 It's not weird that you love 2 women. You're young! It's okay to love both of them, but in order to tell someone you love them involves making a choice out of one of them, and letting the other one go.
The way to make the choice is to think of WHY you love both of them. The one who's out of your league, is the only reason you love her because she's a trophy to win? Do you even know her? Do you spend time talking to her?
And what about the other girl? Why do you love her? Is she the one you know better? Is that one on a more even level with you?
You've got a decision to make....or not!
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